102 The most painstaking effort is to hone one

A year later, Xu Xinping got his wish and was admitted to the graduate school of the Department of Philosophy of Peking University.

Shen Jia's admission letter has not arrived. Shen Jia's homeroom teacher, Liang Man, was anxiously waiting for the admission letter than Shen Jia.

Liang Man knew that after breaking up with Xu Xinping, Shen Jia devoted all his mind to studying, and Liang Man felt that Shen Jia must be gambling in his heart.

Liang Man, who has cared for Shen Jia since he entered college, appreciates Shen Jia's talent and character very much, and has a great sense of being educated by talents in the world.

And now, Shen Jia, who can be said to be the first school flower of Qingdao Normal University, was actually dumped by Xu Xinping, who was in love with him. How can there be a reason for Xu Xian to get rid of the white lady in this world?

After Liang Man learned the news, she found Shen Jia as soon as possible, she wanted to say to Shen Jia, you are the best, Xu Xinping is something, he is not worthy of you at all!

But seeing that Shen Jia was nothing to do, immersed in his studies, Liang Man didn't say anything more. Just encourage Shen Jia to study hard, if you need anything, just tell her.

Then, Liang Man found Xu Xinping's homeroom teacher and her current boyfriend Jing Tao, treated Jing Tao as Xu Xinping, and taught her a hard lesson:

"I said Jingtao, how do you teach this student? Dare to dump our white lady. Isn't he afraid to dream of letting Xiaoqing eat it? Aren't you a ghost of the old Fahai? ”

Jing Tao had already listened to the ins and outs between him and Shen Jia in Xu Xinping's mouth. In a sense, Xu Xinping is also a victim.

"Teacher Liang, maybe things aren't as you think?"

"What else could there be? Tell me, now that Xu Xinping has gotten along with your teacher's daughter, and has dumped Shen Jia, what else can he do? ”

Faced with Liang Man's questioning, Jing Tao had no choice but to tell Liang Man what Xu Xinping told him.

"What's the difference, isn't it that Xu Xinping couldn't hold it for a while?"

Liang Man has a good idea of Shen Jia's learning level, and she thinks that Shen Jia has no problem at all when she is admitted to Peking University's graduate school.

Shen Jia's admission letter finally arrived, Liang Man was happier than Shen Jia, and she found Shen Jia to congratulate Shen Jia as soon as possible. Unexpectedly, Shen Jia did not show the corresponding enthusiasm.

"Thank you, Mr. Liang. I don't want to go to graduate school anymore. Isn't there a teaching aid place in our school? I want to go to the Great Northwest to help teach. ”

Liang Man almost didn't believe his ears, "What? Shen Jia, is it because of Xu Xinping? That's not worth it. Do you know how rare it is to go to the School of Physics of Peking University for graduate school? That's the equivalent of stepping your foot into the forefront of the field of physics. There, you will meet many big names in the professional field, and you will be better able to achieve your dreams. ”

"I know that, but I feel like I need calcium supplements on the other hand. That's social practice. I think it's more important to enrich yourself in social practice. ”

"Shen Jia, that's not good! I don't agree with you losing the opportunity to go to graduate school! If you give up graduate school and volunteer teaching, then I didn't teach you in vain? Your mom and dad won't agree to it either. ”

"Teacher Liang, you have a point, but I have already made up my mind. My mom and dad are there, I'll tell them. ”

"Shen Jia, you want to be angry with me! I thought you were quietly unaffected by the breakup with Xu Xinping, it turns out that you have long been discouraged, you are punishing yourself! Shen Jia, if you don't honestly give me a graduate school, I won't recognize you as a student. ”

"Mr. Liang, I really didn't break up with him. In my heart, he has already turned over. I really want to go to the northwest to see the world. Trained in the poorest part of the country. ”

"Shen Jia, you said that you would come to the next day, and I wouldn't let you go. Because what you say is nothing but the imagination of your little children. In real life, it will hit you to pieces. Shen Jia, don't say it, without my consent, the quota for teaching will not fall on your head. ”

Just when Liang Man and Shen Jia were arguing, Jing Tao brought them a piece of news that they could refer to: graduate students at Peking University also have a place to teach.

This made Liang Man and Shen Jia quickly reach an agreement: first report to Peking University, then choose to teach, and then return to Peking University for graduate study a year later.

In this case, Liang Man was still angry about Shen Jia's choice and couldn't understand it. She naturally found Jing Tao.

"Teacher Jing, Master Jing, explain to me, why does Shen Jia have such stubborn thoughts? She said that it was not affected by the breakup with Xu Xinping, and I didn't believe it. But if you want to say how much impact the breakup with Xu Xinping had on Shen Jia, I can't see it. Old Master Jing, tell the palace quickly, say it's okay, the palace has a lot of rewards. ”

In the past few years, Xu Xinping and Shen Jia have been in the process of reconciliation, the relationship between Jing Tao and Liang Man has been developing steadily and steadily, and today, the wedding date of the two is approaching. But the identities and cultivation of the two Kochi make the two still polite and treat each other like guests. It's just that when talking to each other, a sense of possession of each other is added more casually.

"Teacher Liang, haven't you explained this to yourself? I have to explain it again. Well, Venerable Palace Master's order, I'll talk about it from another angle. In this world, no one is completely independent, and no one is completely self-centered. In other words, everyone will inevitably be affected by the people and things related to themselves, from this point of view, it is impossible for Shen Jia and Xu Xinping to break up without affecting Shen Jia, but what kind of impact has it had so far, it has to talk about the second meaning. That is, whether Shen Jia's self-consciousness has been affected.

Judging from Shen Jia's emotional stability afterwards, Shen Jia's self-consciousness can be said to have not been affected at all, this is what Shen Jia herself said, and any decision she makes now is not because it was affected. However, if there had been no breakup, would Shen Jia have made such a choice? The answer is that she certainly wouldn't make the same choice.

This can only be said that Shen Jia has deepened her understanding of herself through this incident and thought of what she wants most now, so she made the choice to teach.

I don't think that's a good choice. Shen Jia will definitely benefit from this. Of course, it is not the benefit of fame and fortune as the world thinks. ”

After listening to Jing Tao's explanation, Liang Man seemed to have realized something from it.

Shen Jia, who reached an agreement with Liang Man, returned to her home in Qingcheng one weekend and told her parents about her plans.

As Shen Jia expected, before Shen Jia could finish speaking, her mother said sadly and angrily: "I blame that Xu Xinping, why did he make such a thing." Jiajia, we can't do anything for this, right? I don't care about my future, and I don't care about my parents' worries. Do you know how miserable those impoverished mountainous areas are? You can't get used to going to the toilet. ”

"Mom, don't worry about me, I went to teach because I felt that I needed to train, I needed to endure hardships, and I also needed to learn to contribute. I always feel that by making up for this lesson, my heart will be more fulfilling, and I will be able to fly higher and farther in the future. ”

Shen Cheng, who hadn't spoken for a long time, agreed very much after listening to his daughter's words. He had to admit frankly that his daughter was stronger than himself, and he would not have such thoughts or actions at his daughter's age.

"Jiajia, Dad supports you. A little more experience, especially in a difficult place, is really not a bad thing for you young people, but a good thing. The previous generation had to endure hardship, but those who had suffered did not benefit from suffering. Didn't Mencius say a long time ago that the heavens will descend on the people, and they must first work their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, and suffer their minds,..... and they can not benefit them. The ability of people to grow in adversity and hardship can never be obtained in smooth sails. ”

"You, you..."Yu Mei pointed to her husband's nose, "Shen Cheng, Jiajia is your own daughter, you don't give me a set of big truths." Anyway, I can't stand my daughter going to such a remote place to suffer. Jiajia, if you have to go, Mom will go with you. ”

The family of three was arguing about Shen Jia's teaching, and there was a knock at the door.

Yu Mei opened the door and saw that it was Yin Rou.

Yu Mei's face suddenly became gloomy.

Yin Rou, who had been mentally prepared, knew that she was the most unpopular person now, and appeared in the most undesirable place and when she should not have appeared.

Yin Rou had long thought of this place where she was least welcomed. Yin Rou is a female man who will never pretend to be a grandson. The more sorry the person is, the more she wants to let the family vent her emotions on herself in person. She never shied away from the punishment and responsibility she should bear. No matter how uncomfortable it may be for her.

When she heard that Shen Jia planned to go to the Great Northwest to teach, she immediately couldn't sit still. Yin Rou didn't even think about it, and rushed to Shen's house.

Yu Mei's face did not play a role in striking Yin Rou, who was invincible to all poisons, but made Yin Rou worry about her close relatives.

"Meizi, I don't feel good in my heart, don't do this to me. If you pull your face down when you see me like this, it will not only affect your mood, but it will also be prone to wrinkles. ”

After speaking, Yin Rou walked directly to Shen Jia, looked at Shen Jia deeply, and the two hugged each other.

Shen Jia and Yin Rou are very similar in personality. Both of them are both soft and soft, and they are both goddesses who are loved by everyone. In their lives, there has never been a shortage of men's favor, and they have always stood in the center of ten thousand people to enjoy the glory. This makes their ability to control emotions far beyond ordinary people.

Therefore, Yin Rou did not persuade Shen Jia not to teach and not to suffer hardships. She just felt that at such a moment, she should give Shen Jia a strong warm understanding of the shoulder.

"Jiajia, Auntie will definitely go to see you and will definitely accompany you on this unusual road."

"Auntie, you should take care of your little Jiajia at home. Don't forget to send me more videos of Little Jiajia. ”

"Jiajia, I will definitely take your little sister to see you. Let your little sister go and listen to her big sister too. ”