They all have their own ideas and their own pursuits. There are many things that the elders really can't interfere with, and they can only wait patiently.

If they want to get married, they will naturally say that they don't need to do anything more, after all, they are already so old people, not filial sons don't need to be prepared to worry about it, not to mention that this era is different from before, it is not an arranged marriage by parents or the words of a matchmaker who is not destined by their parents.

He is also a person from the past, and I believe that this is also clearly known, so I also hope that he will not interfere too much in the affairs of young people's feelings, even if he pampers his daughter, it is not this way.

He dotes on his daughter and can understand it, after all, it is normal to be pampered by only one pearl in the palm of his hand, but feelings are different from others, and they can't be forced, if they can be forced, the world is not chaotic?

"That's right, young people in this society have their own ideas, and those of us as elders can only wait patiently, and the traditional one is really not suitable." If this era is still the life of parents, the words of the matchmaker, why should I have such a headache.

Thinking about the old times and the good of the old times, this is really an open choice, and it makes me feel a little embarrassed.

Sure enough, their grandfather and grandson are really quite similar, and the tone of their speech should be similar. Is he still keeping the traditional set, or is he just trying to get his happiness back for his daughter.

Li Mingmu felt a little lost at this moment, as if he shouldn't have done this. Or even saying to himself, is it right or wrong to do this?

"So, there are some things I can only let go, I can only sigh, it's not me who makes the decision, and I'm really old and can't manage so much." At this moment, I just need to enjoy my old age, and as for the rest, I shouldn't think about it too much.

Wouldn't it be nice to enjoy your current life? There are some things that you don't need to worry about, aren't they bad for yourself? It also saves yourself from worrying about these things all day long, sleeping badly, and eating badly.

Young people's affairs, leave them young people to do, they don't have any opinions, just live their own life, it's also quite comfortable.

"That's right, now young people have their own ideas, and those of us as elders really shouldn't interfere much, but sometimes, when choosing a marriage partner, you have to look at each other's life experience, how to say it, although it's not the old society, but some are still very important." If you don't say some things at this time, I'm afraid you won't have time to wait for a while, and you won't have the opportunity to say them.

If you can't say it directly, then you can only start from other aspects. Hopefully, he will understand, or listen to his own advice.

After all, it is not suitable for this society, but many people still have this idea, even if you are looking for a marriage partner, find someone who is beneficial to you and can help your career or others.

In other words, people are selfish and want what they want.

"It's not that it's completely unreasonable, if you can choose the right person, in fact, it's the best for each other, but it depends on whether you have feelings for each other, if you say, two people are really the right person, because they don't have feelings for each other, they will quarrel together, and in the end, they will end up divorced, and they won't be happy with each other." Seeing such a result, it is better to become a lover yourself at the beginning.

Two people who truly love each other will be happy together, and they will not be happy if they are barely happy.

My thinking is not so traditional, I don't know how to be flexible, and I have always just hoped that my body can be happy. I don't care so much about the rest of myself.

After listening to He Lao's words, Li Mingmu also fell silent, it seems that he shouldn't do these things today, because the result is already obvious.

Everyone has made it so clear that he will not interfere with his grandson's happiness, the initiative is completely in the hands of He Yuhe, as long as he identifies the object, no one in the family will object, regardless of the identity and status of the other party.

In other words, today's self really ran in vain, because the answer he wanted was no, and he also wanted to convince the other party, but he was almost persuaded by the other party.

"Oh, by the way, you see I've forgotten this old fool, is there something wrong with you coming to me?" He Lao's heart is like a mirror, how can he be old and confused?

It's just that at this time, he is pretending to be confused, giving each other a step, and his own words have already been said to this point, and I believe that he has already understood, so there is no need to continue to talk about that topic, you can change the topic.

"No, it's not because of Yiyou's business, you know, she has always liked your grandson, and I was thinking about whether there was a chance to match the two of them, but now it seems that there should be no chance." All the endings are already in front of me, so it's really impossible, and I can't say it helplessly.

Limingmu is quite frank at the moment, and directly said that his purpose is for the children, but after listening to what he said just now, he will know that there is no chance, and he will not be reluctant.

"Hey, I really like that girl, she looks good, and her personality is quite likable." It's a pity that in the end, she and her grandson are not related.

It's one thing to like her, but the key is to see if your grandson likes her too.

From beginning to end, some of the things I said were very straightforward and very clear, and I would not interfere in emotional matters, this was their business, let them watch it.

"What's the use of that? I thought I had a chance to become an in-laws, but after listening to what you just said, I think it shouldn't be very likely. "Maybe I didn't have such an opportunity from the beginning to the end, but I was just deceiving myself.

Originally, the odds of winning were not great, but now that I know better, it is impossible at all. I can only say that I really ran for nothing today, but I also let myself have the answer in my heart, maybe it is really impossible.

If the daughter still insists on being with his grandson, then she can only think of other ways, and the current path is not going to work.

"If it's my personal idea, I'd be quite happy, but you also know that young people now can't allow those of us as elders to interfere, each has his own ideas, and the other party is also the object of his life, if he doesn't like to be reluctantly together, it will only make each other miserable." The person who lived with him all his life was not himself, so he had no right to interfere, let alone decide anything for him.

"So, I don't think there's much of a chance." When Li Mingmu said these words, he also seemed a little self-deprecating.

From beginning to end, they overestimated themselves, overestimated their daughter's current position in them, and thought that with those friendships, they could play some role, but now it seems to be all false.

People don't take themselves as anything at all, they just feel that they have a little weight and status.

In fact, this is not the case, it is just that I overestimated myself.

"Hey! This question is really a bit difficult for me, and you know the affairs of these young people, I can't make decisions for them, let alone decide something for them. He Lao also sighed at this moment that he was really powerless, not that he was unwilling to help, but that he couldn't help at all.

"What you said is indeed quite reasonable, that is, they have such a thing, they will watch it themselves, we are all old, and we can't manage so much." No matter what Li Mingmu says, he can be regarded as an old Jianghu, and he still knows how to socialize with some things.

If you can't do such a simple thing, then isn't it all these years in vain?

"So, we can't take care of too much, young people's affairs, let them do it themselves, we have time to drink tea, chat and pass the time." At present, for myself, there is only such a request, drinking tea and chatting at home, and I will live for the rest of my life.

Is there any other choice for yourself than this one? For the day, there is no other choice at all, so what else can I do, the current state of life, I am quite satisfied, my grandson will occasionally come back to see him when he is free, and he can't ask too much for him.

"That's what I can do now is to enjoy my old age in peace, and as for the rest, there's really nothing to worry about." At this moment, I can only say it like this, it doesn't mean that I can really do this, after all, I am different from him.

However, sometimes you can't say it too bluntly, after all, there are some things that you know well in your heart, and if you say it, it may have an impact on each other.

"Boss, I can't do a lot of things." Regardless of whether you can work hard or not, for yourself, you don't want to work harder.

They are powerless, and even if they are willing to do it, they will not allow themselves to do these things. Every time I want to do something, I will definitely be stopped, so I don't have that kind of thought, and I can only live for a long time, and I don't care about anything.

"Uncle He, I should learn more from your mentality, it's no good to work too some things." There is always a difference between himself and him, and he can only say this on the surface.

"Yes, you're still young, and you haven't seen through some things, and when you reach my age, you may see more clearly than me." After all, there is still a certain age gap between himself and him, and there are some things that he can't guess through, and it's normal that he can't see through them.