There will always be such a person, who will appear in your life for only a while, but will make you unconsciously miss it for a lifetime.

We feel sorry for everyone who values feelings, and we feel sorry for everyone who can't start over in the shadow of old love, and we feel sorry for everyone who wants to let go of the past but never forgets it.

Bai Xue's long-term suspicion and entanglement have formed a huge wall between her and Han Yi, there is such a person in her heart who can't be forgotten, and she still vaguely remembers his smile, his face, and after the passage of time, she still can't forget his good and his bad.

However, whether he still belonged to her, she was no longer sure.

For Han Yi, the same is true! He felt that Bai Xue was making trouble unreasonably, and he came all the way back to her to get some comfort, but it was her misunderstanding and incomprehension.

"Get out of the car, take care of your affairs and we'll talk again!"

Bai Xue drove Han Yi out of the car halfway, Han Yi didn't have any explanation, and resolutely got out of the car with anger and slammed the door, feeling so inexplicable.

"My business is taken care of!?" Han Yi thought to himself, how could he still have something to deal with? Hao Yali's affairs have been fully revealed, and Bai Xue has begun to forgive him a few days ago, and he has already let go of the mustard in his heart a little before he goes to New York.

So what else is left unattended? He didn't know that Ammy had just called him from Bai Xue. He didn't know that he had lost his phone by a little lie, but he didn't expect that it would be such a coincidence that Ammy took it back from Zhao Jun and answered the call.

In short, he is in the clouds, angry inside and out, and has words of suffering! He wanted to tell the truth about his detention for two days, but Bai Xue's attitude also made him dispel this idea. He felt a little humble, he had been working hard for the future of the two of them but had not been understood by Bai Xue.

"I'm an ordinary person, and I have joys and sorrows, so why can't you think about it for me from my point of view?" The voice echoed faintly in his ears.

Han Yi walked on the busy streets, but such a lively world ruthlessly isolated him.

The city was so familiar that he walked aimlessly, stopped, and kept walking.

Sometimes he felt that the city was small, and there was her shadow everywhere he went, and he couldn't forget it no matter how much he wanted to. But sometimes he felt that the city was so big, because after they separated, it was so big that he was so small.

After three years of goodbye, see each other again, have you and I changed in our hearts?

Some people say that missing is like a poison, if that person has ever appeared, then she has left a deep imprint in the depths of your memory, you want to forget but can't forget, you can only miss secretly. After all, a breakup only represents the end, not amnesia.

Walking through familiar streets, you will think of her; When you go to the restaurant where you used to eat together, you will think of her; When you meet someone who was once familiar with each other, you will still think of her. Even if you see a couple on the street, you will still think of her.

Time is constantly moving forward, and you still miss her very much, just like the wind that has traveled eight thousand miles, regardless of the return date.

Every time he chats with friends like Li Jiahuizi, he still turns a few corners and thinks of her, they tease him and laugh at him for being unproductive.

But he said: How can someone who loves so much forget it, I can wait.

When she dreamed back at midnight, she missed the time they used to be together, she missed the person who said good morning and good night to her every day, she missed the person who could touch her joys and sorrows every day, she missed the person who cared about her little bits, she missed the person who would tolerate her, pamper her, take care of her, and never hurt her······

That's right, Bai Xue, like him, loves each other is still there, and even stronger and deeper. It's just that the misunderstanding is becoming more and more difficult to resolve as the two have been separated for a long time.

Perhaps, this is not uncommon, and even common.

You said that you can't let go of his goodness, you can't forget everything you were with him, you are immersed in the memories of the past and can't move forward. Some people say that sometimes you can't leave a love, not because of how beautiful it is, not because of how precious it is, but simply because you have paid for it with years of blood and tears.

Love is like this, the most tormented person will always be the good memories of the past, not the merciless hurt of the past.

A: "Do you remember her?" ”

B: "I forgot about it a long time ago. ”

A: "I haven't said who she is. ”

People who value feelings have always been like this, it is very cautious to start a relationship, and it is difficult to let go of a relationship.

Some people say that even if it's been a long time since you broke up, it will still occupy your brain memory, but you are always immersed in the memories of the past, how can you start again, those who can't forget, don't forget, just like those who missed it, one day they will still miss it.

Some people appear in your life just to teach you a lesson, and then they will turn away, you may not be able to let go of him, but you have paid, you can't forget, maybe it's not him, it's just your fiery and sincere heart in those years, since you can't forget it, put it in your heart. If you don't want to, then you can start over.

Scientists have said that no matter how deep the pain is, it only takes seven years to heal, because seven years can replace all the cells in our body, and there is no old cell left. If you can't forget someone, it's either not long enough, or you haven't met a new and better love.

So people say that time is the best antidote or poison, and one day, the person you can't forget will be weathered in your memory, and you can no longer piece together his complete appearance, just like one day when you think of him in your mind, you don't seem to remember what he looks like; There will always be a day when someone mentions him again, you will only smile lightly; One day, the person who once made you miss him, the years will blur his face in his memory; There will be a day when the phone number that you memorize is also erased by time.

If you can't forget, don't forget! This is a little bit of experience that Han Yi realized after the end of his relationship with Zhong Yinger, just like those who can't wait, don't wait, and those who can't get it, don't love. Let go of the past, no matter how beautiful it was, remember that person, and then love the next person.

That's why he fell in love with Snow White. So, what about the white snow now? Should we forget, let go, or continue to love?

The answer is very simple, if he can't miss her, Han Yi thinks he will have the energy to love the next person. Therefore, as long as he is still thinking about Bai Xue in his heart, it is difficult to let go.

Regarding love, Tolstoy has this description, which seems to make sense:

"Being loved by someone you love is the happiest thing in the world. But if the person you love doesn't love you, then your dedication to him should be to stay away from him and give him a comfortable space; If you don't love the person who loves you, then stay away from him and don't give him hope, lest he despair even more in the future. ”

If you think about it carefully, most of our misfortunes in the emotional world are because of this.

Because of my own wishful thinking, I bother a person who doesn't love you at all, and lie to myself and say: as long as I insist on being good to him, one day he will understand my heart, like me as much as I like him, and do a bunch of things that move me but will only become a burden to the other party;

Or to pester someone who no longer loves you, delusional that the other person will change their minds one day······ I was hurt again and again like a fool, but I still wouldn't let go.

Actually, what's not to put down?

One day we will understand that the division and union in love, sometimes it is like eating enough, and you will no longer force yourself.

You're just falling in love with someone you shouldn't love, doing a lot of things you shouldn't do, getting into bed with someone you shouldn't be doing, wasting time that shouldn't be wasted, and then one day, you suddenly realize that you shouldn't go on like this.

A love affair in college:

One girl in the class had a special crush on a boy, and they were together in their sophomore year.

When they are together, they are always so sweet that everyone around them feels tired of panicking, and the parents on both sides also like them very much.

In the eyes of most people, two people who are emotionally stable, can be regarded as a good match, talented men and women, and have the same temperament, it is natural that they will go to the end.

But as soon as he graduated, the lower bunk who had the heart to venture out persuaded everyone that his uncle had been in business for many years arranged for him to go abroad, and the distance finally made this relationship favored by countless people blow up.

The girl lost her soul, drunk and dreamed of death, and the girl who was originally fleshy lost nearly 40 pounds to more than 90 pounds from more than 130 pounds in just half a year······

Years later, she put on her wedding dress. If the smile on her face is still a bit far-fetched, then she is showing her baby in the circle of friends, and her eyes are undoubtedly full of real happiness.

This is not her affection, otherwise she would not have cried so heartbreakingly in the first place.

It's true that we've all had a crush on someone, but it's not as necessary for them as we think.

We always feel that there is only one encounter in our lives, and there is only one person, which meets all our imaginations and expectations for love.

But it's not, just like when I was a child, I lost my favorite toy and felt that the world had collapsed, and I would cry and make trouble, but one day I would be attracted by a new toy.

In the process of growing up, we will definitely find that many things are like this later, you think he is irreplaceable, but maybe in the near future, you will meet a better, at least more suitable, to accompany you on the next farther road.

When one relationship ends, sooner or later another one will rise.

Everyone who passes by you may actually become your lover, but whether they can come together in the end depends on fate

The right time, the right place, may make a similar person coincidentally become the real man in your life.

"Why give someone who doesn't love you the opportunity to hurt themselves repeatedly? He doesn't love you, just let it go, don't bother, and don't peester. ”

Such an idea should have germinated in the hearts of Han Yi and Bai Xue, right?