"I sent a message to Sister Xue'er to say that I was going to sit with her for a while and catch up on the old days, but you suddenly summoned her." Xin Nuannuan said as she took out her mobile phone and lay on the comfortable sofa to send a message to Bai Xue: Sister Xue'er, I'm sorry! I'll send Sister Jia to the hospital for an intravenous drip now, and I'll come back to you later.

Li Jia dragged the "crippled" hand, grabbed the loose hair, and said: "Originally, Xia Bo had already come, he said that he would take me to the hospital quickly, and then he had to go to Yi Yang to do something in his company according to the boss's instructions, I haven't washed my hair and put on makeup yet, so let him go to the office first." The most important thing is that he sent me to get an injection yesterday, and sat next to me for more than two hours, without saying a word, it was too boring, so he called you, you know, no one talks to me, I will suffocate to death! ”

Nuan Nuan sat up after sending the message, and said seriously: "The day before yesterday, Yi Yang went to our company, I thought he was deliberately looking for fault, but I didn't expect his attitude to turn 180 degrees, speak politely to the boss, and give a sports car worth nearly 30 million, what I didn't expect was that the boss actually accepted it, and it was the first time I saw him accept something from others." ”

"Don't talk nonsense!" Li Jia's eyes were sharp, "There are some things that you don't understand, the benefits that the boss gave him, he didn't lose four cars!" What's more, they are now able to shake hands and be happy with everyone, and he has to say it! Yesterday, the boss gave him a part of the shares in his personal guild and acquired his guild. It is estimated that there will be more cooperation between them in the future. ”

Although Li Jia didn't go to the company in the past two days, she knew all the information well.

She ran through her hair with one hand, it was too inconvenient, she was so angry that she simply didn't get it, walked to the washstand, took a glass of water, rinsed her mouth, and prepared to brush her teeth.

"Do you mean my current agency? So he's my boss now? Nuan Nuan rushed into the bathroom in surprise, leaned on the door and asked Li Jia, you must know that Yi Yang had a good impression of her, although he has always been polite, but he just doesn't like his flamboyant dandy.

"Hmm." Li Jia brushed his teeth, nodded, then rinsed his saliva and said: "Don't worry, he just eats shares, no matter what happens, the decision-making boss will definitely not hand it over, he writes clearly in the agreement, and he will not let Yi Yang entangle you." ”

Nuan Nuan was also relieved, Li Jia wiped her mouth, turned to Nuan Nuan, raised her injured hand, and pouted helplessly, "Help me wash my hair?" I haven't washed my hair in two days! ”

"Okay, I'll wash your hair, and you'll have a treat for lunch!" Nuan Nuan smiled sweetly.

When she flushed Li Jia's hair, she inadvertently asked, "What kind of state is the best state for the two together?" ”

There seems to be no standard answer to this question, and Li Jia can't answer it.

The two people in love are actually like Zhou Yu and Huang Gai, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. I've seen glue all day long, I've seen two heads arguing and bickering for three days, I've seen people flirting and scolding when there's nothing to do, and I've also seen people pretending to be passers-by in front of acquaintances in private

Grow your nong, my nong.

Li Jia naturally has insights, and she and Feng Zhiyao can be described as the best couple in their group of friends.

She blurted out: "The state between lovers is nothing more than a mode of getting along, as long as you feel natural and comfortable." ”

Li Jia did not use her relationship with Feng Zhiyao as a reference, but told the story of one of her friends.

"I know a Leo girl who has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for 8 years. One time we went out for tea, during which I couldn't help but ask her about her experience in love, she was very straightforward, and Balabala talked to me a lot. She said that the best way to get along between lovers is that he plays his, I play mine, and they can talk together after it's over, it's as simple as that. At the time, I was very puzzled, I said why should he play his, you play yours? Don't all current lovers like to be tired of being together? ”

"That's right!" Nuan Nuan is a rookie in love, so she and Fu Bo got together, so she asked such an esoteric question.

Li Jia's friend was suddenly full of queen style, she said, you just made a big taboo, in fact, there are not many men who like clingy girls, you have to learn to create your own space.

She said that she never harassed her boyfriend when he was playing games, and she never asked about his whereabouts when he didn't take the initiative to contact her. When other girls are angry because their boyfriends are always playing games, she is eating and chatting with friends in the circle and visiting the mall; While other girls were bombarded with phone calls and text messages because their boyfriends didn't take the initiative to contact her, she was comfortable doing her nails in the nail salon.

She told Li Jia that women should have their own life circles, a cup of tea, three or two confidants, push cups and change lamps, instead of always revolving around a man.

Li Jia asked her, don't you feel lonely in such a relationship?

She smiled and said that her heart is abundant, why is it lonely.

"When he was working, I was busy; When he was playing games, I was watching American dramas; When he went out to dinner with his friends, my girlfriend and I were eating dessert. He has his circle and I have mine, but that doesn't mean we don't have each other in our hearts. I don't harass him when he plays, because I know that he is usually busy with work and rarely has time to relax. The buddy shouted to open the black, and he went off in a. Why don't I ask him about his whereabouts when he doesn't reach out to me? Because I knew he must have something at hand and couldn't get out. When he's done, he'll naturally come to me. ”

She also said that many girls are prone to insecurity in the process of getting along in love. For example, if the other party is slow to reply to a message, they will start to worry and worry, and they will have an onset of obsessive-compulsive disorder every minute, and when they look at their phone every three seconds, they will almost stare at the screen. But people may just be called by their boss to run errands, or their mobile phones are on mute, or they are in a meeting, or they don't have a reaction to what they should reply, or they simply don't reply after they haven't had time to reply to that point.

Her friend and boyfriend were about to get married, and she was envious of her because she had successfully turned her school uniform into a wedding dress.

"You're busy

Yours, I'm busy with mine, isn't it good? Why do you have to pester me with nothing? Is that what it means? ”

Nuan Nuan seems to understand whether she understands or not, she is stupid, and she has kept her first love until she graduated from college, and she has come together with Fu Bo until now. Nowadays, it is really difficult for a beautiful girl like her to be like this.

She had a classmate who had a long-distance relationship in her junior year. Her boyfriend is a year older than her and is not in the same school as her, so she is particularly insecure. She stipulated that her boyfriend should call him twice a day, one in the morning and one in the evening, and also stipulated that her boyfriend should report his whereabouts, where he went, what he did, and with whom. My boyfriend actively cooperated at the beginning, but after a year, I was a little unbearable.

It just so happened that they both knew each other, and once this boy complained to her on QQ, he said: I feel so tired, every day seems to be under surveillance. I called her at regular intervals, but sometimes we had nothing to say, so we had to stay silent, which was embarrassing.

Nuan Nuan's relationship with Fu Bo at that time was limited to WeChat chat, and the love for each other had not been broken, and she didn't quite understand the feeling that the boy said, but she just said with her conscience: Long-distance relationships are like this, you have to be considerate of other girls.

He smiled wryly and said: Then who will be considerate and considerate of me? I'm a senior in college, and I'm busy with internships and job hunting, and I run around the recruiting units in the talent market every day for fear of missing opportunities. I have submitted my online resume N times, and many of them have been lost. As you know, it's hard to find a job in my profession, and I'm dying of worry all day. But what about her? I'm still struggling with whether I made a call today, whether I called on time, why I missed it, and why I was silent on the phone...... I really want to say that I have my troubles, I have times when I am in a bad mood and don't want to talk, and what I crave is understanding and comfort, not questioning and arguing.

The story of her classmate and boyfriend must be familiar to young men and women in their twenties, and such stories are played out every day.

People always say that long-distance relationships are painful, long-distance relationships are difficult, and long-distance relationships rarely achieve positive results, but in Nuan Nuan's view, things are man-made, not to blame the things themselves, but to blame the two parties who handled the matter, didn't she and Fu Bo finally have a result?

In fact, the sense of security is given to oneself. There is some truth to this statement. Many men and women just take each other too seriously and expect too much from them, and run after them all day long, just like the earth revolves around the sun, and then it goes out of its original orbit.

Think about it, when you didn't have a lover, how did you spend every day? All I can think of is that you'll go for a walk with your friends, play ball, go shopping; Accompany your parents to buy vegetables, cook a meal, and chat; Discuss with colleagues about traveling, rubbing hemp, and climbing a mountain. This kind of life seems to be so rich that it can bloom a flower.

is like what Li Jia's Leo girl friend said: The heart is abundant, how can it be lonely.

Many times, it is because you are too idle that you will have a lot of energy to spend on some trivial things.

Falling in love is a test, and getting along is a science. If both sides could be honest, there wouldn't be

Suspicion and trepidation are born. If there is no suspicion, there will be no crisis of confidence. If you trust each other from beginning to end, you will not quarrel, but will be considerate and tolerant of her.

Three or four years ago, Nuan Nuan was still an out-and-out little girl, green and ignorant, independent and introverted. Later, I met Bole like Han Yi and Keiko, I got a lot, changed her a lot, and her heart became truly rich.

Everyone is different, and so is every age group.

Fu Bo sometimes blames her, she disappears when she is busy, because she is a professional anchor with a lot of traffic, and she is really busy, she says that she is concentrating and forgetting her surroundings.

Even after the two of them began to show affection, they often did not talk to each other on the phone for a week, and did not exceed 10 text messages.

In those days in Shenzhen, in order to improve the new product, that is, the game that became popular in the internal test, Fu Bo and Feng Zhiyao worked overtime every day, and when they were busiest, they worked overtime until two o'clock in the morning at night, and went to work in good spirits early the next morning, and they didn't have time to accompany her at all, but Nuan Nuan was glad that she could see him every day and see him work hard without distractions.

She is also very busy, sitting in front of the computer is four to six hours of live broadcasting, and after the broadcast, she has to coordinate with her assistant or agent for the next work, in short, she is busy.

One day, not long ago, she saw Fu Bo's circle of friends.

"At half past five in the morning, the dusk street lights have not been extinguished, the sky is just a little white, few vehicles pass by on the road, and the whole city is like a sleeping baby, silent and peaceful."

He stood on the twenty-third floor, the floor where Qiu Lang and Han Yi chose Bode Technology Co., Ltd. for him, and quietly took pictures of the whole picture.

At that time, Nuan Nuan suddenly felt a little distressed.

No matter how tiring the work is, Fu Bo, like her boss Han Yi, will not have half a word of complaint in front of the people they love.

On the other hand, she occasionally persuaded him not to fight so hard, but he always smiled and told her that if you don't fight against difficulties, you will be in danger of being counterattacked. He relied on his own ability to set up a company, and later went bankrupt because of financial problems, and had such an experience, so he always has a sense of crisis, and like Han Yi, he does not allow himself to have any slack.

Then, they were busy with their own business, he was busy with him, she was busy with hers, independent of each other but tacitly acquiescing. Every time they are busy, they can always make an appointment to go out together and rub together, toast, toast to the future, and toast again, toast to themselves.

She doesn't know, but it seems that she is not much different from Li Jia's friend, it's not that their love is not warm enough, but this is the way they get along, the best way to get along.

Nuan Nuan's family background is the worst, she really grew up in a poor mountainous area, of course, now because of her, the whole family has moved into the city to live. She is not like Bai Xue, who only loves first, so she also hopes that Fu Bo is a career-minded person.

Perhaps in her opinion, the best state between lovers is not to fall in love, not to say love, but to be together

Struggle hard, struggle is over, go out to put a loose and eat meat, rather than live up to and miss, you should learn to be rational and hard-working.

Don't waste your time on pointless arguments, and don't waste your youth playing among flowers. Lovers talk about love and love, but if there is no material security, how can it be romantic, how can it be enjoyed, and how can it be in the future?

To be honest, too many people are in love now, and negative energy bursts. It's not that his boyfriend is crushed, or that his girlfriend is domineering and willful, and he is used to it.

In the most struggling years, don't squander your youth, if you blindly correct the fault in the other party, I tell you, it will never be finished, because there is no perfect person in this world.

Lovers lovers, lovers, under the word love is a heart. This shows that falling in love requires care.

Some couples say they want to be together every minute, but they turn against each other every minute. The reason is that most of them don't like each other so much, and they don't know how to refuse under the other party's soft grinding, so they agree to confess and reluctantly get together. After being together, the party who pays more gradually begins to be psychologically unbalanced, and always asks the other party to dig out his heart and lungs like he (she) chased him (her) at the beginning, so prejudice, unwillingness, and suspicion are all staged, and the war of words is about to break out.

Why bother?

If you don't like him very much at first, please keep your distance from him, don't give him hope, don't go against the grain. You must know that ambiguity is as terrible as abusive love, and it is the devil.

Of course, if you like someone, you have to learn to be reasonable. Sometimes you know that there are tigers in the mountains, and you prefer to go to the tiger mountains, then it is your fault. Moths to the fire also have to be mastered, if you are not careful, you may burn yourself to death.

Learn to be rational, independent, and strong. You must know that each of us is an individual, whether it is love or life, we go out to represent ourselves. A person with a strong heart will not be afraid of any difficulties and obstacles, and such a person is the most charming. You have to learn to give yourself a sense of security so that you don't get lost in the torrent of love.

Nuan Nuan and Bai Xue's personalities are very similar, but they are completely different in love.

She won't stick to the person she loves, she won't worry about love all day long, and she hopes that Fu Bo can be as ambitious as Han Yi.

Life is not only about falling in love, there are many other things waiting for her to do. She is not an appendage of anyone, and she does not need to turn herself into a resentful woman.

Lovers should have their own independent space, so that they can embrace each other and breathe freely.

Li Jia and Nuan Nuan seem to have reached a consensus in love, the best state between lovers is probably that they are rich in their hearts, you watch your little movies, make your mask and listen to your songs, he watches his NBA masturbation his games and turns on his black. After that, let's go out for a supper and rub a delicious meal.

Happiness is so joyful, it's simple.

(End of chapter)