After being hurt by others, we slowly understand that we must not talk in a simple way, and we must not exaggerate our likes into love.

ripens too quickly, mostly because of loneliness and coldness. It's too idle, so I have a lot of time to talk, and I can easily say everything to each other.

If you love too fast, it's mostly hormones.

A girl politely rejects a suitor: "Thank you for falling in love with me so quickly, but I'm so scared, you just want to 'fall in love' with me so quickly."

This way is very straightforward and realistic, but there is a lot of moisture in love.

If you like it, you will be presumptuous, but if you love it, you will be restrained.

Like Bai Xue, Han Yi is also a slow-burning person, with a lot of turtle hair requirements and principles, which may not be able to be tolerated by people who are new acquaintances, and they need a process of getting along slowly, so that the other party can understand him, or in this process, gradually screen people whose aura is not compatible.

So, they all like the saying, "Please like me slowly, but like me for a long time."

Whether it is friendship or love, you need to establish a distance from each other that can be advanced or retreated, in order to achieve true companionship and growth.

Give each other a safe distance, and when he is lonely and helpless, he can extend a comforting hand in time; When he is living a stable life, he does not disturb each other, and when he is on the wrong path and arrogant, he can objectively help him analyze the problem and point out his shortcomings. If there is, it is inconvenient to say that the relationship is too close.

Enthusiastic praise for a while, staying up late to talk until three or four o'clock, eating, drinking and having fun, these are at best a kind of consumption of communication, and cannot maintain a long-term and stable relationship.

True friendship requires deeper and more heartfelt communication, and this requires the witness of time and the nourishment of time.

The coming day is long, there is no need to hurry, get to know and love each other slowly, find the most comfortable state for each other, like it slowly, and love for a long time.

Bai Xue sent Li Jia away and continued to live a fulfilling life by herself. In this process, she didn't know what kind of scene she was waiting for a meeting with Hao Yali.

And Han Yi, who was in Shanghai, even though he slept late, still set the alarm clock and got up early.

Last night, Qiu Lang and Yi Yang were carried into the guest room by Han Yi and Xia Bo and slept comfortably on the bed, but at this moment the two of them were still unconscious.

Xia Bo, who heard some noises, hurriedly got up and ran to the living room, and saw Han Yi holding two boxes of things in his hand and leading Xiaobai to go out.

It was not only Han Yi who was tired yesterday, but also Xia Bo, who rubbed his eyes, "Morning!" Mr. Han, why did you get up so early? Need me to send you? ”

Han Yi said that he didn't need to be called by Mr. Han in private, but Xia Bo felt that it was not good to call him "boss" or by his name, so he still called Mr. Han one by one.

"Morning! No need, you can sleep a little longer, I'll go out for a little business, and walk the dog by the way. But you set the alarm clock, you have to wake me up at 9 o'clock, we are on the plane at half past eleven. Han Yi felt that Xia Bo was really good, and Keiko's vision really couldn't be wrong.

can help him deal with a lot of big and small things in life, and more importantly, make this house no longer visible

has to be so deserted, Han Yi finally has someone who can speak.

"Then I'll get up now, buy you some breakfast and come back, and then check all your luggage so that you don't have to be in a hurry." Like Han Yi, Xia Bo, who had only slept for four hours, cheered up, waved his hand and said, "Stay safe!"

Han Yi led the two-month-old white bear dog and did not wander downstairs in the community, but got into the car directly. Big G and the big white bear dog arrived at about the same time, the car didn't drive much, and the dog didn't accompany much, I thought it was to drive with Bai Xue, and take this big white bear dog to travel all over the country by car.

Now, it's just rare to have time to go out with it.

Fortunately, it was not the rush hour for work, the traffic was not congested, and the road was smooth, and after about half an hour, Han Yi arrived at a community with a decent environment, but it was a little distance from the city center.

Han Yi was blocked out of the guardrail by the doorman uncle who was exercising in the morning, "You're not a resident here, are you?" ”

"Yes, I'm here to visit a friend, I'll leave in a while, help me open the door!" Han Yi smiled politely at the uncle outside the car window.

The uncle took a closer look at Han Yi, after all, this is his job, and he must not let people in and out casually. Maybe Han Yi doesn't look like a bad guy, the uncle looks like he has a certain age, but he is still full of confidence, and his words are sonorous and powerful.

"Get out of the car, register before you can be let in."

Han Yi naturally complied, entered the community smoothly, and stopped after a while.

"Morning!"

Even though it was only seven o'clock in the morning, the sun had already emerged, and the sun at this time was not strong, but there was a slight feeling, just like Han Yi's smile.

"Boss! What are you doing here?! Qin Yue turned her head with a look of surprise.

Zhong Ying'er beside her also turned around, never expecting that it would be Han Yi. She looked at Qin Yue, suspicious, and when Han Yi went to the back seat to lead the dog, she leaned into Qin Yue's ear and whispered.

Zhong Ying'er lives here, and Qin Yue came to accompany her because she sprained her foot, and by the way, she took care of her.

"What's the situation? You didn't call him, did you? ”

"How do I know! How dare I call him over, do you think it's possible? Qin Yue took Zhong Ying'er and slowly walked towards Han Yi.

Han Yi took the very well-behaved Xiaobai and walked straight towards them, "What a coincidence, do you live here?" ”

"Boss, are you serious?" Qin Yue knew very well that Han Yi was very strict and serious at work, but in private he was a very easy person to get along with, although some people felt that he was very arrogant and indifferent.

Zhong Ying'er looked at Xiaobai and was very happy, because she was helping to take care of Han Yi when he was flying everywhere some time ago.

"Don't make fun of her! The devil believes what you say. "Zhong Ying'er knew that Han Yi was joking, but she didn't expect Qin Yue to really believe that this was a coincidence." You're going on a business trip and I'll take care of it, right? ”

"Clever!" Han Yi smiled neither frivolously nor exaggeratedly, just to see

The mood of an old friend.

"Boss, how come you still have time to come here on the plane at eleven o'clock? By the way, you have to help me explain to Sister Ying'er, she thinks that I told you the news of her hospitalization, so she blames me! Tell me, have I mentioned it to you, have I told you? ”

Like Li Jia and Nuan Nuan, in Qin Yue's eyes, Han Yi is her nobleman. If it weren't for him, she and Zhong Ying'er would still be squeezed into that narrow housing price at this time, sharing a room with strange people; If it weren't for him, she wouldn't have such a good job and learned a lot of things; If it weren't for him, she wouldn't have grown so fast······

"Exactly what you told me." Han Yi smiled, "You said that your friend sprained her foot and was hospitalized, and you have to take care of her." Do you have any other friends? Is there a friend who is so stupid that he can twist his foot and be admitted to the hospital? ”

Qin Yue thought about it, it was true, but these words seemed to hurt people a little bit, in the huge city, she really had no other friends except Zhong Ying'er.

"Hey, what a sin you want to add!" Qin Yue couldn't help but sigh.

Zhong Ying'er was not surprised, she was already a little suspicious when Xia Bo went to deliver her food so diligently and went to the hospital to visit and pick her up, after all, Han Yi is a person with delicate emotions.

How so? She was still quite moved, but she no longer had any illusions of male and female affection.

"The first two days were so busy that you didn't have time to visit you when you were hospitalized, and of course, you didn't want me to visit! If it weren't for this silly girl, I wouldn't know. It's been an old friend for many years, why don't I have to come to condole? "Han Yi is yin and yang, and seems to blame Zhong Ying'er for deliberately avoiding the relationship between them." I didn't know what to buy in the morning, so I casually took some red ginseng from home and offered flowers to the Buddha, hoping you wouldn't mind too much. ”

This made Zhong Ying'er speechless, compared to Han Yi's relief, she would be more or less unable to let go, even so, she didn't want to become a misunderstanding between him and Bai Xue, even if it was just a misunderstanding, she tried to avoid it.

All she could do was smile, "Thank you!" ”

Han Yi said to Qin Yue: "Go and take down those two boxes of red ginseng on the co-pilot."

"Howler!"

Qin Yue should be reconciled, she was very happy to see Han Yi at this time, and she was more happy for her sister Ying'er, because she was about to leave Shanghai, she knew very well that Zhong Ying'er was not so easy to let go of Han Yi in the depths of her heart, and she also wanted to meet Han Yi before leaving, even if it was just a glance, she would have a special feeling.

"Won't you ask me to go up and sit down?" Han Yi took the initiative to ask to go to Zhong Ying'er's residence, because the previous accommodation environment was still fresh in his memory, and he wanted to see Zhong Ying'er doing well, even without his company.

"Inconvenient, right?" Zhong Ying'er was a little hesitant, she glanced at Qin Yue, wondering if there was something littered at home, which made Han Yi embarrassed.

"What's so inconvenient!" Qin Yue didn't understand what Zhong Ying'er meant at all, "Let's go, I'll help you send things up,

Then you have to rush to the company. ”

Han Yi took Xiaobai by the hand and asked Qin Yue, "Have you got all the information I want?"

"Well, it's all sorted out, and I'll send you an email address as soon as I get to the company. And the suit you ordered for Mr. Fu and Mr. Feng arrived last night, and I will send it to your house as soon as I get it······"

Qin Yue only made one or two small mistakes at the beginning, when Han Yi called her to the office and taught her a hard lesson, and she has never made a mistake since then. As one of Han Yi's administrative secretaries, he was quite satisfied with Qin Yue's work attitude and efficiency.

(End of this chapter) I want to talk with more like-minded people about "I will start to like you in the future", WeChat attention "", talk about life, find a confidant~