What are you afraid of! Li Jia opened the door, and sure enough, what he saw was Han Yi.

"Why did you still ask you to open the door? Didn't Nuan Nuan come over? I told her that afternoon! Han Yi put things in his hands, put them down at the door, and said while slipping his shoes: "This is very helpful for people who are hurting their muscles and bones, you try it first, if it's good, tell me, and I'll ask someone to buy some." And these fruits, snacks, tell me when you're done······"

Han Yi babbled endlessly, and Li Jia seemed to wake up from surprise.

"Why are you here!?" Li Jia whispered: "Nuan Nuan is here, Xue'er is also here." ”

"Who?" Nuan Nuan walked around the wall in the living room, "Boss, you're here!" ”

Li Jia glared at her with fierce eyes, as if Nuan Nuan could read her lips, she moved her mouth and did not make a sound.

"Are you a fool! Why is it so eyeless! ”

Han Yi paused for a moment, at noon, Bai Xue had already made his words very clear, although he wanted to see her, he thought to himself, she might not want to see him.

Bai Xue had obviously heard Nuan Nuan's voice, and she already knew that it was Han Yi who was coming, so she sat there quietly, and she didn't know what to do.

Nuan Nuan sat back on her eating seat like a child who had done something wrong, looked at Bai Xue and asked weakly, "What's wrong with you?" ”

"Still angry?" Han Yi asked in a low voice, in fact, in his heart, there was no reason to resent Bai Xue at all, and at this point, the problem was still with himself.

Li Jia frowned and shook her head, "I shouldn't want to see you!" Otherwise, you'd better go back first. ”

"What are you doing?" Bai Xue walked over with a smile and said to Han Yi: "It's all here, come in!" ”

Then she took out her shoes from the shoe cabinet, carried her bag and said to Li Jia with a smile: "That, I'm also full, so I'll leave first, and I'll cook for you after work tomorrow." ”

Han Yi hurriedly said: "It's rare for you to get together, let's have a good chat." I'll just send her something, and if there's something to do, I'll go first. ”

He didn't give Bai Xue a chance to continue, so he immediately put on his shoes again and left quickly.

Li Jia closed the door, looked back at Bai Xue, and stopped talking.

"You guys, obviously think about each other, but you want to make it like this, it's uncomfortable to watch!" Li Jia is the eldest of the three of them, she is a friend at this time, and she is also a confidant sister-like existence, so she can also say these words without scruples.

"Is there any wine?" Bai Xue looked at Li Jia with a smile, pretending to be very happy, "How long has it been since we sat down to eat and chat like we do now?" Drink to cheer up. ”

"I'll get it! But if you say yes, just have fun, don't get drunk! I'm taking injections and taking medicine now, so I can drink Nuan Nuan with you. Li Jia said and went to the kitchen wine cabinet to get the best red wine that Han Yi and Keiko gave her.

"I don't understand you!" Nuan Nuan was confused, and she didn't dare to ask more, but she readily agreed: "I'll drink with you."

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Han Yi felt that it was because of Bai Xue that Li Jia suffered from this wrist fracture, so he wanted to think about Li Jia in everything and became more concerned.

When I went downstairs, I found that I didn't know where to go.

It is a small probability for two people to meet, and it is the most beautiful thing for two people to fall in love. What you meet is providential, and what you have is lucky.

A lonely person, I hope someone can give him a calm love, accompany him to see, the scenery of the long stream.

Between people, in fact, it is to see each other less and less, and everyone's time is getting less and less, so cherish each other.

It's okay to argue, but don't get angry; It's okay to quarrel, but don't be indifferent. When you meet someone, how much fate do you have to have in order to have an unhurried encounter in a certain place.

But it's always easier to say than to do it.

Falling in love with someone can be a matter of seconds, and deciding to be with someone takes a lifetime of courage.

Maybe the story is not very special, but the two people can always spark in ordinary life, and whenever you look at him, you are very sure in your heart that he is the person you want to spend your life with.

Although, he also has such and such shortcomings, you occasionally will quarrel for something, but love is not like this, even if there is noise and quarrel, you are not willing to separate for half a moment.

When you hold those hands, perhaps you should understand that the other party gives you not only love, but also his youth, trust, and patience to accompany you to the end.

If there is love in your heart, may you live three lives and three lives, change your life, and stay together plainly, if love has the will of heaven, may you have gray hair and protect your peace and security.

It's really not so easy to meet, and staying together is a test of the feelings of two people, just like the lyrics say: "Because I don't know if I can meet you in the next life, so I will work so hard in this life to give you the best." "It's so moving.

Han Yi always thinks that now that love has become so complicated, it has a lot to do with his focus on his career, and he has no time to accompany Bai Xue. But in today's society, there is no career and no economic foundation, and love alone is not enough! So being ambitious has really become the culprit of the weakening of feelings?

The richer you are, the more lonely you feel, and the pressure of life becomes more and more intense, which may not be believed by anyone, and may even be misunderstood by people as a stinky show.

But in fact, it is. For Han Yi, many times there is no personal life, and there is no one to talk to complain about. A man walked alone in the night, the faint yellowing of the street lamp shining on him, and only the shadow accompanied him.

The people I saw in the community were all in pairs, and a middle-aged man took his wife and children for a walk with his parents, chatting about life with laughter. A young man was holding his girlfriend's hand, probably just having dinner together, and then returning home.

He smiled and said to the girl, "If this continues, it won't be long before we can afford our own house." Three years, three years at most, I would

Buy a house here, put both of our names on it, get married, have a baby······"

The girl happily rested her head on his shoulder, "Hmm! I'm sure you can. ”

Han Yi looked at the young man and woman, as if he had seen the shadow of him and Bai Xue. looked at them with envious eyes, and while blessings, his heart was also mixed.

Generally speaking, material and love will not always appear at the same time, there is no material when there is love, and love is not there when there is material, this kind of thing is seen a lot.

After Han Yi got in the car, he sat quietly in the car and listened to a song full of memories, and then somehow thought of an episode of "Wonderful Story" that he had seen before, and the debate discussed whether to add his name to the real estate certificate of the other half before marriage.

When he bought the house two years ago, he wrote the names of him and Bai Xue, which actually said something.

At the end of the debate, he probably understood that this question was about the relationship between material and emotional: "Am I bent on going my own way and only want love, or do I have reservations and take real things to support me?" ”

When a relationship comes to talking about marriage, it is probably the time when two people are most determined in this relationship, and I believe that the person in front of me is the person who can spend the rest of their lives hand in hand.

Even if you can think that there will be all kinds of unexpected problems in your future life, you will be bored, you will be bland, and you will be upset, you are willing to be with this person.

"I am willing to bear the hardships and hardships of life together for you, I am willing to change my previous life state for you, no difficulties and fetters can stop our determination to be together."

Some people say that material things are also very important in relationships, how can you spend the next month without good economic conditions? How can we go to a distant place together without money?

Material is very important, the economic foundation is very important, but this foundation should not be provided by one party for the other party to consume and enjoy, but two people to build a hut about love and the future, live and experience together.

In this debate, he remembers a debater who said something like this: "A good relationship should be that I have a track, you have a track, and we walk on the track because we love each other." And not because I don't have a track, I jump into your track, that's not marriage, that's suicide by lying on the rails. ”

Many people enter love empty-handed, thinking that a sentence of "I love you" can be worth everything, and they can ask the other party to give everything for you.

You love him and you are willing to do it, and you shouldn't take it out as a military merit medal at any time to invite merit and receive rewards; It is actually your business that you love him, how can you kidnap the other party to give in the name of love.

You love him equals that you are willing to give, and you love him does not mean that you have to get.

People need to have weapons to deal with life, so that you can affirm that you are not without nothing when you are empty and helpless.

The older you get, the more lonely you are, and there are many times when a large group of people later form a group of three or five and then live alone.

If you don't build your own world, you don't have a job you like, and you don't have an interest to stick to

Hobbies, there are no solid values, you enter love like a blank sheet of paper, and let the other party write and draw casually in your life.

You don't know what you're going to end up into, and you're not sure when he'll suddenly want to get a new piece of paper.

Many people take the initiative to surrender when they enter love and marriage, and make a lot of compromises and concessions for love, but in the end they lose their feelings and lose themselves, and at this time some people will persuade them not to do this, it's not that it's not worth it, but it shouldn't.

Some people, seeing too much of the older generation, the standard division of labor for men to support their families and women to have children, and when they fall in love, they ask men for houses, cars, bags and lipstick, but they don't ask themselves if they can do the hard work and fearlessness of women at that time.

The society has made a lot of progress, and the difference in the division of labor between men and women is getting smaller and smaller, either buying a house or a car is a necessary skill for men, nor is it an obligation that women can't escape from having children.

When I was studying mathematics, I learned a knowledge point called intersection, you have a circle, I have a circle, we have intersected with each other because of common interests, the same pace of progress, and similar life concepts, and we identify with each other in the area where we intersect.

As time goes by, we occupy more and more shares in each other's lives, and the more things we have together, the more things that tie each other, the larger the area of intersection, and the deeper our relationship is at this time.

But we all know that we have to keep a part for ourselves, and this part can be big or small but it must exist, because this is the self that an adult should have.

We all want to have someone very close to share with in life, but I also have a part of myself, a self that doesn't change no matter who leaves or stays.

Even if you don't love me anymore, even if my life is a mess after you leave, it's the rest of the thing that really belongs to me.

We all need to learn to give first and then wait for the harvest, and we should all understand that what is in our hands is the most reliable.

It is better to beg others to give you what you want than to get it yourself, and if you want to rely on material protection to protect your feelings, it is better to keep your feelings with sincerity and ability.

Love may be intimate and intimate, or it may be clear that yours and mine.

You can say I love you so I'm willing to give you my all, or you can say I have no reason to share my all whether I love you or not.

For that episode, his summary is: Love is like drinking, you can't force the other party to drink if you want to drink, if people don't drink, they will say that they don't love you enough, and the best state of love is that I you at will. Don't doubt love because of material things, you are willing to give it to me, that's good, you don't want to give it to me, I don't mind, after all, I am with you, and what I want most is the love you give me.

But now that I think about it, love is not as simple as he summed it up at the beginning.

(End of chapter)