Chapter 447: Life Won't Be Hard All the Time

Qiu Lang asked with a puzzled expression, "What's wrong with you?" Obviously you have achieved such good results, why are you still not happy! ”

"Nope! It's not because of this, there's still a lot of stuff waiting for me to deal with when I go back! ”

Han Yi stood on the side of the road and wanted to stop a taxi, but he was a little absent-minded.

"Oh my god! I'm convinced! Qiu Lang shook his head, "I was already in a good mood, but I couldn't be happy to see your face!" Don't worry, it's not a big deal, even if your company goes out of business, I'll support you with Keiko, okay! Raise you as a son! ”

"Fuck off!" Han Yi kicked him unexpectedly, "I'm not in the mood to joke with you!" As far as the matter between me and Bai Xue is concerned, I don't know how to deal with it now! My sister also sent me a message last night, saying that my mother asked about Hao Yali again, and she was still thinking about the child Hao Yali was carrying! I'm still acting like a fool, and I don't know if the child is mine! If it were mine, would Bai Xue not mind? Will she still be with me?"

"Dirty talking! Transfer money, a thousand dollars! Qiu Lang took out his mobile phone, opened WeChat and asked him to scan the code to transfer money.

This is the rule, if you swear something, you have to be fined, so Han Yi did it correctly.

"I beg you, don't think about it! Go back and have a good chat, will you go back tomorrow? I'll stay here and go back two days late! You two just have a good chat, I believe Bai Xue is not a very unreasonable person! You, you must be able to have lovers and eventually become married! Qiu Lang's good mood was completely ruined by Han Yi.

In fact, most of the time, the weather is very good, the wind is very gentle, and you will feel very happy when the gentle slanting sun hits you.

But occasionally there will be cloudy days, rainy days, and people running in the rain will get wet.

In fact, life is much more ordinary than you think, although there are occasional twists and turns.

Han Yi likes and is used to being alone, and often has a feeling, sometimes he feels that life is really down to the bottom, everything is developing in a bad direction, the person he likes doesn't understand him, and his career can't be as good as he wants, sometimes he can't keep up his spirit, and he has no interest in anything.

Sometimes, when he wakes up, he finds that the shoes are no longer where they should be, he is the only one left in the room, there is no sound in the empty room, the days are lonely and hectic, and suddenly he feels like being abandoned by the whole world, and he wants to cry, but he is a big man, and he can't cry!

Sometimes negative energy comes so suddenly.

Some people say that the adult world is indeed complicated, and friendship, love, and family relationships have become less singular over time. You have to learn to swim in a mixed world, you have to learn to accept the changes of your peers, you have to learn to accept the deterioration of your feelings, and you have to grow old with your family.

When we grow up, the world is not as free and happy as it is written in fairy tales, and the pressure that comes with real life will make us breathless, but isn't this how most people come by?

It's going to be hard and tired, but you have to continue to live.

Some time ago, I saw a video on Weibo, Camden, a 3-year-old boy in the United States, was born without limbs and was born with "seal limb disease", his mother was worried that he could not do anything, but he could eat by himself, watch TV, play games, and hand pacifiers to his younger brother.

Although he has no limbs, Camden is still trying to make a living, doing many things on his own, and will call his parents for help unless he really can't help it.

The Camden family interviewed always smiled, as if this incident had never hurt them, but in fact, if they thought about it, they just minimized the suffering and magnified the happiness, which is why they could laugh so happily.

In life, it is inevitable that you will encounter rainy days without an umbrella, cold days without a coat, and too much work until midnight, but this is what you should experience on the road of life.

He said that it is tiring to encounter difficult customers;

He said that he liked the woman for four years suddenly

I don't understand myself anymore;

He said that he watched his parents get older day by day, but there was nothing he could do

But think about it from another angle, after he tries to get difficult customers, it will bring a lot of profit to the company.

The person you like doesn't understand you, and that just gives you a reason to have a heart to heart with him; His parents are getting older day by day, but he's also slowly growing up and becoming able to give them the life they want, isn't he?

There is a line in "Gintama" that he likes very much:

"When you grow up, you will understand that there are still tears in life that can't wash away the huge sadness, and there are unforgettable pains that make you cry when you want to cry and can't shed tears, so really strong people are the more they want to cry, the louder they laugh, with pain and sadness, even so, you have to take them and smile forward."

We all say that life is different for everyone, but no one is easy.

All the sadness, sadness, and negative energy, these will only make you wither and wither, so why fear them?

When you don't have the energy, you go out on a trip and see different landscapes. The sky is really blue, the sea is really beautiful, and the endless rape flowers are also very beautiful, and even the occasional smiling face will make people feel happy.

When the negative energy is added, go to the corner of the city to take a walk, maybe he has seen its busiest time and its most prosperous area, but maybe he has not seen the little milk cats in the alley.

When you really want to vent, you can chat with a few friends, release yourself in front of them, and take off the mask you have worn for a long time to breathe.

Life does make you see a lot of embarrassing things, and you can be sad, but remember, don't be sad for too long. Because the more sad you are, the less happy you will be.

Life can't be as good as you think, and it's not as bad as you think, and people are more fragile and strong than you think

Yu Qiuyu said that life is a hard journey. When I was young, I often wondered why there were happy and joyful experiences in life, but I said that life was hard. Later, I gradually realized that it was not because happiness and joy were too few and too short, but that the pain was too painful, and it was too deep in our memories.

This pain may be that you have lost the person you love the most, it may be that your efforts are not proportional to what you gain, or it may be that the speed at which you grow up and become better cannot keep up with the speed at which your parents are aging and leaving.

Sometimes I think that I am very fragile and it is impossible for me to be strong to survive these painful times alone, but when I look back one day, I find that I have gritted my teeth and walked a long way.

A girl, she works alone in a strange city, the work is very unpleasant, there are a lot of grievances I don't know who to talk to, I can only hide in the bed and cry alone after work, but the next day I have to face customers with a smile and solve problems at work. She kept telling herself that although she was a woman, she had to be strong.

A man, his father was recently diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, he was a big man outside the ward covering his mouth and crying heartbreakingly, he said that he had not yet done an internship at work, and he had not made a lot of money to be filial to his father, how did he become like this.

But he didn't show a trace of sadness in front of his father, he was always very strong and smiling, and comforted his father with his mother that there was no big problem, and he would be fine soon after taking medicine.

As an outsider, you may not know what kind of words to say to comfort them, too many words of comfort pale in the face of loneliness and helplessness.

But in the northernmost part of the United States, there is a small town of Barrow, within the Arctic Circle, 530 kilometers on the shore of the Arctic Ocean, sometimes you can see polar bears on the street, and for a few months a year, the sun does not set below the horizon, and there is sunshine at midnight.

In life, each of us has our own difficulties, but compared to crying and giving up, we

Most people choose to grit their teeth and persevere.

As long as we don't abandon our faith in life, we are always strong enough in the wind and rain of a person, and we can see the sun at midnight. The wind, rain and haze in front of you can't hide the sun, and those will eventually make you stronger.

No matter what stage you are in, you always feel that now is the hardest time, but when we look back, we find that when it seemed to be the hardest, it seems that it is just like that.

The difference is that after we have gone through layers of polishing, we have become a self that we don't even know ourselves.

In the past, when there was trouble, I would always subconsciously choose to escape, and then wait like a fool, wait for others to walk past, and then follow the same steps.

But then I found out that trouble is never solved, and you can't wait until all the suffering is over before you go through everything you want to go through.

It's not always like there's going to be someone in front of you.

So slowly, you will find that life is like a lot of people playing Super Mario, and the people who go there first are the ones who have cleared the gold.

Many people will have the experience of walking on the road without lights in the middle of the night; dragged the tired body slowly and walked home; Experience the joys, sorrows, and sorrows about yourself alone.

Maybe you will feel like this, as if life is hopeless, as if life will only make you feel embarrassed, as if only the person you love does not love you, as if everyone on the street is happier than you.

But in this world, all emotions are just a few kinds, and all your sadness and sadness are no different to others.

We always have to admit that we are just ordinary people. Just like Mao Buyi sang in the lyrics, he is always confused, always searching, a little lonely, a little stupid, and a little unwilling to live.

But what we have to understand more is that life will not gently soothe you because you are so sad, and even it will not give you even a chance to stop and rest, it will only push you forward continuously.

We all know that life is hard, but we can't hide from life for the rest of our lives.

In "Ace Agent", Harry once interpreted the royal gentleman in this way, he said: A gentleman has never had anything to do with the accent, it is only about himself, and the real nobility is to be better than himself yesterday.

So, maybe you will really live an ordinary life, but you will always slowly understand a lot of things.

So sooner or later, you will know how to forbear, you will know how to forgive, you will know how to forgive, you will know how to forgive, and you will know how to make yourself happy.

You will slowly mature, and you will slowly be smoothed out by life.

You will no longer be careless about a small matter, and you will not be aggressive because you have a little reason; You won't feel sorry for yourself anymore because of a little bit of negative energy; You won't lie in bed all the time complaining about the unfairness of the world.

You will no longer only think about your own feelings, and you will not care too much about other people's gossip and strange eyes; You are no longer even hostile to things you don't like, and you gradually learn to restrain your edge; You will no longer be impulsive because of the slightest emotion, and you will gradually learn to protect yourself with a smile.

So, gradually, you will find that suddenly one day, you have faded away all your uneasiness, and you have been smoothed out by life, looking soft like water but full of incomparably powerful power.

At that moment, you finally admit that you are no longer vulnerable in the face of life.

After the turmoil, you can get what you want, you can go to the place you like, buy the things you like, and then live the life you like in the way you like. 2k reading web