"Life is a lifetime, grass and trees are autumn. People are the same as flowers and plants, from the vitality of the newborn, to the beauty of life blooming to the extreme, to the flowers quietly bathing in the sun, experiencing wind and rain, and finally the leaves fall back to the roots into the winter of life. Li Jia shook her head as if she was reciting poetry, and seemed to be enjoying herself in her words.

"What do you mean?" Bai Xue smiled and asked, "When did you stop speaking human language?" ”

Poplar looked at his sister who was eating deliciously, and said, "Don't you understand this?" It's up to you to see that your boss is not small, take advantage of this beautiful time to enjoy love, and marry yourself out as soon as possible! ”

"Does that mean that?" Li Jia frowned and thought deeply, then laughed and high-fived Bai Yang, "I like your explanation!" ”

"You really don't give up! Didn't I say I'd talk to him when he got back? Poplar became a little emotional, "If you force me like this again, it will really be meaningless!" Sometimes it's not what I want! Think about it for yourselves and take a look, how many times has he been back to Chongqing in the past few months? How many times have we been together? When you add it up, I'm afraid it's not even 24 hours! I called him before I went to work in the morning, he said he was in a meeting, and he called me back when it was over, and it turned out that five hours had passed, and he didn't even have a text message! ”

The more she talked, the more angry she became, and then she gobbled up the lunch that her sister had made for her, "It's hot, you all go back, I have to get ready for work." I've been studying with the outpatient clinic for the past few days, so I'll be very busy, so don't bring me food, I'll eat in the cafeteria! ”

Li Jia looked at Bai Yang cautiously and asked, "Are you angry?" ”

Poplar nodded, "I think so!" ”

"Nope! Feelings are a matter of two people, I think I've made a big change, and the most important thing now should be his attitude, right? Bai Xue smiled, "Don't say it, I'm leaving, it's not good if I arrive later than the director, bye!" ”

Before Bai Xue could wait for their response, she hurriedly waved her hand and ran.

"What the hell is going on?" Bai Yang asked suspiciously, "What is the problem with the two of them?" You didn't tell me the truth! ”

In fact, Bai Yang came to see his sister in order to prevent his parents from coming to Bai Xue, because Bai Xue and his mother are simply incompatible, and they will quarrel without saying a few words when they meet. happened to run into a conflict between her and Han Yi again, thinking that she could make the two of them get better, and she could go back to prevaricate her parents.

Han Yi and Bai Xue didn't tell their sister Bai Yang about Hao Yali, Li Jia was just an outsider after all, and it was impossible to talk about Bai Yang when she was dragged by Bai Yang as an assistant.

"Sister Poplar, don't ask me! I really can't say that Cher still hated me for being nosy last time, we've only been in a relationship for a few days, and I don't want to upset her anymore! I advise you, it's best not to worry about them, you also know Cher's personality. As long as she can't figure it out herself, nothing we say will help. Besides, they do

The foundation of the relationship for eight years is there, and we all love each other in our hearts, so we don't have to worry about it at all, right? What about you, this time I came as a tourist distraction, I will be your tour guide, don't think about their bad things! ”

Poplar took a deep breath, "You don't know, she's been like that since she was a child!" I know too well that even if she is misunderstood and wronged, she doesn't bother to explain it, and she doesn't fight for anything. In addition to passivity, it is evasion! Sometimes she just needs someone to push her behind her back, otherwise she will be stupid and motionless! ”

It can be said that Bai Xue was brought up by her sister Bai Yang, she understands Bai Xue very well, and it is impossible not to worry about her happiness.

What Li Jia began to say, she agreed with very much. Pursue good things at a good age, even if you encounter difficulties and reach a low point, you can recuperate, regroup, and get ready to go.

Bai Xue is already 26 years old, not small, it's time to think about his lifelong happiness, it's time to fight for it, instead of blindly waiting. Otherwise, when she is at her age, it will be really difficult to believe in happiness and meet happiness.

Love is like this, feelings are like this, life is like this, and life is like this.

Good flowers are beautiful and do not bloom, and good times are not always there. The blooming of flowers must go through the nurturing of seeds, the nourishment of sunlight and rain and dew, the waiting of a long winter, and the desolation of dead branches and leaves, before ushering in the beauty of life.

As the old saying goes: the flowers are almost withering, the blooming period is only a few days or as short as a flash in the pan, and when the dark fragrance is gone, all that is left is the silence of life.

The process of flowering tells us that the normal life of flowers is not dazzling freshness, but silence after withering. The real normality of flowers is the stage of silently enjoying life, but in fact, it is the leisurely self-satisfaction of flowers. In this process, calmly stretch the vitality of life, feel the sunshine, bathe in the wind and rain, read all the world, and taste the taste of life. The power of life is also acquired and accumulated at this time. Accumulated the nutrients needed to bloom and the resistance needed to survive the cold winter!

In fact, the same is true of life, the glorious moment is like a flower, the downturn is like winter, no one has the pride of blooming for a long time, and there will be no long winter, as long as the heart is full of hope and has the vitality of looking forward to spring, the spring of life will definitely come, and the flowers will definitely bloom.

There will be times when good is bad, and this is the normal state of life.

See the world in a drop of water. The water is also full of the wisdom of life. Water has multiple forms, there are huge waves, surging waves, there are also vast and boundless, flowing freely, water has the enthusiasm of tumbling and boiling, there are also ice hardness, snow crystalline······ However, the surging waves or the rushing current will eventually return to calm, and the tumbling and boiling or the crystal of ice and snow will eventually return to softness and formlessness, which is the normal state of water.

Taoism says: Good is like water, and water is good for all things without fighting. Reading makes you feel the gentle and calm beauty of water. When people sigh at the magnificence of the waves, praise the heartiness of the flowing stream, remember the boiling heat, and sing the crystal of the ice, they often ignore the normality of water - soft and calm, silent, silent and invisible

。 The still water flows deeply, and the unwavering water is deep and profound, containing too many stories of life and too many philosophies of life.

Life is like water, there are ups and downs, and there are also calm waves. There are spring breezes and rains shallow to tell, hail and thunderbolts shake the world, like cotton fluttering and sprinkling, there are crystal clear and cold majesty.

The normality of life is like water. Life is like a stream, the spring is as quiet as a trickle, with infinite yearning for a better future, silently gathering strength to flow endlessly. Life is like a river, rolling the Yangtze River East is as magnificent as the passing water, the scenery all the way, and the heroic journey is all in the heart. Life is like the sea, the depth of the sea is to experience the vicissitudes of the world, and understand the truth that the water is low and becomes the sea.

Han Yi and Bai Xue's love seems to have been experiencing the pain of separation, just like Bai Xue has always thought, gathering less and leaving more, and even the opportunity to talk for a while is rare. Each other lives more in memories, looking for each other in thoughts, and comforting each other.

Han Yi said: "Always, looking for you in memories." A window of flowers, a curtain of light moon. There is not much joy, there is not much sorrow. In the days of your absence, I gave all my tenderness to words. ”

Bai Xue said: "Always, waiting for you in the old place." Reluctant to move forward, reluctant to leave. Without your breath, everywhere you go is wandering. When you're not there, I'd rather be lonely, and it's good to watch the flowers bloom and fall alone. ”

Han Yi said: "How long you have been gone, how long you have been lonely." Without your love and care, all the time has been covered with cold years, and thoughts have become frost. ”

Bai Xue said: "As long as you wait, you will be looking for as long as you want." Without your gentleness and companionship, no matter how good the scenery is, it has become a superfluous ornament, which is all an illusion. ”

Han Yi said: "Perhaps, it is destined in the dark." I still walked through thousands of people, through layers of wind and smoke, and found you who I was already familiar with. ”

Bai Xue said: "Perhaps, this is the arrangement of fate. I know you'll come back and give me back your shyness, your reserve, and all your love. ”

Han Yi said: "I miss you, outside the landscape." Your peace, my happiness. Your well, my happiness. ”

Bai Xue said: "I love you, in the red dust." You are the spring flower, you are the autumn moon, it is my most beautiful first sight. ”

Han Yi said: "When you fell in love with the world, I had already crossed the cape. What should I pay back those years that I owe you? ”

Bai Xue said: "Those missed years, without you, my life is meaningless. My years are warm because of you. It doesn't have to be prosperous, it doesn't have to be three thousand. As long as I have you, as long as I like it, every day is full of happiness. Even though the years have changed, you and I have been affected by the vicissitudes of time. That look, that love, will not change. My years are warm because of you. No need for purple, no need for red. As long as you're there, as long as I like it, every season is as warm as spring. Even if we falter, you and I will not be able to go anywhere. That affection, that cherishing, will not change. ”

Han Yi said: "The rest of my life is very short, and it is not as long as the coming days. For a long time, there is only me and you, as long as I and you. It doesn't matter what day it is, no matter what day it is. ”

Bai Xue said: "It's enough to have you for the rest of my life, me."

Don't come to Japan for a long time. I just want you, as long as you're around. Regardless of the lack of the full moon, things are not people. You will always be my sweetheart who I can't break my concern. ”

Han Yi said: "Guarding you, my heart is at ease." Guarding you, everything is a happy appearance. I am willing to grow old with you, not in the next life, as long as this life, life after life. ”

Every day of separation, just like this, you come and go with a stick of faith, in fact, it is more like self-paralysis, or self-deception.

People in a relationship, whether it is love, friendship or family affection, there will always be such moments when they will quietly think about someone, miss the bits and pieces with him, and miss the time spent with him. The memories of those times, in the heart, precipitate into a beautiful imprint, and carve the warmth of deep friendship.

You are warm in your heart.

When you are lonely, open the window of your heart, there is always such a person, in your heart, bloom the flowers you miss, and the fragrant years of moving forward.

Maybe it's a little friend in your childhood, no matter how many years you have left your hometown, no matter how far you have walked, that person is in your heart, accompanied by the laughter and innocence of childhood; Maybe it's a stranger you meet by chance during your trip, and a helping help makes you feel grateful in your heart; Maybe it's a lover who can't get it, and for various reasons, they can't be together in the end, but TA's voice and smile have always been stored in my mind. If you meet and get acquainted, your heart will be rippling.

If you don't meet it, the memory of life is too pale, the complicated life is too boring, and the temperature of the soul is too cold. Looking back on how many comings and goings have come and gone over the years, they have been integrated into the depths of memory. When I think about it, I think of it, and it's warm and unique.

Those tender memories are covered with tentacles, gently scraping across my heart, allowing the warm temperature to cover the soft atrium of my heart. There are laughter and tears in life, full of burdens and shackles, walking in the world of steel and concrete, our hearts have gradually become cold and hard. Only that gentle longing, with the fragrance of time, penetrates every nerve of our hearts and retains the softness and warmth of our hearts.

We are all affectionately depicting the picture of the years, deep and shallow, and every stroke is the nostalgia of time. You write down the joy in your eyes, and I paint the deep affection of the passing years, the joy of fish and water, and the love is tireless. Under the ink marks, there is a time of acquaintance and companionship; In the watercolor, it is a deep or shallow intersection time. In my heart, the eternal past is engraved, remembered, remembered, and warm.

There are thousands of landscapes in the world, but if you go alone, no matter how beautiful the scenery is, you will lose your interest. The person who can see the scenery side by side with you is the person you should cherish. The hand holding hands and walking together, the residual warmth is still in the depths of memory, making people relive the memories of the past in the tunnel of missing.

As long as you are still in your heart, there is always a window of your heart to open for you, and there is always a joy left for you. Warm and good, you are in the heart.

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