After all, he knows better than anyone that he can spend little time with his grandson, he can't stay with him until he is old, and one day he will leave this world before him, so in this case, he naturally hopes that he will find someone he really loves to accompany him and spend the rest of his life with him.

Even if his heart is really a little against the identity of the other party, and his grandson is not a good match, but he is not such a pedantic person, what kind of society is it now, and he is still talking about being a good person, right? The important thing is that two people really love each other.

The grandson was brought up by himself, his requirements are not high, all he wants is that the other party can truly love him and accompany him to old age, can he even stop this small request?

In this society, it is no longer so important to be a good person, what matters is whether two people really love each other and whether they want to be together.

Therefore, they only have one request, that is, they can be happy, as for the rest of themselves, they can settle down, after all, they are not living with themselves for a lifetime, their opinions are really not so important, even after getting married, they can't live in the old house, accompany themselves all day long, and they will move out to live, and they can only see them once in a while.

In this case, their own requirements and opinions are even more insignificant, and there is not much meaning, as long as the other party can be good to their grandchildren and be filial to their elders.

"I don't want to think of you like this, I'm really a little worried, there are still good people in your mind, and I don't just ask a question here." People of their age, many people have a view of the door, and always feel that it is good to have the right marriage, whether it is good for the company or the family.

But they often ignore one point, although they are the right people, each other's identities and status are almost the same, but they forget whether the two parties really like to be with you, in fact, this reluctantly combined will only cause more tragedy.

Everyone is from the past, in fact, it should be very clear about this kind of thing, and emotional things have always been your willingness, let alone reluctance.

If you want the other party to be good and want him to be really happy in his future life, then you have to respect the other party's choice, don't choose others by your standards, but choose others with the standards of the parties.

After all, they are the ones who really live together, so their feelings are the most important, and the people they feel are the right people.

"When my son got married, maybe I still had this thought, I felt that I should find the right person, but then they left my side, and only my grandson was by my side, but I figured out a lot, I can't always accompany him until I am old, and one day I will leave this world earlier than him, so what kind of person I want is not important, what matters is what kind of person he wants, so that he can accompany him for a lifetime." His thoughts and opinions are really not that important, what matters is his happiness and what kind of person he wants to be with.

I don't deny that I did have such thoughts before, but slowly as the days passed, my thoughts also changed. It's still them who live together, not themselves, so it's good that the other party likes each other, and it doesn't matter what they look like.

If they are filial to themselves in the future, they may often come back to accompany themselves more, if they are not filial to themselves, they may not see him once in ten days and half a month, anyway, they don't have much to live, just look a little away.

"I won't force them, just let them do it themselves, and none of us should interfere." You are really a little worried in your heart, after all, when you were young, you already knew him, and you knew that at that time he was the most important thing to pay attention to.

I remember that when my eldest son got married, at that time, he didn't say in front of him that his status as his eldest daughter-in-law was much lower than that of his son, and he was not in the right household at all.

So from this point, I can see that he still cares a lot about the right person, and there is still such a concept, and at this time, he just wants to test whether he has changed after many years.

"That's all young people have such ideas, and now they are old, and they no longer have this traditional concept, and they always feel that this is the world of young people, and people of our age should not have too many opinions, they should enjoy their own happiness." What he doesn't deny is that when he was young, he did have such a point of view, even when his eldest son got married, he said that their identities were not a good match.

Now that I think about it, I really think like this, it's really too stupid, and it's too pedantic, he is older than himself to be able to figure this out, but he can't figure it out.

Over the past few decades, I have slowly understood this truth, feelings must be between the two sides, you love me, you can't force each other to have feelings, the same is also the right match, that is the most ideal.

If you don't do it right, as long as your grandson thinks it is what he wants, you have no reason to object, and you will respect your grandson's choice.

It is the other party who accompanies him for a lifetime, not with himself for a lifetime, and he should also look away, after they get married, it is impossible to live with him all day, but occasionally come back to see himself when he is free and chat with himself.

At that time, as long as I thought about them in my heart and didn't forget myself, I could still think of my old man being lonely and bored at home, and I could still think of going home to accompany me, and I felt very content.

"It's good to think about it, but I'm still worried that you'll be like the young one, you can't figure out such a simple thing, you can't figure it out, it's too persistent, that's not good, it will ruin their lives." It's not that in the era when they got married, what they paid attention to was the order of their parents and the words of the matchmaker, but now, these have long been gone, and the emphasis is on free love.

"If I haven't thought about it at this age, then I can only live in vain in this life, I have really been confused for a lifetime, he was brought up by himself, I can't even give him what he wants, and I have to stop him, how painful should it be in his heart?" I can imagine that if my attitude is tough, Xiao He must be particularly uncomfortable in the middle, and it will be very difficult to make a decision.

Maybe everyone will be hurt in the end, and the ending will be particularly tragic. This is not a manifestation of his love for him, but a lifetime of harm to him.

"It's really surprising to be able to listen to you say this, and to be able to stand in his shoes for his sake." Ye Lao was an old friend for many years, and he was a little surprised to hear him say these words at this moment, which showed how persistent he was before.

"When I'm old, I don't have the same selfish thoughts as before, he has been with me all these years, and I have watched him grow up, I know that I can't always accompany him in the future, I can't be selfish and think that I have to ask him to marry a person who is the right person, even if I really have such thoughts and want to force him, now that he has grown up, he may not necessarily listen to himself." He is his own grandson, and he is also the person who raised him single-handedly, and he knows better than anyone what his character is.

Let him marry a woman he doesn't love, he would rather be alone and lonely, and would rather be a monk than wronged himself.

After knowing this, he never had such a thought in his heart, so he had to force him to find someone who was right.

Since then, I feel that it's okay if he likes it anyway, no matter what kind of girl she is, as long as she really likes it. As long as the other party's character is not too bad, the rest is acceptable.

"It's really rare to be able to hear you say such a thing, you were quite persistent in the past, and you couldn't pull back ten cows." When he was young, he would definitely do what he wanted to do, and he would never change his mind easily.

"You will say that it was me before, after so many things and so many years, I haven't seen through such small things." He Lao did not deny that his previous self did have such thoughts, but those have passed, and he has already thought it out now.

"Anyway, I especially remember that your opinion was very sad at that time, and you said that you had to have a son or something." It's because I know him too well, so I still remember my own things vividly.

"It's all old things, you don't have to bring it up again in front of me and forget about it." It was a long time ago, and he almost forgot what he didn't say.

"Aren't you worried? If the girl he found back was a person who saw money and forgot his friends? "But if he and his grandson marry such a granddaughter-in-law, will he be angry?

Ye Lao was a little optimistic at this moment, and when he said these words, he just wanted to hear what he thought in his heart.

"On this point, I can honestly tell you that there is no need to worry about this at all, because I believe that his vision will not be so bad, and the character of everyone he can look at is not much worse." Regarding this, I still believe in my grandson's vision, he has always been so vicious, and the person he likes definitely has a reason to like it, and it will not be an ordinary girl.

So he really doesn't have to worry, what kind of girl will he find for himself, the person who can get into his eyes is definitely not ordinary.

"Hehe, I can't imagine that you are quite sure about this, but you are not worried at all, what kind of person will you find." Although Ye Lao said this at this time, he also felt that what the other party said was not completely unreasonable, how could a person born in a family like them find someone casually.