Chapter 462: The Bitterness of Separation in a Different Place
After Yi Yang mentioned Han Yi, Bai Xue left in a hurry, she felt that it was not suitable to be with Yi Yang so late, after all, her relationship with Han Yi was not a breakup.
Han Yi hasn't contacted her for more than two days, which is not normal! Even if she didn't answer his phone call two days ago, he would send a simple message to report safety. So I started to worry, thinking, I still took the initiative to call back, but the phone couldn't get through.
"Did you sleep?"
Because it was already late, and I was afraid of disturbing Keiko's rest, I just sent her a WeChat message to see if she knew what was going on.
Unexpectedly, Keiko replied to her a voice call in seconds, and said with a smile: "Honey, did you miss me?" ”
"It's impossible not to want to." Bai Xue also began to be naughty because of her infectious smile, "I want to fly over and hug you now"
"Really?" Keiko smiled: "I'll come back to see you in a few days!" By the way, there's good news yet to tell you, and it's going well in New York! Bode had a good result, and Churan and his mother, my mother-in-law, had finally taken a step towards reconciliation, and in a few days the family would have returned, and the old man would have been overjoyed."
Keiko gushed about these happy things, and Bai Xue was also happy, "It's so good! ”
"Well, the stone hanging in my heart can be regarded as a drop! I'm especially afraid that Qiu Lang is unwilling to forgive his mother, and when the time comes, it will affect the father-son relationship between him and the old man, now it's okay! Keiko was relieved, "Also, at dinner, Han Yi asked the lawyer to send over the contract negotiated with Wang Shuwen in the morning, and the problem of Shengshi Group has been solved!" ”
"Is Han Yi back?" Bai Xue was puzzled, and even a little angry, "Have you been in touch?" I just called him and I couldn't get through. ”
"Well, Shanghai in the early hours of the morning. Doesn't he report to you every day? Why didn't you know he was back? At six o'clock, the old man asked me to call him to thank him, but he didn't get through, maybe he took a day's plane, and after coming back, he was busy negotiating with Wang Shuwen. Keiko suddenly changed her words again and said with a smile: "Shouldn't I want to surprise you again?" ”
Surprise Bai Xue This kind of thing Han Yi often does, and he may appear in front of her coldly. There is also the fact that she is afraid that Bai Xue will be worried and cranky, after all, she understands that Bai Xue is a person who is easy to slowly expand her bad mood.
"Won't it?" Bai Xue asked.
In fact, she believes in the possibility of surprise her, and she hopes for it.
"I won't tell you, the baby in my belly wants to sleep!" Keiko smiled and said, "You should rest early, I'll come back to see you in a few days!" Good night, dear! ”
"Love you! Love the baby in your belly! Good night! ”
Honey, love you, such words are very common between girlfriends, and they are also very healing, and it is easy to warm each other.
And between Han Yi and Bai Xue, there are almost no such conversations. Whether it's sweet words or heart-warming words, in fact, Bai Xue is also eager in her heart.
After experiencing separation and integration, especially recently, she always asks herself, what kind of relationship is the most ideal in her heart?
When she tossed and turned in the middle of the night and couldn't sleep, he could be by her side and give her a warm hug.
When he worked late at night at the company, she would prepare a hot supper for him and wait for him to come back.
When they quarreled and she secretly sulked alone, he was able to deal with her emotions first, wipe away her tears, and give her timely comfort. Because, because of her personality, she may not know how to take the initiative.
She has thought that the ideal relationship is,
In the face of the ups and downs of life and the large and small contradictions in their relationships, two people can still understand each other's difficulties and understand each other's hardships.
Indeed, the best relationship is not sweet words, nor vows, but no matter how many tribulations life brings, two people can help each other and support each other, she understands the bitterness behind his smile, and he understands the hardships behind her stubbornness. No matter how many things have been experienced and how many years have passed, they will not let the two hearts be estranged, and they will not fade the relationship.
The heart is better than the looks, understanding is more important than love, understanding each other's difficulties, understanding each other's sadness, is the best way to get along in a relationship.
Many times, distress is the cornerstone of love, and the most important ability of love is not to give but to understand.
"I understand your difficulties, so I understand your difficulties and your difficulties from the bottom of my heart. If you understand my difficulties, you will be able to put yourself in my shoes and tolerate my bad temper. In this way, two people will build a healthier, intimate, and stronger relationship. ”
Xu Zhimo said: "I will find my only soul mate in the vast sea of people, and if I get it, I am lucky, and if I lose it, I will die." ”
In this life, we go around and around, and what we are looking for is nothing more than a person with a compatible soul, who is not necessarily the best, but must be the most suitable for himself.
He can always be by his side and open her long-closed heart; can feel her lonely sadness, and give her a carefree appearance; can silently stay around her and understand all her stubbornness.
Someone who understands her will give her a support when she is tired, give her a hug when she is sad, he will not force her to struggle, and he will not let her wear a mask and force her to smile.
She can be her truest self in front of the other party without worrying that her weakness and helplessness will bore the other party, and she doesn't have to worry about guessing what he means and what he wants to say.
Simple like, the most long-term; The companionship in the ordinary is the most reassuring; The heart that knows is the warmest.
A suitable relationship is like this, it doesn't have to be too much language, and it doesn't have to be vigorous and sweet, but two people can take off their guard and show their true selves, he understands her persistence, and she feels sorry for him.
When they are hit by life, they can also enjoy the happiness of life and give each other the determination to go on hand in hand.
But for some reason, when Bai Xue thought of understanding the other party, she suddenly thought of the scene where she had just looked up at the starry sky with Yi Yang.
Understanding and knowing are two different things, some people can tell from various signs that she is not happy, but they just can't understand how uncomfortable she is. And Yi Yang seems to know that she is unhappy, but also understand the discomfort in her heart.
She forced herself not to think about it, and even felt that thinking about other men in her heart was a betrayal of Han Yi and their feelings.
It's strange that for so many years, she has been deeply in love with Han Yi, even now, deeply in love. But she didn't know what she could do for him, and more often than not, she didn't know what kind of mood he was feeling. They were getting stranger and stranger, she didn't know what he was thinking, what he was doing, because of the long separation, she didn't even have a chance to ask him face-to-face.
There's nothing more cranky than a long-distance relationship, especially for a girl like Bai Xue.
When she quarreled with Han Yi, she said that he had changed, and now she can't deny that she has also changed. didn't take Han Yi too seriously, but lived her current life, because she still had her job and ideals. She believes that everyone misses out, and everyone has missed; What truly belongs to her, will never be missed.
If you want something, let it go, if it can come back to her, it will always belong to her, if it doesn't come back, it's not hers at all.
No matter what the mood is, it is important to make timely adjustments and smile, which may be a must-have ability for doctors.
Don't put it too much
A person takes it to heart, because he has experienced too few setbacks, so he regards some trivial things as very important.
All her efforts and changes will be a kind of precipitation, and she will silently pave the way to make her a better person. Someone will hate her because of her shortcomings, however, there will also be someone who likes her because of her authenticity and nature.
As they often say, our biggest mistake is to give our worst temper and our worst side to those closest to us.
Once, she deeply believed that there would be such a person who would fall in love with her all her might, and that person was Han Yi.
She cries, she laughs; Her willfulness, her gentleness; her dependence, her selfishness; her innocence, her carelessness; Her madness, her quietness; And the heart that she also loved with all her might.
Now, she was a little lost and a little shaken. The rift in the relationship, even if it heals, will still have a scar, right?
"Don't regret what you missed, the people and things you missed, others have a chance to meet; If others miss it, you have a chance to have it. ”
Bai Xue saw this sentence from nowhere, it is very likely that it was written by Han Yi, and he felt it because he missed Zhong Ying'er, right?
Mr. Mu Xin once said that medicine is not in time, time is in medicine.
This simple and esoteric sentence may be just right for the current snow. Whether the ending is good or bad, what she said doesn't count, and what Han Yi said doesn't count, you have to rely on the hearts of two people to come together and solve the difficulties encountered together.
I often hear girls say when they recall the person they love: Have you ever missed a lost person, when you pass by the corner café, when you come to his city, when you see the person with the same name as him without opinion, when you don't see anything, you don't hear anything, you still think of him involuntarily?
Some people say that when you really let go of a person, that is, when you pick up the cup that you drank with him, you are not suddenly eclipsed, but smile at yourself, when you hear his news from a friend, you will not want to know his life in detail, when you think of him without opinion, it is just like a casual cloud floating in the sky, everything about this person will not arouse your infinite reverie and loneliness.
Thinking that the corners of his mouth would not be raised again. He was like every passerby in his life. No waves, no ups and downs. I also began to understand that the feelings that were heart-wrenching were unrealistic. Those reckless and hypocritical behaviors only moved themselves in the end.
As the writer Liu Yu said: Some people are destined to be "cancer" in your life, while some people are just a "sneeze".
Just like the well-known story, there was a bitter man who found a monk.
The sufferer asked, "There are some things in my heart that I can't let go, and a few people who can't let go," and the monk said, "There is nothing that I can't let go."
The sufferer replied, "I just can't let go."
The monk asked him to pick up the teacup and fill it with hot water, which soon overflowed and finally burned the sufferer. The sufferer immediately let go of his hand. The monk said: There is nothing in this world that cannot be let go, and if it hurts, it will naturally be let go."
Bai Xue has thought about it since Han Yi quarreled over Hao Yali's matter:
Everyone's life will meet some people who are right at the wrong time, and people who are right at the wrong time, if the past has become a cloud, let go of the memory, let go of yourself, let it go, after all, no one in this world can not live without her, and she will not live because of who she can not live without. If you want to grow old with your son, it will be empty in the end. Let me be grateful to you and give me empty joy.
But after all, it's just a thought, because that's the person she's loved for eight years, how could she let go so easily with her personality? 2k reading web