may be because she has won Han Yi's trust and reuse, Qin Yue was forced to go shopping by a female manager of a department in the company as soon as she got off work yesterday, but no matter how she said it, she was just an assistant, of course, she couldn't rely on the aura of the big boss behind her to refute the face of others, so she accompanied the department manager to eat, go shopping and shop throughout the whole process.

was brought into a luxury store, Qin Yue saw a delicate and beautiful satchel, ten minutes, but she didn't fiddle in front of the mirror, just looked at it a few more times, and finally gave up the purchase, the female manager persuaded her: Buy it, women should love themselves.

Qin Yue just smiled and didn't buy it! The OS in her heart is: To put it lightly, this will cost me half a year's salary! And it is not appropriate not to buy, not to love yourself. This bag is too small, and the bag that can't even fit the umbrella is useless when the umbrella is there.

It seems that now, women are very tired, they have to go to the hall and the kitchen, they have to go to work and take care of their children after work, and they want to not lose in love and not lose in the workplace. At the same time, a woman's money is also the best to earn, a bottle of lotion that accounts for more than 9% of water can sell for hundreds, a can of limited edition perfume can sell for thousands, and a good-looking brand-name bag can sell for tens of thousands. Spending money is a very effective and practical way, but can it really help you love yourself?

Loving yourself and spending money are not "=", not even "≈".

Qin Yue thought of a 93-year-old girl in the company who had a good relationship with her, who had just joined the company and had a monthly income of less than 4,000, but she used Sisley Almighty Lotion, she always said that women should be worthy of their face.

She wondered, a girl with a low income and an ordinary family background is too high-end in skin care, right?

A few days ago, when she was sick, Qin Yue went to her house to deliver medicine to visit, and at that time, Qin Yue knew how she could afford Sisley. Her monthly rent is less than 500 yuan! She lives in an old, darkly lit house with clutter, and shares a room with another girl, whose inconsistent schedules cause her to sleep poorly. The house can't cook, so she either eats some cookies and stops, or survives on takeout.

In fact, Qin Yue is not a stranger to this kind of house, she was also crowded with Zhong Ying'er in a house similar to this one at the beginning, if she didn't use Sisley, Qin Yue would still feel sorry for her, but why didn't she buy more cost-effective skin care products? Use the money you "save" to rent a house in better condition, or live alone, buy a soy milk maker or rice cooker, eat well, rest well, and don't let yourself get sick all the time.

Most girls will live a hard life more or less, take and pay a reward that is not proportional to the payment, with a desire that does not match the reality, within the consumption power, buy some good goods to boost the low morale, reward themselves after hard work, and soothe the emotions of broken love, there is nothing wrong.

But for the sake of being cool for a while, he does not hesitate to tear down the east wall to make up for the west wall and sacrifice his health for his face, take a few credit cards to make love offerings to each other, always hypnotize himself with spending to earn, and will not manage money and only gamble on tomorrow with his youth, is this kind of life sustainable? Are you sure you won't be held hostage by the rising tide of consumption to do things that you can't help yourself, right?

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The terrible thing is that some people will be domesticated by the habit of buying big names and spending a lot of money, and the first thing to encounter frustration is not to solve problems and self-analysis, but to please themselves in the most simple and crude way. quarreled with her boyfriend, didn't analyze the deep reasons, prevaricated when she bought a brand-name bag, was reprimanded by the leader, didn't reflect on her mistakes, and bought a bottle of essence to make herself forget everything. Others eat a trench and grow a wisdom in exchange for growth, but they are stumbling and buying a thing and missing the accumulation.

A female college classmate of Qin Yue, her father died in an accident when she was a freshman, and the responsible party compensated more than 600,000 yuan. Since then, she has reshaped her three views, and feels that she must treat every day as the last day of her life, and must not let the accident be preceded by tomorrow.

During her time at school, she made a generous purchase, such as ready-to-eat bird's nest in the bowl, travel with her bag, and new products on the market, and she paid for them without blinking an eye. During the period of graduating and looking for a job, when they were all living in a snail's house to save money, she rented an apartment in the city center alone, ran a fitness card for a high-end club, and submitted her resume to find a job without hurry.

Last month, they got together. Although Qin Yue has no savings, compared to before, her life has undergone earth-shaking changes, the rented house is much better, and she can save a little money every month, and more importantly, after being brought to the company by Han Yi, she has a clear position and found a goal to strive for, and there is a lot of room for development in the future.

And her classmate basically used up the large amount of compensation, and she also sighed and regretted it.

Of course, Qin Yue can't afford to buy any high-end products, which is related to his family background and experience.

She also knows that not to be overpaid for premium value by classic advertisements and high-class fools, and that the brainwashing of businessmen and the kidnapping of feelings cannot define the way she loves herself. will not only care about pleasing the current self, and will not leave a way for the old self to live.

The connotation and extension of loving oneself are very rich, not so superficial.

Girls who really love themselves, they have some common characteristics, such as being able to take care of themselves, entertaining themselves, having strong self-healing power, not so materialistic, and relatively independent.

Throw an example, Keiko! She rarely hints that she needs to love herself, because self-pampering has long been engraved into her genes. A lot of her experience has also been stolen by Li Jia, and it has really been used:

After flushing the toilet, reflexively do a few squats. Before going to bed, put the mobile phone in the living room so as not to disturb sleep; When you are busy with your hands and feet and your brain is flying, you can take a break with your eyes slightly closed, or write the word "Cai" with your eyes in the order of strokes; Thinking that I didn't have time to exercise after working overtime today, I gave up the elevator and climbed to the 19th floor with exaggerated movements, even if I took the elevator, I quietly clamped my hips and optimized the lines; Buying things is about quality, the skin-friendliness of clothes, and the safety of skin care products are far more important than LOGO;

She also loves shopping and rarely misses a purchase. Even if she is very rich, she is always cheeky to try it on, not allowed to buy it impulsively, understand her own style and the combination of strengths and weaknesses, and avoid always spending the wrong money.

Like her, do these little things in the daily life in order to improve your health, mood and

Make a solid and reliable investment, so that you can love yourself!

And those who don't shade at noon, clamoring to buy a bottle of luxury repair cream in front of the counter to love themselves; Without exercise habits, the bug-ridden figure can only resort to expensive clothes with three-dimensional tailoring; Eat three meals indiscriminately, thinking that buying a few bottles of popular health products from Australia can save the day, usually delicious and lazy, big grinning, and think of loving yourself when you buy a big brand card?

A girl who lacks an independent personality in love, is depressed all day long, has no interest and no self, no matter how low the threshold for loving herself is, she can't get in.

The way to soothe the nerves is not only a hot spring massage and SPA, but also a reading list of nominees for the Booker Prize in Literature is superb; The way to relieve stress is not only to buy bags with chopping hands, but also to invite three or two friends to the park to enjoy the flowers, the moon and the autumn fragrance.

The sense of security, regular and healthy living habits, and stable and optimistic thoughts accumulated by opening up sources and reducing expenditures are much more useful and useful than simply spending money.

One of the verses in Chaplin's "When I Began to Love Myself" Keiko loved:

When I started to really love myself

I no longer sacrifice my free time

No more sketching out any grand tomorrow

Today I only do things that are fun and joyful

Be yourself and love

Something that rejoices in the heart

In my way

In my rhythm

In her eyes, the best life is the one in which the past and the future are correct. For the past, the present is the future of the past, the "one day" that I have been thinking about, and now I am poor and miserable, and I have failed to live up to the efforts and efforts of the past; As far as the future is concerned, the present is the future before, it is the "day to that day" that is thought about day and night, and the present is extravagant, overdrawing the beauty and longing for the future.

To love oneself is always in the ongoing, and as Camus said, true generosity towards the future is to give everything to the present.

Qin Yue rested this weekend, it was specially approved by Han Yi, she was at Zhong Yinger's house and talked about the experience of eating, shopping, and shopping with the female manager of the department last night, and now, the two of them will chat casually on WeChat almost every day, and they will meet once or twice a week. Zhong Ying'er called Han Yi for the first time in these years because Qin Yue inadvertently mentioned the company's affairs when chatting, and Han Yi was under a lot of pressure, so she wanted to try to unravel him as an old friend.

They chatted first, and Zhong Yinger also told her a story.

"If I hadn't seen that house with my own eyes, I probably would never have been able to imagine how hard life really was." She smiled lightly, her smile full of memories, memories of the vicissitudes of time.

(End of chapter)