"If it were my parents, they wouldn't be able to guess what was going on in my heart, and they wouldn't be able to see what was going on in my heart." Sometimes I think that if I can, I want to get along with my parents.

But this is just an occasional thought of oneself, and it should be unlikely in reality, at least it is impossible for this period of time, and as for whether his thoughts will change after getting along in the future, it is unknown.

It's not that I don't want to get along with them, but many times they don't understand their thoughts at all, and they don't know what they're thinking, and it's really hard to communicate in such situations.

If they can understand their own thoughts, understand what they are thinking, and know their own concerns, maybe they can get along with them well, and it will not be so difficult to communicate.

They have always complained that they are not close to them and they are not close, but they have never thought about it, they have not thought about it from their own point of view, do they really understand themselves, and do they know what they are thinking?

"In fact, the problems between you are the same, they want to know more about you, but they don't understand you, you are the same, you want to get along with them, but you feel that they don't understand you, don't know your thoughts, so the problem is here, you are together, there is never anything to talk about." After all, there is no same outlook on life and values, even if you are together, you don't necessarily have anything to say, and even if you speak, because of disagreements, it will only become quarrelsome in the end.

It's either quarreling or being silent, isn't that what has happened all these years? Therefore, there is less and less communication with each other, and there is naturally less and less understanding of each other.

As an elder, in fact, I hope that they can get along well, after all, the palms and backs of my hands are all meat, and they are all my own heirs, of course, I hope they can get along in harmony.

"Honestly, there are times when I can't imagine what they think in their hearts and why they are so different from me. Didn't people say that there was a three-year generation gap, if you said this, it should be that the generation gap between me and your grandfather is bigger, but not the generation gap with my parents, the current situation is completely opposite, grandpa, you can understand me, but they may not be able to understand me. "If you want to ease the relationship between yourself and them, it will take a while, and even if you have the heart, you have to cooperate with them.

What He Yuhe couldn't understand was that the generation gap between himself and his grandfather was even bigger, but the result was the opposite, he and his grandfather had more common topics, and on the contrary, there was nothing to talk about between them and his parents.

"Take your time with this kind of thing, they haven't been by your side since you were a child, so they don't know a lot of your ideas, and they want to know more about you, but their ability is limited." Because their son is not the same child he was at the beginning, he can see through and understand so much, and now he has grown up and has his own independent thoughts and opinions.

It is completely useless to use the previous set, and you have to keep up with his pace, to understand what his needs are pursuing, what he wants, and only in this way can the relationship between them go further.

Such a simple truth, I can see through it, and I can figure it out, why the two of them still can't understand this.

Sometimes you really can't push too hard, because the tighter you hold it, the bigger it will bounce, and the relationship between them will only become more tense and will not be relieved.

"I'm not too reluctant to do this kind of thing, I always feel that taking one step at a time is one step, just like what your grandfather said, after all, we are all inseparable from blood and family." After all, there is still a blood relationship between himself and them, and sometimes even if he disagrees with their ideas, he will not be too much.

Whoever allows himself to have a blood relationship with them, even if he is unwilling to do this, in the end, he will still open the net, and he will still do it.

"It's good if you can think like this, give them some time, maybe they will change when they get along more in the future." After all, they haven't been together for a long time, and the places they are in are different and the cultural customs are different.

I don't want to get better between the two of them in a day or two, I just hope that one day they can get along like a normal relationship between children and parents.

"I'll give them time, it's all family, and I don't want to get too stiff." After all, they are a family, and after all, they can't be so ruthless and pretend that they don't exist.

"Let's not talk about your parents, let's ask your current questions, I can see that you have a lot of questions in your heart that can't be answered." Ye Lao could see at a glance that his grandson had a lot of things in his heart, and he was waiting for him to speak at this time.

The matter of family relations will be put aside for the time being, and I will listen to what has happened around him recently, and he will look at him with a sad face, and his whole face is written with something on his mind.

can only say that he hasn't seen him like this for a long time, and he has always handled his affairs very well, basically he doesn't have to worry about it, and it's rare for him to be able to let himself see him like this.

He Yuhe glanced at his grandfather, sighed softly and said, "It's still an emotional thing." "Except for emotional things, other things don't need to be so melancholy.

"Even if it's an emotional matter, you have to say it, and grandpa won't know what it is until later." Even if he can guess that it is because of emotional things that make him so distressed, he has to listen to what he has to say, what kind of thing is it because of?

"We had a fight the other day, and then I don't dare to go to her these days, I'm afraid that she won't want to see me, I'm afraid that it will make our relationship worse." Who can understand how much their hearts long to be able to go to her and explain to her, but even if they explain to her, will she be able to listen?

"Why would you quarrel with her in a good manner, is it your problem, or hers." He Lao didn't ask too many details, but just found the key point and asked directly who it was.

He Yuhe glanced at his grandfather, was silent for a moment, and said lightly, "Maybe my problem is bigger, it's because I'm too anxious." "I'm just too afraid of losing her, that's why I seem so anxious and incoherent.

Now that I think about it, this step is really wrong, if I hadn't taken that step, I wouldn't be so miserable now, and I'm worried about this matter alone.

"Are you too anxious to cause such consequences?" He is not afraid of anything, the only thing he is afraid of is losing the other person.

The more you are afraid of losing the other person, the more you will lose your sense of proportion in your heart, and when you speak, you will be too impatient, and you may say something that hurts the other person.

He Yuhe nodded, it was indeed because of this that he was too anxious to lead to such a result.

"But all along, she has been so tepid, I see that it is really uncomfortable in my heart, and sometimes I don't understand at all, what she is thinking, what she wants, and where to put me." If she can give herself an accurate answer, a clear answer, maybe she will be able to calm down.

But she has always been tepid to herself, and she simply doesn't understand what she is thinking. That's why I did such a thing impulsively, and now I feel very regretful, and I shouldn't act so impulsively.

"It's not that people haven't thought it through, so they haven't given an answer, if she thinks it clearly, how can she drag it out and not say it, this point is that you are not calm enough." He Lao can probably guess that Shu Yixin should not have made up his mind at this moment, and he has not thought about it, so he has not made any moves.

It was because she didn't make any moves that her grandson's psychology couldn't be suppressed, and even said that she had a mentality of striking while the iron was hot, so she would say something that shouldn't be said, and there would be a fight between the two of them.

If two people disagree, it is naturally easy to quarrel in this case.

"Yes, in retrospect, it's true that I wasn't calm enough, I was too anxious." He Yuhe also knows that he has done wrong at this moment, but is there anything that can be made up for it now?

I really hope that I can turn back time and go back to that night, I will definitely not say such things to her, and I will definitely discuss it with her.

It's a pity that it is impossible to turn back time, and it is impossible to take back the words that I said. Then I can only face such a result, maybe I should try my best to find the answer.

"You have always been very calm, but you can't be calm when it comes to emotional matters." He is a very calm person at all times, but every time he faces emotional matters, he becomes uncalm.

After He Yuhe listened to his grandfather's words, he looked at his grandfather with big eyes.

Yes, I am usually a very calm person, but why do I become not calm at all when facing emotional things, and even a little abnormal.

"So what am I going to do next, Grandpa? How can she forgive me? He Yuhe was silent for a while before he found his voice again and spoke slowly.

That's when I realized that I had done something wrong, but was it too late? At present, I really don't have any idea in my heart, and I don't know what I want to do next.

"You should ask yourself what you want to do next." At this time, he should be asking himself what he wants to do next, not asking himself.