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He didn't know how much he hurt his pride when he said those words just now. Because obviously, what he said made it clear that he didn't believe in himself, he was his girlfriend, and he wanted to put it in front of his eyes sincerely, but how could he not be angry when he was treated like this?

The more Ren Xiaoou thought about it, the more angry he felt, and felt that such an answer was not what he wanted. And he thought of himself like this, which made him feel very uncomfortable.

If it were him, if he had said these things to him, would he have been able to forgive himself so easily?

"I know it's all my fault, it's because I can't express it, I caused you to misunderstand, so I apologize to you." Ye Jinghao just wanted to coax his girlfriend back at the moment, so let him say something he didn't want to say.

"Can a simple misunderstanding clear up all relationships? It's too cheap, isn't it? However, when it comes to empathy, he can stand in his own perspective and feel this misunderstood mentality, whether he can easily forgive the other party.

"I know it's all because of my problems, and I didn't think you'd be so cheap to me, you can punish me as much as you want." Ye Jinghao still said to her with a cheeky face, the key is that she has to coax her girlfriend to be happy at this time.

Ren Xiaoou looked at him with puzzled eyes, thinking in his heart that it was really okay to let him go so easily? Seems a little reluctant?

"I can tell you bluntly, I don't want to forgive you like this." The words he said just now really hurt his self-esteem, and he didn't want to let him go easily.

"I've apologized to you, what else do you want? I've already said what I need to say. Ye Jinghao felt helpless, he never thought of doubting her from beginning to end, but his expression was not so in place.

Now that he has become a sinner, no matter how he thinks about it, he is at his own fault, Ye Jinghao feels that it is a little unfair to himself, which is not his original intention.

Even I feel very depressed, how did I end up with my own fault? It shouldn't have been like this, I just wanted to ask her what she meant in her heart, but in the end, it became my own fault.

"It's completely two different things, it's not that you apologize to me, I have to forgive you, if we empathize, after I did something that hurt you, I apologize to you casually, will you easily forgive me?" Thinking about it, can he easily forgive himself? The answer seems to be no.

So at this time, it doesn't matter if he can't figure it out, the most important thing is that he can figure it out when he empathizes.

It's not that he is unreasonable, it's not that he is not good at communicating, but because what he said really hurts his heart, and he feels that he really doesn't trust him, which is what makes him the most sad.

After Ye Jinghao listened to her accusation, he also felt that what she said seemed to be quite reasonable, and it was true that he had certain problems, and it was impossible for others to forgive him because of his apology.

In the final analysis, after all, I don't trust her enough, and sometimes I will inevitably doubt her. This is also the key point and the reason why she doesn't want to forgive herself.

"I know that I shouldn't have been, I shouldn't have doubted you like this, I shouldn't have believed you, I shouldn't have said such things, this time you should give me a lesson, give me a chance, I promise that when I speak in the future, I will be cautious." This time the words have already been spoken, and it is impossible for me to retract what I said, and I can only hope that she will give herself a chance.

Just take it as a lesson for yourself, when you talk and do things in the future, you will definitely believe in being careful, and you should believe in her unconditionally.

If you talk about customers by yourself, there will never be such a problem when you talk about business, I don't know how, but when facing her, I do feel that there is something missing when I speak.

When facing her, he really doesn't know how to speak, let alone say those sweet words, to please her.

Ren Xiaoou looked at him like this, he was really a little pitiful, and in the end, he couldn't help but want to forgive him.

Maybe it's really what he said, he just made an unintentional mistake, and he was used to talking like this, not really doubting himself, nor did he say that he didn't believe in himself, but he just said whatever he wanted, and said it directly.

"Don't you know that you say something like this to me, and it makes me feel powerless? I can't help but want to forgive you, but I don't want to forgive you. Ren Xiaoou said to him what was in his heart, feeling that he shouldn't forgive him like this, but seeing him like this, he couldn't bear it.

In the end, it's because I have him in my heart, or I am reluctant to see him like this. Because I was very angry in my heart, but seeing him like this, I was inexplicable, and finally I relented.

"Since you can't bear it, then forgive me this time, I will definitely correct it in the future, although it may not reach your expected goal, but I will correct it little by little, when I do something wrong, say something wrong, you stand up and tell me, if you don't say it, I will never know where I am wrong, because many things have long been used to it." I have to sigh, habit is really a terrible thing, in fact, I don't want to do this, and I don't want to hurt her, but because of habit, I accidentally said something I shouldn't say.

Obviously, when I said those words, I was already very careful, and at that time, I thought in my heart that I couldn't hurt her, but in the end, I still inexplicably hurt her self-esteem.

"You have said so, don't I forgive you? If I really can't forgive you, maybe you're going to die of chagrin. Ren Xiaoou finally relented and forgave him casually.

Who made him the person he loved, and who made his life in his heart so important, so he really couldn't help but forgive him.

Even if he really did something to hurt himself, but when he apologized to himself, coupled with his pitiful appearance, he still couldn't help but want to forgive, he thought about giving him another chance, but he ignored some opportunities to go by himself, and gave them again and again.

In the end, even I feel that I am a person with no bottom line, especially in front of him, I really have no bottom line.

"I'm really happy to hear you say this, and I promise that I will be more careful with you in the future, I will be more careful in what I say and do, I will notice your emotions, and take into account your thoughts." In a word, I still have some things that I haven't done well.

At the moment, I don't have any other ideas, I just hope that he can give himself a chance, and at the same time point out what he is wrong, so that he will know how to correct it.

If she didn't say it, she really wouldn't know what she was wrong with, because she was already used to it, so it was inevitable that sometimes she would ignore her inner thoughts.

After a long while, Ren Xiaoou said lightly to him beside him, "Do you know why I didn't hide it from you just now, did I choose to say it directly?" I'm just worried, you think that my approach to grandpa is another purpose, so I don't want to be misunderstood by you, and I don't want to have any secrets in front of you, so I want to tell you this matter directly, but I didn't expect this to be the result, and in the end you still misunderstood me. Originally, I really had good intentions, but I just wanted to tell the other party that I already knew, but I didn't choose to hide it.

The purpose is to let the other party know what they think, not to guess themselves, and not to feel that they have any purpose for doing this, in fact, their ideas are really simple and simple.

I didn't expect to be so frank with him. In exchange, the result still made him misunderstand himself, or was he really not confident enough in himself to believe that he could do so calmly?

Ye Jinghao listened to what she said very carefully, it seemed that she really misunderstood her, she was really worried that she would misunderstand something, so she took the initiative to explain to herself, but it was a pity that she still looked at her with that mentality.

It's because my emotions are too sensitive, and I didn't have this idea at first, but in the end, I still hurt her invisibly, so after listening to her explanation, I felt even more guilty in my heart.

That's because I don't have enough confidence in her, and I'm always skeptical of her. If he believed in her enough, how could he be like this, and how could he say those words to hurt her?

So there is a reason why she is angry, after all, she did it herself, and it is enough that she does not have enough confidence in her.

"After listening to this cause and effect, it makes me feel even more embarrassed, it is indeed because of me, it is indeed because I did not do a good job, I am really sorry." If she doesn't explain, she doesn't feel it, but listening to her explanation at this time really makes me feel very sorry for her and ashamed of her.

It's always her boyfriend who isn't good enough, and it's always that she owes her.

"It's good to know, I'm telling you these things at this time, not because I want you to blame yourself or anything like that, I just want to tell you what I really think in my heart," I originally did these things because I didn't want him to misunderstand myself, but in the end, I was impulsive with what I expected, and he still misunderstood himself after all. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~