Chapter 192: Li Guo'er preached
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For the Li family's days of constant disputes, Li Guoer was very disgusted in her heart.
The only thing that made her feel fortunate was that after a month or two, they would be able to move out completely, start a new door, and live their little life behind closed doors......
"I can't say that, this brother and sister have many brothers, and naturally there are many brothers and sisters. Fighting tiger brothers, going into battle as father and son soldiers, whatever happens on weekdays, brothers and sisters can also help each other get through the difficulties.
This is also good compared to when our family was in the mountains before, when we were single-family and didn't even have relatives and neighbors to help. Yang Yueniang smiled and spoke to relieve the embarrassment.
Their family used to live in the mountains, within a radius of more than ten miles, and their family was single-family, and when something happened, they didn't even have a family to help.
Her husband saw that the children were older and wanted to say goodbye, and it was inconvenient to live in the mountains, and in addition, because there were no neighbors, he was very cold, so after she found the third sister and the third brother-in-law, he resolutely decided to move to Xiahe Village to settle down.
I moved to Xiahe Village, so that there is really an urgent matter in the future, and you can help me between the two families, and I will help you.
Yang nodded, smiled at Li Guo'er and said with relief: "Yes, what your aunt said is right. Although our Li family has some things that are not easy to get along with, there are also those who are easy to get along with, such as your fifth uncle's family and your sixth uncle's family, you can't deny everyone because of the big house and the fourth room......"
Li Guoer is still young after all, and because of her personality, she is not very good at looking at people's faces, and she has never noticed that when she said that, the fifth aunt and the sixth aunt and others did not look good.
The Yang family has been a concubine with the Wufang Su family, the Liufang Zheng family and others for many years, and they know a little bit about it, and while comforting Li Guoer, they also do not forget to round the field for Li Guoer.
"Yes, what my mother and aunt said is that our family must be neighbors with the fifth uncle and sixth uncle in the future, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and close neighbors are not as good as brothers and sisters!" Li Guo'er reacted in hindsight, she was too extreme, and killed one person with one rod, so she followed the words of her mother Yang and said with a smile.
However, she still insisted on her own opinion in her heart.
Half of the reason why I said that before was because I didn't like the big house and the four rooms, which always had something to do, and the other half was to alleviate the embarrassment of my aunt and two cousins here.
Therefore, half of what her mother Yang said was credible, but she didn't dare to completely agree.
Far away from the smell and smelly, far away, brothers and sisters are naturally close, but if they are close and there are interests entangled, I am afraid that the brothers and sisters will turn their faces against each other, and it is not impossible for them to happen......
Yu Yan and Yu Juan sisters lowered their heads, each thinking about something.
After a long time, her sister Yu Yan raised her head and smiled and spoke. "Cousin Guo'er is right, but there is one thing I still don't agree with.
Although the relationship between brothers is close, if there is a conflict of interests, there are many people who stab knives behind their backs, so it is the best policy to distinguish between brothers clearly and keep an appropriate distance. ”
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Yang Yueniang listened to her eldest daughter say this, and her heart hung up.
When the eldest daughter says such a thing, it is heard, or it is spread out, how can she get married in the future?
Who would want to marry such a daughter-in-law?
Isn't this a disguised attempt to provoke the relationship between her future husband's family and siblings?
"What Cousin Yan said is also reasonable, my brother is settling accounts.
For example, when brothers who have separated from each other have difficulties, they borrow money from each other instead of taking money, and the difference between borrowing money and taking money is very different.
In addition, there will be all kinds of friction between the head of a family, a few brothers who have married under one roof, you are worried that I will take more benefits, I am worried that you will work less, and if this continues, this family will not have to be in constant disputes, and it will gradually go downhill? ”
Li Guoer felt that Cousin Yu Yan was really a bold and careful girl, if anyone married such a sensible and knowledgeable woman in the future, why worry that a family could not prosper.
It's just a pity that the third brother of her family already has a woman she likes, and Cousin Yu Yan and the third brother are cousins, so it is not suitable or inappropriate.
She and her mother-in-law Yang are also the third sister-in-law Bai Tao'er who has already recognized the future.
In addition, the times are different, and the concepts are different. In the cognition of the ancients, a family should live together, even if there are constant disputes, it is necessary to live under one roof, not to say that each has its own life, and when there is any difficulty, everyone twists into a rope and makes a ......
Yang and the others fell into deep thought, some felt that this was the truth, and some felt that this was not good, and each had their own ideas.
Li Guo'er thought for a while, looked at her mother-in-law Yang with a light smile and suggested: "Mother, after the third brother and third sister-in-law get married, you can't learn from grandma, favoring one over the other."
Since the third brother and three sisters-in-law have already married, that is, they have grown up, we can help, but we can't interfere too much in the affairs between the third brother and the three sisters-in-law.
In such a situation in our family, the third brother is five years older than the sixth brother, and the sixth brother is ten years older than the younger brother.
As daughters, sooner or later we are going to get married, which is nothing, but the third brother and the sixth brother will marry a wife at home in the future, and this wife is at home, if there is a conflict between the brothers, or if there is a discord between the concubines, all the grand plans are just thinking about it......"
Yang listened to Li Guo'er's words, fell into deep thought, and secretly said in his heart, this is indeed the case!
The eldest son is about to marry a wife, but the younger son is still in swaddling clothes and can't walk.
The eldest son and the youngest son were all born to her, and the second son was born to her, both of them were the children of her and the head of the family, if it was really as the daughter said, when there was a conflict between the brothers, which side were they on?
helped the eldest son, chilled the hearts of the second son and the younger son, helped the younger son, and the eldest son and the second son were not convinced, this is really a difficult thing!
Yang Yueniang listened on the side, and after thinking about it carefully, this is indeed the case, her eldest son has been married to a wife for more than two years, and in the past two years, it seems that the eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law have indeed revealed a little bit of dissatisfaction with their thoughts of being fathers and mothers.
With a sigh, Yang Yueniang looked at Li Guo'er and asked tentatively. "In Guo'er's opinion, what should be done in order to prevent brothers from turning against each other, sisters from turning against each other, and concubines from discording?"