We know that to see a person's taste, we must first look at what books he reads, and then look at his circle of friends. Let's analyze the circle of friends of the three social classes.

Grassroots society

Wine and meat friends k.et

Because people in the grassroots society are not ambitious, it is impossible to have a common language with aspiring people, so most of their circle of friends are people from the grassroots society. Because they have no wealth to invest in and no advanced knowledge system, the middle class will not make friends with them, either materially or spiritually. Since they have no ambition and are at peace with what they encounter, the upper echelons of society will not train them. But people in the grassroots society need to communicate, so they have made many friends with similar interests. They talked about the topic of Zhang's family and Li Jiaxiao together every day, either caring about who had an affair, or complaining about the low salary given by the leader, but if the leader asked them to resign voluntarily, they cried and wiped their tears. They do things, they can neither take them nor let them go. They have done all the meaningless things in the world together, either spending time in groups of Kan Dashan, or wasting their lives playing mahjong together. Sometimes they also say that their way of life is called "being a monk for a day and hitting the clock for a day," and they also look down on monks too much, monks are enlightened every day, not to kill time, more than they are reasonable; A monk who is indifferent to fame and seeks the truth is much stronger than those wine bags and rice bags who can only drink and eat. Therefore, if the grassroots society does not change the circle of friends, it will never hear the voice of a higher level, and it will only be muddy for the rest of its life.

Middle class

Interests of friends.

The principle of choosing friends in the middle class is to use each other. The friends they make must have money, and this has two purposes, the first is to be afraid that they will suffer losses, and they are afraid that they will make a poor friend and borrow money from them every day. The second is the need for cooperation, if you can't win a project by yourself, you can win it with a joint venture with friends. But the saddest thing about the middle class is that there is no superior guidance. So I'm here to say: "A group of small bosses together can never do big business." "It is precisely because the middle class pays too much attention to immediate interests that it cannot make friends with the top society. People in the middle class will divide people into three, six, nine and so on according to the amount of wealth, which is snobbery to put it bluntly. It is precisely because of this that it is impossible for them to make deep friends, and their circle of friends is only a group of people with relevant interests in the final analysis, so once they encounter a real problem, they can't come up with a decent solution at all, so they can only fend for themselves.

High Society

God is in love with all over the world.

There is neither space nor time for high-level society to make friends. The only thing they can do is connect with their friends, but they are not people of the same era. They can borrow tricks with Zhuge Liang, they can cook wine with Cao Cao and talk about heroes, and wisdom will turn the eternal distance into a heart-to-heart connection. When they encounter a problem, they can have some insights as long as they open the books of the sages, and after a period of time, they will have different perceptions when they read it again. It's as if the ancient sages were by his side every day, and this is called: "Divine Fellowship".

As the saying goes: "The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water", the gathering and dispersion of friends in high-level society has never been bound by the world, and the conversation has never been constrained by the world's etiquette. They can be honest with each other, not formal, and ordinary people can't stand their direct conversation, because too many people are wearing masks to communicate, this mask is called "vanity", too many people can't listen to the truth, because the truth will sting his vanity, and once his vanity is exposed, he will break off relations with the other party, so not all people can communicate with the high-level society, because there are too many secular fetters they can't let go, and the high-level society is even more respectful of those worldly. The interaction of vulgar people in the world is often "the friendship of small people, the same and not harmonious." However, the interaction between the top society is "a gentleman's friendship, harmony but difference." And these two ways of communication are not at the same level at all, so the high-level society will neither enter the social circle of the grass-roots society and the middle-class society, nor will the grass-roots society and the middle-class society enter the social circle of the high-level society, not only because of cultural differences, but also because of the difference in the way of communication.