Chapter 1043: His Intent
But it doesn't mean that when he reaches his age, he still can't understand these things.
It's not that I don't know that the purpose of his coming here today is not so simple, but even so, he can't say anything more.
In the end, he is not for his baby daughter, except for his baby daughter, there should be nothing else that can make him come, some words are nice on the surface, but how to really calculate behind the scenes, in fact, he still can't see through.
However, these are really not so important to yourself, you don't need to pay too much attention to them, and there is no need to say more, some things are clear in your heart, and there is no need to say them too bluntly.
If some things are said to be clear, it is not necessarily a good thing for each other. Why don't you pretend to be confused and pretend you don't understand anything at this time? Maybe it's the best choice for yourself.
He Lao doesn't mean that he is really old, he can't see through many things, this is just a superficial phenomenon, in fact, he can see it more clearly and thoroughly than anyone else, but it depends on whether he is willing to say it.
If he didn't want to say more, he couldn't force him to say it. Although Li Mingmu is said to be an old Jianghu, he is not bad.
It can only be said that when the two of them are on par, no one is bad, He Lao said that he is old, but some things can be seen more clearly than anyone else, when the other party comes, he is figuring out the other party's intentions.
After all, no one wants to come to see themselves for no reason, how to say it, people are related to themselves, if there is no matter, how can they come to see themselves.
For what the other party said, you can't be so simple, you can believe what people say, you should have your own judgment, have your own ideas, the reason why people come to accompany you is naturally to ask for something.
"It's probably too early to say that, after all, it's not that far, and I don't want to be presumptuous." Li Mingmu still knew clearly that he couldn't boast too much in front of him.
No matter how you say that you are an elder, you are always a little worse than him.
"Well, what Mr. Li said is still a little reasonable, after all, it has not reached that point, and no one knows which direction the next thing will develop." He Lao didn't refute what he said, after all, there is a certain amount of truth, who knows what kind of development will be there before he arrives?
"I just think that there will be any possibility, and it shouldn't be too rigid and stick to one result." What kind of evolution will happen in the end, in fact, no one can predict.
"Maybe I'm really old, and sometimes I really can't keep up with the rhythm of you young people." His age is there, and he is indeed older than them.
"Young people's roles may not be able to keep up, but they are more stable than young people in all aspects." How can they be said to be people who have worked hard in the mall, how can they simply go anywhere?
"Come, let's not talk about that anymore, drink tea, this tea is still brought back to me by my grandson, it is said to be very precious, you taste it, is it really as he said, I am old, I really can't taste it, or you are well-informed, you have also walked around outside over the years, and have drunk a lot of good tea, help me comment on it." He Lao easily changed the topic, not wanting to continue to talk about the topic just now, after all, what should be said and what should not be said, he has already answered him.
Although he said that he was an elder, there were some things that he would not easily interfere in, after all, the affairs of these young people, and he didn't want to ruin the happiness of his grandson.
Even if he really hopes that his grandson can get married as soon as possible and hope that he can have children as soon as possible, he also knows that he can't force him to do these things.
The key depends on whether he has this idea, if he doesn't have the will to do this, no matter what he says, it will be in vain.
"Uncle He, you are still really exalting me, how can I be as well-informed as you." Dawn Mu picked up the teacup and tasted it slowly, and on the other side said some prevarication topics.
Even if this is really the case, at this time, I can't admit it in front of him, and sometimes I have to be humble.
"It's really not to lift you up, I heard that in recent years, Mr. Li, your career has become bigger and bigger, naturally you are well-informed, my old man hasn't been out for many years, how can he compare?" After all, I was there at my age, and I hadn't been out for many years, let alone taken care of those, and I only knew how to recuperate at home.
"Hehe, that's not what I said." Li Mingmu was also a little embarrassed by what the other party said, did he not have any steps down, so he could only smile politely but embarrassedly.
In the end, the two of them talked about some other topics, but they never talked about the feelings of the younger generation, after all, at the beginning, He Lao made it clear that he couldn't do his grandson's affairs.
Li Mingmu heard the meaning of the words, and knew that no matter how much he said to him, it was meaningless, and the key to this matter had to be in the hands of He Yuhe.
I have to say that it does make sense, after all, this is a matter for young people, and elders often have no right to interfere at all.
If it weren't for his daughter's liking, he wouldn't have done such a thing, it was because of his love for her that he would be cheeky enough to do such a thing, but he couldn't interfere with her choice at all, and he couldn't ask her at all, don't continue to like He Yuhe.
She has always liked things and wanted to do, and she can't interfere with or stop them, she can only be as satisfied as possible.
Perhaps, this is the world of young people, and as an elder, I really feel a little helpless.
Sometimes, I am also very powerless, and I can't persuade if I want to. In other words, this is his daughter's business, his emotional matter, he shouldn't interfere more, who makes himself love her so much, so he will be cheeky to do such a thing.
But from another point of view, it makes no sense for me to do this, I don't need to do it at all, knowing that the two of them will not be able to achieve results together, but I still want to do something for her.
Li Mingmu didn't stay in the He family for a long time, his goal had been achieved, although the result was a bit unexpected and not what he wanted, but he could only say that he had done his best.
I can't control these things, nor can I change them, and I have tried my best to explain to my daughter.
If you don't do anything, then you must feel a little guilty when facing your daughter.
But at this time, she did everything, although the result was not very satisfactory, but for herself, it was considered to be a good effort, and there was no such deep sense of guilt, and the things after that could only be sighed, she asked for more blessings.
I have tried my best to help the result, but I still can't change it, and I can only sigh that I can't do anything.
When I think of this, I also have a special headache, how should I explain to her after I go back? She must have felt particularly disappointed.
"Are you really in such a hurry to leave, why don't you stay and have a meal with my old man before leaving?" Liming Mu wanted to leave, but He Lao still wanted to keep him for a meal before leaving.
Anyway, I came to accompany myself for so long today, and I should stay for a meal.
"No, I really don't need to, there are still some things to deal with, next time, Uncle He, I will definitely come over to eat with you if I have the chance." I've already said everything I need to say, and it doesn't seem to have any face to continue to stay, let alone have nothing to say.
Originally, I came here by myself, just to find out what He Lao meant, but at this time, I already knew what I wanted, and there was no need to continue to stay with a dead face.
"Well, now that you've said that at this point, what more can I say. Be careful when you go back, you can still come to me if you have time. "I did what I should be polite, and since people don't want to stay, there is no need for me to force it.
"Yes, yes, if I have the opportunity, I will definitely spend more time with you, or even have dinner together." It's just that that day is not today, because I really don't have this mood today.
"Okay, I'll be waiting for you at home." Anyway, when I reach this age, where else can I go except stay at home?
After the other party left, He Lao also sighed deeply, he didn't want to socialize so much, he just came to the house directly, and he couldn't hide from others and not meet, so he could only reluctantly see the other party.
In fact, as soon as I saw him, I saw through his intentions and his thoughts. And he also told him bluntly that this matter is not up to him, and his words have already been said, hoping that he can wake up and not continue to put hope on himself.
After all, these young people's affairs are really unchangeable. I told him very bluntly that I really can't interfere in the affairs of young people, and I believe he will understand and understand.
It's just that I don't know if he listened to his words, and whether he will continue to be obsessed in the future. He Lao is still a little worried, and he will continue to come to him in the future, and he may not give up.
Forget it, there really is that day, think about the rest yourself, I really can't think about it so much now.
At this time, I should worry about this matter, whether I should tell my grandson, so that he can be prepared.