Yang Yueniang thought in her heart that if she could get a practical solution to the conflict from this niece of her brother-in-law's family, then she and the child's father would not have to be caught in the middle, and there would be no need to worry about the children making trouble like enemies one day in the future.

"Auntie, Guo'er said something arrogant, the second cousin and the third cousin are about to marry their cousins-in-law, and after marrying their daughter-in-law, they must take care of their own small family first, and then the big family.

Splitting the family is sometimes a good thing, at least after the separation, although there may be some small contradictions, but there is no obvious dispute, the dispute of interests, the money earned by each person into their own pockets, the filial piety of the elderly during the New Year's holidays, is the best.

Everyone's thoughts are different, if they can be humble to each other, then that's fine, but if they are all strong, you fight for a breath, I fight for a long time, live under one roof, there will be a lot of things that could have been avoided.

But where a big family declines, it is often not from the outside, but between the brothers at the head of the family, who fight for power and power, and the first thing to do is ......"

Li Guoer said everything she could think of, hoping that her mother would listen to it and go back to talk to her father Li Mingli.

When the child is older, he always has to spread his wings and fly high, and the father and mother can protect the child for a while, but not for a lifetime.

Many things, only by experiencing them in person, can we really grow up and truly take on the responsibility of a family in the future!

Li An and Zhou's are because their desire to control is too strong, and their eccentricity is biased to the armpits, which will make a good family to this point......

Li Sang'er listened silently to Li Guo'er's words on the side, and was shocked, but in her heart, she agreed with what Li Guo'er said.

When she was still the daughter-in-law of the Xie family in the mountain village, the Xie family had five sons, three of whom married daughters-in-law, and between the three concubines, wasn't it you who pressed me and I pressed you?

Because she gave birth to a daughter because of her firstbirth, she couldn't raise her head in front of her parents-in-law, and she was stepped on by the "third brother and sister" of the Xie family who gave birth to her son later, and her sister-in-law didn't even look at her......

Li Sang'er looked at Li Guo'er with a smile and asked: "Between the four sisters, Brother Hao married a daughter-in-law, what should my father and mother do to make the family house harmonious?" ”

“.......”

Li Guo'er looked at her second sister Li Sang'er in a daze, and her eyes flashed a little hesitant.

She has an idea in her heart, but didn't the second sister's words make her cross her father and mother and offend the third brother and the future third sister-in-law?

After all, she is a daughter, in a society like ancient times, a daughter is going to get married, and meddling in too many things of her mother's family is easy to make people feel uncomfortable.

The third brother and his father are kind people, but she can't take herself too seriously because of this, the daughter who is at home now is fine, what about the future?

Once you have formed a habit, even if you get married in the future, you will always be tempted to get involved, and in the long run, the affection between brothers and sisters, father and daughter, mother and daughter, will slowly fade!

Yang and the others looked at Li Guo'er with their eyes, waiting for Li Guo'er's reply, Li Guo'er pondered for a moment, and spoke with a light face. "Since the second sister asked, then I will boldly say it today."

"Our family has 100 acres of wasteland, plus 3 acres of high-quality land and 2 acres of low-grade sandy land.

I plan to use more than 10 acres of wasteland to build a big house, and build more than 10 small yards in it, one for each of our brothers and sisters, one for my father and mother, and a few for the guest yard and the subordinate long-term workers.

After the third brother and the third sister-in-law got married, they divided a separate yard for them to live in, and the third sister-in-law was in charge of the affairs of their yard.

The eldest sister and the eldest brother-in-law live in the same courtyard, the second sister, you and your two nieces also live in one, and the rest of the brothers and sisters, the younger ones live with their parents, and the older ones live in one by themselves......

The remaining eighty acres or so of wasteland, one of us as a daughter is divided into five acres, and the rest is divided into four equal parts, one for the father, the third brother, the sixth brother, and the younger brother, and the father and mother will be supported by that brother in the future, and the land in their hands will belong to that brother.

The watermelons on the other side of the sand, after being sold for money, are reasonably distributed according to the different hardships of the family, in addition to the cost of buying the people at home.

It is up to each person to decide whether the money allocated to each person is to be used to buy land or to be deposited in the silver village. ”

Li Guo'er told the solution she had thought of in her heart, and the Yang family and the others were dumbfounded when they heard it, and this point was too clear!

After everyone digested a part, Li Guoer continued: "There is one thing, we have to say ugly things first, after this distribution, except for the younger brothers and sisters who are old and can't take care of the money in their hands by themselves, everyone else will not be allowed to take money from the family under various excuses from now on, they must be self-reliant, and they can't be parasites, leeches that suck human blood."

Of course, there are also favors outside the law, if the real life can't go on, it is not impossible for a family to help one or two, but it must be recorded in the account books, and the rules and regulations are clearly written.

The matter of bookkeeping, mother, you can have a good life in the future, our family goes out, whether it is a woman or a man, must be able to stand up to the sky independently, not to seek merit, but to seek no fault......."

After babbling so much, Li Guoer felt that things should come gradually, and she couldn't eat a big fat man in one go, so she stopped.

Yang and the others were shocked, but they admired Li Guoer in their hearts.

They never thought that Li Guoer was so insightful, and everything that came out of Li Guoer's mouth was so unquestionable.

Wufang Su and the others widened their eyes in shock, what did Sanfang Guo'er's niece say just now, will Sanfang change its door in the future and become a big family that calls slaves and maids?

Where does this confidence come from, and where does the money come from......

"Guo'er, you're talking about all of these things that need money, right?" The Zheng clan of the sixth room trembled, and looked tentatively at Li Guo'er and asked.

What she asked was the doubts in her heart, and also the doubts in the hearts of others in the three houses of the Li family.

One hundred acres of wasteland, two hundred taels of silver, has opened their eyes, at this time, I heard from Li Guoer's mouth that the third room has to build a big house covering an area of more than ten acres, and they also have to buy maids, which is a bit unacceptable to them.

Li Guo'er nodded, looked at the Zheng family in the sixth room with a smile, and said with a light smile: "Sixth aunt, niece, since I dare to say this, then this money is naturally prepared, but the time is not ripe at the moment, and when the time is ripe, I will definitely say that I know you in detail." ”

deliberately sold a pass, Li Guoer did not tell the truth.

When she said this today, she was actually gambling, betting that the fifth aunt and the sixth aunt and others would not go out and talk nonsense, and they would not say it to the outside world......