Wu Yunyu reacted so much, not that she wanted to accept many beautiful men and open a harem, she just wanted a partner who could respect each other and support each other, and the man could help her financially in marriage, after all, she has always lived in a social environment where it is natural for men to support their families.

However, looking at the interstellar marriage law, if a man wants her to raise her, her status is not higher than that of the woman here, so why should she get married.

Hearing such a cruel reality, Wu Yunyu was very unconfident about the life she would face in the future, and she was reluctant to lose the opportunity to see the stars and the sea, so she finally mustered up the courage to say: "I don't want to be a marrying party, I don't want to be a marrying party, can I not get married?" ”

"Of course you can, the federal marriage is free, you don't find a suitable partner, and up to 50% of people who choose to be single for a lifetime, you are not a special case."

"So high? So why are there still people willing to be married? Jing Xi's single rate was so high that Wu Yunyu was shocked.

"If there is demand, there will be a market, there will always be people who want to take shortcuts, or choose this path because they can't survive, and the law protects the rights of the marrying party in addition to the heirs."

The amount of information received in one day was too large, subverting her previous world view, outlook on life, and values, Wu Yunyu felt that she really couldn't accept the chaotic marriage system of the Federation, and she felt that she had no advantage in interstellar life.

Seeing that Wu Yunyu was becoming more and more silent, Jing Xi guessed if she was scared of Wu Yunyu, she was born as an agent, she has always seen the world from the perspective of a strong man, and she can't understand the mentality of a little woman.

In her eyes, the marriage system is very equal, maybe in Wu Yunyu's opinion, it is cruel and unkind, afraid that she will continue to say this, Wu Yunyu really retreated, and quickly changed the way of communication.

"The federal marriage law is robust and anticipates most of what will happen in a marriage. We won't be able to tell you for a while, you tell me, what kind of life you want, I will combine practical experience to give you an analysis, which kind of married life is suitable for you. ”

Hearing Jing Xi ask this, Wu Yunyu basically didn't report hope, thinking that she had no loss after saying it, and worked harder, let Jing Xi help her analyze it to see if she could mix in the interstellar world.

"The partner I'm looking for, first of all, he loves me, can afford to support me, treats me well, will respect me as an equal, the status of the two in the marriage is equal, there must be no cheating, there is a mistress."

After speaking, Wu Yunyu looked at Jing Xi, for fear that she would laugh at herself.

As a result, Jing Xi didn't smile, and said very seriously: "You have to understand that marriage is a contract between the sexes, and the reason why there is such a contract is because marriage involves many interests, including the issue of raising a family."

In the federal marriage, only equal marriage is equal marriage, and ordinary equal marriage means that each party is financially independent, and neither party takes advantage of the other party economically, so the status of both parties is equal.

And you want to have equal status, but also want the other party to support you, this is not impossible, after all, to live together, there will always be someone to make some compromises in some way, and if you want to achieve this condition, you need to give up some power. ”

Hearing Jing Xi say that it could be done, Wu Yunyu breathed a sigh of relief, but when she said that she wanted to give up some power, Wu Yunyu was very worried, and hurriedly asked, "What am I going to give up?" ”

"Listen to your words, you just want to be equal to your partner, to have him respect you, and to support you financially, and nothing else, right?"

Hearing Jing Xi ask, Wu Yunyu wanted to refute, but she didn't know what to say, so she had to nod in agreement.

Seeing that Wu Yunyu agreed, Jing Xi said: "If you only have these requirements, it means that in this marriage, you have given up the naming rights and custody rights of your children... and other powers.

Most men who are willing to start a family attach great importance to their children, because when you sign a prenuptial agreement, you voluntarily give up the ownership of the child, which saves your partner a lot of trouble, as long as your standard of living is not particularly high, there should be many men who will agree to your conditions. ”

"Listening to you say this, did I suffer a loss in such a marriage?"

Wu Yunyu never knew that marriage still has so many rights and obligations, and children can still take it out to talk about things, aren't children born to belong to their parents?

What Jing Xi said, as if she had signed such an agreement, it was like the child was not hers, how could she listen to it, how could she not want her own child.

"Whether it's a loss or not, it depends on what you think, but what I want to tell you is that your marriage contract, except for your partner's money to support you, is a real thing. Like the name of equal marriage, it is all false, if you remove this name, in this marriage contract, you are actually not as good as the married party.

After the marrying party marries, the partner must also support him, and there must be no domestic violence or other physical or mental harm. If there is a divorce, the breakup fee paid by the married party, alimony, etc. are not low, as long as he does not find a home, the married party must support him for a lifetime, and the divorce with children is even more troublesome, I will not tell you in detail here.

In the case of a flat marriage, if there is no agreement before marriage, there is no breakup fee, alimony and other issues. If you want to choose a flat marriage, I suggest that you must sign a prenuptial agreement, and women are natural major shareholders in the matter of children, and you have to take advantage of this advantage to make a fuss about it.

Flat marriage is a false name, and there is no practical use, if the other party is truly in love with you and is willing to live with you for the rest of his life, do not care about this. You want the other party to raise you, the first child belongs to the other party, as long as your talent is not bad and the standard of living is not high, this condition is fine, and the second child can belong to you.

Because you can't afford to raise yourself and your children, you can negotiate with the third child and let him help you raise the second child. ”

Wu Yunyu was dumbfounded, not knowing how to describe the mood, and when she heard Jing Xi say the third child, she subconsciously asked, "What about the fourth?" ”

"The fertility rate in the federation is not so high, it is normal for two couples to have only one child in their lifetime, two is good, three is lucky, most men will not believe that they can have more than three children in a lifetime with a woman."

It is not uncommon for families on this planet to have more than a dozen children between two couples, so Wu Yunyu felt that she must be the exception.

"You also know the situation on our planet, what if there is?"

"You're asking a good question, you're different from other women in the Federation, you really have to pay attention to this, you can plan this agreement in more detail. The first child is the condition for raising you, the third child is the condition for raising the child under your name, the fourth, the fifth, the sixth, etc., you can think about what you want, and write the requirements one by one. After all, having children is a woman's advantage, and if the children you give birth to are all talented, there should be a lot of men who offer good rewards and only ask for a child. ”

What Jing Xi said was the truth, Wu Yunyu really reached the limit of what she could bear, and said, "Isn't this a clear price for the child?" Is that good? ”

"Children are the wealth of society, is there a problem with clearly marking the price?"

"But..."

Wu Yunyu wanted to refute, but she didn't know how to say it, so she had to ask: "Why did you do that?" Asking someone else to give birth to a child for yourself, isn't that making the other party betray your marriage? ”

Hearing Wu Yunyu ask, Jing Xi knew that Wu Yunyu didn't understand what she meant.

explained: "Interstellar children are in the mother's womb, and the mother needs to spend a lot of spiritual power to soothe their muscles and veins, so only the child conceived from a woman's body has good talent, and the more powerful the mother, the better the talent of the child born."

Children raised in other ways are too weak like ordinary people here, and for the Federation, such people are a burden to the state. Although you need a woman to conceive a child in the Federation, you can artificially inseminate you, and you accept other men to ask for a child, but you sell an egg, and by the way, you help him with surrogacy, and you don't betray the marriage. ”