“Why！ Why are you arguing again？ Ammy was anxious to question Qiu Lang in English, only to meet them twice, they were unhappy, I really don't understand why Qiu Lang and Han Yi, the two friends who make his brother envious and jealous, why are they arguing so red-faced?

Qiu Lang smiled and flicked Ammy's forehead with his index finger, "Let's go, please go to dinner!" ”

Before he came, he didn't know that Han Yi would be so angry, let alone that Han Yi would doubt his kindness and original intentions. Even if Han Yi made all kinds of accusations against him without evidence, he remained silent.

"What's the situation with you? Wang Shuwen has been defeated, and the company's funding problems have been solved, what are you arguing about? Yi Yang asked worriedly and curiously.

There are some things that Qiu Lang can't say conveniently, so he can only pretend to be indifferent, not angry, and not explaining.

Han Yi left angrily, and Qiu Lang had no choice but to entertain Yi Yang and Deng Baoyuan, who helped him, as well as Ammy, who was "uninvited".

Qiu Lang was confident and felt that Han Yi would understand him, and a small quarrel would not affect the relationship between them. When there is a problem between the two of them, they will not hide each other, they will not hide it, they will not be able to talk about it at the time, but they will become peaceful afterwards, and this may be a real friend. is no longer a child, because of an unpleasant thing that secretly holds a grudge for a long time.

One doesn't ask, the other doesn't say, and a lot of feelings fade like this.

Silence is always the beginning of estrangement.

Between two people, there is no continuity without communication, and there is no affection without connection. Everyone experiences different people and things every day, and they have different feelings, and only by constantly talking and listening can we understand each other. This is true between relatives and lovers, as well as between friends.

If one doesn't ask and the other doesn't say, no matter how familiar people are, they will gradually lose their common language, and no matter how deep their feelings are, they will gradually find no fulcrum. I don't even have the desire to talk and listen, and this relationship is almost over.

If you care about someone, don't be stingy with your words, just ask when you should ask, in order to know what the other person is thinking and experiencing, and to be deeply involved in the other person's life.

If you value a person, don't be stingy with your words, just say what you should say, don't expect others to guess your heart out of thin air, only when you say things can you have a chance to understand each other.

If one does not retreat, the other does not let in, and the feelings will fade. Obviously, this time, when the older Qiu Lang accused him of Han Yi, he chose to back down.

There are not so many suitable places in this world, in fact, they are all accommodating to each other.

There will always be conflicts when people get along with each other, no matter how good friends are, no matter how good they are, they will have conflicts. If a contradiction occurs, one will not let go, the other will not retreat, end in a quarrel, or end in a cold war, this relationship has been deeply wounded and has become very cold.

There are not so many wins and losses in a relationship, if you always want to win over each other, you will only lose each other's friendship. To get along for a long time, you need a person who knows how to accommodate each other and a person who knows how to tolerate each other.

If the person opposite you cherishes and values, what's the point of taking a step back and bowing your head for him?

The same is true of love, and so is friendship. Take a step back and let each other have a broader and longer future path.

A lot of feelings have faded, also because one does not wait and the other does not chase.

Everyone's pace of life is actually different, and if you can't cooperate with each other, you can only get farther and farther apart.

Some people's life is going faster and farther, maybe at this time, the spring breeze is proud. Some people's life path is slower and closer, maybe they are lost and frustrated at this time.

If the person who walks in front forgets to look back, he will always lose the person around him, and the person who walks behind will always watch the other person gradually disappear from view if he gives up the pursuit. If you can't keep pace with each other, you'll never be able to move forward side by side. The difference is getting bigger and bigger, the distance is getting farther and farther, and the feelings are getting weaker and weaker.

Life always likes to put a lot of differences between people, these differences may come from geography, maybe from money, maybe from status.

But as long as the people who walk in front don't forget to wait, and those who walk behind don't give up chasing, the distance between each other will not be far, and this relationship will not be weak.

Therefore, Qiu Lang had already made a plan in his heart, so that Han Yi would dissipate his anger for the time being, and then go to Jing to ask for the guilt and explain what he didn't understand.

Keiko often teases Qiu Lang and Han Yi jealously, saying that the two of them are like a little couple, a little couple, whether it is life or work, the two of them are very tacit.

They confirmed their eyes when they first met four years ago, they are like-minded people with each other, and they will not have any burden and will not feel tired after getting along for such a long time.

Qiu Lang often said: "When you are with different people, you will have a different state of life." ”

It's true that he's a rich boy, but he has all kinds of people around him, and almost all of them think highly of him and enjoy getting along with him. Among so many friends, Han Yi is the one who makes him feel "comfortable" the most.

Although Han Yi is a few years younger than him, whenever he is confused, Han Yi will give him very pertinent advice. When he makes a mistake, Han Yi will point it out without shame; When he needs support, Han Yi will stand behind him regardless of interests; When he needs someone to talk to, Han Yi will listen quietly with empathy······

Time is precious, and if you want to live a good life, you have to associate with people who don't get tired of getting along, and it's understandable.

People who don't get tired of getting along know themselves very well, and this is his first feeling.

"I don't say it, you don't understand, this is the distance", but with people who are not tired of getting along, he can feel his small emotional ups and downs. Sometimes, even his beloved woman Keiko can't read it, can't understand it, but Han Yi understands.

In his presence, when you are happy, there is no need to hide your joy, he will not be jealous of your good fortune, but will be happy and happy with you; When you are frustrated, you don't have to pretend to be strong, he will not secretly make fun of your incompetence, but will give you guidance with the mentality of a bystander to help you get out of the predicament as soon as possible.

With people who are not tired of getting along, there is no inexplicable unpleasantness, no intrigue calculations, and no sense of tension and crampedness, and you can be the most comfortable and relaxed yourself.

People who don't get along well are more able to talk. At least in Qiu Lang's eyes, Han Yi has always been a humble and polite person who doesn't know how to talk nonsense.

"If you can spit out roses in your mouth, you can also spit out tribulus terrestris", talking with people who don't get along with each other is like drinking tea, listening to small songs, and watching the flowers bloom and fall.

When Han Yi praises others, he will not exaggerate excessively, making others feel fake, but seeking truth from facts; When he criticizes people, he does not make people feel sarcastic and make others feel that they are worthless, but sincerely points out his mistakes.

When the two of them disagreed, Han Yi would not forcefully ask him to agree, but instead of asking him to accept his opinion, he would use gentle words to let each other discuss the issue calmly.

Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June. In life, it is also a rare happiness to be able to chat with people who speak comfortably.

Not only would he think so, but even Shen Qing's parents, Professor Shen and Professor Wu, also admired Han Yi very much.

People who don't get along with each other rarely trouble others, Han Yi is like that, he must bow down to everything and solve his own affairs. It will not be like some so-called friends, who seem polite, but in fact they are flattering, just trying to make a name for themselves in him, Qiu Lang has deep feelings.

Sometimes I feel tired of living, in addition to the pressure of my own life, a large part of it comes from those who always like to trouble him.

Knowing that he had plenty of money, he asked him to borrow money again and again, but never mentioned the matter of repaying the money, and if he refused, he would be called stingy; Knowing that he has a wide network, let him find friends to help him, and let him owe a bunch of personal debts.

And over the years, Han Yi has never troubled him, nor will he embarrass him, but has helped him a lot. Because Han Yi understands that everyone has their own life and their own difficulties, it is love to help, and it is duty not to help, let alone use such a rhetoric as "it's just a gesture" to morally kidnap others.

Time is now more and more precious for Chu Lang, because he is about to become a father, because he has to accompany his father through the last part of his life, because he also has to fully understand his mother who has been away for more than 30 years······

There are not many people who can respect him and understand him, and even fewer who are reluctant to trouble him, so he only needs to leave his time for his parents, lovers, and true friends. Leave it to those who will not make him feel tired, to those who can stand the test of life and go further.

Qiu Lang led the group to the restaurant, and Han Yi returned home alone with doubts in his heart.

"Boss, why are you back? I'm just going to bring you food to work! Xia Bo greeted him with a smile.

"Go to the company and bring me food?" Han Yi was very surprised, this was like an all-round housekeeper, personal assistant, bodyguard, driver, cook, etc., Xia Bo, who had thousands of skills in one.

After eating the breakfast he made and going out, and now he made lunch, he can't cook all three meals a day, right? Han Yi orders takeout when he's busy.

It felt strange to hear what he said, but he was not in the mood to think too much, so he responded with a polite smile, "I still have something to deal with, you can eat first!" ”

When he was about to enter the study with his briefcase, Xia Bo said, "You take a look first······ These are the ones that my aunt asked me to do, and let me supervise your three meals a day in the future. ”

Han Yi was in a fog, it turned out that Han Yi's mother felt that he was tired and worried after seeing her son, so she inquired about some news from Keiko, and also knew about Xia Bo, so she specially called Xia Bo and asked him to take care of Han Yi, because she also knew that her son was a workaholic and often forgot to sleep and eat.

"You mean my mom called you?!" Han Yi looked at the familiar dishes he liked to eat on the table, but he was more moved, because he didn't want to tell his parents about many things, and he didn't want them to worry.

"I envy you!" Xia Bo smiled, a little bitter, "Auntie told me what you like to eat, and you have some living habits······ My mom can't even remember my name······"

Xia Bo is a strong person, he will not complain to anyone easily, he is very indifferent.

Han Yi knew that his mother was mentally ill, and he was very sure of Xia Bo's personality.

He didn't want the atmosphere to become solemn, and he couldn't refuse Xia Bo's hard work and hospitality, so he put down his handbag and sat down.