Life is full of too many people and things that weigh and pros and cons, and are not helpful to themselves, and some people always have an attitude of standing by and watching. Accustomed to believing that "the world is full of malice", with a defensive mentality, with suspicion and distrust of strangers.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with this, even lovers who have known each other for a long time will have betrayal and distrust.

The relationship between people is complicated, but the simplest way is that if you really put your heart into it, others will feel it.

Many times, strangers can always leave something in each other's lives in this kind of passing fate. Ammy's sudden appearance and outstretched help made Han Yi really feel it. If it were someone else, he would definitely be afraid that it would be too late to hide from something in the hospital, even if it was Han Yi himself, he would only call a doctor or nurse at most, and he would not be like Ammy.

This may be fate, it is not a high control, more often, it is a patron saint who silently accompanies and rescues at any time. It gives you a little later, a little slower, a little twists and turns, just to tie a nice bow with heart.

Han Yi did not do less good things, this must have followed the "law of conservation of energy", when he gave something, fate would definitely give back to him in some way.

Life is not the same black or white, give yourself more choices and opportunities, will add something different to your life.

For strangers, many people never give too little kindness, not because they are unwilling, but because they are afraid to express it in a good way, but get bad results.

After all, people are still inseparable from people, I hope everyone can rely on the kindness from strangers like Han Yi, be convenient with people like Ammy, and give their lives more warmth.

After Han Yi put Ammy in the car, he went back to the place where he sat with her and listened to the street performers sing. He just sent Ammy away under the pretext that it was too early for him to go home and rest, and then stayed alone for a while.

Han Yi is not a person who is good at expressing emotions, but in his feelings, he feels that he is sincere and attentive. Regarding a quarrel between him and Bai Xue, he secretly made a decision in his heart that he must make Bai Xue realize what he did wrong and no longer accommodate. He thought that Bai Xue was also a sensible person and would realize his mistake.

But it backfired, both of them felt wronged, and neither of them gave in, and they broke up.

It's said to be a breakup, but who can really do it?

He is a person who pays a lot of attention to detail and loves to observe the people around him. Sometimes small acts of kindness can often reveal a person's character.

For example, when waiting for the elevator, he will press the door opening button, and block the elevator door with the other hand to let others go first. Even when it comes to ordinary employees, he is the same, and it may be the case that he is convincing in terms of affinity and ability as a leader of a company.

On a rainy day, the car passed some puddles

, the owner will slow down to prevent the stagnant water from splashing on passers-by. When lugging heavy suitcases, a stranger will help you carry the suitcase on the stairs or in the carriage.

The so-called seeing people's hearts for a long time, Keiko can believe in Han Yi unconditionally, Qiu Lang will tear his face for Han Yi and Yi Yang, Li Jia will saddle up for Han Yi, and Fu Bo will send care as soon as he learns that he is in trouble, all because they know Han Yi as a person.

But what makes Han Yi headache is, why can't Bai Xue be as considerate of himself as they are?

Even at ten o'clock in the evening, there are still many people on the streets.

A young man in a hurry walked in front of him, and he thought that the man might have been working overtime until now, after a hard day's work, and missing his bed.

A slow and leisurely couple, the wife holds her husband with a big belly, shows a happy smile, listens to the song, stops to listen for less than a minute, and then continues to leave slowly after talking about something.

Walking, coming, looking, there are always eight or nine people like Han Yi, sitting down and listening.

We no longer hugged that day

That time we weren't noisy or noisy

A man curled up quietly in the corner

It's like an island with no one to rely on

There are some things I always can't say well

There are some people I can never find

will also cry and quarrel, and will also make trouble without warning

Smile and reconcile

There is no one who understands me better than you

Don't speak, just a look

understands my innocence and willfulness, and also understands the pain in my heart

There is no one more like me than you

Occasionally indistinguishable, occasionally unfamiliar

I just want to be able to live life back to back into eternity

There are some things I always can't say well

There are some people I can never find

will also cry and quarrel, and will also make trouble without warning

Smile and reconcile, there is no one who understands me better than you

Don't speak, just a look

understands my innocence and willfulness, and also understands the pain in my heart

There is no one more like me than you

Occasionally indistinguishable, occasionally unfamiliar

I just want to be able to live life back to back into eternity

There is no one who understands me better than you

Don't speak, just a look

understands my innocence and willfulness, and also understands the pain in my heart

There is no one more like me than you

Occasionally indistinguishable, occasionally unfamiliar

I just want to be able to live life back to back into eternity

Han Yi, who was about to leave and go home, was suddenly deeply attracted by this song and stopped, a song he had never heard before.

It was a girl who sang, she played and sang by herself, it was not so good, and there were even a few places that were out of tune, but this completely moved Han Yi. Maybe it's because it's a simple melody with infinite sadness, or it's a very realistic lyrics, which makes him feel the same at the moment.

He went and bought a few cold drinks, folded them back again, and sent them to the young men, and praised them for singing well, he

They were also very polite and thanked Han Yi with a smile.

There is no lack of beauty in life, but a lack of eyes to find it. Han Yi couldn't help but chat with the girl who was singing, "What is the name of the song you sang just now?" Sounds good! When I was about to leave, I couldn't help but stop after listening to a few words, and then finished the whole song. ”

The girl's appearance was not very outstanding, she was very shy, smiled and whispered: "Thank you!" This song is called "The One Who Understands Me", and I wrote the lyrics and composed a song, but my singing is quite average······"

It will be very comfortable to be appreciated and praised, and after a few simple chats, Han Yi found that this girl seemed to be a little unconfident and even a little inferior, and she was very clear about her positioning, just as a hobby.

Han Yi knows very well that there are many talented people among these amateurs, who do not have the aura of stars, do not have an opportunity, and do not have a platform to show, so they are buried. At least at this moment, the song touched him, and he hoped that more people would be able to hear it, so he left her a contact information. This is a rare opportunity for girls.

When he waved away, Han Yi received Keiko's WeChat: "I don't care where you are now, what you are doing, now, immediately, come over immediately!" Don't force me to come and get you! ”

She is not a character to be messed with, and Han Yi just couldn't let go of Bai Xue in his heart, so he had to stop a taxi and return to Yi Yang's birthday party.

Sometimes the most irreparable thing in the relationship is not the sudden damage, just like Han Yi and Bai Xue, who gradually accumulate exhaustion and disappointment under the continuous consumption.

When we were young, we naively thought that two people could always be together as long as they loved each other, but when conflicts and contradictions appeared, we realized that it was not enough for a relationship to be maintained by love alone, and you also needed patience and wisdom to manage it.

You think you still have a lot of time to waste, you think you can still do whatever you want in front of the other person, you think you can get back together after going around and around, but the facts will tell you that it is not.

Bai Xue knew that Han Yi's diary recorded the emotional story with her ex, and she had a problem in her heart, and after knowing the real reason why Zhong Yinger left Han Yi, she chose to break up with Han Yi.

At the beginning, she didn't even complain about her dissatisfaction with him, but after a long time, she found that she actually had something wrong, but for the sake of face, her heart was full of jealousy, thinking that if Han Yi didn't apologize first, she would never break the deadlock of not contacting.

Studying abroad is more or less an excuse to escape, so they endure lovesickness and loneliness with each other, and waste three years of love time.

To be honest, Han Yi looks back now and can't understand why she used this kind of method to hurt each other in the first place, but it had no effect. If she could tell herself what she thought in her heart, even if she vented her dissatisfaction, instead of blindly hiding her inner feelings, escaping, and not daring to face it, she should have a happy family now, right?

Sometimes Bai Xue would rather hide in the quilt and cry, and would rather sulk alone, but not be the first to make a call. she

While she was tormented and desperate to save face, she thought that the other party would always come to her first, or she thought that in a few days this matter would pass, and the two of them would be able to get back together. But what she didn't know was that such a tug-of-war, which happened more often, would slowly make her relationship with Han Yi disappear.

In fact, when the Cold War began, she sent a signal to the other side: I knew that there was a conflict between us, but I refused to communicate.

The reason why the two people chose the Cold War is nothing more than insisting on their own words, and they both hope that the other party will apologize first. You may think that the other party will come to you first, why do you have to worry about you this time? As everyone knows, the other party may also be thinking, every time I bow my head first, why can't you take the initiative once? But because we are so angry that we don't want to communicate, it is difficult for us to know what each other thinks.

After this quarrel, these thoughts in Han Yi's heart spread quickly, and this time he won't bow his head first!

Many people think that the person who bows his head first loses, but he doesn't know that this situation is based on the fact that you love her but she doesn't love you. If two people truly love each other, then the one who bows his head first must know how to be more tolerant. He had done this before, but this time, he was ruthless.

Han Yi knows that for two people who love each other, there is no such thing as winning or losing, either win-win and go on well, or both lose and go the other way. He felt that Bai Xue's problem was somewhat because he was "used to", if he wanted to be together well and for a long time, he had to tie the bell to the bell.

He thought that he didn't go back because Keiko's tough attitude forced him, but because he had white snow in his heart. Perhaps, they can be a little more mature and rational with each other, and take a good look at the problems in their relationship.

When problems occur, it is not wise to stand in a passive position and wait for the other party to compromise, or to try to rely on the accumulation of time to whitewash the peace. The best way is to solve it as soon as possible, don't use your mobile phone to chat if you can meet, don't quarrel if you can talk calmly, and don't hide it if you can be honest.

What a contradiction he is in his heart, he wants to be ruthless, but he is reluctant at the same time!

But those are all his own thoughts and opinions, in Bai Xue's position, is he not wrong?

He could have calmed down for a while, or complained and blamed her in a soothing way that Bai Xue could accept, instead of trying to vent his inner dissatisfaction in a way that damaged her self-esteem, and made her realize that she was wrong.

Even now, if you sit down and talk calmly, I say what I am not satisfied with you, admit my mistakes, deal with the conflict in a rational way, and try to avoid similar problems in the future, don't you have to break up with each other?

Bai Xue is not very good at expressing her feelings, even if she uses the wrong way to express her dissatisfaction with Han Yi, or wants to get his attention and concern, but it can be regarded as excusable, right?

(End of chapter)