Before the age of twenty-four or five, Han Yi was still a philosopher, incomparably beautiful. But in the past three years of separation from Bai Xue, he is no longer so sticky to "love", it's not that he doesn't love anymore, but that love is deeper, more in his heart, and more in the future.

Perhaps, this is also the reason why Bai Xue feels that Han Yi has changed.

Like Han Yi, she has endured loneliness for longer than Han Yi, and after being alone for a long time, can a person suspected of suffering from autism find a partner?

As a girl, Bai Xue is the same, why do the elders in the family think that he wants to find a partner and get married? As if if you encounter any trouble in life, it is good to find a partner.

Even those who are average in friendship think so. For example, if you can't move your newly purchased assembled bookshelf, you can just find a partner. The curtain hook will not be repaired if it is broken, just find a object. I can't go to the Northeast restaurant to eat by myself, so it's good to find a partner. Working overtime until the early hours of the morning, it's good to find a partner. It's too late to get off work and can't get a taxi home, so it's good to find a partner. If you can't take a leave of absence to travel far, far away, just find someone. The driving level is too bad to have the courage to travel from north to south by car, just find a partner. If you lose your luggage by an airline while traveling abroad, it's good to find a partner. I want to go hiking in the desert in a no-man's land, but I can't carry a tent and too much drinking water on my back, so I just need to find a partner.

These are simply illogical, inhumane forced combinations, universal golden sentences that are more versatile than "drink more hot water", and can look reasonable after any declarative sentence, leaving her speechless.

So is a boyfriend understood in this concept a mixture of a porter, a maintenance worker, a rice bucket, a stand-in who can do any job, a personal driver on call, and a jingle cat with his own helicopter?

Her philosopherism, her grossiness, is still there, and it is by no means like they say, just find a partner.

Although single dogs are often persecuted by most people in this society, recalling that over the years, all the troubles of forced pairing are not as good as a girl and her boyfriend fighting over whether the air conditioning temperature is 21° or 27° in a certain summer.

It was a protracted war, which lasted from June to October. Although the length of time cannot be compared with the iteration of any dynasty and the People's Liberation War, it is enough to burn all the feelings into ashes, and then let the ashes resurge, and then disappear many times.

I caught a cold many times in the 21°C temperature, and in the end, the cost of medical expenses was enough for me to buy a new air conditioner to compete with it.

Or buy 100 hammers and smash the remote control he holds in his hand.

Although he was also a maintenance worker, plumber, porter, network manager and so on, a variety of magical functions in one "object".

However, for her, who has been sick almost all summer and has to work overtime to write T every day, she would rather he be nothing, I just need a 27° air conditioner.

Of course, the content of the war between them includes, but is not limited to, indoor temperature. still

Whether to put old vinegar in stir-fried vegetables at home, whether to make eggplant sauce in advance, whether to choose wide or thin handmade noodles, whether to shred or slice fried potatoes, whether to wrap eggs before frying steamed bread slices, whether she drinks yogurt after breakfast or dinner, go to the supermarket to buy apples and choose Yantai or Gansu, her lip balm is mint or fruit, whether socks can be put in the washing machine, whether to smoke at home in the living room or bedroom, whether underwear can be hung on the balcony to bask in the sun.

Please touch your conscience and tell those who don't take off the single easily, at that moment, it's good to find a partner.

A girl who is busy with work has a kind sister, and my sister has always felt that she is too busy with work, and it must be good to find a partner, so she must introduce someone to a blind date.

The conversation they had on a blind date at the time was as follows:

Him: Please, have a meal.

Her: Okay.

Him: What do you want to eat?

She: Don't eat Cantonese food, anything else.

In the end, he drove her to Taixing, and when he walked to the door, he said that he and his colleagues often come here to eat at noon, and it tastes good.

When she ordered, she saw that she really didn't have anything to eat, so she said that you often come and you can choose.

He felt very unhappy and would definitely let her choose one. In the end, she seemed to have chosen a snack, anyway... Also··· It's not delicious!

She barely moved her chopsticks during that meal, so she ate a few bites of the snacks she ordered. (I have to finish the food I ordered while crying)

Then he was leaving, and he said very considerately: Seeing that you like to eat this, do you want to pack a copy and take it back.

She said in the gentlest tone of her life, no need, you are so good.

She really wanted to ask, is it good to find a partner for the disease of low emotional intelligence?

I have encountered some difficulties, and I really said that I was helpless, such as a writer rushing to write and writing without inspiration, I don't know what the protagonist is going to do next? Scratch your ears and cheeks when you're in a hurry.

For example, last year's stock market rose sharply and then fell sharply, so bad that you couldn't go to any place where you couldn't use your credit card before you paid your salary.

For example, for the same dinner, I want to eat both chopped pepper fish head and pot-wrapped meat, but no restaurant can achieve such a small pursuit.

For example, if you want to go downstairs to Zhou Black Duck to buy duck collarbones, whether to use woody or floral perfume before going out, and then whether to eat it with rice or steamed buns.

There are so many troubles in life, can you find a partner to solve them? Awesome!

There are some things that you don't have to face alone.

It's as if you have to cross the road, even if you are red-green blind and no one is carrying it, you must pass, even if the drivers on both sides greet all the relatives in the family.

It would be nice to have a subject, in case he is also colorblind.

They said that someone would at least have the bottom of their hearts to discuss it. However, you have to believe that the advice given by everyone is from his own standpoint, and even from his own point of interest.

Frankly, Shirayuki doesn't believe that anyone else will really stand except for Keiko and her sister

Think about the problem in her position.

For example, someone advised her not to eat half-raw beef and she might have a stomach upset, but the truth is that he didn't know how the knife and fork should be distributed between the right and left hands.

For example, some people say that girls should not go hiking abroad by themselves, what if they are robbed, but the truth is that they are afraid that she will meet friends who are more knowledgeable than him, and maybe his bragging will show his flaws.

For example, someone said that he should not work overtime and told the boss to take the dog with him, but the fact is that his friend who had made an appointment for dinner released his pigeon and urgently needed her to fill the vacant seat.

How to say it. If you are suspicious of this disease, is it good to find a partner?

Bai Xue's senior sisters studying at Ka University have been single for a strange reason, but they do represent a type of person.

Here's the thing:

One day I asked her to have afternoon tea, and she said that she seemed to have found a lover, the kind of love between the two people. Without thinking, she blurted out "Then let's be together", the senior sister held her chin and frowned and shook her head, as if there was something unspeakable.

I haven't seen her talk about her boyfriend since the moment I met her, and for a long time I have a glamorous and weird name called "President of the Single Fancy Sadistic Couples Association".

She often uses Liu Yu's sentence to say: "A person should be like a team." ”

She doesn't seem to be lonely, she is always energetic and runs on the timeline, manages the school's five-star club, learns Spanish and piano in her spare time, and does internships and academic projects······

Later, she went to work in a foreign company, although she was very busy, but in the morning she changed her tricks to make herself "one-person food", what mango pudding, lobster rice, oden······ The plates are very exquisite, it takes several minutes to put them on the plate every day, and the rice is even specially paired with seaweed to make a red panda pattern, and the photos are definitely liked by many people on the Internet.

I go to the gym three times a week, rain or shine, my waist is thin and my hips are curled, and the vest line is slowly obvious.

Pick up customers on weekends to take pictures of others, run marathons, work as a Spanish teaching assistant, and prepare for the piano exam grade 10······ From time to time, I sent WeChat messages late at night to tell her: "I'm going to learn boxing", "I'm too busy playing photography to recruit assistants", "I plan to go to the Philippines alone"······

At school, she saw couples standing at the door of the apartment hugging and hugging, usually with a disdainful "hum", holding a book and throwing off a ponytail.

After work, she saw someone showing affection in the subway station, she squeezed her bag tightly, stood up straighter, looked at herself with exquisite makeup on the glass door of the subway, and smiled lightly.

Brushing through the circle of friends, the couple took a selfie to the camera to show their affection, and she bared her teeth and gave a thumbs up, an expression of "the two are so vulgar that they can't be helped".

Bai Xue once mistakenly thought that this was just a sour grape mentality, but in fact, she just didn't know this senior sister, and when she really understood her, she knew that she was proud from the bottom of her heart.

Be proud to be single, proud to be not enveloped in emptiness and loneliness.

Be proud of yourself to be free and to live a fulfilling life without relying on men.

She often posts in the circle of friends, saying how to go to a café to read a book happily, sit among couples to watch a movie, and eat steaming hot pot alone, one

People go out on a trip.

When she was the president of the Single Fancy Abusive Couple Association in her school, with many years of single experience and full of positive energy, she enlightened empty, lonely and cold girls.

Why do you need your other half when you can completely please yourself and live a more interesting and rewarding life?

She advises single girls not to blindly fall into feelings, and inferior love is a waste and a burden. Instead of this, it is better to get along with yourself fully and enjoy every day to the fullest.

It's not so much that she enjoys the process, but rather that she enjoys the state of fighting loneliness, which is the state of winning.

She can tell her "tragic" story and tell the girls: Look, I'm also single, I have overcome loneliness and lived such a wonderful life, why can't you?

When she was in school, she once shared with Bai Xue her expectations for her future boyfriend, and the requirements were so high and cumbersome that she sighed to herself, "You must be able to play "Where the Stars Are Perfectly" with the harmonica" What the hell is this.

After work, she probably saw the world again, and her requirements are getting higher and higher, and her boyfriend almost has to become an artist with both virtue and art.

(End of chapter)