Chapter 473 - Won't sway from side to side
"We must all work hard in the future, carry forward our coffee and book house, and the performance will definitely get better and better." This place carries the dreams of the two of them, so taking care of the coffee and book house is the most important thing for them.
Emotional things, no one can say, because the emotional problems of these two people in front of them have always been a problem, so no one wants to mention more emotional things, and love can't be perfect, so I hope that the career can be perfect, and put all the time and energy into the career.
This is the most practical love, it is an ethereal thing, but if you have a career, it is real. You can't do nothing because of emotional hurt, it's because of emotional hurt that you have to work harder and harder to develop your career.
Find something to do for yourself, at least your spirit is to rely on, and you won't always think about those unhappy things.
"Yes, that's what I thought at this time, I really don't want to mention what happened in the past, and I don't want to waste too much energy." In fact, as long as you don't mention it, Shu Yixin has almost forgotten about the things that happened in the past.
Maybe it's the reason why I've grown up with wisdom, after so many things, how can I still be as stupid as I was at the beginning, waiting for him with a bosom mentality, waiting for him to come back every day, return to his side, and tell myself that I love myself very much and want to live with myself for the rest of my life.
This kind of nonsense is not even convincing to lie to oneself, let alone to deceive others.
So tell yourself that you don't have such naïve thoughts anymore, don't think that one day he will come back and live with him for the rest of his life. The chance of him coming back is too small, maybe he has forgotten about himself a long time ago, he already has a new love, where can he still think of his old love.
How could he afford to think that he still owed himself an explanation, he had already thrown these things out of the clouds. Therefore, I don't have such a naïve idea that he will come back, it is impossible, for myself, it is better to be realistic and face real life.
Now that my career is a bit of a step together, I should develop my career well. It can't be the end of the day, love and career both fail, this result is really bad.
"What you said is also quite reasonable, you should really choose the direction for the past, and you shouldn't be persistent, because if you are persistent, you will only be hurt by yourself, not others." If you persist like this, he will not know at all, only you know, and you can only say that you are the only one who is hurt.
Ren Xiaoou is a person who has come over, and she has seen some things quite thoroughly. used to hope that her best friend could let go of everything in the past and start a new relationship, but now, her so-called old love seems to be back, and her heart is a little wavering at this time.
I don't know what I'm going to do, it's best for my best friend, and she knows what kind of choices she will make in the future.
Shu Yixin smiled and said softly, "Knowing this clearly, you won't be so stupid to continue to do such things in the future, so you too, if there is really a relationship between the two of you, then it's good to be together, if it's just wishful thinking on the part of one party, then I think it's better to let go as soon as possible." "Everyone is a good youth, you shouldn't waste it here, you really don't love it, so choose to let go, don't dwell on it.
This kind of thing is meaningless for me to continue to entangle, it is better to choose to let go in a chic way, after all, it is always a thing of the past, and my own attachment is only my own personal matter, after all, both parties do not know that there is still this thing.
Therefore, the final result of this matter is only to torture yourself. Now that things have been figured out, many things should not continue to be entangled in themselves.
"What you just said today, I will think about it, and before that, I will ask him out to talk about this issue." Ren Xiaoou didn't say it so absolutely, he didn't say that he let go of his hand like this, after all, he loved him so much, how could he give up easily.
Before that, I should ask him out and have a good talk, I want to know what he thinks in his heart, whether he really wants to live with himself for a lifetime, and wants to manage this relationship with himself, if he doesn't have this heart, let me consider letting go of his hand.
If you persist, you will only be hurt, not only the truth you have with her, but in fact, you should also say to yourself that you should also do this.
Don't really be so stupid and always let yourself get hurt.
In the past, I just knew how to pay, but I didn't get the due return for my sincere efforts, so should I think about it, what is the point of continuing to pay like this, or choose to let go and give each other space.
"It's a good thing to make it clear to the other party anyway, at least you don't have to be so painful, right?" No matter how you say it, the other person knows your pain, knows your efforts, and knows the consequences of your actions.
"Yes, I do want him to know about my pain, and it doesn't matter if we end up together or not." After all, I have paid so much, but what kind of result do I get?
If he hadn't said these things, he might not have known about them for the rest of his life. Therefore, you should choose to speak and tell him how sad you are and how your heart hurts.
"Think clearly, do it, and don't keep rocking." Since you all want to do this, then don't regret it, don't sway from side to side, do what you have to do, be generous.
"No, I won't sway from side to side again, I'll definitely make up my mind." has come to this point, if you continue to sway, it will only be self-entangled, whether it hurts or not, and only this time, so you should make up your mind and make up your mind.
"Well, I'm really happy when you think about it, there's a guest coming in, and it's time for me to get busy." Shu Yixin saw someone coming in at the door, so she ended this conversation as quickly as possible, in fact, she also talked to her a lot, what should be said and what should not be said, it seems that she has already said it, and then it depends on her own considerations.
I can't interfere in emotional matters, and I don't plan to interfere, this is a matter of feelings between the two of them, let them deal with it themselves, and they can only provide some advice.
"Okay, I see, let's get busy first." Ren Xiaoou naturally saw that there were guests coming in, so it was natural to greet the guests first at this time.
For other things, let's talk about it when we have the opportunity, not to mention that I have already said it so clearly just now, and I already have an idea in my heart.
That's the end of this conversation, in fact, what should be said has been made clear, in fact, I probably know what the other party thinks, and it is indeed forgetting the past, which is undoubtedly the best choice for everyone.
Asking about this matter, you shouldn't let yourself worry about it, this is originally a relationship problem between the two of them, you should be a bystander, not to mention that you can't handle your own emotional problems, how can you help other people.
It's not about whether you're willing to help or not, it's whether you can help or not, and whether you have the ability. Even if you have this ability, you have to look at what kind of things it is, and it doesn't mean that you can do everything yourself.
Ren Xiaoou thought back to what he said to her just now, but it was not completely unreasonable. Some words really shouldn't be said so plainly, let everyone work emotional matters, and they also need to work hard.
Let yourself go easily, as if you can't do it yourself, yes, I have loved him for so long, I can't say let go of myself, I really can't do it so freely.
My love for him is not a matter of one or two days, it is really a long time, no matter what aspects, I like him, so I don't want to, I easily let him go without effort.
When I was at home, it was not the first time that my family had brought up this issue to me, but every time I could only choose to turn a blind eye or divert the topic.
Because I don't want to deceive my family and don't know how to answer, I can only divert everyone's attention instead of continuing to answer that question.
Ren Xiaoou thought that he finally took out his mobile phone and sent him such a message, "Are you free?" Let's find a time to come out and talk. ”
Thinking about what he said, it still makes sense, such a thing can't be delayed again and again, how long will it be delayed? In fact, this problem exists between each other, and it is not a matter of one or two days, but it has been ignored by myself all the time, and I have not paid attention to it.
I feel that there will be results if I wait like this, but there is no result in the past for so long, and he has not taken any action, so he is really a little impatient.
It's time to speak up and solve this problem with him, you can't just keep dragging it out like this, and it won't do you any good for each other.
Ye Jinghao suddenly received such a message, it was a little strange, for a moment his eyes were dead, staring at the screen and not believing it at all.
At the same time, she was also tormented in her heart, how could she send such a message to herself? I couldn't guess what he was thinking, why he suddenly sent such a message to himself.
"When, send me the address." Ye Jinghao hesitated, but still went back.