Chapter 339: Do You Hope Your Son Is Not Happy

He Yuhe's words made both of them shut up in an instant. Who hasn't thought about this question, and suddenly was asked by his son like this, both of them looked at each other a little, but they couldn't give the final answer.

Yes, what he said was not wrong at all, he really didn't think about him from his point of view at that time, he just blindly felt that such a choice was the best for him, but ignored it, it was not what he wanted.

But from another point of view, how could parents think so much, wholeheartedly just thinking about how to make their children's future life better, what kind of choices will not affect his future, he will not take into account his true thoughts in his heart at all, and he never thought that one day he would quarrel with himself because of such a thing.

The crux of the matter now is that he shouldn't have made such a decision for him in the first place, and he shouldn't have been brought to the United States in a hurry without asking him, is it because of this reason that he feels that he hurt that girl?

Or is it that after he regained his memory, he felt that it was not worth it for that girl, and he came back to seek justice for the other party.

He Yuhe watched his parents' expressions change, and after a while, he said lightly, "Isn't this feeling particularly bad, do you feel that other people have no reason to decide their own lives for others, but why did you decide all this for me in the first place?" The other party is an orphan, and as long as it is what I want, I don't feel that she will hinder me at all. "What you want, you can fight for it yourself, and you don't need the arrangement and sympathy of others.

If you really like someone, you won't like it because of what kind of identity the other person is, no matter what kind of identity you have. Because what I like is that person, not the identity behind her.

Regarding this, my parents are too much, they don't understand themselves, and they made such a decision to themselves in a hurry, don't they know that this is what they hate the most?

In that case, they can discuss it with themselves, and they are not incomprehensible, they are doing this for the sake of their own future, but at least they have to respect themselves, and they have to ask themselves, even if they were too late, then afterwards, they lived with them for more than five years, but in the end they didn't tell themselves anything, if they remembered correctly, and then, after they recovered, they also specially asked them what happened at the beginning.

As a result, they still fooled themselves, or said casually, and they didn't want to say anything, at that time they had every chance to say it, why didn't they say it at that time, they had to wait for themselves to bring it up before they talked about these issues.

"How can it not hinder your future, if you let other people know that you are a young master of the He family, married an orphan, and the people behind your back still don't know what to say?" Chen Fangru always felt that she couldn't pass the face level, after all, her son, those characters with heads and faces.

turned out to marry an orphan who didn't even know his identity, maybe people wouldn't say anything on the surface, but behind the scenes, there would definitely be gossip.

And as his mother, how could he allow him to do such a thing, not only is it bad for the reputation of the family, but it will also have little impact on his future.

"I can say whatever people like, I can't control these things, I just know that I love each other, it's that I really want to live with each other for the rest of my life, isn't it?" He Yuhe felt that he really didn't mean so much about other people's thoughts and visions, as long as he felt that it was the right person.

After all, the other party wants to live with him for a lifetime, and he must find someone who truly loves him, no matter what the other party's status is, these will not affect at all.

However, as they said, if you just find a good match, it will only help you in your career future, but you are not the woman you love, then your happiness in the rest of your life will be ruined, and you will never be happy again.

Don't they want their sons? Live a little happier, just hope to be able to grow the family's business, in front of them, feel that they are infinitely beautiful, but in fact, they are living a very miserable life, is all this what they want to see?

He Yuhe sincerely felt that he didn't know what his parents thought, why they imposed those ideas on themselves, why they didn't want to be happy and couldn't fulfill themselves and be with the people they liked.

When they see themselves unhappy, will they be happy?

As parents, we shouldn't all want our children to have a better life and be happier. But so far, I can't see this performance at all in front of my parents, they are just for the interests of the family, just for the sake of their so-called future, completely ignoring their own thoughts, ignoring what they want.

"Even if you want to find someone you like, you can't find a status disparity that is too great, no matter what, you have to find a girl who is the right person." Chen Fangru has always felt that her son should be looking for a girl who is the right person, not just a random person whose identity and status are unknown.

"What do you mean by being a doorman? Is she the kind of knowledgeable lady who is rich and faced. "They just see everything on the surface and think that the other party has a big lady with a head and a face, but they don't know what the other party's personality is.

Do they want such a woman to live with themselves for a lifetime, without thinking about their own happiness at all, without considering their own feelings, let alone whether all this is what they want, they will only consider that the other party is right with their own family, considering that the other party is innocent, or that the other party's family has the ability to help their own career.

Could it be that they think of their mother like this in their hearts, don't they believe that they have the ability to live a better life, when they were working hard in the United States, didn't they see all this? Even today, I still don't believe that I have the ability to live a good life.

Thinking about themselves from another angle, I really don't know if they really understand themselves, they are their only son, in their own opinion, they don't know themselves at all, they don't know what they want, they don't know their own thoughts, and they are not as good as their grandfather in this regard.

"At least, such a girl can handle it and won't be ridiculed by others." Yes, a family like his own, he is absolutely not allowed to marry an orphan.

He Yuhe looked at his mother and laughed dryly, it turned out that he had always thought like this in his heart, the reason why he did this was just to know that the other party was an orphan, and he felt that the other party was sorry for him, so he did such a thing in order not to delay his future.

Chen Fangru looked at her son's expression, and suddenly felt a little scared, whether he had done something wrong or said something wrong, his reaction was a little sudden.

He Shaobin listened to their conversation very calmly on the side, in fact, he understood the meaning of his son's words. He just doesn't want his family to be able to influence his marriage and let him choose, and another thing is to respect his ideas.

But these are things in the past, how can they change?

"What you did at the beginning put me in the point of being unkind and unjust, and it is really enough to say these things like this today." I really feel that I have nothing to communicate with my parents, and each other's thoughts are not on the same line at all.

Is it the so-called generation gap, there is still a big generation gap between myself and them. In other words, there is nothing to communicate between myself and them, because in the end, the communication is only the two sides insist on their own words.

It may be that no one will get any benefit, and no one will lose anywhere. Anyway, it's like this, you say your point of view, I say mine, and in the end, each other's point of view can't be concentrated.

It seems that I chose to go back to the United States this time, and I don't seem to have gained anything, maybe I also let myself know more clearly what my parents think. In the end, if there is something to think about, there should be nothing to discuss with them, after all, the Tao is not the same.

The ideas between themselves and them are really very different, they have never stood in their own perspective, thought about themselves, but just blindly felt that it was good for them to think like this. But they ignore the most important point, they are no longer the three-year-old children they were at the mercy of them, they say that where they go, they should go, now they have grown up, have their own ideas, and know what they want.

Even, He Yuhe has such an idea, and thinks that it is better to communicate with his grandfather. After all, grandpa can still understand his own thoughts, can stand in his own position, and will not force himself to do something he doesn't like to do.

They were originally their parents, and they should know themselves very well, but now they realize that this is not the case, and there are really many problems between themselves and them, and sometimes they can't communicate at all.

"The reason why I did this at the beginning was not for your own good, and I was not as bad as you imagined, at least, before leaving, I also paid all the girl's medical expenses in advance, which is a lot of burden on her, but she works part-time and earns half a lifetime may not be able to earn." Chen Fangru didn't want to tell his son about this, but at this time he was so disappointed in himself, so he could only say it to let him know that he was not as bad as he imagined.

The other party is the person you are looking for, the person who will accompany you for the rest of your life, and only you can clearly know what kind of person will be suitable for you. After all, the other party is accompanying them, not accompanying them, so they have no right to decide anything for themselves.

(End of chapter)