1046 Don't interfere with his feelings

Maybe his own thoughts are also a little selfish, he just hopes that his grandson can be happy, and he can't care so much about the others.

After He Shaobin left, he actually thought a lot about himself, and he was also thinking about whether it was right or wrong for him to do this, after all, everything had happened at the beginning, and it was impossible to change it now.

Even if he wants to make up for his son, it depends on whether he is willing to give himself such a chance, if he is not willing to give such a chance, then it is useless to do anything by himself.

He really regretted it, he knew that he shouldn't have done such a thing in the first place, otherwise the gap between himself and him would not be so big.

It's just that once some things happen, it's really not easy to change, and if you want to repair the relationship with him, you may also take your time and step by step.

But some things are still right, emotional matters, he really can't interfere too much, the person he is looking for is the person who will accompany him for a lifetime, in fact, he should support him.

He Shaobin walked all the way, thinking all the way, in fact, he also thought a lot, he also wanted to tell his son about the things that had happened, but he was afraid that his son would not be able to bear such a result.

I really don't want to hide it, but I'm afraid that he won't be able to accept this, and it will backfire at that time, so I am also a little embarrassed at this time, maybe I should take the time to talk to him and see what kind of mentality he has.

After all, after getting along for a while, it has changed a little, and the relationship between them is not as stiff as at the beginning, and it may still take a family to get along before they know what they want each other.

The previous self was not by his side at all, let alone cared much about his situation, and he didn't know what he wanted, so he passed more than ten or twenty years in a daze, and now looking back, he really owed him a lot.

"I've heard that you've come back, and I haven't seen your figure for a long time." When Chen Fangru saw her husband, she couldn't help but say a lot.

I had a lot of words in my heart and wanted to ask him, but the people who didn't wait for him didn't know where to go, and I couldn't find them after looking for a long time.

"What's the matter, is there something wrong with me being so anxious?" He Shaobin seemed confused, and he didn't know what was going on with his wife being so anxious about him.

I was thinking about something just now, and I did delay some time, but there is no need to be in such a hurry. Besides, he is at home again, so there will be no danger.

"It's nothing special, but I heard that you're back, and I haven't seen you." When I didn't see it, I was really a little worried, but at this moment, I don't think there's anything to say.

Chen Fangru didn't know how to answer her husband's questions, she originally had a lot of things to say to him, but at this moment, when she really saw him, she couldn't say anything, but she was blocked in her heart.

"I just went to see my dad, and I talked to him by the way." He Shaobin took the initiative to report his whereabouts.

After all, there is nothing bad to say between husband and wife, not to mention, I haven't done anything unseemly.

"Oh, I guess so, but how could it be that I hadn't seen you for so long?" Normally, when he comes back, he will look for himself first.

Even if I was chatting with the old man before, it wouldn't be so long, just to say hello, and I'll be back soon, but today I was very surprised, and I don't know what their father and son are talking about.

"Actually, I just chatted casually, I heard that Mr. Li came over today, so I went over to ask what the situation was," He Shaobin has never hidden his wife from these things, and he has a lot of discussions.

After Chen Fangru heard this, she felt quite surprised, maybe she didn't expect it, did he come over for something? It is impossible to say that I came here for no reason.

"Mr. Li came over because of something." Seriously, I'm really curious about what kind of thing is going on.

"I don't know the specifics, but it seems that he came here because of his daughter's affairs, do you know that his daughter likes our son?" After all, I wasn't there at the time, and I didn't know what they were talking about.

I just heard about it, and how could I know so clearly about what they said, and I also know that this kind of thing is impossible, if my son likes her, he will take the initiative to say it.

If the other party is really Li Yiyou, before, you don't need to emphasize it, and you don't have to meddle in his emotional affairs.

From this point, I can see that my son doesn't like the daughter of the Li family at all. Maybe it's just coming over today, just to probe the wind.

"What kind of result did that have, what kind of reaction did Dad have, did you promise the two of them to be together?" Chen Fangru didn't expect that since it was Mr. Li, it seemed that his daughter should have blessed him and asked him to come over to talk to the matchmaker.

So at this time, I was really curious, what were they talking about, if I had known, I should have gone over to take a look, at least listen, what they were talking about.

If I am here, I will know everything clearly, and I don't need to be like this now, I am as anxious as ants on a hot pot.

"How could I know, because when I came back, the other party was already gone, and I just listened to my father say a few words casually, and don't forget, we promised our son before that we would not interfere in his feelings." If you go back on your word at this time, you can't predict what the consequences will be.

In other words, I don't want such a result to happen, after all, my son's temper is understood, he is not a fuel-efficient lamp, and he is not such a foolish master.

He has always said that he can do it, and he will do what he says, and he still knows about this credibility.

"Don't stress me out, I remember what I said." Chen Fangru knew that his words were aimed at herself, and obviously told herself not to meddle in her son's emotional affairs.

I have always kept one thing in my heart, how can I forget it? It's just another thing whether it can be done, and it's another thing to promise him.

"Just remember, I just wanted to remind you that you didn't mean anything else." He Shaobin tried hard to explain himself, just to remind him that he didn't mean anything else.

"But then again, I think that girl is a good match, and she is a good match for our family, and if the two of them can be together, it should be a good thing." No matter how I look at it, I feel that the two of them are a good match, and if they can be combined, I would be quite happy to see myself.

He Shaobin looked at his wife with helpless eyes, and said lightly, "You can say this on my side, forget it, don't say such things in front of your son, you also know that he is disgusted, no matter how good our family is with theirs, as long as my son doesn't like it, there will be no result." "Matching is another matter, the key depends on whether the two of them have feelings, if they don't have feelings, everything is in vain.

This is not a matter of messing around with mandarin duck scores, I also think that the two of them are quite a good match together, but a good match is a good match, and feelings are completely two different things, and they can't be mixed up.

What's more, this is a young man's business, as an elder, he really shouldn't interfere more, he made it clear before that he would not let himself interfere in his emotional affairs, and he also promised in front of him that he would not interfere easily, so he would not break his promise at this time.

"It's just a casual talk, I think they're a good match, and I didn't say that you have to let the two of you be together, you're too nervous." Chen Fangru tried to explain that she was just saying it casually, and she didn't really have such thoughts.

I feel that my husband is a little strange, no matter what he said before, he would not refute much, but recently, he didn't speak, not as good as before, and even said that many times he didn't want to listen to himself at all.

It was not the same at that time, it was clearly on his son's side.

"Aren't I worried about you doing other things behind my back? I'm really worried that it's going to happen like five years ago, and I don't want it to happen again. "I've already scared myself once, let alone come again, I really can't bear it.

The things I did before now make me regret it, so I won't allow such a thing to happen again, let alone my wife to do such a thing.

At that time, I didn't think much about it, so I listened to him, but now that I think about it, I also feel that it was a bit wrong to do so, and emotional matters really shouldn't be interfered with.

"That's all in the past, how can you bring up those things again?" When Chen Fangru talked about these things, she was not very happy.

Anyway, in her heart, she is very reluctant to say these words, although these things are indeed done by herself, but they are all things in the past, and there is no point in mentioning them this time.

"In the end, I just want to remind you, there is no other meaning, I don't want you to continue to do what happened five years ago, I don't want to continue to meddle in his emotional affairs, otherwise the consequences are really not something we can afford." I really can't imagine what the consequences will be if something like this happens again? I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~