Chapter 963 is all caused by poor expression
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At this time, I really regretted it a little, if I had known, I shouldn't have told him about it.
If I hadn't said those things to him, wouldn't I have those troubles?
At the beginning, I just thought that I didn't want to hide it from him, and I didn't want to have any secrets with him. didn't expect it to end like this, but instead it evolved into him doubting himself.
Ren Xiaoou was wondering if he had done something wrong at this time, he shouldn't have taken the initiative to tell him these things, if he hadn't told him anything, then he and he wouldn't have quarreled over such a thing.
"No, I'm very clear about what I told you before, I don't have such thoughts, and I won't think of you like this, I just want to make it clear to you, I don't want you to be so wronged because I know that the other party is my grandfather deliberately currying favor with him, I don't want you to be so wronged, this was so aggrieved before you got married." At present, I am not married to her, and I really don't want to see her suffer such grievances before she is married.
"I don't think I have any grievances in doing this, but before that, it was Yixin who knew your grandfather first, and, it was true, treat him as his own grandfather, and then he often came to the coffee bookstore, I only occasionally talked to him when I was free, at the beginning, I just felt that he was a little familiar, even so, I treated him sincerely." At this time, I can tell him very directly and frankly, not just because of the identity of the other party.
In his own opinion, he never thought of marrying into a wealthy family, in other words, his family conditions are also good, and for himself, he has no worries about food and clothing, and he has never thought about marrying into a wealthy family.
All along, I just want to marry my beloved, and be happy and loving together for the rest of my life, even if the other party is a poor boy, I won't feel anything, because he is the person he loves, and he can work hard with him to create a better tomorrow.
It's the same when I'm with him, not because his family is rich, but because I like him as a person.
But he has been with him for so long, he doesn't seem to understand what he wants, whether he superficially feels that he also wants to be with him because of his identity and background.
If he really thinks about himself like this in his heart, then he can tell him very clearly that he really thinks about himself wrong, because he is not that kind of person.
"I know that none of you are such people, so I will not doubt you, I can see that you are really good to grandpa, and grandpa likes you a lot, but I am not a grandson who does not do a good job, and I usually have no time to spend with him." Ye Jinghao can also see after getting along today that his grandfather really likes the two of them.
It's not that I'm blind, it's not that I can't see it, in fact, I also have a bottom in my heart, and in the final analysis, I just don't want her to be wronged. I don't want to deliberately please because I know that the other party is my grandfather.
"Say something I shouldn't say, in fact, if you have time, you should still accompany your grandfather more, it can be seen that he should be quite lonely, every time he comes, he likes to sit there and chat with us, no matter what he says, but someone accompanies him, he will not feel lonely, and will laugh very happily." The elderly, like children, need to be accompanied and need playmates.
When the children grow up, they all have their own things to do, but they ignore the mood of the old man, leaving him alone to stay at home all day and can't do anything. There is no one to accompany me, in fact, it is really lonely.
"Yes, I really didn't notice this before, ignoring you and my family, but when I thought it clearly, I also had a sincere conversation with my grandfather, and I also said that if I have time, I will definitely go home more often to eat with him, accompany him to the garden, and chat." Ye Jinghao did not deny it at all that his girlfriend said these words, and his previous self really ignored this, only caring about work and ignoring the people around him.
"It's just that your grandfather is still very good, and he is very coaxing, he just doesn't want to be lonely, he doesn't want to be alone, so he often comes out and walks around, even if we don't have anyone to accompany him, he sits in the coffee book room and watches those people come and go, and his mood will be much better." When you are alone at home, you always feel a little lonely, and going out for a walk to see different people and things will make you feel much better.
It's better than staying at home every day and watching those troubles. Although he is said to be the head of the family, it is inevitable that there are some troublesome and complicated things at home that he has to worry about.
"Well, I've also thought about this point clearly, and I'm also thinking that if I have time and opportunity, I'll accompany him more, but you also know that I still have work to do, and I can't say that I put down my work and accompany him all day without doing anything, which is also unrealistic." I really want to spend more time with them, but I still have work to do, and the time is limited.
Sometimes I can only sigh that I am powerless, not because I am unwilling, but I really don't have that much time.
"I didn't ask you to say that you would accompany your grandfather all day and all night, but I just hope that when you are free occasionally, you can think of him as an old man who can accompany him more, even if it is to have a meal with him and walk with him, he will be happy." What he said is not that he can't understand it, in fact, he can figure it out, but he just hopes that he will take a little time, not to take up too much of his time.
"Yes, I will definitely do this in the future, I will definitely spend more time with my grandfather, and at the same time, I will also spend more time with you." She is her girlfriend, and naturally hopes that she can accompany her more.
"I don't expect you to spend a lot of time with me, it's just that you can think of me once in a while." In fact, I also know one thing clearly, I am different from his grandfather, after all, my grandfather is already a lot older, and the days when I can accompany him are really one day less.
In the future, he still has a lot of time to accompany himself, so he didn't seem too anxious at this time.
I still think that if he has time, I still hope that he can accompany his grandfather more, after all, grandpa's age is there.
"Only you are so empathetic that you can understand my thoughts, and I feel that I have really found the right person." Isn't I particularly happy to find such a considerate and understanding girlfriend, I think about myself everywhere.
"I just don't think it's worth it for my grandfather, and I don't want him to be so lonely." Obviously, there are a lot of children and grandchildren around her, but in such a situation, it still makes him feel lonely, what does this mean?
"I don't know how many times I did it wrong, not to mention that I didn't realize it at all, so it was a big mistake, but now I am aware of this problem and am slowly improving." Ye Jinghao did not deny what she said at all, and even felt that what she said was quite reasonable, and it was indeed her own failure to do a good job as a descendant.
"It's best to have such a sense of self, so that people around you don't have to talk about you, maybe in your eyes, you will also feel that I have no position to say anything about you." After all, this is their family's business, and they are just an outsider, so they really have no position to say these things.
"No, but I've never thought of it that way in my heart, and I don't think you're an outsider and don't have any position to say about me." I firmly believe in justice, if what he says is reasonable, no matter who says it to him, he will accept it calmly.
I am not the kind of pedantic person, not the kind of person who can't listen to the truth, no matter who it is, as long as it makes sense, I will accept it with an open mind.
Ye Jinghao knew that she might not be able to listen to what she said, but fortunately, her attitude was quite good at this time.
"You don't want to be hippie with me, I haven't forgiven you for what you said just now?" Don't smile at yourself at this time, just say a few words, and you will forgive him.
I can't deny that what he said is really hurtful. I was really hurt by him, and I don't feel so comfortable until now, even if I know that he didn't mean to say this, I don't have this idea.
But when I think of him looking at myself with such a tone and suspicious eyes, I will be angry in my heart.
"I know it's my fault, I shouldn't doubt you like this, you don't want to be angry with me, okay, if you get angry with me like this, if you're in a bad mood, I'll be in a bad mood too." Ye Jinghao can only say a good word at the moment, hoping that she can forgive herself, but she doesn't want to be so angry with You.
It seems that speaking is an art, and in the future, I really need to learn it well, even if the other party is the person I love deeply, it is actually easier to hurt her by speaking in such a tone.
Even if you really don't mean that, you can't express yourself well. It will still hurt the other party, so in the future, you should learn more.
It's not a big deal today, and I didn't think about doubting her, the reason why she told herself was that she didn't want to have any secrets with herself, she originally wanted to confess, but it turned out to be like this, in the final analysis, it was all because of her own reasons.
Ye Jinghao felt that he really needed to reflect on it, everything was because of himself.
"Excuse you so easily, don't you think it's too cheap for you? I'll have to think about it. Ren Xiaoou didn't want to forgive him because he said a few words, it wasn't that easy, it wasn't that simple. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~