Chapter 726: Beauty Without Appreciation
The person who can be looked down on by him is definitely not so ordinary, so in the future, there is no need to worry too much about what he thinks about this.
Don't you know what kind of vision your grandson is? If the other party has nothing extraordinary, how can he possibly look at it? Which of the daughters I found for him before, is not very perfect in all aspects? But none of them could be seen.
He can see that there is a reason for believing it, although he doesn't know why, but he absolutely believes that he can find a partner he wants to live with for life.
"Well, I'm really sure of this, before, I also thought about introducing her to a blind date and finding a right person, but at that time she directly rejected me, and said that unless he found someone who really wanted to get married, he would never be able to get married in this life." The meaning of his words is very simple, unless it is what he wants, otherwise it is useless for you to force him, he cannot easily accept it, and it is impossible for him to compromise.
Since then, he has given up this plan, and he has not thought about forcing him or anything, because he has already made it so clear that if he wants to get married, then he will find someone he truly loves, and he doesn't have to worry about it at all.
In other words, it is useless for you to be anxious at this time, because people don't have this mind at all, and if they find one that doesn't suit him, how can he reluctantly marry the other party.
"I think he thinks like this, in fact, he has a lot of personality, and the emotional thing should be like this, if it is not what he really wants to be with a person reluctantly, it is better not to have anything." Marriage can't be a matter of one's own affairs, but it is related to one's own happiness in the rest of one's life.
If the other party is not the person you really want to be together, then you will only be miserable together, how can you be happy? The second half of my life is still a long time, and how can I survive the long decades? This is undoubtedly a painful thing.
"Therefore, in the future, I don't dare to think about this kind of thing in front of him, let alone bring it up, because no matter how I do it, he will definitely refuse in the end, so there is no need for me to waste those energy to do such a thing." If you have time, why don't you enjoy your current life more and think about so many complicated things?
No matter how much you pretend to do, it is impossible to be with your heart in the end, so I don't feel that I need to toss so much to do these things, if I have time, it is better to do some things I want to do.
After all, I don't have much to do in my life, so I still want to do more, I don't want to leave too many regrets, and I always feel that I can do more at this time.
"He has always been more individual, and he has his own ideas, not to mention that I think he is right to do this, if it is not what he likes, if it is not what he wants, why force it, there are still decades of time in the future, you can't say that you are with people you don't like, you will quarrel at both ends for three days, if this is the case, you will feel more troubled, at that time you will regret the decision made today." Everything in front of him is his own choice, so no matter what the final result will be, he has no regrets, and he will not resent anyone.
"It can only be said that we are old, and let the young people's affairs be handled by themselves." At this age, I have seen through a lot of things, and I know that I shouldn't be entangled or think too much.
It's better to enjoy your old age in peace, and there is no need to think too much about the rest of yourself, after all, it's not your own feelings, and it's not your original self.
"So at this time, I don't have time to chat with you and talk, as for the rest of the can't do anything, the world of young people, let him think about it for himself, it's good to taste more of these delicious snacks." He Lao also has a feeling at this moment, and the affairs of young people make them young people look at themselves and do their old age, and they can't interfere in too many things.
If he asks, ask himself how to do it, if he has a way, he can say a few words, if he doesn't have any good ideas, then he might as well push everything away.
He Yuhe was walking alone in the garden, in fact, he didn't have the heart to appreciate it at all, and naturally he couldn't appreciate these flowers, after all, there were too many things in his heart, and he didn't know how to solve them. Although the people around him gave him a lot of ideas, he always felt a little worried, and always felt that it was not very appropriate.
So at this time, he still seemed a little worried, and he still felt that it didn't work. Sometimes it's easy to say something, but it's not as easy as you think.
At this time, he has to think of a perfect countermeasure, this kind of thing really can't be in a hurry for the time being, if he is not sure enough, he will definitely not take the initiative.
The flowers in the garden are blooming beautifully, but unfortunately, I am not in the mood, yes, I am really not in the mood to appreciate it, and for myself, I can't appreciate this beauty.
I don't know how much I want to see her in my heart, and even, I can't hold back the thoughts in my heart, and I want to go to her immediately, but in the end, I still rely on strong willpower to suppress such thoughts.
For the time being, even if you want to see each other so much, but you really can't do this, you can talk about it for a while, give each other the corresponding time, and think about it.
I can indeed do such a thing, I can run in front of her, but even if I face it myself, what can I say? She is still the same as before, unwilling to talk to herself more, so even if she is in front of him, it is useless.
It's not that I don't dare to take action, but at this time, I feel that I don't know how to act, even in the face of her, I don't know what to say, I always feel that I should give her time to think about it at this time, and I shouldn't rashly appear in front of her.
"Xiao He, didn't you say that there were guests coming? I haven't seen anything. He Shaobin heard that a guest was coming, so he came out to have a look, but he didn't see anyone after he came out, and he happened to meet his son here, so he could only ask casually.
It just so happens that I've always wanted to find someone to ask, but I haven't met anyone else, and when I met my son here, I asked by the way.
"Dad, in fact, it's not a guest, it's Grandpa Ye who is here, and now he's sitting and chatting with grandpa in the garden." He Yuhe didn't hide anything, after all, the other party was his father, and since he had already asked himself, he knew that of course he would answer him.
"It turned out that Uncle Ye was here, no wonder I said that I didn't see anyone when I went to the living room." When I heard that a guest was coming, I wanted to come out to accompany the guest, but I didn't expect that I was in the living room for a while, and I didn't see anyone, so I was wondering.
He even said that he was a little skeptical, whether he had heard it wrong, and there were no guests at home. It wasn't until after listening to his son's words at this time that he knew what was going on.
"Every time Grandpa Ye comes over, most of them will chat with Grandpa in the garden to enjoy the flowers, and generally speaking, they rarely sit in the living room and drink tea, so of course you can't see anyone in the living room." Maybe it's different from other people, the garden is closer, and the feeling is more natural when you talk together.
"I see, why aren't you there?" He Shaobin asked with concern, logically speaking, he usually accompanies his grandfather when he comes back, how can he be alone in the garden at this time to look at his expression, as if he has something on his mind.
"The two of them were chatting happily, and I didn't have anything to do, so I thought about walking in the garden." Sometimes I can only stay quietly by their side, because they can't interject a lot of what they say.
It's not just because I can't interject it, but in fact, I'm not in the mood, maybe there are too many things in my heart that can't be solved.
So at this time, I want to come out and walk around, and by the way, let myself calm down. Maybe you can come up with a perfect solution, after all, these things are in your heart, you have to answer, and you can't keep putting it off like this.
"Is something going on, you seem to be preoccupied, is there anything you need my help with?" Although he is not particularly close to him, he can still feel it at the moment that he seems to have something on his mind.
"Dad, don't worry, in fact, there is nothing to do, it's just that I can't think through some things, so you don't have to worry about me." When facing my grandfather, I can say it, but in the face of my parents, I am really worried about what they will do, so I can only choose to shut up for the time being.
"If there's anything you need my help with, you can just ask, and I'll do my best to help if I can." After all, he is his father, he has no reason, and he has been rejecting himself.
"Well, for the time being, I don't need this yet, and if there is, I will definitely say it." He Yuhe politely replied to his father, at this time, he didn't say much before he thought about it, so he could only politely refuse the kindness of others.
"Well, well, come back to me when you need it, and I'll have to go over and say hello at this time." In any case, when the parents come to their homes, they can't pretend not to know, and they don't come out to meet people about this matter, which will seem too rude.