Love is the easiest flower in the world to fade, just like a woman's youth. With the passage of time, whether it is the most beautiful beauty or passionate love, it will gradually fade, leaving regrets and sighs.

But there are also some women, who, like the old French lady that Bai Xue met, have conquered time and have a face and love that will not fade. In the eyes of others, this may be lucky, maybe it is fate, but only they know that only a lifetime of unrelenting exquisite life can be exchanged for a lifetime of elegance.

But more women don't know this, such as Bai Xue's friends in middle school, who just feel that time has taken away their looks and marriage has taken away their love.

Before meeting Han Yi, Bai Xue used to be a determined celibate, because of her sister, she watched her sister from a beautiful, delicate and tender girl, after getting married and having children, she completely changed, coupled with the misfortune of the child, as well as the unhappiness of her marriage, tortured her to the point that she was not a human being, a ghost.

Maybe leaving Han Yi to study abroad is also related to this, not to stay by Han Yi's side, but to be an independent and self-reliant person as always, and now they are separated again, and they just don't want to be looked down upon by Han Yi in their bones. may also be in the dark, the arrangement of free fate, their happy marriage and her sister's tragic marriage, and her classmate's tragic marriage, which formed a stark contrast, also made her have a little more change in her heart about marriage, and more hope for love.

Their waistlines are getting wider, their hair is greasy and frizzy, and they don't care about the season's trending brands anymore, they only care about where the supermarket is on a limited-time special. They quarreled loudly with vendors in the sewage-filled vegetable market over the difference of one yuan and five cents, forgetting that they had once blushed shy after saying two or three words to the living.

Marriage is the grave of love, the grave of women, they always say. But they also forget that it is actually themselves who have lowered their requirements for themselves.

"Anyway, I'm married, why do you dress up so well." They prefer to spend their money on more affordable things, such as food.

"I'm tired of doing housework, how can I have the strength to exercise." They would rather snuggle up on the couch and watch TV than get up and do a set of aerobics.

"There are so many dishes left, if you don't eat them, you will waste them." They use their bodies as garbage cans to sweep up all the food that their families can't eat.

Gradually, they found that their biggest jeans could no longer buckle the layers of fat, the girlish appetite could no longer satisfy the stretched stomach, and the high-end restaurants were no longer as attractive as the cheap street food stalls.

However, they feel that it is all the fault of time, the fault of the husband, and the fault of the children. So they began to complain, "If it weren't for you, for this family, for the sake of giving birth to you...... they felt that if it weren't for these factors that dragged them down, they would still be a lovely person with a blown-out skin and a slender waist that can be held in one hand, instead of the yellow-faced woman with three swimming rings on her belly and freckles and wrinkles on her face.

Their complaints made their husbands and children even more disgusted, so the husbands began to run away and not come home, and the children began to rebel and disobey, all of which made them feel even more wronged, while shouting loudly, "Why do you not care about me when I give everything for you?" While wiping her tears, I watched Korean dramas episode by episode. Only the handsome male protagonist can soothe his lonely soul, and they think as they stuff snacks into their mouths.

When Bai Xue finished telling her former middle school friend the story of the old couple, she didn't say anything for a long time. She thought about the toned girl who danced in front of the whole school in middle school, and she must not have thought that she would one day become a complaining young woman.

That day, she was quickly offline. For a long time afterward, Snow White didn't see her avatar light up again. The grumbling housewife seemed to have disappeared overnight.

The next time Bai Xue saw her, it was already a year later in winter. She sent photos of returning to China with her husband for the New Year, and asked a few former friends to have dinner together.

She has a smiling face, wears a red trench coat, and the appropriate cut sets off the slender waist; She wears light makeup, and her skin is as flawless as a girl; Her eyes were bright and bright, and the gentleman sitting beside her looked nervously and proudly at his beautiful wife, helping her to fill the vegetables and water, and preciously protecting her like jewels, as if he were afraid that someone would come and snatch her away.

Bai Xue listened to her explain her current situation, she began to teach herself English, and after more than half a year of hard work, she was able to understand the general content of the news and radio, and was able to read English books and newspapers.

She found a job at a local charity as a volunteer to help the elderly and people with disabilities, and she is busy volunteering every day, and now she is busier than her husband, who is studying for a PhD.

She picked up her old profession - aerobics again, and used her weekends to open a voluntary aerobics training class in the community to help those housewives in the neighborhood lose weight and fitness, and she also made a lot of good friends.

She also set up a mini botanical garden in the back garden of her yard, in which she planted plants such as wasabi, grapes, and sunflowers, and was able to enrich the family table with the crops she grew every harvest season.

In addition, she adopted a stray dog, a stray cat, and a turtle, and took care of these lovely beings every day, and her life was once again full of joy.

She and her husband are already planning to have a baby of their own by this time next year.

She couldn't help but sigh that she was too busy, there were so many things to do, and life was so fulfilling.

In the conversation, I saw a woman full of charm and vitality, a woman who loved life and was loved by life, a woman who did not worry about the fading of love and only enjoyed the beauty of life.

Life is fair, every woman will grow old, and every love will be cold and dull, but how to live such a life depends on the woman's own mentality and efforts. Beauty depends

Parents, good couples rely on the old age, both of which are unattainable, but how long the shelf life of appearance and love can be depends on each woman's own efforts.

And this is the secret of their looks and love that never fades.

After knowing these things about her middle school friends, it was time for her to graduate and return to China. She works hard enough in reality and is independent enough in her bones, why can't she have an unfading love? So when she saw Han Yi at the airport, she was so excited, and she took the initiative to get back together, after knowing that the scandal between Hao Yali and Han Yi was only framed, she chose not to care, to forgive, to accept Han Yi's marriage proposal. Now, even if it breaks up again, she still hopes to live a self, but it's just ······

On the first day Bai Xue moved into the house of Hao Yali, where Liu Xiyao lived, she had a nightmare and woke up from the dream, sweating profusely.

She climbed out of bed and pulled back the window, the blinding sunlight shining on her, on her face, in her eyes.

The first reality that I really understand when I grow up is that in this world, no one is here to love you, and no one is tailor-made for you to be suitable for you. If you say that when you enter the society, the first thing you face bravely after joining the work is probably that love is not all for a mature person.

The self in the dream was the first time that her girl's heart was destroyed, and she seemed to begin to understand that she did not appear in this world to love someone. For eight years, I loved someone with all my heart for eight whole years, and endured seven years of loneliness and loneliness.

She is very happy to accept everything in the so-called world, and she faces the world in a family posture when she falls in love and gets married, but no matter how close she is to Han Yi, he really didn't come for himself. It's just that in the prosperity of life, you have chosen each other.

It's easy to be disheartened when she says this, but it is precisely when she recognizes this reality that she can maintain a relationship for a long time and live a more self-conscious and comfortable life.

She also had hysterical times, willing to endure loneliness and loneliness for the sake of a person, and rushed from north to south overnight in order to get a person's heart, but she refused to admit that the loss came so soon, refused to be a bad person herself, and comforted herself to "do your best and obey the destiny of God".

In fact, the moment she said "temporary separation", she knew that this was an unpredictable road.

Many people are in a hurry to fall in love, take pride in "getting rid of singles", hurriedly enter the world of two, and then begin to entangle, withdraw in pieces, and recuperate halfway through their injuries but have been longing for the person who came to redeem them.

But in the end, you should also know that the alternation of the two worlds is premised on the independence of their own worlds. The two worlds are intertwined, what is the point of just superimposing them if they are not happy to double and share them in pairs.

Many people shouted "soul mate", "u", now Bai Xue feels a little ridiculous when she hears this word, too many people shouting to find a soul mate, they haven't even found their own souls, how can they have a partner? true

In this world, it is not easy to find a physical partner, and before you find your soul, don't mention a "soul mate".

She seems to be walking the same path that Han Yi came from, and the same is true after Han Yi and Zhong Yinger broke up.

"Deep love is shallow" is indeed there, some deep feelings are true, and some deep feelings are indeed no match for "fate has arrived".

There were people who pursued her and treated her very well, but she blindly refused, and after a long time, there was no one who could persevere.

She still doesn't understand why, after all these years, they still can't go together.

Why exactly? She could feel that she was willing to give her life to Han Yi, but why couldn't she not care about those people and those things? She didn't know, it just didn't feel right, she shouldn't.

This answer is not very satisfying!

How could a nightmare make her understand?

"No, he really treated me well, but at that time we were both young, unstable, and our own world was not sound, and the two of us could only hate each other and then stranger when we were in a hurry. People are growing up slowly, and ideas and concepts are not unchanging, so how can there be any absolute absolutes in this world? ”

She thought, this deep affection is a sigh after all?

Before we meet a relationship, we desperately want to learn from the lessons so that we can avoid the risk of injury.

But love is like a sudden hurricane, you can only rush to learn and sell, there is no time to prepare for you, no process for you to anticipate. All "skillful" is sad when you think about it.

Falling in love is probably like losing weight, and there is only one way to do it.

It's like, don't think too much about it, just do it.

Every gathering must be full of love. But what about each parting? Can you just say scattered?

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