Chapter 273: Self-esteem
Although Wu Yunyu was an ordinary employee in the office in her previous life, she was also a highly educated person, and she had her own arrogance.
She was born as a princess in this life, and although the royal family is pressed by the temple, she is also stronger than most women. She has always been smooth sailing, when has she ever been looked down upon like this.
Jing Xi specially introduced her to marriage, and she must have thought that there was only one way to go in her interstellar future.
Since she can even think of selling eggs and surrogacy, Jingxi looks down on her too much, which makes her feel ashamed, and she will definitely not be able to become such an existence.
After listening to it for so long, she can be regarded as having a thorough understanding of the marriage of the Federation, their marriage has been completely objectified, what kind of marriage enjoys what power, what obligations are paid, it is all written in the rules and regulations, and the price is clearly marked.
She seriously doubts the quality of the marriage of the people of the Federation, two people who love each other negotiate all the conditions before marriage, and a regulation comes out, and when they negotiate all the conditions, will the two still love each other? Do you still want to get married?
Wu Yunyu reflected on herself, was Jing Xi not optimistic about her, or did she have a problem with her partner's requirements? Or it's a matter of their thinking bias.
Jing Xi couldn't understand the entanglement in her heart, and if she talked to Jing Xi again, she would feel that Jing Xi was deliberately shameful of her.
Once she decided on this idea, Wu Yunyu's heart became more and more angry, and she couldn't get along with Jing Xi as a friend, she tried her best to suppress the strangeness in her heart, and asked with a vengeful attitude.
"If you talk to your lover about so many conditions, will you still get married? Will they still fall in love? ”
Seeing Wu Yunyu's face turned red and white, white and blue, Jing Xi knew that she was talking too much, I am afraid that Wu Yunyu's heart was already very unhappy.
In order not to irritate Wu Yunyu, Jing Xi didn't take the initiative to speak, waiting for Wu Yunyu to ask, but she didn't expect her to ask this.
"Both of them are in love with each other, and they must have been in contact with each other, and what kind of marriage the two of you will live can be seen from your usual actions. For example, if you want to be the head of the family, you usually have to take the initiative to pay, take the initiative to give gifts, etc., as long as the other party accepts more than three times in a row and does not return the gift, it means that he is willing to be the marrying party, if the other party does not accept, or next time you must invite him back, it means that the other party does not need you to support him financially. For me, no matter what, I will definitely be the strong party in the marriage, and I will pay more money at most for any prenuptial agreement to sign, and I will definitely not compromise the most in other aspects, so your question is not valid for me. ”
Jing Xi's confident tone almost didn't make Wu Yun's tone bad. She gritted her teeth and said, "Can I be like you?" ”
"Of course you can, nothing is impossible."
Hearing Jing Xi's affirmative answer, Wu Yunyu felt a little better in her heart.
It's a pity that Jing Xi saw her expression and really disagreed, only the weak need the affirmation of others.
Wu Yunyu looked very ambitious, but in fact, she was short of breath, unconfident in her heart, and just said angry words.
Although her words are not good, she is telling the truth, and she is also sincerely thinking about her, as long as Wu Yunyu doesn't make up too much brain, she will put herself in the right seat for everything, and listen patiently, she will definitely get more than she can get from reading that pile of information.
It's a pity that not only did she not appreciate it, but she was also dissatisfied with her because she heard bad news. She was just a hypothesis, and she was prepared for the worst.
Knowing your bottom limit and then going out to mix is better than not knowing anything.
Wu Yunyu only saw Jing Xi say it directly, and didn't pay attention to anything else, which showed that Wu Yunyu's pattern was too small, even if she changed to a more noble identity, she still couldn't get rid of her childish thinking.
This kind of person won't have a big future, she doesn't want to hear it, Jing Xi still doesn't want to say it? The reason why she told her this in her busy schedule was not because she wanted to repay her a favor, let her see the situation clearly, use her advantages, and mix better.
Originally, I wanted to give Wu Yunyu a more in-depth explanation, but seeing Wu Yunyu's expression, Jing Xi suddenly lost her mind. Her deal with her, giving her the information of the Federation, is enough to repay her favor.
The superfluous explanation is just for the sake of the fellow countrymen in her previous life, and I really hope that she will live well after joining the Federation.
Seeing that Wu Yunyu had calmed down, Jing Xi's tone slowed down, and she cared for her: "Your identity is special, after joining the Federation, the Federation will not put you next to ordinary people, until the age of 30, you will always live in the school, and have a good relationship with the people around you in the school, and when you graduate, with so many friends from a good family to help, your achievements will not be too low." ”
Wu Yun likes to listen to this, and asked with a look of surprise: "Really?" ”
"The reason for bringing you into the Federation is to improve the genes of the people in the Federation, and the good things must be shared by the upper class people first, and if you are not thrown into the upper class people, how can the two sides combine and have children."
Jing Xi also had a hidden meaning and did not tell Wu Yunyu that it was risky to marry them and have children, in case someone born with poor talent or a freak, only people with good family conditions could afford to raise them.
If there is a waste person in an ordinary family, it will be a burden for that family, and this burden may overwhelm the child's parents.
Of course, in order to maintain the advantages of family genes, most of the people who can be selected to marry them, except for a few special circumstances, are second-rate and third-rate families, or abandoned children.
The new population who has just joined the federation has been under the close supervision of the federation for almost several generations, and no family likes that their family successors are a special group of people that the federation focuses on observing, so as long as Wu Yunyu is smart enough, don't think about going to a high position through marriage, because the person who can be allowed to be with her is not a high-ranking and powerful preparatory offspring.
Originally, these are what Jing Xi wants to say to Wu Yunyu next, if she wants to go further, the people around her are not suitable for marriage, they can only benefit her in their careers, let her get along with these children of wealthy families, first set up her own career team, and then seek greater development.
It's a pity that Wu Yun doesn't like to listen to it, she can't wait for Jing Xi to end the call quickly, and the two have been silent for a while.
In the end, Jing Xi saw that they were from the same place, and couldn't bear her to live too badly, so she did her last duty, and kindly reminded her: "Study hard in the Federation, your talent is good, as long as you are willing to work hard, the future will definitely not be bad." I first talked to you about marriage, just to make you aware of the nature of federal marriage, not to encourage you to get married. You have to remember, I will only say this once, don't prematurely determine the marriage, there is no one around you who is suitable to marry you. ”
After Jing Xi said this, she left under the pretext of having something, whether Wu Yunyu listened to her words or not was none of her business.
Jing Xi left, Wu Yunyu breathed a sigh of relief, she felt that with Jing Xi, her self-esteem was too hurt, and she was overwhelmed by Jing Xi's aura.
She cared only about her poor self-esteem, and she didn't know what she was missing. What Jing Xi said was her life experience, these words would never appear on the information, if she listened patiently, she would definitely be able to take a lot of detours in the future.
It wasn't until many years later, when Wu Yunyu was tortured by reality that she understood why Jing Xi finally told her like that, if she listened to that sentence, the end would definitely not be so miserable.