For Han Yi and Bai Xue now, some roads have to be walked alone, but in fact, they are not lonely forever, because when they come to a certain corner, they may encounter it again. Of course, it is also possible to meet another like-minded person, who is a friend, a lover, or a passer-by, but after all, they have relied on each other to support each other, then it is not worth the trip.

In the dark, many encounters are predestined, neither early nor too late.

They will meet some people at a certain time, and then leave indelible touches and sorrows in each other's lives, maybe in the end they still go their own way and forget each other, but it is precisely because they meet someone and experience certain things that they are still fearless and more courageous to go on even in the face of the unknown road.

The vast majority of people, they are too afraid of parting, afraid of losing, because they will be sad and will cry inexplicably, but is parting not another new beginning? Wipe away your tears, raise your smiling face, and embark on a new journey, and the scenery along the way will never disappoint each other's expectations.

In life, there will always be fetters, and there will always be surprises, some people, some things, fate gathered and scattered, and after coming, it has become a poem, and it is safe and sound in the years. Some are fleeting, some are unforgettable. Some turn the corner of the world, and some accompany eternal life.

At that time, I was young, and I just wanted to go to the end of the world with a sword, step on the green mountains and green waters, see the prosperity of the world, and return with a full reputation one day, return by the way, meet a person, choose a city, and accompany me to old age. Later, I really went out, but I forgot the way back, so that in the end, those people I liked, those things I missed, became a strange scenery after all.

"It is true that I write words for you into poems, the pen is dyed with red dust, and my heart is warm, and I always believe that all encounters are warm, and all partings will eventually have a day of reunion."

In the last life, you were the sea, I was the rain butterfly, looking at each other across the shore, out of reach.

In this life, you are the flowing water, I am the green mountain, dependent on each other, and accompany each other to the end of life.

In the last life, you were the morning dew, I was the sunset, the shadows were wrong, and the time was empty.

In this life, you are the bright moon, I am the stars, the reincarnation of heaven and earth, and eternal immortality.

In the last life, you were a fan, I was a swordsman, grievances and hatreds, and I must not be entangled.

In this life, you are a beauty, I am a scholar, and I am stable and affectionate.

No one can say for sure how their relationship will develop, even Han Yi, who was originally full of confidence and thought that he was about to enter the palace of marriage.

"Haidilao?"

Han Yi looked surprised, and asked her Li Jia to choose a place to eat, and it seemed a little unbelievable that she actually came to eat Haidilao in this summer.

"What's wrong with Haidilao?! You don't look at what time it is, it's two o'clock in the morning! There are a lot of barbecue skewers nearby, but you can't eat those! Cher also instructed me to ......"

Li Jia glanced at Han Yi, feeling that it was better not to mention Bai Xue at this time, and then walked straight to the elevator.

I thought to myself, if you like to eat or not, you have to arrest her at night, and spoil her dreams. But think about it carefully, Han Yi can find out that she is the only one who can eat.

"What's going on on your face? Who did you fight again? Li Jia pointed to the injury on Han Yi's face and shook his head helplessly, "Look at what you have done in the past six months?" You've never thought of using force to solve a problem, and you don't have what it takes, do you? Don't you know what your health is like? Auntie will come to me every three days to inquire about your physical condition······"

Han Yi interrupted her impatiently, and raised it slightly to the left and right in front of his forehead to block it, thinking that he could block the remaining bruises on his face.

"What can it be? I'm in good health, and I occasionally exercise, but I'm not the weak kid I used to be! ”

Li Jia didn't refute him, even though he knew that Han Yi just seemed to be okay on the surface, he had a coagulation disorder, more than four years ago, he had a blood clot in his abdomen due to a very ordinary leg lifting action, which caused a blood vessel to rupture, and fighting with someone was not as easy as he said.

He himself knows it, so he never tells his parents about this kind of thing, and he won't let Bai Xue know.

"You don't want to say that if I ask, there will be no results, but as a friend, I need to remind you not to be so impulsive in anything. Otherwise, I can only tell my aunt what I know truthfully, and let her reason with you! ”

When Li Jia said such things, it could only mean that she persuaded Han Yi to the point where her donkey skills were exhausted, and she could only use Han Yi's mother to suppress him.

"That's it!"

This nirvana is really tried and tested, and it seems that Han Yi has compromised a little.

As he spoke, he handed the dishes and chopsticks to Li Jia, and then filled himself with a glass of beer that he usually hated the most, and Li Jia didn't stop it, because she knew it was futile.

Han Yi half-held the wine bottle and asked knowingly, "Do you want to drink some?" ”

"Thanks!" Li Jia rejected Han Yi's kindness, poured herself a glass of juice, and then said with a disgusted face: "Every year, you have to borrow wine to kill your sorrows like a resentful woman once or twice, and you are so drunk that you are unconscious, which time is it not me looking for someone to get you home!" ”

"Thank you!"

Han Yi smiled and raised his wine glass to touch Li Jia's juice glass, and then drank it all. He knows very well that Li Jia has taken care of him like a family member in the past few years, and he knows and is grateful for such a confidant and friend.

"Even if you have a little conscience, it's hard to say thank you from your mouth!" Li Jia took a sip with a smile and said with a light smile: "You can still drink to your heart's content tonight, so drunk that you don't remember anything, but one thing, don't spit on me again, this dress is very expensive!" ”

The relationship and jokes between friends are so relaxed and pleasant, except for the relationship between Han Yi and Bai Xue, they have nothing to talk about, just like when they met for the first time, without any pressure, for Han Yi, who misses the old, it is somewhat comforting.

Originally, he wanted to get the understanding and comfort in love, but he didn't get his wish, and in the end, he had to get it from the friend who knew him best, and the right friendship.

"The older you get, the more lonely you become······"

Li Jia stopped in the middle of speaking, probably because Han Yi called her out to have a supper together, which made her feel like this. Obviously, from the bottom of her heart, she is willing to eat, drink, and chat about trivial things in life with Han Yi, a confidant.

A few years ago, Li Jia invited three or four friends to have dinner at home, chatting about all the friends she had made over the years, some of them were still the same as before, and some were strangers.

After chatting to the end, Li Jia raised the teacup in her hand, "Come, thank you, thank you that we are still friends!" It's still the same as ten years ago, you can say whatever you want, and without alcohol, let's just make this cup of tea. Seeing her full of interest, everyone gave her a blank look, "Hypocrisy, you", and clinked glasses again as she spoke.

Looking at these people, all of whom have been friends for ten years, she can't help but feel a little emotional in her heart. In the past ten years, how many friends, good and good, scattered and scattered, it is really as sung in the lyrics, "the more you grow up, the more lonely you are", perhaps the more you grow up, the more harsh the screening of friends.

It's not that we're lonely, it's that we have higher requirements for companionship. Eating and shopping together may not be companionship, but you have to be able to discuss and grow up together, so that it is more like a real companionship.

Friendship, like all relationships, requires effort and compromise on both sides. Building a relationship of mutual trust and love requires the accumulation of many things, but ruining a relationship may be enough in one sentence.

Li Jia has a particularly good best friend, who was in his teens when they met, and they smelled the same. Just the second day after we met, I "went in and out", and I got tired of being together every day, going to class together, eating together, and going to the toilet together. Boys often can't understand the friendship of girls, how can they be so good that they even have to go to the toilet together? At that time, all of us were used to seeing the two of us together, and if one of them was missing, they would inevitably ask where the other was.

They also joked, "My left hand only leads your right hand." ”

However, maybe a year and a half later, forgetting what happened to the trifle, the two of them were very unhappy. They quarreled a few more times. Slowly, they ceased to be "golden partners" and began to separate from others to play. When two people with too strong personalities can't have one to suppress the other, they will be like two hedgehogs, one accidentally crosses the line, and the saber is tense. Interestingly, when they are no longer tired of being together, their relationship has become better, and the two people who already appreciate each other, separated by distance, have less obvious shortcomings.

In this regard, the official explanation of the two of them was that they were too young at the time, they didn't give each other space, they got too close at once, and their shortcomings were exposed too quickly, so they were "earth-shattering" with a stab. Many friends laughed and said that the two of them talked as if they were in love. Who's to say it's not, friendship can also be a joy to see you, and they all put it into their hearts, and they want to get your exclusive favor. Young friendships, especially between girls, can be more selfish than love.

Later, they were admitted to different schools in different cities, met different people, and experienced different things. But every time we meet, there are always endless topics to talk about, and we can always find new highlights in each other. What's even more touching is that despite the different circumstances, the pace of growth is basically the same, and I can understand the mood and confusion of the other party at the moment, because I am also experiencing or have experienced the same dilemma. Perhaps, this is the reason why their relationship can last for a long time.

And Li Jia, who is about to run for thirty, has more friends around her, but she can only accompany her for one trip.

She used to play a little friend from childhood to adulthood, and when she was studying in a different place, she also talked about a letter a week, and each letter almost talked about three or four pieces of stationery. They talk about what books they have read recently, what they imagine their dreams for the future will look like, and what the person they like has said to them today. Later, for various reasons, it may be too busy, and I don't know where to start, but the circles are getting more and more different, and it is difficult to talk about how much.

One night, Li Jia was rushing to catch up with the project in the company, and her little friend called, nagging her boyfriend's intimateness and worrying about going to meet her parents, she was working overtime to the point of anxiety, and she couldn't take care of her little girl's thoughts, so she hung up the phone after a few words of casual comfort, which can be regarded as a certain degree of perfunctory.

Now, the girl only occasionally talks to her about taking care of her children and getting along with her in-laws, but it is difficult for her to talk to her, who is already a housewife, about the pressure of work. Every time she faced her depression, Li Jia could only simply comfort a few words. It's not just that the life trajectory is too different, but the focus of life is also different, and it's difficult to empathize.

This may be "more than half a sentence of speculation", people who once thought that they would be better for a lifetime will still change.

In the past few years, she has been very afraid to see friends she hasn't been in touch with for a long time suddenly ask questions such as "how are you doing?" If it was just a general acquaintance, it would be okay to respond. But if you're a good friend in the past, the problem is too big. After separation, they were absent from certain important moments in each other's lives and were not able to share them in time. If you reply "okay" and "okay", I feel too perfunctory, too sorry for the original friendship, if you want to reply seriously, but I really don't know where to start.

The three or four friends who used to be are now more and more estranged because of the different trajectories of their lives.

She thought that maybe many friends were like intersecting lines, at some point, they intersected brilliant memories, happy and sad together, and then separated, went in their own directions, and grew up separately. It is difficult to be fellow travelers in the future, and the most appropriate friendship should be like parallel lines.

You don't need to intersect vigorously, just leave a little distance for each other, and have more respect and appreciation. On their different life tracks, they change and move forward, but they are the same parallel lines, not too distant, not too close, maintaining their own personalities, but they are the same kind of people.

"What is the rarest friend like. Even after separation, they went through their lives separately and found that they were still familiar with each other when they met again. This familiarity does not come from similar experiences, but from the fact that you have become better people in different lives, and will always be the same kind of people. Growth is tacit understanding. ”

The most appropriate friendship should be like this: there is a tacit understanding to grow up separately, and can share the same mood and feelings in different environments.

Friendship is like this, but what about love? Li Jia, who is very arrogant and heartless but lives happily with Feng Zhiyao, can't give Han Yi any advice.