I don't expect him to put himself first, at least he can think of himself when he is free, think of himself, and have a girlfriend waiting for her, and he can spend part of his time with her, and he is already very content.

It seems that he can't even do such a simple wish of his own, and he can't realize it. Sometimes I really feel disheartened, and I really want to ask, what am I in your heart?

Do you think of me as your girlfriend, am me more important or your work is more important? Will I be with you for the rest of my life or will my work be with you for the rest of my life?

When I am impulsive, I will have such thoughts, but I have never had the courage to say this to him. As a result, this matter has been delayed like this, in fact, I want to solve it as soon as possible, but I can't make up my mind, maybe I can't bear him.

After all, no matter how you say that the other party is the person you love deeply, you are really reluctant to push him away, and even you have other thoughts in your heart that it is still possible.

Maybe it's because I don't want even the last bit of hope to be dashed, so I haven't been able to make up my mind and has been in a vacillation.

"Let's all give in like this, maybe we all have difficulties." Although some words are not spoken, it does not mean that the other party has no bitterness, so you should learn to understand each other more and learn to be more tolerant.

I am not him, so how do I know if he will have other hardships and difficulties. Maybe sometimes I should put myself in his shoes and think about him. Things are not what they think at all, and people also have unspeakable secrets and unavoidable hardships.

"So that's pretty much the case at the moment, and we're going to be the same with each other." When Ren Xiaoou said this, he also felt a little helpless, but this is the case, and there can really be only one step between himself and him.

Those things that he didn't have time to say to himself may really have his own troubles, or maybe he is not unwilling to communicate and communicate with himself, but he has other hardships that are inconvenient to reveal to himself.

So under normal circumstances, he didn't take the initiative to tell himself, he wouldn't force him, let alone say anything, he was always waiting for the day when he was willing to tell himself.

"Hey, no matter how two people get along, it's not a day or two, there is always a run-in period, as long as this run-in period is over, the relationship between the two people will go further." Originally, two people were just strangers, in two different worlds, and then they intersected because of something, and then slowly became familiar with each other, and then they needed one to enter each other, which really needed a process.

So at this time, there is no need to be in such a hurry, after all, this matter needs a process.

Shu Yixin himself also knows clearly that some things are not in a hurry. It's not that you can do it quickly if you want to feel it, it's not as perfect as you think.

"I don't know when the run-in period between me and him will end, to be honest, I've known him for so long, it seems like we've been in the run-in period all along." Ren Xiaoou does have such thoughts and feelings, and he doesn't know when his relationship with him will end until he knows when he will end.

Shu Yixin saw that she was a good best friend, then patted her on the shoulder, and said lightly, "This kind of thing can't be rushed, take your time, there will always be a day, there will always be a day when he is not busy, right." "He's very busy at work, and he may have a lot to deal with, but he always has a break, and there is always a day when the work is not so difficult, and he thinks about it.

In the final analysis, it is still necessary to give the other party time and space, it is useless to be in a unilateral hurry about this kind of thing, and the two people on both sides must calm down and sit together and have a good chat to solve the problem.

What's the use of you being in a hurry, because those problems can't be solved at all, this requires both parties to work together to solve this problem, and you can't say anything more if you haven't been here, and you're afraid of a third party interfering in emotional matters, so you can't intervene.

Is the problem between himself and him really just a problem of the run-in period? However, this run-in period seems to be longer than anyone's. I am really worried that even if the final run-in period is over, it will be impossible for me and him to go to the end.

This is what worries me the most, if I can go to the end with him, no matter what twists and turns I go through, I don't feel anything. I'm afraid that my infatuation will be in vain.

"I understand all of this, and I give the other person enough time to think, but you know what? Sometimes it's really tiring to wait like this, because I don't know exactly when I'm going to wait, and even if I wait until the end, will it be fruitful? "No matter what, it's all his youth now, are you really willing to waste so many years of youth for him? If you keep waiting for him like this, and when there is no result in the end, will you feel no regrets?

Ren Xiaoou is really a little worried, in the end, she may regret it, if there is an ending in the end, she will not have such thoughts, but in the end, she and him still can't enter the palace of marriage, so the time she has spent for him over the years is really a waste.

After all, he is still young and young, so how many years will he have to wait for him like this? When you wait until the end and don't wait for anything like this, don't you really have any regrets?

Sometimes he thinks like this, he wants to talk to each other clearly, whether the two of them get along well, try hard, if it really doesn't work, then let go of each other, don't delay each other's time. I can't put all the bets on him, because I am not sure that he will win, so my heart is a little shaken.

If he really loves himself and wants to be with him for a lifetime, then he will not have such thoughts, even if he waits for ten or eight years, he will have no regrets, but he can't give himself the promise he wants at all, just delay time like this. This will make your heart have no bottom at all, and it is inevitable that there will be a wavering mentality.

"It's because I don't know when it will take, so the two of you need to sit down and discuss this issue, whether the two of you can go on with each other." Only after discussing this question can we know whether it is worth it to do it ourselves.

It is useless to say anything now, it is just a simple personal idea, and it is not the result of discussions between the two sides. What you want is for both parties to sit down calmly and talk about this issue well, so that they can know whether it is worth it or not.

"It's very simple, in fact, I also thought about wanting to have a good chat with him, but he never gave me such a chance, and sometimes I feel very depressed, is it right to be persistent like this." He has him in his heart, but does he have himself in his heart, is it really okay to do it like this?

His family has talked to him more than once about this, and often asks himself where the relationship with him has been. Even if your own father told himself that the other party didn't love you, then you should consider letting go, and you shouldn't hang yourself from a tree.

Every time I hear this question, I don't know how to answer myself, and I can't give a positive answer, I love him deeply, I want to be with him, I want to live a happy life, but he doesn't have the same idea as himself.

From another point of view, I also know that if he doesn't love himself, then he should choose to let go, after all, he can't waste all his youth for him.

So sometimes I feel particularly conflicted, and I don't know what to do. It's always a dilemma, and I want to give an answer and tell myself what I'm going to do in the future.

"The problems you are talking about, it is very simple, but it is not so easy to do, hey, love is really killing people, I am a little scared." After listening to this, Shu Yixin could only sigh, love is really not as easy as imagined.

When it brings happiness to itself, it also brings endless troubles to oneself and brings pain to oneself. Sometimes I also think that many people have been chasing love all their lives, what is the purpose of doing this? In fact, isn't it good to live alone? Carefree and there are no worries about this aspect.

"You're really right, sometimes I really feel very contradictory, and I want to let go, but I can't bear to." Before he completely rejected himself, he was really reluctant to let go like this.

No matter how you say it, the other party is the person you love deeply, you can't give up when you say give up, you can let go when you say let go, and your heart will hurt.

Over the years, he has always been the only one in his heart, not that he can give up if he wants to, things are not so simple at all, it is not that he can have it if he wants to, and he will give up if he wants to.

After all, he has paid so much youth and energy for him over the years, and he is really reluctant to give up himself at once, perhaps it is precisely because of this reason that he has never been able to make up his mind, and he always feels that there will be expectations if he drags it out, and he always feels that one day he will see that he pays for him and knows that he is good to him.

But on the other hand, he was a little worried, he didn't see what he had paid, he didn't notice it at all, or maybe he felt that all this was his own willingness and willingness to do it for him.

"Don't make a decision lightly if you are reluctant, maybe there will be a turnaround, just wait for a while." Shu Yixin could see from her expression that she really loved Ye Jinghao and could give everything for the other party.