Chapter 311: Regardless of right or wrong, no regrets in the choice
At noon, Yi Yang sent the revised contract to Han Yi for a look, and at this time, Yi Yang made Han Yi impressed, but he didn't expect him to make such a modification in a short period of time, which really tended to Han Yi more interests, and restricted Deng Baoyuan's management authority to the greatest extent.
Yi Yang said that he had successfully won over his parents, and boasted that he would persuade him to sign a contract with Han Yi within two hours.
Han Yi's short-term working capital loan problem can be solved, and there is finally one less thing to worry about, if the problems of the two companies in Shanghai Darong and Vientiane are solved, he can really give himself a reason to relax.
Xia Bo went to pick up Li Jia, and Han Yi, who had not yet eaten breakfast, went to a small restaurant near the company to eat alone.
Unexpectedly, I couldn't be at peace when I had a meal, and the two people at the table next to me were arguing loudly, the general content was that the husband complained that his wife shouldn't do something, and the husband was impassioned and foaming, probably feeling that he had grabbed a handle from his wife, in order to vent quickly. The wife listened with a frown, and said when her husband was drinking water in the middle of the game: "You are right, you are right, what if you are right?" Then he turned and walked away.
He estimated that it would be another bloody rain when he went home.
The wife's words before leaving left left left a deep impression on him, that is: What are you doing?
Han Yi is a person who cares a lot about right and wrong, otherwise he wouldn't have been angry with Bai Xue because of Bai Xue's disappearance before he quarreled with him, and counted her down, causing this breakup turmoil. Although, this is not the reason for their breakup, but it is a fuse.
They often care very much about right and wrong, but forget many things in life, love, is the most important. Otherwise, even if you have 10,000 reasons, but you have chilled the lover's heart and lost the other person's love, what if you are right?
After all, living a life is not a matter of judging cases.
Han Yi's mother likes to change the position of the furniture in the house every once in a while, and his father is very uncomfortable at first, thinking that he has entered the wrong door every time he comes home. Once he couldn't help but criticize her: if you fiddle like this, the feng shui in the house will be ruined by you, the dining table should not be pulled to the center of the room, and the stools should be symmetrical.
She said, "You're right, but I'm willing to do that."
Seeing her insistence, Dad felt that he couldn't say anything about her, so he didn't say anything anymore. I thought, yes, anyway, the house is a family to live in, how comfortable it is, it's good if she likes it, so why bother about it.
The relationship between the two is far more important than the location of these furniture, right?
Han Yi has met many people who are very eloquent, and they can basically spit lotus flowers for hours without swallowing saliva, as if the whole world must surrender to him, no one else is right, they all have such and such shortcomings, they have to listen to his teachings, and he has the final right to interpret this world.
Even so, so what?
No matter how good your knowledge is, the direction is either to help others or to show off. No matter how eloquent you are, if you don't know how to respect others, you are inferior, because you are afraid that your knowledge will not be shown off, and you are afraid that others will be better than you. So treat friends, lovers, family members, and colleagues as well
Be the object of conquest.
You're all right, so what?
Sometimes Han Yi is the same, he feels that he is right, there is nothing wrong, and he will not back down even if he wants to fight for it, at work, he is as always like this, when facing feelings, it is actually okay, it is not a matter of principle, he basically doesn't care, otherwise he will not take the initiative to admit his mistakes and seek peace every time he has a small conflict with Bai Xue.
Living a life, it's not a reviewer, and it doesn't involve issues of principle, so why do you want others to be right in every word? Every sentence is logical? Take care of your emotions in every paragraph? You just need to use it as a fake word sometimes, sometimes as an inverted sentence, sometimes as a metaphorical implication. In the adult world, precision is a cruel way of life. Confused, who said that it is not a high-IQ attitude to life.
Even if he has mastered more reason, he must save face for others, because as long as the other party does not want to be persuaded in this world, you will never be able to convince him. It's not that people don't think you're right, but they're disgusted with you. Maturity is defined as being considerate of the other person's feelings while expressing oneself.
Instead of focusing on judging right and wrong, it is better to focus on solving problems. If the other party is not doing it right, you can do it right and help her solve it, and you can't prove that the other party is wrong, and humiliate the other party by the way. For example, if a person can't cook, it's good for you to learn to cook, because if you really love, you can't starve the other person. In life, solving problems is far more attractive than thinking about right and wrong.
A few days ago, he was still entangled in Bai Xue and himself, who was right and who was wrong, but now? Bai Xue returned the house, car, bank card and everything to him, and he didn't care about it anymore, what he cared about was whether there was room for maneuver in their relationship.
He wants to stabilize the company as quickly as possible and spend more time dealing with his relationship with Bai Xue.
Han Yi was also a romantic, longing for poetry and a distant life.
He once thought that he would take his bags and wander, go all over the mountains and rivers, and see the picturesque scenery in the world; I also thought that I was at home, and a warm woman who was knowledgeable and proficient in poetry and tea lived the life of a fairy couple; I once thought that I would return to the countryside, find a courtyard, plant a flower, make a few cups of tea, make a few friends, listen to the breeze, watch the clouds gather and open, and gossip about mulberry hemp; I also thought that I would be prosperous, win fame and fortune, and see all the Chang'an flowers at a glance, and the beauty is all under my command······
Maybe these imaginations are what many people have always wanted to realize, and they want to take up all the good things in a flash, but often reality will give him a heavy blow, especially when he sees many friends around him, some have opened a coffee bar, some have left the city to retreat to the idyllic countryside, and some have traveled the world to the end of the world. In fact, sometimes, we feel that other people's lives are so beautiful just because we are not close enough.
Now there is only one way for our so-called success to be recognized, and that is to make a lot of money
Money, living in a big house, driving a luxury car, going in and out of high-end occasions, etc., and denying other lifestyles, so as to deny your own heart.
Around him, there are some friends who have good jobs and even career achievements, but because of some feelings, they quit their original jobs, gave up their original careers, and devoted themselves to the life they have always wanted······
When he saw it, he was extremely envious, and felt that they were so chic, and said that they would let it go, and from now on they could live a poetic life, without having to fight in the city or in the workplace. It wasn't until he got closer to get to know these friends that he realized that everything was not what he thought.
One of his friends, who was also his alumnus, was a "revolutionary comrade" of the student union, and by some chance, he returned to the countryside with good feelings and started a farm there.
He invited Han Yi to visit, in fact, he also hoped that Han Yi could bring an investment to the past.
At that time, Han Yi was attracted by the fresh air, healthy ingredients, and beautiful scenery, and stayed there for one night, and when chatting with him, he told Han Yi that when he decided to do this farm, he also felt that life would slow down and relax, but the more he finally found that it was not as simple as imagined, not only needed to solve the problem of farm survival, but also needed to face the growing lack of young and middle-aged labor, the difficult living environment, unaccepted misunderstandings, capital investment and a long time to wait and other practical difficulties.
There is also a friend, who is also a classmate from the same township, because of the feelings of the coffee bar, in that small space, invested a lot of emotion and creativity, back to the hometown of the past as a guest, the whole space is really enjoyable, even so, the same, they are still facing a variety of practical problems, such as labor shortage, marketing and other problems. But this does not mean that it is not beautiful, it is just that when they enjoy the good, they still have to face the helpless part of it.
He thinks that every choice is actually full of expectations and beauty, just as we are experiencing now, when we first choose, we are also in this mood, but when I experience unsatisfactory reality, I will habitually forget the mood when I first set off.
Of course, everyone will grow, but no matter how they grow, people's time is always the same, every day everyone only has 24 hours, no more and no less, when we face more big changes, more often we will feel that the energy is not enough, so we will unconsciously want to give up something, and the mood will be uneasy.
If, at this time, the more important things we care about are discarded by other people involved, we may still feel a little angry, feel that everything is not so beautiful, and the imaginary life has given us another blow.
But in fact, the beauty is still there. Because we can work hard for one thing, what we want and feel the most important must be the most important, so some people come and some people leave without joy or sadness, just because they are at every level
Duan felt that the most important thing had changed.
If there are people who stay with you, no matter how long they stay, be grateful, because they have also treated you as the most important person to the fullest. It's just that when we accept these changes and losses, how do we look at them, acceptance and perseverance sometimes lie in our own perception of ourselves, for example, people or careers that you regard as priceless treasures may be worthless in the eyes of others, but if you deny your own identification because others think they are worthless, then, in fact, what you value them is not so important in your heart, or even really worthless!
When he returned to the company, he was thinking, is the so-called other people's opinions really that important? How many people will send sincere wishes when he succeeds, and how many people are waiting for him to fail and watch his jokes?
Han Yi wants to insist on being himself in order to make his life what he wants, rather than deliberately changing with the environment. At least, now that his focus is on his career, he may not really be able to do it in the face of other people's persuasion, or Bai Xue's expectations. He is well aware of the role and importance of material conditions in today's society.
Because of the relationship between work and the circle of friends, he has seen a lot of changes in many friends, both good and bad. Therefore, there is a lot of thinking: people will experience a lot of changes in this life, for example, the people around you may become different every year, but knowing the changes is not for us to have reservations and indifference in the face of today, which is different from tomorrow, but to know more about cherishing and treating it with heart, which includes love, life and career. Sometimes we don't have a good life, because we always expect ourselves to take all the good, so it is especially easy to ignore the good that exists, and when we begin to understand what is good in ourselves and accept the bad ones, the good will come as expected.
It does not mean that as long as the material conditions are good enough, the sense of happiness will be enhanced a lot, and life will naturally be beautiful. If it is really because of good material conditions that he can feel happiness, then what if he is still so tired, so troubled, and so unhappy?
He doesn't know how to balance career and love, although he loves Bai Xue very much, but in fact, he has shifted the weight of the scales more to career, but he doesn't realize it.
Every choice may be the best choice, every choice can also be the worst choice, he can only hope that the good will always be waiting for him at the starting point of his choice, if one day, feel that life is far from what he wants, then go back to the starting point to see, the beauty is there.
(End of chapter)