"Thank you, grandpa, you are so good to me, but for the time being, I don't need your help, if I really need your help one day in the future, I will definitely say it." Shu Yixin is indeed grateful to the person called grandpa in front of him, he is also (tinging) good to himself, and said that he can find him if he needs anything.

Although there is nothing for me to help with at the moment, hearing him say this, I still feel (quite comfortable), maybe I will ask him for help if I really need it in the future.

At present, I can't talk too much, I don't need his help, maybe there really will be a day, so listen to it first. If you really need help, you will ask.

I can't say that I don't need help from others in my life, there will always be something (qing) where I need help from others, so at the beginning, I can't be too resolute and directly refuse people's help to me.

Maybe one day, when the situation is critical, I need the help of others, so at this time, I can only thank others for their kindness.

"Well, children don't do things (affection) too strong, it's good to show weakness appropriately, if you feel that your ability is not good, you have to accept the help of others, don't be proud of self-esteem or something, refuse the help of others, understand" It's not because you can't do it, you need the help of others, sometimes even if you are very capable, you will still need it, sometimes, the so-called self-esteem is not so valuable, and it is not as arrogant as imagined.

Need the help of others, not as bad as you think, sometimes it is not because of insufficient ability, but because of other factors, even if you are very capable, there is always one aspect that needs the help of others, so don't hang your so-called self-esteem high, feel that accepting help from others is a denial of your own ability.

Actually, this is not the case, sometimes you shouldn't think too much, and you shouldn't put those complicated thoughts on your head.

Everyone needs help from others at times, but not now, but it doesn't mean that there won't be such a situation in the future, so when someone wants to help you out of kindness, don't immediately refuse the kindness of others, because you will break the other person's heart by doing so.

After all, the other party is also well-intentioned, wants to help you, wants to help you through the current predicament, but you hang the so-called self-esteem high, and directly reject the other party in the case of not knowing anything, so will anyone take the initiative to lend a hand and help you in the future?

"Grandpa, I understand what you said, I just think, try not to cause trouble for others, it's not that I don't accept their help." Shu Yixin didn't know this truth, but all along, she didn't want to cause trouble for others, she just tried to solve it if she could solve it herself.

From childhood to adulthood, she clearly knows that she can't rely too much on others in her own life and work, because this will develop habits (sexual xing), and in the end she will be broken by this habit (sexual xing).

Slowly, I feel that I should rely on myself to do things, and I should not rely too much on others, not to say that I directly deny and accept the help of others.

It's not that I don't understand the truth, but I feel that I shouldn't easily accept the help of others before I try it, maybe I can think of a better way in the process and be able to solve it by myself.

"But sometimes, these things (feelings) can't be avoided, maybe you should think about it from another angle, although you have caused trouble to others at this time, they have helped you, maybe one day the other party also needs your help, and the same will also cause you trouble." Ye Lao directly gave an example and told her that sometimes she really needs the help of others, which is not ashamed and does not feel anything.

Actually, there really is nothing to be ashamed of in this, and sometimes, in order to achieve a certain means, it is really necessary to do so. It's not that you will be embarrassed to do so, you can't be able to do anything like that, in short, it's still possible.

Shu Yixin listened very quietly to his grandfather and himself analyzing these things, and he told himself as a person who came over. Just listening to him say these things has benefited me a lot.

People have so many years of experience, how long does it take for them to accumulate these experiences, and now, there are ready-made people who tell them about their experience. Doesn't it save a lot of time and energy, isn't there a saying that doesn't say so, don't listen to the old man, suffer in front of you.

Sometimes it's really good to listen to the old people and listen to their advice. It's not that there is no gain at all, nor does it mean that there is no experience at all, but in fact, it is still very helpful.

"Yes, grandpa, I will keep these words you said to me today in my mind." I should even thank him for telling myself so much experience as a person who has come over.

"It's great if you can remember what grandpa said to you, in short, grandpa still says the same thing, if you need help, you can speak directly, don't think too much about other factors, grandpa will try to help if he can." It can be seen that she is really filial to herself and really treats herself as a family member, so this is the only thing she can repay her.

I hope that one day I can do something for her (qing), but there is a premise, if it is not a particularly urgent or difficult problem to solve, she should not find herself, because her personality (sex xing) is really similar to her own personality (sex xing) when she was young.

When Ye Lao left the coffee book house, Shu Yixin also specially prepared some snacks for him to take back to eat, although it was only a few pieces of snacks, but it was also a favorite of others.

"Grandpa, you can take these snacks back to eat, and if you like them later, you can also call me, and I can prepare more for you." For myself, these are all easy things to do, as long as grandpa wants, you can prepare for grandpa at any time.

"Well, since you said that, grandpa is welcome." In any case, this is also the intention of others, and I should not waste it.

Regardless of whether you like to eat these snacks or not, you should say it at this time, how to say it, it is also specially prepared for yourself, if you refuse at this time, it becomes a little strange, and people will feel that they are difficult to get along with.

"Grandpa, don't be polite to me, didn't you say before, when you need to help, you can come directly to you, so at this time, I just want to take this snack and bribe you first." Shu Yixin said this deliberately, afraid that the other party would not accept the dim sum he had specially prepared for him.

In fact, she also knows that there are only these things she can prepare for the other party, and the others should not be of much help, and he doesn't need to do anything (qingqing) by himself.

No matter how you say it, it's your own mind, and it's made by yourself, and it's done for him, in short, no matter what, it's your own mind.

"You think long-term, and at this time you want to take these snacks and bribe grandpa." Although Ye Lao said this, when he said these words, he was actually quite happy.

No matter what she said at this time, she also knew that she was just letting herself accept these snacks with peace of mind.

She did this for one purpose, and that purpose was very clear to herself, so there was no need to debunk it.

"This is a must, although there is nothing to do at present, you need your help, grandpa, but it does not mean that in the future, there is nothing to ask you for help, at this time, it is necessary to make a long-term plan, lest you feel that I am not attentive enough." Shu Yixin still said with a smile, of course he had a bright smile when facing others, but he couldn't say that he had a strained face.

talked for most of the day, just so that the other party could accept their snacks with peace of mind.

"Okay, then you have to be more careful, otherwise grandpa won't help you at that time, maybe I can think about it, see your sincerity, and then see how to help you." Ye Lao said to her, it is not impossible to want to help herself, but you also have to look at her sincerity.

"Yes, I will definitely treat you like a grandfather, don't worry." After all, I do have such thoughts in my heart.,I've always treated him as the closest (AI-loving) person.。

Ye Lao nodded, but didn't say anything, and finally said before leaving, "Although it is very important, you should also pay more attention to your body, grandpa will still come to see you when he is free." "No matter what, you have to pay attention to your body, you can't finish your work. After listening to this, Shu Yixin also nodded very movingly, and said softly, "Don't worry, grandpa, I will remember what you say, and I will do the same." "The grandfather in front of me can be regarded as one of the people who cares about himself.

In fact, there are not many people who can really care about themselves like this, and they can count them by themselves, and the grandfather in front of him is one of them, and he feels very good about him.

People treat themselves like this, how can they treat others badly, they treat him like a grandfather, but they can also see that he also treats himself as a granddaughter.

It can only be said that these are mutual, how good you are to others, how the other party will reciprocate. Although they have only met a few times in front of them, their friendship is actually quite deep, and they can be regarded as a friend and confidant worth trusting

Each other has such thoughts and treats each other sincerely.

"Since you say so, grandpa is relieved." I really feel that now I think that if she were her granddaughter, she would be very happy. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~