Chapter 352: Becoming Friends After Breaking Up

"You pack one first, and send it to Zhong Ying'er later."

Before starting the meal, Han Yi asked Xia Bo to bring a square lunch box, thinking that Qin Yue was still at work, and Zhong Ying'er had no one to help take care of her in the hospital. He also understood that since she didn't want to let herself know, if she didn't want him to visit, then she would do as she wished.

Xia Bo was very surprised, he didn't say anything, how did Han Yi know?

When he met Zhong Ying'er and Qin Yue for the first time, Xia Bo felt that there was a unique relationship between Zhong Ying'er and Han Yi, although he didn't know what the relationship was, but now it seems that this is indeed the case.

He explained with a little guilt for Han Yi's concealment: "You know? You can't blame me for that, she specifically asked me not to tell you······"

"Understood!" Han Yifu smiled faintly, of course he knew that Zhong Ying'er was the most independent and strong person who was most unwilling to trouble others, but he also felt that she was the one who didn't take care of herself the most.

He knows Zhong Yinger very well, and Zhong Yinger also understands him, even if the relationship does not have a happy result, they both accept this reality. Han Yi never thought that he could become friends after breaking up with her, and now he is just sending a friend the care he should have.

There is a story that one day, the sheep was playing alone on the hillside, and suddenly a wolf came, and while the sheep resisted desperately with its horns, it shouted to its friends for help, and it knew that its friends cows, horses, donkeys, pigs, and rabbits were all around.

But the friends who heard the sheep's cry knew that it was a wolf, and they immediately ran away. Only the dog at the bottom of the hill heard the sound and ran uphill, and bit the wolf's neck, and the wolf screamed in pain, and fled in panic while the dog was breathing.

Before going to bed that day, the sheep posted a circle of friends: Thank you Wang Zai, otherwise you will fall into the wolf's mouth today.

The cow sends a message to the sheep: Good night, go to bed early. You should have told me at the time that my horns could gouge out the intestines of wolves.

The horse sends a message to the sheep: Good night, go to bed early. You should have told me that my hooves could kick a wolf in the head.

The donkey sends a message to the sheep: Good night, go to bed early. You should have told me that I could scare the wolf with a roar.

The pig sends a message to the sheep: Good night, go to bed early. You should have told me that I could make it fall down the hill with an arch of my mouth.

The rabbit sends a message to the sheep: Good night, go to bed early. You should have told me at the time, I was fast enough to deliver letters.

The sheep replied with good night one by one, and then blocked them one by one.

Zhong Yinger and Han Yi have also blocked each other, the reason is very simple, they did not love each other at the same time. When he loves her, she is indifferent, and when she loves him, he is already heartbroken, and then he goes to explain, only to make each other feel that it is a quibble.

In "Dear Andre", Long Yingtai said to his son:

Life is like a road from a wide plain to a forest. On the plains, companions can walk in groups, pushing forward and squeezing with joy, and frothing with each other; Once in the forest, where grass and thorns stand in the way, the situation changes, and everyone concentrates on his own path and looks for his own direction.

As a result, many people just walked and walked and dispersed.

When Zhang Ailing and Yan Ying were studying at the University of Hong Kong, they were so good that they were ridiculed for being gay. When they were girls, they were inseparable and chatted. Zhang Ailing's book illustrations and photography are mostly created and photographed by Yan Ying. When Zhang Ailing and Hu Lancheng tied the knot, the witness was also Yan Ying.

Later, as they grew older, their relationship gradually became estranged, Zhang Ailing died alone in the United States, and Yan Ying fell in love with Hongchen in Japan.

Yan Ying once wrote to Zhang Ailing: Why don't you ignore me for some reason? Zhang Ailing replied: I don't like that you always talk to me about the past, as if I was a dead man.

Ding Ling and Shen Congwen are both giants in the literary world, and they are both fellow villagers in Xiangxi, and they had a deep relationship when they were young. When she was in Shanghai, Ding Ling lived in an apartment with her husband Hu Yepin and Shen Congwen, which was hyped by the tabloids as a "love triangle", and said that the three of them "slept together".

Later, in order to send Ding Ling's children back to their hometown, Shen Congwen and Ding Ling also pretended to be husband and wife, and in order to help Ding Ling, Shen Congwen also lost his job at Wuhan University.

In the March 1980 issue of "Poetry Magazine", Ding Ling published "Yepin and Revolution" to commemorate her husband Hu Yepin. Unexpectedly, the article angrily denounced Shen Congwen's "Remembering Ding Ling" written more than 40 years ago, calling the book "nonsense", and saying that the author was "ignorant and ruthless", and was "a coward who is greedy for life and afraid of death, and a philistine who cares about personal gains and losses".

In this regard, Shen Congwen did not respond, but said in a letter to his friend Xu Chi: It is really like what Lu Xun said in the past, "Kill from behind coldly", which is terrifying.

In fact, not only celebrities, but also all living beings, how many friends have suddenly parted ways?

How many lovers, because they have loved, have died of old age after breaking up?

When you graduated from junior high school, your roommate told you that no matter how much time elapses, you should always keep in touch. At that time, you waited for the lights to go out every night, whispered to each other, and said goodnight to each other with your thoughts on your pillow. But then, there was no news of the people back then.

Suddenly, one day, I don't know through what way, this roommate after so many years added your WeChat, I thought the greeting was just a sentence, "I'm doing micro-business agent/purchase now, support a lot", I don't know what to reply to, you silently blocked it.

This phenomenon should not be surprising and commonplace, right?

If you want to buy osmanthus and carry wine, it is not the same as a teenager. I don't blame the friendship back then for not being sincere, but it's just that the youth is too shallow and naïve, and it is too easy to regard the 100-day classmates on the way to study as the best friends in life. It wasn't until later that people who faced different lives and met different people, and people who were not in the same circle went farther and farther.

The absence of old friends seems cruel, but it contains the philosophy of life: there is no banquet in the world. Nowadays, in the seemingly lively social network, those friends who say goodnight to you and praise you, maybe one day, you suddenly have nothing to say, and then you find that your values have always been different, but you didn't know each other well at the beginning, and you will accommodate each other, and now, he is included in your blacklist.

Many years ago, singer Chen Sheng pre-sold tickets for his concert a year in advance, and it was only available to couples. Two seats are available for the price of one person, and each lover keeps his own ticket, and after a year, the two tickets work together.

"We'll be together for the rest of our lives, what's a year!?"

Soon, the tickets were sold out. The following year, however, many of the couples' seats were vacated. In many cases, a good life is actually not worth 365 days.

Those who once loved each other deeply felt sad when they thought about it, and after separation, how many people got used to blacking each other out, and never got along with each other from then on. Maybe it's because of the people around me now, maybe it's my escape from that memory, maybe it's the contradiction between love and hate······

How many fish have died and broken the net, and have also had the joy of fish and water? How many blacklists, have said good night to each other? The people who are with you now, can you guarantee that it will be forever?

I like it, and between the pitches, it has become a vestige, and I can't help but be happy with it.

It is said in "The Old Man of Mountains and Rivers" that everyone can only accompany you for a while, and sooner or later they will be separated.

No matter what the reason for the separation is, people who are strangers have also paid special attention to each other, and people who have never been in contact with each other have also existed unforgettable.

Some people's love can't tolerate a little sand. Han Yi once thought that after a lover broke up, he would have to break it cleanly, and it was also appropriate to not get along with each other when he died of old age, but now it can be regarded as a slap in the face.

When Zhong Ying'er left Han Yi silently because of her own hardship, when Han Yi fell in love with Bai Xue, everything changed! When Han Yi really let go of that relationship, he regarded Zhong Yinger as a dispensable friend, and when he knew the reason why Zhong Yinger left back then, his heart was actually turbulent, but he still had to show that he was not shocked, but love can't go back after all.

A person who understands each other and understands each other as a family friend should be the best choice.

In just a few short years, Zhong Yinger's life has been so difficult, and she has met people in her relationship and suffered a lot, if Han Yi is not distressed, it must be false, otherwise when he first took Zhong Yinger from the chaotic share house to his home, he gave her a warm hug when he helped her escape from the person who pestered her and even abused her.

Life is never easy, but someone is taking care of it for us.

Each of us is born with a heavy shackle, and when you were a child, you felt innocent, happy and beautiful, because your shackles were carried by your parents.

When you grow up, you feel lonely, lost, and stressed, and that's because your parents are old, and they have a hard time carrying your shackles, and they want to move it to your shoulders.

Later, you feel even more powerless, and that's because your parents are old and can no longer carry the shackles, and you need to carry the shackles on yourself and them.

The great meaning of life lies in the fact that the shackles between people are carried in turn.

In fact, life has never become easy, if you feel easy, then someone must be bearing the difficulty for you, the years have never been quiet, but someone is carrying the shackles for you, moving forward with tears.

No matter who it is, each stage has its own hardships and difficulties.

Zhong Ying'er knew from Qin Yue that something was wrong with Han Yi's company, and she didn't want to delay Han Yi's time because of herself. Han Yi was also worried about Zhong Ying'er in his heart, but obviously he didn't put her first anymore.

So Han Yi did as she wished, did not go to the hospital to visit her, pretended not to know, and asked Xia Bo to help send a concern.

"She won't let you tell me, just because I don't know. I still have a lot of things to deal with, Qin Yue also has a lot of work on hand, you don't have anything to do these days, just help take care of her, no problem, right? ”

"No problem!" Xia Bo naturally didn't have any problems, and readily agreed.