Bai Xue drove the car and listened to the voice of a girl she particularly liked on the radio:

Maybe many people have committed such a stupid thing in their relationship: to love someone with compromises, and not to hit the south wall and not to look back.

In the face of the other party's indifferent attitude, you choose to be infinitely tolerant, in the face of his neglect and neglect, you choose to accommodate in every way, thinking that as long as you work hard enough and pay enough, you can get a cherishment, you thought that there is a lifetime of time to get along and run in, he will one day be moved, will cherish all your good.

Unexpectedly, I expected it again and again, but I got double the disappointment. He turned a blind eye to your heartache, and he didn't care about your grievances, because you overestimated your position in his heart.

People's hearts are all flesh and blood, and they are all warm, no one will always warm a cold love with a hot heart, and no one will always be willing to bear all the indifference and alienation.

No matter how persistent your love is, you can't stand ignoring it; No matter how passionate the heart is, it can't stand indifference; No matter how persistent a person is, he can't stand being left out in the cold.

If a heart is broken, it will slowly become cold, and if a person has saved up enough of all the disappointments, he will turn away.

I remember that Prudhomme wrote in "The Milky Way", "I know the pain of the end of the world, I know the heart of infinite alienation in the crowd, and you and I, like two stars that seem to be next to each other, are burned out alone in eternal solitude." ”

The heart can't stand the cold, and the person can't stand the hurt. Always take the initiative, one day you will be tired, and if you don't belong to someone who doesn't belong to you, try not to worry.

Feelings are not maintained by one person, people who don't cherish you, why do you bother to be in love, you must know how to quit the play without an ending, and don't blind yourself again.

As the saying goes: "Don't wait for someone who is out of reach, it's like waiting for a ship at the airport, waiting for a train at the subway station, and never waiting for the result." ”

No matter how good the relationship is, it can't stand being snubbed, and no matter how much you pay, you can't keep a person who wants to leave.

Feelings are not maintained by one person, but by two people, which requires spiritual communication, as well as mutual efforts and mutual protection.

If you give everything, you still can't get the cherishing you deserve, and the rest of your dignity is better to keep it to yourself. I'd rather let go of the pain than be alone to please, retract my heart that has been riddled with holes, and respond to all the snubs with silence······

Imagine, if a person really values you, how can he bear to alienate you; If a person really cares about you, how can he be willing to hurt you; If a person really cares about you, how can he be indifferent to you and ignore you.

We all know that as long as it is in the heart, the concern and concern in the heart cannot be hidden or controlled, and it will always make people involuntarily want to contact, want to know what the other party is doing at the moment, want to listen to the other party's voice, and want to share their feelings with him.

There is a saying, "The person who cares about you is the greeting every day, rain or shine, and the person who thinks about you wants to say good night after good night." ”

In short, the more you care about a person, the more affectionate you are; The more I think about it, the more I can't help myself.

If a person, thinking about you, will not be able to help but care about you, when you go out alone, he will take the trouble to tell you countless precautions, when you are unwell, he will buy good medicine and send it to you as soon as possible. The person who has you in his heart can't help but care for you and care for you.

On the contrary, if a person always cherishes you like gold and never takes the initiative to contact you, then you must realize that he is not too busy with work and has no time, but he does not reassure you at all; If you don't reply to your messages and never remember your birthday, then you have to understand that they don't have a bad memory and forget, but they are simply perfunctory to you.

Remember, the person who cares about you will never snub you, let you be wronged, let alone hurt you or make you sad, but take into account your feelings in everything and give you care and touching that others can't give.

For the rest of your life, if you can, please be with the person who really cares about you, he will sincerely warm you, care about you, let your love not be disappointed, and let you never suffer for love again.

No matter how good the relationship is, it can't stand being snubbed. Between people, the love is not as deep as the shallow.

There are too many people who disappear into the sea of people as they walk, from being intimate with each other to being heard from each other. There are too many emotions that fade everywhere, from the previous nothing to the silence later. There are too many relationships waiting and waiting to be broken, saying that they will grow old with foam, but in the end, they will leave the tea and end early.

I always have to wait until I lose it to find out that the past miss has become each other's eternal regrets.

The world is impermanent, not every relationship can have a perfect ending, and more is missing each other in the passage of time.

But people who really love each other, even if two people are thousands of miles apart, will feel that their hearts are close at hand. Even if two people haven't been in touch for a long time, they won't forget each other because it's been too long. This is not only a deep concern of one heart for another, but also an emotionally unique sustenance.

As one of my loyal listeners left a message: I will always leave a place for you in my heart, I will never forget the time you have walked with me, I will never forget the touching you have brought me, and I will never forget the beautiful times you and me. Although you have only been in my life for a short time, you will stay in my heart for a lifetime, and even if we end up separated in the sea of people, I will not regret meeting you.

In the relationship, the person who has entered the heart is the most unforgettable, and the real love is the most difficult to give up.

Once the love is true, once the person enters the heart, this person, this love, can't let go, can't wave away, can't get rid of it, because it is a lifetime of waiting, but also a lifetime of concern.

This deep love will take root in your heart and will grow strongly.

This true love will not be alienated by time, and it will not be forgotten because of busyness.

Many times, feelings do not have to depend on each other in life and death, it is a kind of worthwhile to have each other's hearts, it is not necessary to hold hands and grow old, and thinking about each other is also a kind of fulfillment.

This kind of affection gives the spirit a place to sustenance and a place for the soul; Such feelings

, so that grievances can be poured out and laughter can be shared; Such feelings are more painful than siblings, and love is better than confidants.

Whether the love is deep or shallow, the person who has entered the heart is a lifelong concern, has loved each other deeply, paid, longed, wandered, happy, cherished, no matter what the ending is, it is the most beautiful memorial in this life, and it is worth cherishing for a lifetime.

Living, less persistence, more relief, less burden, more freedom.

The most exciting thing about the journey of life is not how many people you meet and how many scenery you keep, but as you walk, you can see through the gains and losses, understand the impermanence of gathering and dispersion, let go of meaningless attachments, and calmly follow your own path.

Such a voice seemed to appear at a very bad time, she did not listen very carefully, but unconsciously chose a few words: busy, indifferent, distant. Is this what they are experiencing?

This feeling should be accumulated over time, because Han Yi is the first and only person she loves, she has not experienced several emotional grinding, she still doesn't understand, and even begins to wonder, is this the life she wants? It's been eight years, is Han Yi really the person she always wanted to get?

In the past few days, this kind of thought of hers has been constantly breeding, she seems to be self-hypnosis, and it may not be long before she is persuaded by herself.

Someone said, "Time may not prove anything, but it will see through many things." ”

Indeed, in the face of time, we are walkers, walking on the journey of life involuntarily, helplessly experiencing the joys and sorrows of life, slowly, we have seen through many people and understood many things.

Time has worn away the youthfulness and frivolity, and the years have precipitated the warmth and coldness of self-knowledge.

At first, I always thought that as long as I worked hard enough, there was nothing I couldn't get, and as long as I persevered and held on to a love, I could reap the fulfillment, but now I have to admit that many things are not done by hard work, and feelings are not perseverance will have a good ending.

In real life, there is always too much love that can't be done, and it backfires. In many cases, we don't have a choice.

Some loves, no matter how cherished, are destined to be out of reach; Some people, no matter how much they like it, end up unknowingly becoming estranged.

The living conditions are better, but there is more separation, more worry, more sorrow, walking and walking, seeing through a lot, and the two of them are getting farther and farther.

It turns out that life is not what we want, we can get something, some people and things, no matter how hard we try, what should come will still come, what we want to go will still go, we must learn to accept.

Life is in a hurry, the years are cold, whether it is a friend or a lover, it is not an immutable layer.

used to love someone with enthusiasm, made some stupid mistakes, and suffered some injuries when he was young and frivolous, but now he has been together as he wished, but he doesn't seem to have it.

Bai Xue went to Hao Yali's residence according to the address Liu Xiyao gave her, and stayed downstairs for a long time, but finally mustered up the courage to find out.

(End of chapter)