Bai Xue called Han Yi, he was busy dealing with things and hung up on the discussion, saying that he would call her back when it was over, but he was forgotten by Qin Yue's phone call and the four of them.

She waited hard for a morning, but there was no call back from Han Yi, and she felt a feeling of pulling out the cold.

Men are big pigs' trotters, waiting to be loved, it is better to love yourself!

As Keiko said to her before, in this world, the person you love the most and can't live up to is yourself first!

Thinking about it at this time, it is like having an epiphany about the philosophy of life: if you are good enough for yourself, you will be happy, you can love the world happily, and you can love others well; Your life will be warmer and more sincere, and it will have more meaning to exist.

Mu Xin said: "What does a person do when he comes to the world? Love the cutest, the best, the best, the best. "Life is as simple as that, and it's the most secure. It's your fault that you think too much and live a complicated life. Loving yourself and making yourself happy and happy every day is the best gratitude for life.

Love yourself and strive to have a healthy body. Only by having a healthy and bright body can you enjoy everything you have in life, including family, friendship, and love. The best way to love others is to manage yourself.

Be a measured and regular person, reading, exercising, listening to music, traveling, and paying attention to every way of self-improvement; While the heart and soul gain benefits, it also enriches the connotation of life. Be a person who cares about life, and life will be attentive to you.

When a man reaches a certain age, his mind becomes mature, and those who rush to the dust are silent, and all the warmth of his feelings yearn for a return of natural peace. More simply respect the needs of the spirit, and be more willing to listen to the truth of the heart. However, the love and beauty that I yearn for and pursue have always existed in my life; The likes that can persist have become the molecules of life.

Love yourself and keep a positive and optimistic attitude. People with a good mindset and a bright spirit will be full of hope for life at all times. Striving to do everything well in the moment is the greatest respect for life. will eventually be rewarded with the favor of fate.

Rao Xueman wrote in "The Summer of Acoustic Guitar": "Don't easily use the past to measure the happiness and misfortune of life, everyone's life can bloom beautifully, as long as you cherish it." "In life, there will always be wind and rain, and there are times when you are confused, as long as the inner lamp is always bright, you will go to the moment of sunshine.

Some people say that life is not perfect, some people say that fate is too difficult, some people say that people's hearts are not always good, and some people say that the four seasons are also warm and cold; Through the complexities of the world, through the wind and dust, we must keep a distance from everything that is fickle, and what we can't see through will be handed over to time.

In the years to come, there is no need to be too greedy. I hope that every comfortable morning, the sun will polish the dust, and the heart will still be warm; Every moonless night, the scene of yesterday reappears, without the sorrow and cry of connivance. For the self who has gone all the way, I like it more and more, this is a kind of fulfillment of life.

Loving oneself is an ability to survive. We must first learn to love ourselves before we can have the ability to love others.

We always put others first, passively waiting for others to love ourselves, but we don't know that you don't even pay enough attention to yourself, don't love yourself enough, how can you expect others to love you so much?

In life, we don't want to lack every important emotion. Choosing to love yourself first is also the best embodiment of being worthy of yourself and being responsible for the people you love.

Whether it's Yangguan Avenue or another shortcut, no matter what kind of life you have, it is your sincere choice, and why do you care about other people's eyes and attitudes. Insisting on one's own identity, hearing the voice of the soul, and those thoughts that are higher than the sky and brighter than the stars are the scenery that cannot be missed in life. Take a step forward and stand in a row with your heart! The power of self will make you fearless of wind and rain.

Loving yourself is the best gratitude for life. Happiness is the expected tomorrow, the stars are a credible oath, and the border city after the rain still has the warmth of hope. Walking through the vastness of the sea of life and the windward shore, no matter how the world looks at yourself returning from a long journey, you will love yourself and the whole world with a tolerant heart. And, remember the best and gentlest aspects of this world.

The older you get, the more you know how to be grateful for life, and the more you know how to love yourself; You will find that in fact, those simple and mediocre landscapes, just like the original intention of the world, are the most affectionate and moving. After experiencing countless changes, life is still generous, and I can live in the present clearly!

The closer the current life is to the ordinary, the closer the heart is to the gorgeous.

The wise man who has experienced the world has finally realized that what is too hard and too ostentatious must be a bluff. And inner peace is true peace, which is cleaner, purer, and closer to the place called the soul.

It is like a tree, standing in the posture of eternity, without joy and sorrow. Half in the soil, half in the wind, half in the shade, half in the sun.

True peace is not to avoid the hustle and bustle of cars and horses, but to cultivate fences and plant chrysanthemums in your heart. Although the past is still the same, every day is still the same, as long as we eliminate our obsessions, we can be quiet and peaceful.

The clouds are light, and the water is light. The things of the world are disturbed, right and wrong are gained and lost, and it is difficult to find perfection. If you want to be happy in everything, you will be stuck in the quagmire of scheming and cannot extricate yourself.

When the flowers bloom in one season, people live for a lifetime, and if you are happy, you will be more relaxed. The good or bad external circumstances are not the root of happiness and suffering, but the real initiator is our heart. I want to smile naturally, and I will definitely put it down when I see it through.

In every quiet heart, there is a most beautiful scenery. Despite the complexity of the world, the heart is still the same, and the feelings are still the same; Despite the bumps and drifts, the footsteps are still the same, and the pursuit is still the same; Despite the vicissitudes of time, the world remains and life remains.

When we look back, it may not only be the memories that have been precipitated, but also those wind-like past, those song-like years, all drifting away in the dark thoughts.

is no longer an ignorant age, nor is it a dream season, the years of shuttle have written the past of displacement. The gurgling river of life, the journey of flowers blooming, ups and downs, bit by bit, bloomed a piece of duckweed in the heart lake.

In life,

There are always some people who come quietly, wait quietly, and never leave; There are also some people, as strong as wine, crazy as drunk, but they wake up and have nowhere to look, come and go like the wind, and dream without a trace.

Life is like taking a train, the scenery of the past is so beautiful, you can't give up, but you always need to move forward, you tell yourself, I will definitely come back in the future, but in fact, often you will never go back. The scenery that retreats and the people you meet are gradually drifting away after all.

What we can do is to cherish everything around us, and the future may be better or not. What you have should be cherished, and what you miss can never be recovered!

Let the heart, be still, and then, stop thinking about that big pig's trotter!

But you can't do it!

Waiting for her sister Baiyang to come to lunch at noon, she looked at the photos she had taken before, and the photos with Han Yi.

The sails, the gulls, the sunset, the streamer, the frame-by-frame past are all things that make people feel like they will disappear suddenly.

She couldn't help but imagine that the past was also a thin and thin flower, one petal of thought, one petal of soft intestines, one petal of old thoughts, and one petal of new sorrow.

Along the way, how many people pass through the scenery, but often ignore the past, a petal of the past, the wind blows it, the rain hits it, and suddenly when I think of it, life has turned the season, and the cold branches and flowers have been cold.

She likes this kind of life: sometimes, we walk into a book and concentrate on a certain passage, or we go into the dusk and meditate in the sunset, just like walking into a gentle past. Along the way, facing the wind and rain in the middle of the mountain, but the return journey was halfway through the water, and finally walked into the picturesque past, sitting in a flower, sitting in a plain shadow, a line of time, a still fragrance. Then, by another person, gently remembered.

Such a past, no matter how long the days go by, the season is cool, the white dew falls, and the cicadas chirp, but the older the warmer, the older the more amazing.

She knows that a lot of the past is getting farther and colder. When I think of some people, some things, when all the pain, all the injuries, all the unwillingness, are not as good as a cup of warm tea in my hand, and a slight smile at the corner of my mouth, what comes to mind must be the beauty of the story, the goodness of people, and the truth of love. Although the past is cooler, the evening breeze in front of the window comes from old songs, some people sing softly, and some people gently harmonize.

She wrote down a sentence when she was reading a book last night, saying that many things are like the weather, slowly hot or cold, and by the time she realized it, a season had passed.

The past is a solar term, once purple and red bloomed all over, and in the end, the west wind fell leaves. Yes, some of the past withered unconsciously, looking back, making people at a loss and chilling.

Xin Qiji said: I saw Wu Hook, and the railing was shot all over, no one would, and I was on the verge of it. There is a sentence in Chen Hongshou's "Drinking and Reading Sao" in the Ming Dynasty: Drinking turbid wine, madly facing "Lisao", shooting several cases all over, the jade pot is broken, no one will, at this time.

It took her a long time to understand three words: no one will. That was when I was studying abroad at the University of Ka.

How desolate! Every time I look back, I have to shoot a few railings all over the case, smash the jade pot, and the whole person is so lonely that it is broken.

Last year's green temples are white this year, and I am most afraid of gathering and scattering in a hurry, and there is no trace of the past. I can't remember what books we read, what roads we walked, or what we said. No one will,

No one told me, and in the end, there was only one person left, and only "the weather was cool and autumn" was left.

She thinks that the most beautiful past is not necessarily that two people are together to keep warm, but it must be, when the autumn wind rises, you are as clear as ever, when the cold winter comes, there is clear snow like poetry, and you feel like a warm returnee in any period of time.

Bai Xue, like Han Yi, is a person who is easy to live in the past, as if he has been collecting the past for half his life, a stone, a grass, a bluestone alley, and a wisp of smoke······

She knows that one day, she will be lost the same, and she can't remember, but she still wishes to pick flowers on the mountain trail, leave the moon in the bamboo window, and walk in the past cleanly.

Life, life, like flowers and plants have cold and warm seasons, like water has ups and downs.

It's just a temporary oblivion, what's the big deal! She comforted herself.

Life is sometimes like climbing a mountain, with beautiful peaks and deep valleys. The normal state of life is not how high it is or how low it is when it is low, but the ordinary life of tea, rice, oil and salt day after day. Just like the love of the mountains and the sea, sparks, flames, and moving the heavens and the earth, is not the norm of love, only after the tempering of the years, the dependence and companionship that still does not abandon each other is the most affectionate confession.

A calm life is to be able to face the ups and downs of life without being alarmed. When the situation is proud, he is not in a hurry to show off, and when he encounters a trough, he is not pessimistic and depressed, that is, the so-called pampering is not surprised to see the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, and he has no intention of looking at the clouds in the sky.

Everything is not static, we must learn to use an unchanged ordinary heart, enjoy the normality of life, be an ordinary person, live an ordinary life, and be quiet and safe in the waves of the years.

(End of chapter)