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In the case of the moon's soft grinding and hard bubbles, Fu Chengwen finally agreed to the moon's request, so several of us immediately ended the topic and started the topic.
Moon wants to be a teacher, this is an idea that we have known for a long time. So Fu Chengwen first helped her choose a few better normal schools according to his scores, and then chose a few subjects that she liked more. After cross-comparison, Moon looked at the names and majors of these schools recorded in her small notebook with satisfaction, and began to work with them to help me as a counselor.
I didn't have much of an idea, because after all, my score was not that high, and I liked it relatively unpopular, so I had relatively few options to make. After Fu Chengwen chose a few, he himself was not very satisfied, so that no one could make up his mind for a while.
In fact, I have always struggled with whether to choose a major that I like, or listen to my parents and choose a major that is easy to employ. What I like is indeed less widely used now. If it's a hobby, it's acceptable, but if you really think about working in the future, it's still a little inappropriate. What's more, my family is not the kind of family that can support me to squander these hobbies at will, I always have to think about the future and my family environment.
As soon as I thought of this, I suddenly felt that my heart became a little heavy, and I even became less talkative. Fu Chengwen was the first to realize that I was wrong. He looked at me for a long time, then put down his pen and said to me:
"It's hard to choose, but the decision you make now isn't the only one you have. We all know that you have dreams, but you have to know that many times, the premise of your dreams is that you have enough strength. If you can't decide what exactly you want to choose now, then you can first think about whether you have the strength to achieve your dreams. If not, take it step by step, and you can't become a fat person by eating one bite, which you should know best. ”
As soon as Fu Chengwen finished this tirade, the moon over there answered:
"Xiaobai, I know what you like, but many times not all hobbies can be used as work, have you ever thought that if you really engage in this work, it will make you bored with your hobby. I think it's better to separate hobbies from work, because then you'll be twice as happy. If the two come together, it's likely to hurt you doubly. ”
"So you're all persuading me to follow my parents' decision and choose a good major, right?"
As I listened to them, I somehow suddenly felt even more depressed. I kept my head down and looked around to avoid the three of them, not wanting them to see the disappointment and frustration in my eyes. And at this time, Sister Fruit suddenly joined our discussion group.
"Seeing that you guys are discussing so intensely, what, is there something wrong? Is there anything I can help with? I have a lot of time right now. ”
Sister Nagako sat between me and the moon with a smile, put her hand on my shoulder, and looked at me with a bright face. I glanced at her, and although I didn't want her to get involved, I explained to her the truth:
"There's nothing wrong with that, it's just that I don't know what major I'm going to choose."
"Is there an alternative? I'll help you see, no matter how I graduated from a master's degree, I always have experience that I can communicate with you. ”
Sister Guozi spoke lightly, but the four of us who listened to her were all stunned at that time.
I've known Sister Fruit for so long, I never knew that Sister Fruit's education was so high. It's incredible, because with her high education, she doesn't have to open a coffee shop like this here. After all, I don't earn much money here, and I have to suffer, and I don't even have time to rest when I'm alone. But if she could have worked hard to find a job, she could have found a better job. At that time, she will have a stable income, and if she is a little luckier, maybe she will have a house and a car by this time, and she may have a handsome, rich and considerate husband, no matter how she thinks about it, it will be better than her life here now.
Sister Fruit seemed to have expected such a reaction, she stroked her hair and smiled charmingly at us, before continuing:
"I know everything about it, I know what you want to say to me, what you want to say, my parents don't know how many times they have said it to me. But I think that everyone's pursuit of life is different. All I pursued was freedom and leisure, so I stayed here and opened my own shop, although I was really tired and had to do everything myself, but I felt very comfortable and satisfied, because I knew that this was the life I had been pursuing. Yes, that's right, if I work hard and get into a very promising company, I will have a stable job, I will look much more beautiful than I am now, I can carry brand-name bags and use brand-name cosmetics, I can drive around in my own car, and I can decorate my own house at will. But I really don't like this kind of life, I don't have any pursuits, I don't have any motivation, I think it's good now, if one day my coffee shop is gone, I can also transform into something else, just do the job I like. To be honest, if I were to be in a position for ten or eight years, then I would probably feel that my life would not have any meaning at all. Although many people say that I am uninformed and short-sighted, I think this is good. Everyone has the right to choose their life. The college entrance examination can bring you a choice, but after graduating from university, you will face more and more complex choices. So there's no need for you to dwell on anything here at all. Because the university brings you not only a certificate of academic qualifications, but also experience. You need to know that you're not just going to college, you're planning for everything you have in the future. So since you have four years to think about it, why rush it? Besides, you still have a lot of time to think about it, and you don't have to apply for the exam today. When you calm down, you'll naturally know what you want. ”