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"I just can't express it, in fact, I don't doubt your meaning, you also know, sometimes it is inevitable to have such thoughts, because when I heard you say that, I already know the identity of my grandfather, so I am a little worried." If she hadn't said that, maybe she hadn't thought about it, she wouldn't have done it on purpose.

It's just that everything she did still disappointed her, people just wanted to confess to themselves, but in exchange for their own self-confidence, as she said, they actually didn't feel good in their hearts.

Suddenly, at this time, I understood, sometimes empathy, it is indeed a very good idea, when I don't know what the other party is thinking, I can stand in her perspective and feel it for her.

In the past, I just wouldn't think about her from her point of view, so I did so many things, and now I come back, thinking about it, it turns out that I missed so much.

Fortunately, she gave herself opportunities again and again, and did not let go of herself easily, otherwise she would have regretted it very much today.

"This time I choose to forgive you and tell you these things, but in the future, it doesn't mean that I will be able to do this, because I also have a bottom line, and it is impossible to say that every time I apologize because of you, I will forgive you." As he said, this time it was just an unintentional mistake, and I don't know what I did wrong, so I can forgive him, but there is no next time.

Ren Xiaoou felt that it was necessary for him to make it clear to him at this time, there is only one chance, there will always be a next time, he is not such a bottomless person, this time is just a lesson, so he also gave him a chance, but it is really difficult for him to do so in the future.

It can't be said that he is alone in this life, this is unrealistic, if he really wants to be with himself, then he should believe in himself and believe that he is doing this for the good of each other.

"Okay, I see, I've listened to what you said, and I know what you want to say." She already understood what she said, so she wouldn't do it again in the future.

She is very grateful for being able to give herself such an opportunity this time, and at the same time, she also lets herself know what she is wrong, so she will definitely correct it in the future.

"There are times when I face you, I have broken through my bottom line, given you opportunities again and again, and even many times I ask myself, is it really worth it? But in the end, I chose to give you a chance, but I don't know when it will end. "Although I have broken through my bottom line again and again to give him a chance, it does not mean that I will always give him a chance.

So at this time, I want to make it clear to him, to have such a thought, I want to think every time that as long as I apologize to myself, I will forgive him, maybe once or twice I will make an exception, but it does not mean that I will always forgive him.

I hope he can seize this opportunity, and the next time he can forgive him, it depends on what is going on, and it depends on what kind of mood he was in at that time.

"I remember what you said, and I still remember every word clearly." She was so straightforward with herself before, if she still didn't remember it at this time, she could only say that she really lived up to her affection.

"It's good that you can understand, I just don't want you to misunderstand, I just tell you my position and my thoughts, I hope you can understand that two people together, there shouldn't be too much suspicion and jealousy, it's more about choosing trust and communication." I really didn't want this relationship to end up in the end, so I gave it a chance again and again.

But there are some things I still want to be able to make clear to him, if two people don't trust each other, can't communicate, and only know suspicion and jealousy all day long, then this relationship can't go to the long run, in this case, it's better to separate as soon as possible.

Whether it is in the past or now, I will be very clear about emotional matters in the future, and it is impossible to say that there is no bottom line of connivance.

"To be able to hear you say that, I really feel that you are very mature and have grown up, and it seems that I am very naïve." I couldn't believe that these words came from her mouth, and I didn't expect her to say such a thing.

Ye Jinghao faced his girlfriend, and he really couldn't believe that she had become so mature and could figure out so many truths.

Ren Xiaoou looked at him and sighed, and said softly, "After experiencing some things, you must always have some knowledge in the future, and you must always change, and you can't always be the same as in the past." "This is the environment forced me to grow up, in fact, I didn't understand these things before, but I have experienced a lot of things recently, and I slowly let myself understand.

What Ren Xiaoou told him was that he didn't want to be like this, but there was no way, he would always grow up after experiencing some things, and he slowly understood these truths.

"That's why I said that you really grew up, but it seems that I am quite naïve, in fact, it is not that I don't understand, but sometimes, I will really ignore you, maybe it's because of habit." It's not that I really don't know how to do it, it's just that sometimes I really can't think about it that much, and I don't think about things so thoroughly.

"I also know that you are busy with work and have a lot of things, so it is impossible to cover everything, but I don't have any other requirements, I just hope you can trust me more." I really don't have a lot of other requirements for him, I just hope that he can trust himself and believe in himself, instead of doubting himself without a bottom line.

I always feel very uncomfortable about this, how can I say it? I have paid so much for him and done so many things, in the end, what do I get, is it in exchange for his suspicion?

Thinking about it from another angle, this is not what he wants at all, and he doesn't want his own enthusiasm, in exchange for such a result, which will make him feel that all this he has done is really not worth it, and he has paid all his efforts for himself, but in exchange for such a result, has anyone thought about it, has anyone said a word for himself, and feels that this is very unfair to him?

I don't think so! No one has ever thought about themselves, and no one will feel worthless for themselves, that is to say, sometimes they think about it, and they feel that it is really unfair to themselves recently, because no one stands in their own perspective and thinks about themselves, they only think about themselves, but ignore their own feelings, and it is inevitable that sometimes they feel that it is really special and not worth it.

Knowing that he is busy with work and has a lot to do, I don't want him to focus all his time and energy on himself. I just hope that he can trust himself more, even if he doesn't have so much time to spend with him.

From beginning to end, he didn't ask him how to accompany him, in fact, his requirements for him were really low, and even he felt a little strange, according to his previous standards for boyfriends, he would never be like this, maybe because he had him in his heart, so he slowly lowered his original requirements.

I just hope that he can have enough trust in himself and have time to think of himself occasionally, that's all, but why is it so difficult to achieve.

"I know, you've said these things to me many times, so I'm trying to change them at this time." It may indeed be that I didn't do enough before, so I will slowly correct it.

It is indeed because of her tolerance and tolerance that she has come to this day, if she doesn't love herself and doesn't retreat her bottom line for herself again and again, then the relationship between herself and her has long been over.

"I seem to have said a lot of things today that shouldn't be said, and if you don't think it makes sense, you can forget about it." Ren Xiaoou sighed softly at him and said slowly.

"Don't worry, I have all these words you said in my heart, and they are all very useful." What she said today made her feel a little surprised, and even a little surprised.

Because she never thought that these words came from her mouth, and she thought so clearly.

"Okay, let's wait a little longer and go back, it's not too early." Ren Xiaoou felt that everything that should have been said at this time had already been almost, and there was no need to continue.

After taking a look, it's not too early, let's go back and rest, these problems don't exist in a day or two, I say so much at this time, and I don't necessarily have all of them to be able to absorb them, the key depends on his personal behavior.

In fact, the most important thing is that it depends on how he thinks, if he really has this idea, then naturally he doesn't need to say more, and it will naturally change, but he didn't think of this aspect, no matter how he said it, the result would be the same.

Ren Xiaoou felt that he really didn't want to say too much at this time, and he had already said a lot of what he should say and what he shouldn't say. It depends on how he thinks of himself, and what he thinks of himself in his heart.

"Okay, I'll send you back, you can't refuse me." Ye Jinghao knew what his boyfriend did, but many times he didn't do it conscientiously, but at this time he really wanted to play this role well.

Since she is her boyfriend, she should do something that a boyfriend should do, otherwise her girlfriend is too wronged. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~