(a)

The years pass like water, and the years run in the form of days. The joys and sorrows of the past, the love and hatred of the past, the clouds of the past, and the flowers of the past have finally passed away with the days. The memory of the brain is also like a wave hitting a stone, washing away a lot of angular marks. If you put the days that have passed by on ink and paper, the faint memories may rise like clouds.

Finally finished reading this diary, Ya seemed to have traveled again, and it seemed to be back to the month before giving birth to her daughter. Although they are all records of trivial events, Ya still feels the mood and situation at that time. At that time, it seemed that she was still paying more attention to learning, especially English, I remember that at that time, I basically memorized every lesson of the new concept three, you know, she has not touched an English book for many years, and even the English she learned in middle school is almost forgotten. In English, since I was a student, it seems that every corner of my time has been spent memorizing words, but in the end, I still don't get anything. Shibei three days should be impressive, farewell to English, goodbye but never the same again, the words and phrases of the past have long been forgotten in Java. I also memorized a lot of poems, and memorizing poems is a kind of beautiful enjoyment, as if you are in that beautiful scene, is it an old trip to the past life, or a hope for the present life? Ya thinks that this child should have been prenatally educated and should be smart, because when she was in her mother's womb, she had already heard the sound of reading English and reciting poems every day.

Ya sighed that she still had such a strong mind on studying at that time, and she could still keep a diary every day until the day the child was born. Before this, Ya's diary was all casual, and if he felt it, he would remember it, and if he didn't, he would put it away, and sometimes he was full of feelings, but he neglected to record it, and he passed the auspicious light in vain, and let the sigh float like smoke.

Ya remembers that she also kept a diary during the month, which was a record of the daily life of that month. The result of this is that I feel that my eyes are affected a little later, and my hands are a little numb, I don't know if it is a psychological effect or is it really impossible to do things during the confinement?

It is said that foreign women do not go to confinement, which may have something to do with the geography of their country and their physique. It's okay for them not to be confined, but Chinese women are prone to fall into trouble if they don't have confinement. Maybe Chinese women's physique needs confinement, they need to be meticulous and exquisite, like not being able to read books in confinement, and reading too many books will tire their eyes; I can't do too much, and I am prone to arm pain and low back pain...... Taboos and conventions, from ancient times to the present, are as many as invisible ropes.

In the month or two after Ya gave birth to her daughter, she felt low back pain and leg pain, most likely because she always lifted up her clothes during the confinement period, bare her waist to feed her daughter, and finally ended up with back pain. Because her daughter always loves to cry, Yade hugged her and swayed around, and after a long time, she ended up with a leg pain, so that she couldn't walk in pain.

The previous diaries were remembered intermittently, and I never remembered them every day like the month before I gave birth to my daughter. This month's diary, although it lacks literary brilliance like a running account, is a record of her real life, which makes Yawan feel like returning to the time when she had a big belly. Now her daughter can already debate with her, and even argue with her, and sometimes she is so angry that she can't speak.

It seems that keeping a diary is still beneficial, at that time, sometimes I could write six or seven thousand words a day, and I wrote it effortlessly, but now I write three or four thousand words a day, Ya feels that there is still a certain degree of difficulty (those who are more than 10,000 words a day on the Internet are really worthy of being gods, like divine help). Because a certain number of words per day is considered a task, it is uncomfortable and a bit compulsory. At that time, the diary was completely a relaxed state of mind, completely a kind of voluntary and voluntary, so I didn't feel anything after a few thousand words a day, but I felt relaxed after writing it, as if I had unloaded an invisible burden on my mental and physical body. Ya chose a daily update on a writing platform, and the initial update was good, but after a long time, there was a pain in fetters. Just like wanting to drink tea and enjoy the flowers calmly, but suddenly encountered a change and suddenly stood up and hurriedly went.

There are many people at the entrance of the hospital, and there are many people in the hospital hall, but this path in the backyard of the hospital seems a little quiet. The cobblestone path is lined with low evergreen trees, and the sun shines through the foliage, casting dappled shadows. Ya took her husband's arm and walked back and forth, because she knew that her daughter was born smoothly and basically did not suffer any major pain, just because she moved around a lot at that time. Especially during the day when she gave birth to her daughter, she and her husband walked for almost a day, probably because of the full exercise, the daughter would be born so smoothly. Therefore, people say that in order to live a smooth life, there is some truth in this statement.

Ya just grabbed her husband's arm and kept walking. In the morning, she felt that the pain was not very strong, but after noon, the pain became more and more intense. Yala insisted on walking back and forth in the small bush with her husband, and when she was tired of walking, she returned to the bed in the ward and lay down for a while.

But the pain seems to climb up the spine from the bottom of the back, and it makes people unable to sleep. Ya simply got up and continued walking, and when she was tired of walking, she sat on the long stainless steel chair outside the door of the ward. She sat there with her husband, and she stood up one moment, squatted down one moment, squatted down and stood up again.

Ya saw in the book that this kind of labor pain before childbirth only took a minute, and it didn't hurt so much after this minute, but the pain came back immediately after this minute. Ya sweated on her forehead in pain, but the doctor said that she would have to wait, and she might not be able to give birth today.

In the afternoon, my aunt, sister and brother all came to see Ya again. Auntie talked about why she was so eager to get Ya out of the hospital in the morning. It turned out that a large wreath was placed in front of the hospital where Ya often went for pregnancy tests, it was about four o'clock in the morning, and there was no sound on the street. Then my aunt called her colleague and learned that the hospital had a fatal lawsuit, and a pregnant woman was bleeding heavily during childbirth, and both adults and children were not saved. Family members went to the hospital to make trouble, placed wreaths in front of the hospital, and put up banners, saying that the hospital was irresponsible for disregarding human life.

When the aunt saw the wreath, she felt very unlucky, and pulled Ya to leave quickly, not wanting Ya to see it. In addition, in the middle of the night that day, when people were asleep, Ya suddenly called with a crying voice, which made my aunt very frightened. Auntie is afraid that Yaruo has three long and two short, and she can't live with her mother. Mom is their dear eldest sister, and she has been very gentle and loving to them since they were very young. Because my mother is in business, and the business has been okay, my aunt and they often get help from my mother.

My mother said that every time she went back to her parents' house, she bought cookies and candies, and her aunt and uncle were waiting at the entrance of the village early. They usually can't eat these delicious snacks, the poor mother's family is surrounded by four walls, and the grandmother is supported by her grandmother alone, and the grandfather is bedridden all day when the aunt and uncle are very young. Although my mother is married to a city person, she is as poor as my grandmother's family, and my grandfather is also sick in bed all year round. My mother is more than 10 years older than my aunt, and in their eyes, she is no less than my grandmother's status.

Ya later blamed herself for not being able to hold her breath that day, the child was not about to be born, but there was a sign that she was going to give birth, and she lacked knowledge and experience in production, which made her aunt frightened that day. She remembered that once in her mother's shop, a regular customer said that her daughter was about to give birth, and she told her daughter not to panic when she was not in labor pain, but to wait until the labor pain was intensive, because her home was very close to the hospital. I just called in a panic when I saw the red bleeding, so that my aunt and my sister-in-law woke up in their sleep, came to pick her up in a panic, and saw a wreath at the entrance of the hospital, so that they could not sleep well and were frightened. When I gave birth to my daughter, I went to the hospital when the labor pains became more and more intense, but when I gave birth to my son, I went to the hospital without any labor pain.

When Ya felt that the labor pain was very intensive, she said to the doctor, "Doctor, I guess I'm about to give birth, because I can't stand the pain anymore." ”

The doctor asked Ya to lie on the delivery bed, and after checking it, he said, "I just opened two fingers, and it's far away, and I may not give birth today." Ya had to go back to the ward.

(b)

What is the fetus doing when the pregnant woman is suffering from labor pains?

As the saying goes, mother and child are connected, and the baby is also preparing for birth at this time: the fetus will pull its chin to the body, shrink its shoulders and roll its body, like a sprinter who is about to start. The fetus is very smart and will first test whether the mother's pelvis can pass by itself, and the babies are reluctant to hurt their favorite mother. At first, the fetus was side-facing, so they quickly realized that there was not enough position to pass, okay, then turn around gorgeously, oh oh ~ and it was officially on the plate. 

Your baby will continue to tighten his jaw and try to pull the back of his head out of his pubic bone. At this point, the midwife will tell you that you have seen the baby's head! Then, the baby's chin leaves the chest, slowly raising the head, the fetus can't wait to see the world, with the mother's force, the baby pushes the whole head out of the pelv, ready to leave the uterus. 

In order to make the fetus see its mother and this beautiful world faster, the fetus will rotate its body 90 degrees, turn its head to the side again, and put a small shoulder out first, gently and slowly, and then another small shoulder...... Finally, the midwife will help the baby to deliver the whole body, and in the final stage, you will feel the stomach empty, and then you will hear the baby's first cry "Wow~Wow~Wow~~~~"

Soon you will see the fetal head, which moves forward with each contraction, and when the contractions disappear, it may slide back a little. Don't be discouraged if this happens, it's perfectly normal. 

When the top of the baby's head is visible, your midwife will tell you not to push too hard, because if the baby's head is delivered too quickly, the skin of your vagina may tear, so relax and gasp for a few seconds. If there is a risk of severe tearing, or if the fetus is in danger, you will have an episiotomy. When the fetal head dilates the vaginal opening, you will have a tingling sensation, followed by numbness, which is caused by the blockage of nerve conduction when the vaginal tissue is very thin. 

The baby's neck is wrapped around the umbilical cord (which often wraps around the neck when the baby is delivered). Then, turn the baby's head to one side so that the head is in line with the shoulders. The midwife cleans the baby's eyes, nose and mouth, and if needed, sucks out fluids from the baby's airways. 

During the next two contractions, the baby's body slides out of the mother's body. Usually the midwife will put his or her hand under the baby's armpit and lift her out and place her on your abdomen, while the baby is still attached to the umbilical cord. If the baby is breathing normally, you can immediately hold it and hold it in your arms.

Ya endured the pain and slid her mobile phone, asking the questions she wanted to know from Du Niang.

There are already women in the ward who choose to have a caesarean section because they can't stand the pain, and it seems that there is only one woman who can endure the pain and give birth smoothly. For a moment, Ya was also a little shaken, and wanted to loosen up and say that she had a caesarean section, but she was finally unwilling. If you have a caesarean section, you will have to stay in the hospital for a week and not exercise vigorously for three months. Thinking of the caesarean section to have her belly cut in several layers, Ya shuddered in her heart: What a terrible thing this is, and it will leave a big scar! Let's endure the pain that comes from time to time. But this pain really made her a little unbearable, and she even wanted to jump in pain.

When she stood up and squatted down, and when she squatted down and stood up, the doctor came up and asked, "What are you doing here?" ”

Ya said, "I read the book that it says that this way you can give birth faster. ”

The doctor said solemnly, "Who did you listen to?" This is unfounded, it is easy to cause uterine rupture, you don't squat anymore, squatting down with such a big belly will increase the pressure on the uterus, and it will be dangerous. Hearing the doctor say this, Ya didn't dare to squat anymore, she asked her husband to buy a bag of chocolate, it is said that when giving birth to a child, you need energy, and chocolate can increase energy.

At about 10 o'clock in the evening, Ya was really in pain, and the doctor saw that she was very uncomfortable, so he said, "Come here, check it again, it may not be born today, it is less than 5 fingers."

The doctor checked it again and said, "It's 5 fingers." Ya knew that the five fingers of the palace mouth meant that she was about to give birth. The doctor broke the fetal membranes of the amnio, and a stream of heat flowed out "with a bang".

"The head is out......" Ya heard the doctor say.

"It's coming out! It's coming out! Hard, hard! The doctor said. The child must be straining too, Ya held her breath and exerted herself.

"Wow---" a loud baby cried.

"It's a son." Hearing the doctor say this, Ya was still a little unconvinced, although she had already done B ultrasound and knew that the doctor said that it was her son, but in the end, she was still not convinced.

"What? You have an opinion about me, little one, you see the calf kicking my arm incessantly. "One doctor told another that the doctor was cutting his son's umbilical cord.

"Is it really a son?" Ya asked incredulously.

"Here, see for yourself." The doctor took his son to Ya. It's the son! Ya smiled, her eyes moistened. "Thank you, Heavenly Father!" Ya's heart was constantly grateful for Heavenly Father's providence.

The husband with a spring breeze on his face was so excited that his face was red, and he went out with the child in his arms. Ya continued to lie on the delivery bed for infusions. She was so tired that after giving birth, she felt like all her strength was exhausted. The sweat made her a little uncomfortable, and her messy hair was on her forehead.

After the infusion, her husband helped her to the bed in the ward. The son slept very sweetly and seemed to fall into a warm dream. He was also tired, and he had exhausted all his strength to go out to see the wonderful world and his parents in the world. Ya lay tired in bed and soon fell asleep. She had tried to sleep on this bed many times, but the pain after pain made it impossible for her to sleep well. Now, she can finally sleep peacefully.

My husband was also very tired, he came back from Guangzhou overnight, and his wife's unbearable appearance of giving birth to a child also made him worry and fear, and he even said to Ya several times: "Look at your belly is so big, so uncomfortable, don't suffer that sin, cesarean section." Keya shook her head and said firmly: "I want to be born smoothly, I want to insist on being born smoothly!" ”

"Wow--wow--" Ya's cry woke Ya up, and she pushed her foot to hold her son's sleeping husband. The husband changed his son's diaper, washed brown sugar water and fed him with a small spoon.

"You two have such big hearts! They all sleep so dead! The child probably won't know if it's taken away. The aunt in the next bed said with a smile. She was the mother-in-law of the woman who gave birth on that bed, and she said that her daughter-in-law also wanted to give birth naturally, but in the end she couldn't bear the pain and chose to have a caesarean section. The mother on the hospital bed on Ya's right was also born smoothly, and her mother-in-law said that her daughter-in-law was very strong and insisted on giving birth smoothly. The daughter-in-law, who had been biting on cardboard with her teeth in pain, said they would be discharged from the hospital tomorrow morning. C-section delivery can not be discharged from the hospital so soon, natural delivery can, endure the pain of childbirth, and continue to suffer from pain.

Ya thinks that caesarean section is not as good as natural birth, of course, this is a matter of opinion, and there are many people who think that caesarean section is better than natural birth.

It is a lifelong event for a woman to give birth, and whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section is a matter worth considering. In terms of habitual thinking, many people think that natural birth is better than caesarean section, because the fetus is healthier when it passes through the birth canal. However, with the continuous development of medical technology, nearly 60% of women will choose caesarean section. Especially under the inspiration of the two-child policy, most women will also choose to have a caesarean section when they give birth to a second child. Especially for advanced maternal age, it is safer to choose a caesarean section. 

For women who are unable to give birth normally for some reason, choosing a caesarean section can save both the fetus and the mother. The main thing is that a caesarean section can save a woman from the pain of childbirth. If there are other conditions in the abdominal cavity, they can also be surgically resolved during the caesarean section. Especially for women who want to be others, there is no need to take another scalpel. This is actually the secret that a caesarean section is better than a normal birth, and you can go to the ground for free movement for a week after the caesarean section. 

Caesarean section is better than vaginal delivery and can also reduce pregnancy complications. There are many women who are prone to many pregnancy complications and pregnancy complications during pregnancy. At this time, the pregnancy must be terminated in time, but if the caesarean section is taken in time, the impact of complications and complications on the mother and baby can be effectively reduced to a large extent. Here we also need to remind the majority of female friends that whether it is a caesarean section or a natural birth, the abdominal belt should be worn in time. It is not only conducive to the rapid recovery of the body, but also has a very important protective significance for the organs in the abdominal cavity. 

Which is more painful, vaginal birth or caesarean section? When it comes to having a baby, everyone's first reaction is pain. Therefore, in terms of the mode of delivery, many expectant mothers will first take pain or not as the criterion for selection. So which is the pain of vaginal birth or caesarean section? 

There are three main pain points of normal delivery: pain in lower injury, pain in urination and defecation, and pain in postpartum uterine contractions. The pain of lower injury brings about 10 degrees of pain to women, and the pain of tearing is not something that we can experience in our daily life. Sometimes an incision is needed to assist in childbirth, and postpartum urination is also a big test for mothers. Almost all mothers will have contractions after childbirth, which is the main cause of postpartum pain, and contractions are intermittent, sometimes massage and hot compresses are needed to relieve part of the pain, and the most terrible thing is that contractions are ineffective with painkillers. 

The pain points of caesarean section are mainly intubation pain, wound pain, and uterine contraction pain. C-section, like vaginal birth, does not avoid the pain of contractions after delivery. In addition to painful contractions, caesarean section requires intubation, which is not only painful, but also inconvenient to go to the toilet with bed rest. The most painful part of a caesarean section is probably the pain of the wound, not only a cut on the surface of the belly, but also a wound on the uterus. After the anesthetic has passed, the pain of the wound is very unbearable, and in severe cases, it is even necessary to rely on painkillers. 

For caesarean section, fully understanding the advantages and disadvantages of caesarean section is also helpful for mothers to better judge whether to have a caesarean section. 

Caesarean section can avoid the accidents that may occur during a normal birth and can avoid the severe labor pain that occurs before delivery. The biggest advantage is that if the mother has other diseases in the abdominal cavity, it can be removed along with the caesarean section, avoiding a second operation and the lower part will not be damaged. 

Caesarean section is a major clinical operation, and the risk of accidental maternal death is higher than that of natural birth, and the average blood loss is much higher than that of natural delivery. Caesarean section can easily cause wound infection, amniotic fluid embolism during surgery, unforeseen accidents during surgery, and removal of uterine damage. And the mother's recovery after surgery is relatively slow, which will leave scars, and for mothers who want to have a second child, giving birth again is a big test. Moreover, fetuses born by caesarean section are more difficult to adapt to the external environment and have poor physiological function than natural birth. 

Most women prefer natural delivery when giving birth, so let's find out whether natural delivery is good. 

During normal delivery, the uterus relaxes and contracts regularly, and the fetus's breathing can also be carried out regularly, so that the baby can quickly adapt to the external environment when it is born. The birth of the baby through the mother's birth canal can reduce the number of complications in the newborn. During childbirth, the lower part of the mother is greatly expanded, which is conducive to the discharge of lochia in the body, and it is also conducive to the recovery of the uterus. There is also some data that suggests that children born naturally are smarter than those who are born by caesarean section. 

Prenatal labor pain is a great fear for every mother, and postpartum can easily lead to the sequelae of lower relaxation and uterine or bladder prolapse. Vaginal delivery can affect the perineum, resulting in perineal tearing or infection, and amniotic fluid tethering will occur without warning, and in severe cases, the uterus will need to be removed, and even life-threatening. For the fetus, a natural birth will exhaust the mother's full strength, which can easily lead to an enlarged fetal head. If the fetus is too heavy or too large, it is easy to cause dystocia and even an accident in the womb.

(b)

The next morning, the sisters and aunts came to see Ya again, and they all gave Ya a thumbs up, praising Ya for being brave and able to endure the suffering of Shunsheng. Ya is so happy in her heart, especially when she sees her son, her heart is even more happy. The son's eyes are not as big as when the daughter was born, and the eyes are a little slender, and he always sleeps with his eyes closed. Why do all children seem to be the same when they are younger? If you put all the newborn babies together, I guess even the doctor will confuse it. In the morning, the doctor gave the child a vaccination, and then asked the mother's family to take the child to the bath.

Because it was Shunsheng, Ya decided to go back in the afternoon, and they stopped a taxi in front of the hospital. The driver looked at Ya, who was wearing a hat and holding a baby in his arms, and said, "You should be discharged from the hospital today, according to the old rules, this is to receive red envelopes." When I arrived at the door, my husband gave the driver a red envelope of 20 yuan.

Ya didn't have many diapers for her son, because her sister said that her son used diapers and diapers almost always when he was a child. Diapers also have to be scrubbed, which is quite energy-consuming and time-consuming. Ya knew that when she gave birth to her daughter, she was very tired because she used diapers, which had to be washed, dried and baked. Ya asked her husband to buy a few large bags of diapers, which saved a lot of trouble.

My husband cooks five or six meals a day for Ya, including noodles, fish soup, chicken soup, and he also makes rice wine, but Ya still likes to drink brown sugar egg gnocchi the most. The smooth and moist sweet feeling that passes through the voice is very comfortable, and Ya never seems to have eaten enough.

A week after her son's birth, Ya noticed that her son's umbilical cord was loose, and there was a yellowish ulcer inside. Since she was discharged from the hospital, she has been smearing her son's umbilical cord with a small cotton swab dipped in alcohol every day as instructed by the doctor. But why is this happening?

One night, Ya dipped a cotton swab in alcohol to coat her son's navel, and with a little more force, a black thing fell off her navel, revealing a wet yellow part. Ya was scared, she suspected that her son's belly button was not growing well, and she even wondered if the doctor had cut his umbilical cord short when cutting his son's umbilical cord. She panicked and told her husband about her son's situation, and her husband was also a little worried. He said he took his son to the hospital alone because Ya was still in confinement. Ya was not at ease and said that she would go too. When my daughter was a child, she didn't seem to have a belly button problem, but it was winter, and she didn't wipe her daughter's belly button, Ya doesn't remember.

When I arrived at the hospital, the doctor said that my son's umbilical cord was about to grow, and the newborn would have to go through the stage of the umbilical cord end falling off. Ya and her husband were originally in a heavy mood, but now they are in a clear mood when they hear the doctor say that they are fine. Sitting in the taxi home, my husband and the master talked, and he said that his son had been born for a week, and he would come to show his son his navel tonight. Ya sighed softly when she heard her husband say this. Sure enough, when the car was about to drive home, my husband asked the master how much the fare was, and the master said: "Your child is not yet a full moon, and he wants to give red envelopes. "My husband gave the taxi driver the fare and red envelopes.

When she returned, she buried her son's fallen umbilical cord under the flowers. The flowers seemed to grow more and more vigorously, and it seemed that a small spirit lived in it.

Time flies so fast, and in the blink of an eye, my husband's ten-day vacation is coming to an end. The day before my husband left, I invited my relatives to the restaurant for a meal. He only took 10 days off, and the reason for the leave was that his wife was going to have appendicitis surgery, and he needed to go back to serve for 10 days, and he did not tell his colleagues that he wanted to have a baby.

My husband's job is temporarily replaced by someone else after taking a leave of absence, and it will definitely not work after a long time. His job pay is okay.

Ten days later, my husband went back to work on time.

Ya heard that she couldn't get cold water in the confinement and was afraid of getting cold, so she bought a pair of rubber gloves before giving birth to her son and wore rubber gloves to wash diapers. And there are also several large packs of diapers, which are used when diapers are not enough. The main thing is that the son is very well-behaved, always sleeps when he is full, and rarely cries when he is awake. As long as Ya talks to him, teases him and hugs him, he won't cry. It's not like when my daughter was a child, she loved to cry no matter how she coaxed her.

Ya's breast milk is not very sufficient, so she feeds her son alternately with breast milk and milk powder, and his son is also getting white and fat day by day.

When she was alone with her son, Ya was not at all as nervous as her daughter was when she was a child, and she now often uses diapers for her son so that he doesn't have to wash diapers every day. The son was pitifully well-behaved, and the brother and daughter-in-law also said that they couldn't hear their son cry all day long.

Ya told her husband that her son was very well-behaved, so well-behaved that sometimes she wanted to cry. When my husband heard this, he said worriedly, "This kid can't be a little stupid, right?" Don't all children love to cry? Why doesn't he cry all day? ”

Ya is also thinking about the reason why her son doesn't like to cry. When she was pregnant with her son, she helped her sister, and her mother often bought her bananas to eat, knowing that she had constipation, and often bought her milk to drink, so Ya was not short of nutrition. It is said that bananas can make people feel happy, and the pleasant emotions of pregnant women can also affect the child, which is why the child is so well-behaved.

It is said that when you are pregnant, if you eat more walnuts, your child will have a smart mind and thick hair, and if you eat more bananas, your child will not cry. When I was pregnant with my daughter, I rarely ate fruits, and I didn't seem to care about what I ate, and I wasn't in a good mood, and sometimes I would cry sadly when I remembered unhappy things. I was burdened with pregnancy by myself, and my husband was not by my side to comfort and care, so most of the mood was not good at that time, which may have indirectly affected my daughter. My daughter is still very crying and has a stubborn temper. Ya regretted why she didn't eat more bananas at that time. When you are pregnant, you should eat a variety of food, which has a great impact on the development of the fetus and the stability of emotions.

Ya even thinks like this: Some people are mentally deranged when they are stimulated at a young age, is this also related to the lack of nutrition in their mother's womb? If you eat foods that can make pregnant women feel good, such as bananas, can you reduce postpartum depression? And the children born are more optimistic? This should be a science about pregnancy nutrition.

Time flies quickly, and it's summer vacation in a flash, and my mother is back. My mother liked this child very much, and she said that it was given to her by her heavenly father. The day after her mother returned, Ya went to church with her to pray and threw 200 yuan into the donation box to express her gratitude to Heavenly Father for giving her son. The church needs to be expanded, it needs to be kept in normal operation, and with the strong support of the government, the church is now splendid, but the support of donations from the private sector is also essential.