Chapter 483: Ignoring the feelings of the people around him
"Mom, and usually because of work, I don't have much time to accompany you, so you are wronged." The father doesn't have time to accompany her, so let himself, as a son, accompany her more.
Although I have the heart to accompany her more, I usually can't do it at all, after all, I am still very busy at work, and I spend most of my time at work, and then I am familiar, so I have no time to accompany her, which makes me feel quite guilty.
If you have time, you should spend more time with her, otherwise she will be really bored to stay at home alone, or she can find something to do, so that life can pass a little faster.
If she can find something like-minded, or something she is interested in, she can actually do it, anyway, as a hobby.
"My suggestion just now, in fact, you can think about it, find something to do for yourself, and it won't be so boring." Ye Jinghao really likes her mother, and she can do some things she likes to do, so that she can divert her attention.
"Okay, I'll consider this suggestion of yours." Zhang Ying also thinks what he said is quite reasonable, maybe she should really find something to help.
If you have something to do, then you won't be so bored all day long, and you won't feel sad.
After a long while, he spoke again.
"You are busy with work, and my mother can understand, but I just hope that if you have time, our mother and son can sit down and have a good chat, so as not to let the relationship become alienated." Zhang Ying knew that her son was busy with work, and she didn't dare to disturb him, she just hoped that he could sit down and chat with him when he had time, and talk, that's all.
Too much time I don't dare to say it, but occasionally a little, just hope that he can share it with himself. This requirement is really not high at all, after all, in this family, only he and himself are the closest people.
"In the future, I will definitely take more time to spend with you more." Ye Jinghao really realized his usual self today, only caring about being busy with work and ignoring the people around him.
So he also wants to change, not the same as in the past, only thinking about the future work, or take more time to spend with his family.
I can't finish my work, but the time to spend with my family is limited, and I used to focus on work, completely ignoring my family and their feelings.
Therefore, in the future, I must spend more time with my relatives, after all, I will accompany you once less. No one knows how many days everyone has left to live, so don't leave too many regrets.
"Okay, it's really great that you can think like that, just take the time to spend time with me, and Mom doesn't want to take up too much of your time, knowing that you have a lot of things to do." Zhang Ying is also an understanding person, knowing that he is very busy at work and does not have so much time to accompany himself, he can also understand, but I just hope that occasionally he can think more and accompany his family.
Work is important, but the body is still very important, and as a mother, I also hope that he can take good care of himself.
I can't remind him that it's good to do things at work, but if I take a break, I can still properly remind her to rest more.
"Yes, I used to think that my work was too important, and I didn't have much time, but in the future, I will definitely make reasonable use of my time." For Ye Jinghao, this recent period of time has really made him recognize one thing.
There are some things that I couldn't understand before, but now I slowly understand the truth, and I know that I can't just take care of work, but also worry about my family, after all, they also need their own company, although work is important, but not as important as family.
Xiaoou is also because of this reason, so she is angry, although she didn't complain about herself, she didn't have much time to accompany her, she looked very obedient on the surface, but she always had resentment in her heart, she felt that she shouldn't do this, and she didn't make any demands with herself on the surface, which doesn't mean that she doesn't have any needs.
It's just that she is more sensible, and she chooses to respect herself more and has only one purpose, that is, she doesn't want to disturb her work.
Now I understand that I am actually very selfish in doing this, because I only think about my own affairs, I don't take into account her mood at all, I only say that she is her own girlfriend, but she is not as important to her as work, and she does not put her first, will she think like this in her heart, she is not as important as work, and she has nothing to look forward to for this love.
Or you can't be so selfish anymore, and you should also consider her feelings. This is my own perception today, and my previous self was too selfish, only thinking about myself and not thinking about others at all.
Work is important, but so are family and friends.
"I've always wanted to ask you this question before, so that you don't get too tired from work and take a reasonable rest, but I don't dare to say it." Zhang Ying did have such thoughts, but at that time, he was worried that he would not be able to accept it.
I also know how important this job is to her, usually he is really busy with his heart, and he also knows the importance of work for a man.
Today, he didn't say it first, and maybe he wouldn't have said it first. Since they all talked about this topic, then at this time, he made a promise to tell her that he would spend more time with him in the future.
"I know it's my fault, I just used my job as an excuse in the past, and I won't be in the future, I will take you all to heart." I feel that I have always done this, and now I realize that this is wrong, then I will definitely correct it in the future.
I didn't realize what I did before, but now I really don't know what I did wrong, so I will definitely correct it in the future, take more time out, and spend more time with my family.
Speaking of which, the most important thing for yourself is your family and lover, work is dispensable, if you lose your job, you can rely on your own efforts to work hard, but the words of your family are different, and if you lose it, you will lose it forever.
"I don't want to take up too much of your time, I just want you to think of me when you have time." Zhang Ying doesn't have too many requirements, if her son ignores herself, then what is the point of her life.
His father treated himself like this, and he didn't expect it to be extravagant, and then he could find out with his conscience how good he would be, which was impossible. Therefore, he can only focus all his energy on his son, which is his only hope.
In addition, what hope is there for himself, my husband can't count on it, so he can only put all his thoughts on his son.
"I see." Ye Jinghao really understood at this moment how wrong his previous approach was.
It's not too late to know this now, at least I already have such self-knowledge, so I will definitely do it towards an idea in the future, at least I will have a little more time to accompany my family and those who need to be accompanied by myself.
"It really touched me to hear you say that." I never thought that one day he would say such warm words.
"I used to be ignorant and worried you."
"It's not too late for you to know, I'm really happy."
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After that, the mother and son were together, and they still talked a lot, and it was not until dinner time that the two of them went to eat together, and they did not continue.
Zhang Ying is very happy about his son's performance today, because he can do what he says, and if he spends more time with himself in the future, he will be happier.
After dinner, Ye Jinghao rarely went to accompany his grandfather, because today he realized that he used to be himself, only caring about work and ignoring the people around him.
"Why are you so free to accompany me today, this old man." Ye Lao also felt a little strange, today his grandson didn't know what was going on, how did he remember to accompany his old man.
"I'm sorry, grandpa was busy with work before, I ignored my family's feelings, and I will spend more time with you and your family in the future." When Ye Jinghao faced his grandfather at this time, he admitted his mistakes.
Ye Lao felt a little strange when he looked at his grandson, he didn't know if he had any kind of perception today, so he did such a thing.
"Listening to you say this, it seems that I have only recently understood this truth." Ye Lao staggered while talking to him.
After all, he had never said this to himself before, so he felt a little strange.
"You guessed it right, and indeed I only recently understood this truth, so I thought about making a change." Ye Jinghao admitted that it was indeed his fault before, and he didn't understand this truth at that time.
If it weren't for He Yuhe's words, maybe by now, he wouldn't have figured out this truth, and he wouldn't have discovered it.
I've always thought so, I've never been lazy, I've always worked hard for this family, I'm busy with the company's affairs, and I don't have any personal time, so I don't feel like I've done anything wrong.
If it weren't for He Yuhe, you might not have felt that you were wrong until now, but after listening to his words, you had an epiphany in an instant. It is true that you should divide your time with your family, after all, you can't finish your work, and there are other things that you can't do after finishing this one, so your family is the most important, after all, the time to accompany your family is limited, especially for people of Grandpa's age.