Chapter 107: Go with the Flow
At the beginning, didn't he also use such words to persuade He Yuhe? Therefore, the same words are also applicable to oneself.
For myself, these things are simply nothing to do, they don't exist at all, so there is nothing to worry about, when such things really happen, I will only be entangled in these things at that time, and it will be too late.
When things get to that point, I will have to worry about these problems in the future, and there are more other things to deal with for the time being. There is simply no time to grieve and remember, after all, your own time does not allow you to do such useless things.
If you say that you have so much time in the United States, you might as well think about other things, to be honest, you really don't have that time to make yourself sad, after all, there are still a lot of things waiting for you to do, as for your own life experience, there is not much hope, you can't see your family in this life.
I don't want to dream, I see my family, but I have been dreaming for so many years, and what progress has I made, the initial hope has turned into disappointment, and now I don't want to think about this thing, I don't have to think about it, in fact, I am an orphan, I always feel that I am the same as everyone else, there is nothing special.
Now it's not also relying on your own efforts, trying to earn money to support yourself, and trying to make yourself live a better life. How is it different from ordinary workers? There is no essential difference at all, that is, every time I come home, I don't have a family to accompany me.
But I live with my sisters, in fact, I am not alone, and I am not so lonely, so I really don't have to think about myself, there is no such thing as a family, after all, life has to go on, and thinking too much will only waste my brain cells for myself.
Lin Ya's words still reminded herself, but over the years, they have been looking for themselves, how can they say that in the past so many years, there is no use at all, so the chance of finding them in the future is not too high.
So I shouldn't, put all my energy there, I should pay attention to some other things, and I have to live until I can find a home. Even if they find them, they have to live their own lives, and they have to live to live, and they can't say that if they find them, they don't have to work.
I can't think of such a thing, even if I am naïve to let my own family, I still need opportunities, and I also need to live on my own ability.
In short, it is an unchangeable fact that no matter whether you find them or not, your life will go on.
So now I still have to work hard and put all my energy on work, isn't it better? What's more, on these issues, it is not necessarily possible to change.
Regardless of whether I will be able to find my family in the future, or whether I will be able to reunite with my family one day, there is one thing that cannot be changed.
"I always feel like you're a little different today, and you seem to be working harder than usual." When Ren Xiaoou came to the coffee bookstore, he felt that the comfort in front of him seemed to be a little different from usual.
Although it still looks the same as usual, but it feels a little different to me, I always feel that the person in front of me is not the one I am usually familiar with, so could it be that something happened again?
"What's the difference, it's because you think too much." Shu Yixin doesn't feel that there is anything different at all, she just wants to work harder and manage the coffee business harder.
Because these are the things you should do, and those things that you shouldn't think about really shouldn't waste time and minds, and you will only toss your mind and hard work.
"No, I can't tell, but it's clear that you're a little different today than usual." There is indeed such an idea, but as for the details, I can't say.
Shu Yixin just looked at her, smiled, and said softly, "I just figured out some things and wanted to work harder." Shu Yixin seemed calm when he said these words, after all, he should not waste time on this when he figured out these things.
After listening to her explanation, Ren Xiaoou felt a little curious and said lightly.
"Listening to the tone of your words, it seems that you really see through something, can you share it with me?" I want to see what kind of things can make her change.
You can also learn from her, after all, good things and good plans can still be used for reference.
"Yesterday I suddenly thought about a question, why I was separated from my family in the first place, and whether there would be any conspiracy in the middle, but then I figured it out and felt that I shouldn't dwell on these things, even if I really found them one day, I still have to live on my own." Even if you find it, you still have to continue your job and life, so you don't need to worry about this problem, a better job is the most basic.
"It's true, even if you get your family back, you still need to work, you still need to live." Ren Xiaoou quite agrees with her statement, no matter what kind of family she finds later, what kind of family she has, according to her own understanding of her, it is impossible for her not to come out to work, and it is impossible for her to stay at home and be a rice worm.
For her, she may be used to being busy, if she really has nothing to do, but she will feel that this kind of life is particularly difficult, she will definitely find something to do for herself, so she can guess that even if her family is very rich, she will come out to work, not just for money, but for her own pursuit, and she is very similar today.
"So, I shouldn't be entangled in why I was separated from my family, why I grew up in a welfare home or something, I just want to work hard and support myself." Those are unrealistic, meaningless, and don't help yourself, but only add to your own troubles.
In this case, why bother, it is better to live your own life, work hard, and improve your life.
"But what about your family? Don't you really want to find them? Ren Xiaoou clearly knows that over the years, she has always hoped to find her family, and now she will give up if she says give up.
She shouldn't be a person who gives up easily, she has been gone for so many years, and now she will give up when she says to give up, will she really have no regrets? Although the chance is slim, he has never given up hope.
How could she suddenly have such a feeling, wanting to work harder, wanting to forget the past, wanting to give up her family, logically speaking, it is impossible for her to give up her family, and it is impossible not to look for them.
Shu Yixin looked at his best friend, Ren Xiaoou hesitated for a while, and said lightly, "Actually, I don't know, I think things are not as simple as I imagined, more than 2 years have passed, if they really want to find themselves, there is no news at all until now, not that I don't want to find it, but I don't have any thoughts at all now, in the vast sea of people, where should I find it?" Shu Yixin didn't want to say that he was going to find his family, but where he was going to find them, he couldn't ask people casually on the streets, do you know who my parents are.
If you really do this, people will only think of yourself as crazy, think of yourself as a fool, and even in the end, it is very likely that they will send themselves to a mental hospital and feel that they have a mental problem.
So at this time, I can only take one step at a time, and if I have the opportunity, I will still look for it, but I don't have to pay too much attention to it.
"Maybe it's because of something else, so I haven't found you, but it doesn't mean that the other party hasn't been looking for you, I think everyone as a parent will love their children, it's impossible not to look for it." For the time being, they did not find it, there may be other reasons, and it does not mean that they do not love her.
"But have you ever thought that maybe my family is the kind of patriarchal that abandoned me because I was a girl." This traditional custom continues to this day, and there are many people who keep it.
"I haven't thought about that." When Ren Xiaoou said these words, he obviously had no confidence, after all, this is also one of the facts.
"So, do you think it's worth it for me to give everything and get this result? It's better to live your current life and let the rest take its course. "It's best to have fate to reunite yourself with your family, but I also hope that one day, but if I don't have fate, I don't force it.
"Now your idea is to go with the flow and not force it, right?" After listening to it for a long time, I can understand the meaning of her words.
"What you say is also reasonable, I don't deny this point of view, but my life can't revolve around looking for them, before that, should I live a better life and live better to have the opportunity to meet them." What Ren Xiaoou said is not completely unreasonable, and he is not unreasonable, but before this, his life still has to be lived, so he can only rely on himself.
"It seems that I don't need to say anything, you have already thought it through, and you have a reason to think so, but what conspiracy you are talking about, I am quite interested." Ren Xiaoou felt that these two words were too attractive to her, and in fact, she also wanted to know what kind of bloody story had happened to her.
Shu Yixin looked at her, sure enough, she was with her best friend, and her thoughts were thought of together, I also felt that things were not as simple as I imagined, and I might not be sure if there was any conspiracy, but at this time, I was not entangled in this problem. Reading a book and finding the latest chapters by yourself? You're out, WeChat attention Beauty editor helps you find books! It's really a good book to flirt with girls!