You go fast or slowly

Time is constantly passing away

You're always reminiscing about the past

Hold the past too tightly

How to free up your hands to embrace the future

So, I buried it deep in my heart

Embarked on this journey with no turning back

After reading it, Shen Yue was shocked, although she couldn't say how beautiful this modern poem was, but she read the feeling of life from it.

"Mei Yan, your poem is so well written! I love it. Shen Yue said.

"Thank you."

"Such a good poem, can I help you publish it on the Internet?"

"Online?" Ruan Meiyan was surprised.

Shen Yue asked, "Have you published something on the Internet before?"

"I ...... Wrote a novel. ”

"Wow! It turned out to be a little writer! That's right, use your pen name to post it, so maybe you can have more followers. I think this poem should be seen by more people. ”

"I won't."

"What's your pen name? I'll help you. ”

"Nojiu."

"Nojiu?"

"Hmm."

Shen Yue registered after logging in on the website, then typed the poem, and then clicked upload.

"Flattering. Go online and search for the name of your poem. See if there's any. ”

"Oh,"

Ruan Meiyan turned on her mobile phone and searched for "A Journey Without a Way Back", and soon came out Author: Nuo Jiu.

"Wow! There really is! ”

Shen Yue looked proud, "Haha, don't thank me too much." ”

Ruan Meiyan sat back in her chair, "Cut, who thanked you." ”

Shen Yue looked at her, "Mei Yan, I always feel that you are a person with a story." ”

"Why do you say that?" Ruan Meiyan asked.

"Because sometimes we play together. But you give me the feeling of maturity in my bones. ”

"Haha. Are you complimenting me? Ruan Meiyan smiled, it was the first time she had heard someone say that about her.

"Really."

"I ...... It's okay. ”

Shen Yue moved a stool and sat over, "Mei Yan, do you know?" My hometown is rural, I came here to go to school alone, just to be able to have a good diploma and find a good job in the future, and I also have a younger brother, so I can't buy whatever I want, I can't travel, I can't go to my idol's concerts, I can't buy expensive cosmetics, I can't do a lot of things, and I have to work hard to get a certificate, I'm really stressed. I actually have a boy I like, but ...... I have low self-esteem, I don't dare to confess to him, he definitely won't like a girl like me. ”

Ruan Meiyan touched her shoulder, "Maybe he happens to like you too?" ”

"No, he's so good, he's definitely not going to like me, actually...... I sometimes envy you and Su Qing. You are all able to be with the people you like, and you are really happy. ”

Speaking of this, Ruan Meiyan suddenly thought of her own affairs again, she sighed, and her mood became heavy again.

Shen Yue continued: "Although I don't know much about Lan Yuehui, but looking at the way you look every time you are together, you can see that he really loves you, so I don't think he will betray you." He's just too much for girls to like, maybe he has his own troubles? ”

Ruan Meiyan nodded, "Well, I also hope that is the case, don't be discouraged, in fact, my family's family background is not good, so let's work together in the future, study hard, and work hard to get proof." ”

"Hmmm! Come on! ”

"Come on!"

"By the way, Mei Yan will show you an article that I have been collecting, which I saw by chance from the Internet. I really like it. ”

"Name: I could not have been like this."

Text: Two years ago, if someone told me that I must work hard to save money before the age of 25, I would definitely think that this is a bit difficult.

After all, 18 to 25 years old is the age when almost all girls want to spend the most money. But I recently suddenly understood the intention of the person who said this, and nothing else, it was because I had suffered a loss.

Let's talk about a sister first, her personality is similar to me, big-hearted, dashing.

She has a good education, is good-looking, and has a good relationship with her first love, so she got married early. After a year of marriage, she gave birth to a beautiful baby. To be honest, her incident made our circle panic at the time, because my parents used her as an example to urge us to find a partner. And this sister is from an educational background, so she attaches great importance to the growth of children. So she quit her job as soon as she became pregnant with the child and insisted on taking care of the child herself.

Her husband also agreed with this proposal very much, firstly, he was afraid that she would be tired, and secondly, he also felt that it was better for the child to grow up with his parents, not to mention that the family's economic situation was very good and she did not need to work anymore.

All decisions were made naturally, and their children grew up to be very healthy, smart and sensible.

But the turning point happened a few months ago, when this sister complained to us, saying that her husband was not good to her. In fact, the reason is very simple, the relationship between the two people has deteriorated.

But the problem caused is very serious, because she doesn't love her, so how does her husband see how unpleasant she is, thinking that she doesn't work for a few years, eats her own and uses her own, so he began to be cold and violent to her, and later escalated into hot violence.

I dare say that anyone my age would persuade her to divorce after hearing this.

Luckily, that's what she thought.

But the difficulty in life is that the problem is not as simple as imagined, and in reality, it is impossible for her to divorce.

Because from the moment she quit her job and had no savings, her marriage was forced to become her source of income, and when she left her husband, it was equivalent to having no house, no job, and no living expenses.

Some people say that it is simple, if you don't have a house, you can borrow your parents' house first, OK, if you don't have a job, then find a job that doesn't require experience, OK, no living expenses, and you can borrow some from a friend.

But even if these are resolved, there is still no way to divorce because of the children.

This sister knows very well what kind of person her husband is, and the nature of his work, personality, and child-rearing experience are not enough to support him to take care of a child. But he could not give up the child to himself, and the court could not award the child to himself.

Because her own life is a mess, let alone being able to provide a good material environment for her children, do she have to tell the judge "I can use love to provide for her to grow up"? No, no one will accept this statement.

In particular, when the child knew that her parents' feelings were wrong, she secretly took her mother's hand and said: "Mom is fine, you can divorce, I will follow you, my New Year's money has been saved, and I will buy you a house in the future." ".

She really can't say no to her, facing the innocence of a child who never buys toys or snacks just to give her mother a house.

My sister has been tormented by this for a long time, but to no avail.

There was another incident that was a little closer to me, which happened during the same period of my junior year of junior year.

At that time, everyone knew each other in trouble, and the relationship was very good, but later they both changed jobs and were still in touch.

Last year, she told me that the leader of the new company was very disgusting and rubbed her oil.

It's not as blatant as imagined, it's the kind of action that doesn't reach the level of sexual harassment, but it does make people feel as disgusting as eating flies.

For example, "teach people how to operate a computer by hand", "laugh and say that you have been developing well since middle school", or "Gently scrape each other's calves with your toes during a dinner party".

At that time, I was furious when I heard this, and my only thought was why don't you resign quickly?

But she shrugged her shoulders and said helplessly: "No way, you have to endure it a little longer." ”

Nothing else, just because there is no money.

After all, the transition period after the naked resignation is very difficult, she said that her monthly consumption in Beijing plus rent is at least 6K, if there is no salary, it is equivalent to starvation.

Therefore, you must first find a job with a salary level comparable to that of the current one.

But how can a job be so easy to find, you have to consider the salary during the probationary period, your career plan, the distance between your home and the company, and so on.

Seriously, if I had the money, I would have borrowed her right away, but I'm also the one who pays the monthly repayments, and so do our friends.

I said find my parents, she shook her head, "Forget it", I know she has a younger sister who is still studying art, and her parents' money is spent on it.

So, just six thousand, only six thousand defeated her.

She ended up in that company for another two months, during which she kept complaining about her obscene male boss, and there was no such thing as "getting used to it after a long time", that is, whenever she thought of meeting him, she felt very disgusting.

Since then, my friends have more or less started saving money.

It doesn't say that you have a lofty ambition to save more than 100,000 or something, but you have a kind of adult consciousness.

The meaning of this word is that you finally have the right to spend money, but at the same time, you have the obligation to be responsible for yourself, and when you need to use it, you have to get it.

So I'd love to say a word to girls my age.

I don't want you to understand how cruel the world is, but there may come a time when no one can help you.

Worse still, it may be that these people are unwilling to help you, and everything you believe in and rely on collapses.

At that time, your youth, beauty, and ambition were not confidence, only those real money that could be held in your hands were confidence.

It's not that you have to cut back on food and clothing, work hard or something.

It is that when you encounter unnecessary consumption, calm down more, and don't spend money as soon as your brain is hot.

After all, don't let you see what you have to buy one day because of the money you spent, but you can only sigh that you can't afford it, and when you encounter the embarrassment of having to use money, you can only compromise your self-esteem, and you don't even dare to leave altogether. I sincerely hope that at any moment you can walk the talk, instead of thinking, "I could not have been like this." ” ”

Ruan Meiyan nodded, "It's quite realistic, in fact, my family background is not good, I write novels in fact, cultivating interest is a trivial matter, and a bigger part is because I want to earn some pocket money through my own efforts." I've also read a very inspirational passage on the Internet before. ”