Chapter 35 of the Year of Tranquility
The sunlight that comes in through the window panes awakens the eyelids of people who wake up from the night with gentle and gentle hands. Outside the window, all kinds of birds chirped, which sounded very crisp in the morning, and the birds were gentle with fresh joy.
Push open the door of the back balcony and look out over the railing, full of verdant. The trees are undulating and undulating, resembling verdant hills. The trees stood quietly, as if intoxicated with the fragrance of the sun.
The distant mountains are undulating, they should be full of greenery, but from a distance, they look like the mountains in ink landscape paintings, handsome and faint......
Riding a bicycle on the street, the sky also gives people a new look, high and clear. Bai Yun didn't know if he was too tired from running yesterday, and he was still sleeping in the depths of the sky. The sky is devoid of their dancing, but far and pure.
The flowers and trees in the green belt of the street also stand quietly, as if they close their eyes and enjoy the caress of the sun. I don't know what kind of tree it is, but one tree after another blooms with lush yellow flowers, reflecting the sunshine and showing vigorous vitality.
Turn into a fork in the road. On the side of the road, a trumpet flower with purple-red flowers climbed up the high power line, and because of the barrier of a pile of wooden shelves under its feet, it turned out to be like two long green legs and grew into a human form, overlooking the traffic on the street like a giant.
A family's courtyard is covered with lush red flowers. The red flowers are clustered in clusters, contrasting with the tall green trees next to them. As the saying goes, safflower should be matched by green leaves to bring out the beauty of the flower. But this cluster of flowers seems to see only red flowers and no green leaves, and the green leaves are hidden in the flowers, but they are also dazzlingly beautiful.
There is a place on the side of the road where the reed flowers are leaning, and the white reed flowers are swaying leisurely, giving people a psychedelic beauty.
Walking to a pond, Ya couldn't help but stop again and take out her phone to take pictures. In the pond, the sun shines on the water waves, like countless broken silvers competing for joy. Verdant mountains cascade from the edge of the pond. Fish leap out of the water, causing ripples in circles.
The sunlight slowly strengthened the temperature, and the eyes became a little hazy. The asphalt road also began to reflect the light. There are more and more vehicles and pedestrians on the road. I woke up in the morning, and the boiling life of the world was about to begin again......
Ya likes the feeling of riding on the road in the early morning, the speed is moderate, the heart is leisurely, the sun is on the body, looking at the blue sky and white clouds, looking at the scenery on the road, I can't help but feel relaxed. This refreshing feeling will also be reproduced again and again in dreams, especially on a road that is often ridden in the early morning. At that time, I felt the spring breeze blowing in my heart lake, and my cheeks were full of smiles......
Ya's body has not fully recovered, but she needs to go out, she also needs to buy medicine to invigorate blood and remove blood stasis, and the bleeding below is still dripping, although it is small but uncomfortable. Ya rode her bicycle out to buy some things and came back, so many days without going out, at this time when going out like a bird out of the cage full of novelty, but she did not dare to stay, hurried back. But the blue sky and white clouds on the road, and the busy traffic still made her happy......
At night, Ya heard her brother's daughter-in-law and brother arguing so much that she couldn't hear why. At first she didn't care, but later it seemed to understand: their quarrel might have something to do with herself. Because I am still dissatisfied with my confinement, I should not go out. The brother's daughter-in-law's family is rural, and there are many taboos for rural people. Ya went straight downstairs and went out directly, without even going into her mother's house.
She didn't live in her brother's house, she lived on the third floor, and her brother lived on the second floor, but her brother's daughter-in-law may be a little taboo. My mother lives on the first floor, but my mother is not usually at home. In the hearts of her brother and daughter-in-law, probably the whole building is hers. In those days, the brother and daughter-in-law kept their faces blank all day long, and they didn't want to talk much when they saw Ya.
Ya once again felt that it would be good if she also had a house on her mother's side, so she didn't have to feel like she was always living in her mother's house, so she wouldn't be afraid of her brother and daughter-in-law getting angry.
Time flies quickly, and suddenly the summer vacation is here again, and my mother is back. Ya also took her daughter back, since she was at home with the children, then the two children were brought together. The brother's daughter was a little disgusted with Ya's daughter and thought she was stupid. She spoke so politely to her daughter that she even scolded her in the face. This made Ya very unhappy, and she felt that she really deserved to have a house.
The idea of having a house has been in Ya's heart for a few years, and Ya often talks to her mother about this wish when she is at her sister's place. When his father was alive, he also hoped that Ya would have a house near his mother's house, and he even said that if the house he lived in was demolished, he would sell it to Ya at a cheaper price. At that time, it was rumored that my father's house was also within the scope of demolition.
Jana often reads advertisements for the sale of houses in the newspaper, as well as the information about the sale of houses that are sometimes sent on his mobile phone. My sister said that Ya was whimsical, and she dared to buy a house without any money in her hand, and she knew that a house in the provincial capital was not cheap. Ya's relative's son bought a second-hand house in the provincial capital and it cost more than 600,000 yuan. No matter how her sister laughed at her, she also knew that she couldn't afford to buy a house, but the idea of having a house was getting stronger and stronger.
I don't have a house to live in my husband's house, and I often get angry when I live in half a mud house (separate one of them), and my father-in-law says that he built the house at every turn. When he started those earthen houses, his father-in-law was sixteen years old, and he knew how to build a house and marry a daughter-in-law at the age of sixteen? Then why don't you know to build a house for your son and marry a daughter-in-law? It should be that the old grandfather knows how to build a house for him, but he doesn't know how to build it for his son.
After Ya and her husband built the house, her parents-in-law still made trouble every day, and then she finally understood that they just didn't want them to live at home, which was equivalent to building a house for them. Ya still feels restrained every time she goes back, and she feels bitterly that she should still buy a house at her mother's house. Because the first thing I thought of when I was angry was to go back to my parents' home, which is the eternal root. Although my younger brother got married and started a family, as long as his parents are still there, the home is there, and if his parents are gone, he will really be a guest.
Since ancient times, the Chinese people have had the saying of "buying a house and settling down". What is home? Traditionally, "home" not only defines the scope of our lives, but also symbolizes wealth and social status.
People have different ideas about houses, some people are willing to become "house slaves", and some people would rather rent a house than buy a house, but the vast majority of Chinese are obsessed with buying a house.
Only with a house can you take root, and only with a house can you have a sense of security. Our need for a house is as natural and important as eating when we are hungry.
If you always want to buy a house but can't afford it, it will become an obsession after a long time in spirit.
After all, naked marriage is unpleasant, and you have to buy a house when you get married. There are also many people who get married without buying a house, but they also have to buy a house after getting married.
The reason is simple, no one wants their children to live without a house like themselves.
Those who choose to be "house slaves" will eventually have a house one day. And those who choose to "rent" are ultimately living in someone else's house.
There is a saying in China: "The golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as your own kennel", after all, having your own home is more secure and belonging, and the Chinese are probably the most enthusiastic people in the world to buy a house. Since ancient times, the Chinese have had a fanatical cult of land and family property, and the concept of "making money at the end and keeping it by the original" is a deep-rooted concept that still subtly affects people's lives. When cornered, the house can be the last straw we struggle with in our difficult situation.
A house is a symbol of a person's social status, a measure of whether a person's career is successful, and an after-dinner conversation between friends, colleagues, and neighbors. Those who own a house in the city center or in a first- or second-tier city will naturally look at him with envy from those who know him.
Although the house is for people to live in, it represents the vast majority of your net worth.
The house is a reserve against risks such as bankruptcy and critical illness.
Housing and education can never be separated, and from the perspective of the world, there is no house around a prestigious school that is not expensive.
The house can be seen and touched, although it is a pile of reinforced concrete, but it is a certificate, unchanged for 70 years, and the red book is very solid in hand.
Home is our eternal root, going to the ends of the earth, it is always in our hearts, and it is always our inseparable concern. Home is a warm harbor, mooring our wandering hearts, especially when the festival is coming, a strong sense of homesickness from the bottom of the heart, the mountains and rivers of the hometown are cordially calling us. Countless moonlit nights, home is reflected in my mind over and over again, home is the familiar soft bed, home is the soft lamp on the bedside table......
Since her father left, Ya's desire to have a house of her own has become stronger and stronger. She was afraid that one day her parents would be gone, and when she returned to her parents' house, it would not be home at that time, and she would not be able to find the feeling of home. Therefore, she wants to buy a house near her mother's house, so that even if her parents go, she will still have a feeling of being in her mother's house. The environment here is the environment she is familiar with, and the relatives here are people she is familiar with.
What is home? In a person's life, home seems to be the place where he lived and grew up when he was a child, so he has to return to his roots when he is old. Even when a person is old, he can't forget the place where he grew up when he was a child, where there are childhood dreams, joy, jumping and laughing, it is a distant and beautiful dream, where there are dear parents, brothers and sisters.
When I think of it, what kind of family affection and what kind of warmth it is, and how wonderful it is to have a warm current flowing all over my body. If the home is demolished, relocated, or changed places, in early childhood and adolescence, as long as you are with your parents, there will be a strong taste of home. With parents, you will always be a child in the eyes of your parents. You can also talk to your parents, all the nature of children who hide their hearts can also be released, and you can also reminisce about the taste of children being coquettish in front of their mothers, no matter how old their parents are, they will always feel that they are still young and young.
When my father was old, he still didn't accept the old, he always said that time was too fast, why did he get old all of a sudden? When my father was in his 40s, he said that he thought he was a young man, but it was only when he saw the Ya sisters grow taller and grow up that he felt old. It is not good to be old, especially in the last few years, because of years of illness, he faltered heavily, and sadness was written all over his face. He always said that he didn't want to live anymore because he was sick, and he was guilty of living alive, but his heart was still full of longing for life. Look at him, he raised a yard full of flowers, carefully fed a few birds, carefully raised cats and dogs, and the small courtyard was tidied up by him like a small garden, with a rich fragrance.