Chapter 194: White Lies and Truth
"I really hope that it can be done, as you said, then grandpa will be happy." It can be seen that she really cares about herself and wants her own well, but unfortunately some things (love) are not as simple as she imagined.
Even these words, I don't know how to tell him, after all, this is my own trouble, and I shouldn't say it, so that she knows to worry about herself.
At this moment, she can give herself these warm suggestions and warm words, which has made her feel very rare.
clearly knows that she is not her family, but she is really good to herself, she treats herself as a family member, and always cares about herself, even more than her relatives.
Sometimes I think in my heart, it's a pity that it's not my own relatives, if she is really my relatives, how good it would be, I will definitely cherish her very much.
In fact, looking at the way she looks in front of her reminds me of when I was young.
(sex) personality is similar to when he was young (quite ting), and he didn't rely on this stubborn personality (sex xing) to break out of today's Chaoyang Shengshi Group.
"Okay, don't talk so much, how about tasting it first." Shu Yixin wanted to listen to his suggestion, and he made it for him, I don't know if I will like it.
Ye Lao just raised his head and glanced at her with complicated eyes, then didn't say anything, picked up a piece of dim sum and tasted it slowly.
Just this heart has made me feel very satisfied, what is there to be picky about, not to mention that this is what she made for herself, and it should be more emotional to eat.
Yixin was also very quiet on the sidelines, watching his grandfather's reaction, knowing that when people taste something, he shouldn't talk too much and ask more questions, because in this way, it will disturb the other party's thoughts.
At this time, he chose to stand quietly aside, and when he finished tasting, he would naturally speak.
Because there are some things (ๆ qing) that you can't think about too much, and it's useless to be anxious. I should learn the mentality of the elderly, and sometimes I should slow down a little bit, and I shouldn't be too hasty.
After Ye Lao finished eating a piece of dim sum, Shu Yixin felt a sense of urgency, and said softly, "Grandpa, how is it, the taste is not to your liking." "Of course, there is a kind of urgency, and it is impossible not to know the answer.
Ye Lao raised his head to look at her, but he didn't speak, just picked up another kind of snack and ate it slowly.
Well, seeing this (qingqing) this scene is comforting, and I can only keep the original state and continue to wait.
In short, at this time, I can't be anxious, and I can't urge others, at this moment, I just need to wait patiently, and nothing else should be done.
Ye Lao slowly and carefully tasted it, and then said lightly, "It's really not bad, it's much better than I imagined." It can be seen that she has spent a lot of effort to make such a snack.
After Shu Yixin heard that sentence was really good, he let go of his hanging heart. If she hadn't heard this sentence, she wouldn't have felt at ease at all, she always felt that her level was too poor, maybe people didn't like to eat at all.
After listening to him, his heart settled down a little. I'm really a little worried, he doesn't like to eat the dim sum he made, but in fact, he still attaches great importance to this matter (Qingqing) in his heart.
"Really, grandpa, you didn't either, you didn't lie to me, didn't you want to make me happy, so you said it on purpose" Shu Yixin was really a little worried, the reason why grandpa said this was just to say it to himself, it was not as good as he imagined.
I still hope that he can tell the truth, at least let himself know where he is wrong, so that he can improve in the future.
If it is those sweet words, for yourself, you don't like to hear them at all, because for yourself, there is no use at all, but you feel good at the moment, but it can't change the root of the problem.
"Don't worry, the child's grandfather won't lie to you, if it's not as good as it says, of course I will say it, I hope you can correct it." If at this time, the level she does is not as good as she said, but she says it is so good, it will only hurt her, and it will not help her at all.
How could she do such a thing (Qing qing), she wouldn't do anything that harmed her (Qing Qing), and at this time she was telling the truth, it was true that the dim sum she made was really delicious.
If it doesn't taste good, I will directly correct it, because I can't let her be wrong again and again, and if she is wrong, she will correct it, and then you will know what is wrong.
If she doesn't say it, she will never know what is wrong, and she can't hurt others like this.
Ye Lao is a person who has come over, so he naturally knows the truth very well, and at this time, of course, he hopes that someone can correct him and let him know that those places are wrong.
For yourself in the future, if you can directly correct in which aspect, isn't it to save a lot of effort, if you don't know where you are wrong, that's the saddest place, and in the end, you go around and around, waste a lot of time, just find the right direction, everything you do in the middle time, is a waste of time.
"What I want is grandpa, tell me the truth, don't deceive me, at least let me know what is wrong, so that I can correct it later." Shu Yixin said very sincerely, what she wanted was an accurate answer, not a white lie.
White lies are of no use to her at all. It may just be the moment you listen to it and think it's good, but it doesn't change anything.
"You can have such a cognition, grandpa is very happy after hearing it, I didn't want to deceive you, it's the truth, grandpa is a person who has come over, and he knows where the commission is wrong at this time, which is very useful for correction in the future, at least don't bother to find out the reason for the mistake, so I will say it directly if there is a problem." Ye Lao used the (body) of the past to tell her that he would not choose to deceive.
At this time, if you choose to deceive her, it will only hurt her, and you don't know where you are wrong, for her good, you will definitely not choose to deceive at this time, or choose to tell the truth, in fact, there is nothing to tell her the truth of the matter (Qingqing), at least let her know where she is wrong, next time, it will not be much easier to correct, no need to waste time, continue to dwell on what is wrong with yourself.
She is really good to herself, so how can she treat her badly, if there is anything wrong, of course she wants to correct her, because she also hopes from the bottom of her heart that she can learn better.
"I'm also serious, (Tingting) Thank you for saying that, it's true, if, at this time, you choose to deceive me, I will never know where I am wrong, it may take time in the future, if you directly tell me where I am lacking at this time, I will modify it directly from that place." Shu Yixin didn't know, tell the truth like this, it's good if it's good, it's not good to eat, don't use any white lies at all.
For myself, there is no shortage of this kind of white lie, and what I need most is that kind of truth.
Because of true advice, it is possible to help yourself grow, and white lies will only keep you living in lies. In this way, it is impossible for you to make any progress at all.
It only gives me the illusion that I feel quite good about myself, and that the snacks I make are particularly delicious, but in fact this is not the case at all.
This is just a state of self-blindness, and I will always be complacent about it, and I can't find the real reason.
"Because grandpa is from the past, so if you know your needs and details, you have to pay attention to them, and there are no big problems with the rest." It may be because of the dosage and heat that are still somewhat lacking, and these details need to be paid attention to.
Shu Yixin listened carefully to what her grandfather said, after all, for her, these are completely beneficial, and she will have to revise them more in the future.
Listened to all the suggestions, after all, I still have to revise them later. I'm still in the learning period, so there's still a lot of room for me. After listening to these experiences, I believe that I will be better for myself, and the next time I let him eat these snacks, he will definitely be more satisfied.
After saying this, Shu Yixin hesitated, but still felt that he should say it, missed this opportunity, and he didn't know when he would see him next time, so he didn't want to miss this opportunity.
"Well, by the way, grandpa, there is one more thing (qingqing), I want to ask you." After all, he is in front of him now, and it is much more convenient for him to ask him if he has anything to say, just use it directly.
If he leaves the coffee book house, he doesn't know how to find him, and some things on the phone may not be clear, so it's better to say it directly in person.
Ye Lao looked at her with puzzled eyes, and said softly, "If you have anything to say, just say it, grandpa can help you, and he will definitely help you." "It's rare that she has something to ask for help from herself, if she can help me, how can she not help.
"That is, I have a friend who suggested that I go and learn professional business management knowledge, but now, I am also hesitant, I don't know whether to study it, I don't know what kind of opinion you have, grandpa." It's an impulse in my heart, I have such a good opportunity, I can try it, but I have other worries.
It's because I can't make up my mind in my heart and sway from side to side, so I want to listen to his advice at this time, so that he can tell himself as a person who has come over whether he should take that step bravely.
Ye Lao didn't expect her to suddenly say such a thing to herself, which was a little too unexpected, but after thinking about it for a while, she still said softly. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~