Foreword – Reflections on today's society.
Hello everyone, it's a pleasure to discuss and communicate with you. The desire to write books has been a long time coming, because although we have read a large number of books, many of them either talk about Western culture that is incompatible with China's national conditions, or teach the symptoms rather than the root causes.
There are also books that, although the starting point is to lead people to goodness, end up being an abusive benevolent government. There are even some books that teach human rights and art to the detriment of others and benefit themselves, which not only corrupts the social atmosphere but also harms others and themselves.
So gradually, we found that we read a lot of books about society and many books that analyzed society, but we became more and more confused, because many things are very shallow and very biased, not only can not let us know people, let alone make us stand up.
At this time, we need a book that can deeply interpret society and analyze human nature, so that we can read human nature more deeply, understand people's hearts, and effectively improve our communication skills with all kinds of people in society, which is the motivation for me to write this book.
The title of this book is "Social Vertical and Horizontal Studies", and many people will associate Guiguzi's vertical and horizontal studies, which this book talks about
"Vertical and horizontal" does have similarities with the vertical and horizontal science in "Guiguzi", but they are not the same. This book mainly explains how to put
The concept of "vertical and horizontal" is applied to today's society, so what this book refers to
"Vertical" refers to understanding the social attributes of all levels of society, which this book refers to
"Horizontal" refers to understanding the interaction between the various classes of society, the first chapter of this book
"The Society of Threes" expounds on the longitudinal, chapter 2
"Vertical and horizontal" expounds horizontal. The first chapter is relatively easy to read, and some things in the second chapter need to be comprehended, so in order to make the content of the second chapter easier for everyone to understand, I wrote a short article: "Vertical and Horizontal Theory", and in the second chapter, I will also quote words and sentences from "Vertical and Horizontal Theory" from time to time, so that everyone can get more insights.
In this book, the short essay "Vertical and Horizontal" is placed on the front page for everyone to read at any time. Let's talk a little bit more about the practical value of this book.
Since this book is called "Social Verticality", it is to be passed
"Vertical" to go deep into human nature to study people from all walks of life, through
"Horizontal" to interact reasonably according to the characteristics of people of each social class, together it is called
Vertical and horizontal. In other words, we need to fully understand the people in today's society and be able to interact with each other reasonably.
In fact, the reason why too many people can't have deep friendships with people is because they don't have a deeper understanding of people.
In the past, we only communicated and communicated with people from the surface, observed and understood people from the surface, which was far from enough, because of the lack of depth.
And this book will go deep into the level of everyone's values to study human nature, not to study people's moments, but to study people's lives; It is not about studying the surface of people, but about understanding the inner world of the other person.
It is precisely because each person's values are different that the social class they live in is also different, and each social class has its own
"Social attribute", as long as that person does not change his values, this social attribute is like an imprint that accompanies him throughout his life.
And through
"Social attributes" as the starting point to observe each other, it is conducive to us to understand each other more deeply, and when we understand each other in three points, as long as there is an opportunity, we can reach a reasonable interaction with each other, so as to establish our own interpersonal network.
Therefore, this book is a book that interprets social classes and interacts with people from all walks of life, with the aim of applying them to all walks of life in society, such as marketing planning, business management, various negotiations, deductive portrayals, etc.
However, the same concept, due to the different depth of each person's comprehension, will also affect its application effect, as the saying goes: "The deep gets its deep, and the shallow gets its shallow." "As long as you experience it with your heart, I believe you will definitely have some understanding, whether you are using the concept of this book for a large or small use, as long as you have a comprehension, it will be beneficial to open the book.
As long as you contribute to the society and the country through the concept of this book, so as to realize more of your life value, it is my greatest gratification!