For Bai Xue, sometimes, separation is not the end, on the contrary, it may represent a new beginning, a new beginning in personal life.

"The world is like a book, I prefer you. I'm willing to be a comma at your feet, but you have your own reader, and I'm just a ferryman. In the journey of our lives, there may have been a person who was your ferryman, or perhaps, you were also a person's ferryman. ”

There will always be many changes in life, and each experience is different, and each feeling is naturally different. The person who is by your side now, he may have only accompanied you through a short journey of life, but in this small journey, he has accompanied you through all kinds of joys, sorrows, and sorrows, those companionship and laughter, even if you can't have it again after a long time, but isn't it another kind of fulfillment?

There is such a person who enriches your youth and memories, and whenever you recall this time, it is always like yesterday. So you are glad that he was able to come, and you don't regret his departure, we will all carry the memories of the past to embrace a better future.

This suspicion of their feelings that arises from the separation and union is getting stronger and stronger, and she is wandering, waiting.

Liu Xiyao sneaked into the house and found that Bai Xue was actually sitting in the living room, she snuggled up to her with a smile and said, "Sister Xue'er, why haven't you slept yet?" ”

"Didn't you go to the bar tonight, why did you come back now?" Bai Xue, like a parent, held up the time displayed on her mobile phone in front of Liu Xiyao and held it accountable, "It's one o'clock in the morning, and the phone can't get through, how can you tell me to sleep!" ”

"I'm sorry!"

Liu Xiyao did not dislike Bai Xue meddling, but felt that she was the only person who would care about her now, she was sincere and admitted her mistake with a smile.

"My friend Aya fell out of love and asked me to go over and spend time with her, so I ······"

"Then you can't stop answering the phone!"

Bai Xue was a little angry, and it might have something to do with Han Yi's phone call.

"Look! My phone was out of battery in my bag, and I just found out when I entered the door to look for the keys. Liu Xiyao handed Bai Xue the phone with a black screen no matter how she pressed it, and when she was about to let go of herself, she hurriedly said, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry······ Never again! ”

Maybe Bai Xue couldn't sleep by herself, so she had a long talk with Liu Xiyao.

Liu Xiyao chattered about her friend Aya's falling out of love, and it seemed that she was still deeply touched.

"I could clearly see the traces of her crying, and I asked her, what happened? Why did you break up all of a sudden, weren't you guys pretty good before······ Aya sighed and said to me: "Actually, the problem has existed for a long time, and you know that after graduating from college, the two of us are in different places, and with the busy work relationship, the communication is becoming less and less, and the natural relationship is getting weaker and weaker. Sometimes I get angry, and he doesn't bother to coax me, and the two of us quarrel every day over trivial things. This may be the recession period of love, the food is tasteless, and it is a pity to abandon it, me

Everyone knows that their feelings are fading, but no one is willing to say the word "leave" first. After three months like this, today he told me that he has been thinking about it for a long time, maybe he really doesn't love me anymore, and he thinks that it is difficult for the two of us to get along, instead of trying to think about how to maintain this relationship every day, it is better to break up decisively, which is good for everyone. ’”

Liu Xiyao couldn't help but ask Aya: "Then do you hate him?" ”

Aya smiled and continued: "Not for the time being, in fact, I also admit that my love has also faded, and I also know that the personalities of the two of us are completely incompatible so far, but I don't have the courage to say it first." In fact, after he said that he broke up, I looked at the photos of me with him again, remembering that we had a particularly sweet time, I couldn't help but feel a little sad, I think it may take a while for me to come out of this broken love, but it's okay, I can't beat Xiaoqiang. ”

Liu Xiyao sighed, "Seeing that Aya deliberately made the atmosphere relaxed, I couldn't help but feel a little sorry for her in my heart." I remember that when I was in college, although she was my senior sister, the three of us often played together, and I was the brightest light bulb, looking at the couple in front of me, every time I remembered the way the two of them smirked at each other, how could I have thought that it was over like this now. ”

She said:

We all make the same mistake in love, that is, once we are in a relationship, we are blinded and our ears are covered, and we can't see the obvious facts. People's psychological hints are actually very powerful, we always say to ourselves, "he loves me, he must care about me very much, what didn't reply to WeChat in time, what didn't take the initiative to contact me, he was busy, in fact, he cared about me".

Later, we can't fool ourselves and ask others, hoping to get an answer that we expect in our hearts, and when we ask our friends if you think he loves me, we actually want to hear a positive answer, because when you ask this question, it means that you care about the relationship very much.

We try to give the questions we have doubts in our hearts to others to answer and get a relatively rational and objective answer, but in fact, in your heart, you already know the answer to the question. Whether he loves you or not, how much he loves you, whether he will leave you or not, you know better than anyone else.

But this world does not change in any way by someone's will, you pray a hundred times in your heart, and you can't stop him from leaving, and you say that you will cherish your feelings in the future and can't bring your love back to life.

You know better than anyone what the person who used to get along with you day and night, sharing a bowl of rice and sleeping in the same bed thinks in his heart, his eyes, words, and even the tone of voice when chatting, and the expression he sent, you can see the truth and falsehood, and see the weight of you in his heart.

It's just that we are all good at playing a rational role in front of others, and we deceive ourselves when facing ourselves. Stop deceiving yourself, and don't look for clues that they love you from past memories, let alone that

Repeatedly asking someone if he still loves you will only make your love cheap and make you not chic enough, those words that comfort you are not true, but it is true that he doesn't love you anymore.

You have seen the way he loves you, and naturally you know that he doesn't love you now, so you can only say goodbye and leave in style. Hold back the tears and flow them again, hide the emotions and slowly dissipate them, and give each other the freedom they deserve if they don't love each other.

Maybe you still can't talk about him lightly, but please believe that no one can really live without him. May you grow up after failure, regain the courage to love after crying and pain, and meet someone who loves you as you always in the future, and no longer be let down by love in this life. Find someone who laughs more than tears and spends the rest of your life together······

Immersed in Liu Xiyao's telling and emotion, Bai Xue seemed to associate the feelings between her and Han Yi.

In a relationship, there are highs and lows, if two people can't hold on to it at the trough, then getting together and dispersing may not be a kind of consummation of love. It's just that sometimes we have to accept that on the road of love, what is missing is the perfect story of loving only one person for a lifetime.

Liu Xiyao sighed: "We always have to meet a few different people, experience some pain, some happiness, some tears, in order to continue to grow and transform, and only in this way can you show your best self when you meet the right person." ”

This inevitably made Bai Xue misunderstood, as if telling her that Han Yi was not the right person, but Liu Xiyao was just simply lamenting the loss of love with her friend Aya.

Every experience has a reason for its existence, whether it is in a relationship or at work, there are always some people who stay in our lives for so long, give you laughter, and accompany you to be sad. Who knows, the world is always changing, life will always push you forward, when your ambition is not satisfied with the current job, maybe you are reluctant to your colleagues, or have feelings for this company, but all you have to do is leave.

Just like the first job when I just graduated, I especially like the atmosphere of that job, and it just so happens that I get along well with my colleagues, not only have a tacit understanding at work, but also make an appointment to eat and sing K and watch movies every day after work.

But later, this job could not give me the salary I wanted and what I could learn, and after my repeated hesitation, I still focused on the future and resolutely left the company. Although the colleagues here can give me happiness, although you like the working atmosphere here, but those unknown expectations make you want to experience it even more.

After all, he is still young, and he always has to see more scenery.

Otherwise, there will not be so many people sighing, we are in our youth, we always have to take the train of life, take a longer road, see more beautiful scenery, and then meet better people, back and forth, this train has someone on the train, naturally someone will go down, when he comes, we cherish it, when he leaves, we have to say goodbye. Believe in every scripture

Calendars all have the meaning of their appearance.

"I also hope that there is a person who will carry out the future and count the highway signs of life, just to meet me ······" Bai Xue is not smiling, and she is not sad or happy.

No matter what age you are, what kind of occupation you have, or what kind of experience you have had, as long as you still have a heart full of expectations for future experiences, you will always find the person who accompanies you and the right career for you.

Perhaps there are many changes in the future of life. But what does it matter, there is always the right person, that's enough! After all, life should be hearty.

"Haven't you already met it?!" Liu Xiyao looked at Bai Xue with a smile, "I don't know if I'm right, but at least I haven't found a good man like Han Yi's brother-in-law who has waited for three years for someone to be alone······ At his age, with such a good look, and a lot of gold, there should be countless admirers around him, but he always loves you like that and keeps that loneliness! How many men can do it now? I might have talked about another one in a few days after the breakup, and there are so many people who are fooling around outside, and I've seen a lot of them anyway······"

Liu Xiyao said a lot, Bai Xue looked at her stupidly, it turned out that she didn't imply that Han Yi was not the right person, but Bai Xue didn't seem to be listening carefully, because she understood everything she said, and she knew everything.

It's just that Hao Yali's matter seems to overturn all this, doesn't it?

Because of the departure of the eight-year-old girl in the hospital, because of the love with Han Yiruo, because he was always not around, Bai Xue might need someone to talk to her for a long night, so she chatted with Liu Xiyao and didn't want to go back to her room to sleep.

After experiencing the injury, Han Yi was directly sent to the police station and detained for breaking Xiao Zhao's nose, and was also charged with defamation. A whole night had passed, and no one had noticed that he was in prison.

This night, he just sat there stupidly, thinking about it, and still couldn't figure out a lot of questions.

(End of chapter)