Seventy-eighth: The memories of the past are heartbreaking
Yu Mei's ordinary words accurately stabbed Xu Xinping's heart. Let Xu Xinping not open his mouth and immediately respond as a matter of course.
So as the saying goes, don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door. It's not that some ghost will knock on your door, but because you feel that you have done something wrong, and your heart that you feel that you have lost will not know under what circumstances it will be stimulated, so that many words and things that are not intended to be directed at you will make you feel as if they are aimed at you.
Such an invisible existence is what people often call ghosts.
Many kind-hearted people have no ghosts in their hearts, because they never do anything unkind. However, many great evildoers have no ghosts in their hearts, because they have no conscience at all, and they don't feel any loss. Their hearts are never lost, just hard, just ruthless, just inhumane.
However, the vast majority of people are between great good and great evil, and this is the space where ghosts exist.
When Xu Xinping didn't know how to answer Yu Mei's words, Yin Rou thought that Yu Mei's words "In the future, you will be good to us wholeheartedly" hinted at what happened to the two children last night, which made Xu Xinping embarrassed, so she was afraid that she would fall into an embarrassing atmosphere again, so she hurriedly came over and took over the words:
"Before, we were mediocre and didn't treat Jiajia badly? I can only say that in the future, we will be better for Jiajia. Yin Rou originally had the intention to relieve the embarrassment, but unintentionally drew snakes to add to the scene, making the scene even more embarrassing.
This, in turn, should be made up by Yu Mei to Yin Rou, "Yin Rou, what are you talking about?" What was before and after, as if something happened last night, which makes the children embarrassed! ”
Yes, I wanted to cover up my shame, so that the more Yin Rou and Yu Mei talked, the more they wanted to cover up, and the more they said, the more they didn't have three hundred taels of silver here.
Shen Jia's delicate girl's heart was extremely sensitive to the shame of the two mothers, but she still shouted to Mei in protest: "Mom...."
Yu Mei followed and walked in.
Seeing her mother coming, Shen Jia threw herself into her mother's arms like a little girl who had been wronged so much.
Yu Mei carefully asked her daughter a few key questions, and began to comfort her with coaxing.
"Mom, why don't you scold me like this? I always feel that it is only in my heart that you can scold you. Shen Jia lay in Yu Mei's arms and asked quietly.
In the TV series and movies that Shen Jia has watched, if her daughter does such a thing before marriage, she will generally first face the strictest and dirtiest scolding from her mother, and then she will be spurned by the neighbors, and then she will face the punishment and punishment of the school and the unit, and finally she will be ruthlessly abandoned by the negative person.
If there is a sequel, it is that I am unfortunately or luckily pregnant, with a big belly and white eyes, I can't eat enough, and I can't wear clothes. At this time, there will be an uncle who usually wants to take advantage of himself the most, and for an extremely evil purpose, he offers to help her. Out of the greatest maternal love in the world, I had to commit myself to him.
Of course, the times are different, and when the same thing happens, the situation is different.
Shen Jia is far from facing the kind of situation that TV dramas and movies leave in her impression. Not only that, but her mother Yu Mei's understanding and tolerance of her, and even her support, allowed Shen Jia to face this major event in her life with a very calm attitude.
Yu Mei lovingly kissed her daughter in love, just like her daughter when she was a child, and gently coaxed her, "If you don't do it right, you should be criticized, Mom doesn't think you did anything wrong." ”
"Mom, you're so nice." Shen Jia arched her head into her mother's arms again, as if she suddenly remembered something.
"By the way, Mom, did Grandma and Grandpa have conflicts with you because of some things when you were young?" Shen Jia remembered that when she was very young, she went to her grandmother's house, and her aunt told her that her mother didn't seem to be very good, and her aunt said to her aunt.
"Hey, Jiajia, how do you know? Did Grandma tell you anything? Yu Mei was surprised to hear her daughter suddenly ask about her youth.
"Grandma didn't tell me anything. It's just that once when I went to my grandmother's house, my cousin showed me his academic performance in their school, and I thought it was much worse than mine, so I asked him to look at my report card. I didn't expect my cousin's self-esteem to be so strong, his face was black at that time, and he didn't eat well. At that time, my aunt was not a primary school teacher, so I comforted my cousin and said, Qiangzi, what's the use of just looking at the scores and rankings on the report card, the questions in each school are not the same, if you really do the same questions, Jiajia may not be as good as you. ”
"This Caifen, that's it! If you can't protect your calves, everything has to be the best for their strong son. Hmph, how's that now? And then what about Jiajia? Yu Mei was obviously very concerned about the attitude of her family towards her at that time.
"Later, my aunt asked my cousin and me to do a few math problems, and as a result, I got all the math problems right, and my cousin did two wrong ones."
"And what else can your aunt say? Did I praise you? ”
"Praise me? At the time, I thought that my aunt would praise me a few words, but she said something else. What's the use of just studying, the most important thing is to have good quality, especially girls. If a girl has a bad quality, the better she studies and grows up, the more she will do embarrassing things. Jiajia, don't be like your mother when you grow up. But I think it's hanging, can I teach you well like your mother? Shen Jia clearly recalled the scene at that time.
When Yu Mei heard this, she trembled with anger.
Shen Jia hurriedly stood up and rubbed Yu Mei's chest with her hands, "Mom, Mom, why are you angry with the past?" You know you're going to be angry, so I won't tell you. ”
After a while, Yu Mei relieved herself, "It's okay, Jiajia, didn't your grandma say anything?" ”
"My aunt said bad things about you in front of me, and I didn't do it at that time. ran to the back room at a trot, grabbed her grandmother's hand and sued her. Who knew that grandma didn't say anything to reprimand her daughter-in-law for talking nonsense, but she beat me up again. ”
"What did your grandma say about you?" Yu Mei asked anxiously.
Although I know that my mother's story has obviously entered those past times, it will definitely make my mother unbearable if I don't continue to talk about it. Shen Jia had no choice but to continue:
"Grandma said, I'm embarrassed to say that other people's daughters, my own daughters are not well educated."
When Yu Mei heard this, Ming Ming cried bitterly.
"Mom, you know everything and everything, why are you still abusing your daughter like that?" Yu Mei whimpered and muttered to herself.
Shen Jia panicked suddenly, "Mom, Mom, don't cry, don't cry." It would be nice to say something. I don't believe what others say about you, even if it's grandma. My mom is the best mom in the world. Otherwise, how could she give birth to a fairy daughter like Jiajia? ”
Hearing her daughter's heartwarming words, Yu Mei stopped crying and hugged Shen Jia into her arms again.
"It's better to be a daughter! Mom was crying just now, but there is nothing to cry about, why do I have to care about what they say. But now that you've grown up and have a boyfriend, let's talk here again today, and my mother will tell you in detail about the things that my grandmother used to talk about me all day long. Save your mother from leaving an unclear shadow in your heart. ”
"Okay, Mom, you can say it."
"Jiajia, when your mother was so old, ah no, when she was a few years younger than you, she was also the most eye-catching school flower of the Arsenal Children's Technical School. At that time, the arsenal in the ravine was relatively closed, and the parents' vision was not so far, and most of them chose to let their children go to a technical school and work in the factory after graduation. Your grandmother and grandfather are the same, your mother graduated from junior high school and went to a technical school.
When I was in a technical school, because my mother was outstanding, there was a family with boys in this family, and I asked someone to find a friend to propose to your grandma and grandfather. There are also many male classmates who stare at their mothers all day long, and they have nothing to say to their mothers.
At that time, our girls' hearts were still much more conservative than you are now. Mom basically didn't think much about it, and she didn't choose the boys who pursued me directly now, who are actually very good. I just want to graduate as soon as possible, and after graduation, I will go to work to earn money. So, despite being stared at by those boys all the time, life is quite peaceful.
But it didn't take long for your grandmother and grandfather to find me and solemnly tell me that the son of the factory director had taken a fancy to me and wanted to deal with me.
The factory director's surname is Guo, and their son is two years older than me, and he has already gone to work.
At that time, driving in the factory, especially driving a car, was the best job in the factory. That Guo Zi is a talented person, and he is the son of the factory director. Therefore, it has become the most ideal candidate for the girls in the neighborhood.
So when Guo Zituo came to propose marriage to your grandma and grandfather, your grandma and grandfather couldn't be happier, they had already agreed to someone on the spot before discussing it with me. Tell me and let me know.
Fortunately, I also met Guo Zi, although I was not familiar with it, but at that time I thought it was okay, so I agreed without saying anything.
At that time, there was no entertainment in the ravine, let alone mobile phones, Internet access, and nothing now. Therefore, once the relationship between men and women is clear, the mutual interaction between two people together becomes our greatest pleasure after work.
However, in order to deal with the problems of life style that may occur during the treatment of young men and women, the older generation of soldiers and workers, while enjoying the pleasure of their own children, also regarded the supervision of them as an unshirkable task after dinner.
At that time, if something like that happened to someone's daughter, the whole family couldn't raise their heads.
Therefore, although Guo Zi likes what I like, he can only come to his grandfather's house and meet me to get along. Even if we were in the same room, the door had to be ajar. Grandma also pretended to pour water for Guo Zi from time to time to interrupt our words and deeds that seemed to her to be a little intimate.
Anyway, since Guo Zi and I have made our relationship clear, Guo Zi has been sticking to me all day long, often driving home with this and that, and coaxing your grandma and grandfather to smile when they see Guo Zi. In addition, he climbed to the factory director to be his in-laws, and our family suddenly became the most popular person in the factory.