"I just don't know how to do it, so I came to ask grandpa for you." If you knew how to do it and knew what to do, you wouldn't have to worry so much at this moment.

Seriously, at this time, I really don't have any plans in my heart, and I don't know what to do next, and I always feel that no matter what I do, I will let others down and bring trouble to myself.

Why don't you want to go to her, but even if you really go to her and see her, what can you say?

The problem is that I don't know what to say when facing her. I didn't know how to break that deadlock, and I didn't know how to apologize to her.

"You don't have to do anything at this time, just put this matter aside for now, for the time being, both sides need to calm down, and then talk about it later." People are still angry, and it is useless to say anything, and the other party may not be able to listen.

Now it's better to do nothing, she needs to be calm, and at the same time you need to be calm. Both people are too uncalm, so there will be such a situation as a quarrel, if one party can properly succumb and calm down, there will be no quarrel.

So now both of them need to be calm, really think about it clearly, and then talk about other things, what to say and do at the moment, they will only say more wrong and do more wrong.

In fact, it is better to do nothing than do nothing in this way, and both parties should calm down. Maybe after we have thought it through to each other, we can sit down and talk about this issue slowly, which is not a big problem, and it can still be easily solved in the end.

"I'm scared that she'll be colder and colder to me, and she won't even want to see me." In the past, I thought that I should strike while the iron was hot, but at this time, I took the initiative to admit my mistake and ask her to forgive what she had done.

"If she really doesn't want to see her, you're the same at all times." When will we know the answer clearly, if a person doesn't want to see you, no matter when you appear, they won't see you.

If the other party really wants to see you, they will naturally look for you. Emotional matters can't be too tense or too blind, so let each other calm down at this time.

"You don't want to see me, the more uneasy I feel in my heart, and I also feel that something is happening, grandpa, you don't know how scared I am, and she won't pay attention to me in the future." This feeling of fear has never been produced by my previous self, but when facing her at this moment, I actually have such a mentality.

No one can understand, and no one can understand her importance in their hearts, and the people around them may not be able to understand what position she occupies for themselves, but they clearly know that she is a person who is more important than their own lives.

In such a situation, how can I not worry about her, and I will no longer pay attention to myself in the future, in fact, I really can't say how uncomfortable it is in my heart, but I can only say these words when I face my grandfather, and I can't show it at all in the face of other people, let alone let the people around me know.

Only in front of grandpa, you can be like a child, you can be coquettish in front of grandpa, and you can be a real self in front of grandpa.

"Even if you don't say these words, grandpa can understand them, but emotional things can't be forced, if she doesn't think clearly, she can't give you an answer, no matter how you force the answer is the same, the more you do this, the more people will dislike you, have you ever considered this." It is impossible for him not to know the urgency in his heart, even at this time, he should be patient with his character and should not be too urgent.

Usually in the face of everything, he can face it very calmly, only in the face of emotional things, he will lose his mind and lose his sense of proportion, otherwise he will not make things so bad, let alone ask himself for advice on what to do next.

If it wasn't for emotional matters, he had already dealt with these things, how could he ask his own opinion and ask himself for advice on what to do next? Things that have always had feelings can make him mess up his mind and lose his sense of proportion.

"When I got excited, I didn't think about it that much, I didn't think about it at all, but I just felt like I had to get the answer I wanted." It is because of my own urgency that I have become what I am today, in fact, I really regret it, but those words have been said but cannot be redeemed.

"The more you get to this time, the more you have to be calm, if you continue to do this, even if people love you, but considering your temper, it is still possible to reject you, after all, you can't give people enough security, and when you encounter things, the whole person is not easy to explode, and you can't be really calm." He Lao can only comfort his grandson at this time, and calm down his mood first.

In the face of other things, he can be absolutely calm, but in the face of emotional things, he can't be calm, how can he not know how important the other party is to him, even if the other party is the person he puts in the top of his heart, but he has to stand in the other party's perspective for her sake.

After all, all this is just your unilateral thoughts, and it does not represent other people's ideas, so you can't impose your ideas on others, this is not right, everyone's ideas are different, you have such ideas, it does not mean that others have such thoughts.

"I don't know why I'm like this, usually when facing other things, I can really be absolutely calm, but when facing her, grandpa, you are really right, I am really easy to break out, and a few words from her can defeat me." It's because I care too much about her, care about her, and look at my own eyes, so as long as it's about her, I will lose my sense of proportion.

"So when you encounter something, you should be calm, don't be impulsive, and you should be especially calm about emotional things, you can see that she has you in her heart, but she should have other worries in her heart, do you know what she is worried about?" Thinking about these inconsequential things, she might as well think about what she was worried about.

Although he said that he had only seen her once, he could still feel that she had him in her heart, and she had not given an answer at this time, which means that there should be a tangled place in her heart.

If these things can be solved first, then the next things will be much simpler?

If you can't solve it from one angle, then think about it from another angle. There will always be a solution, there will always be a source of contradictions, as long as this source is solved, then things will be much simpler in the future?

"Grandpa, what do you mean to say......" He Yuhe didn't feel unreasonable after listening to what his grandfather said at this moment.

I didn't think about this before, I just cared about her and ignored myself, so I was in a bad mood all the time, but I ignored myself, I should have to find a way to solve it to the end, what is the quickest way.

"To fight a snake, you have to hit the head, which means that you must grasp the key points and grasp the weaknesses in order to win." None of them hit the nail on the head, and how could they win if they were messed through.

How can a person who is usually so eye-catching become so stupid when it comes to feelings? I really can't believe that he is his grandson, how can he not be calm when he has trained him by himself?

In vain I spent so much effort on him, it turned out that he was not as eye-catching as he thought, and sometimes he would still look stupid.

"I see." He Yuhe also understood the meaning of his grandfather's words at this time, and he also knew what he was going to do next.

"Don't you really understand what I mean?" He Lao was still a little worried, he didn't fully understand the meaning of his words, but he just knew something.

Therefore, at this time, it is necessary for me to ask more questions and ask clearly, this kind of thing is not a joke, and you must be really clear to know what to do next.

"Yes, I understand, and then I shouldn't force her to give me any answers or anything, I should solve her inner tangles first, she has always felt oh, she is an orphan and is not worthy of me, this should be her most worried." With these unrealistic answers for her to herself, it is better to help her solve the inner tangles first.

If she solves it for her, this feels fundamental, then she has no reason to refuse herself, and she can happily hug the beauty, why can't she think of this before, and think about what kind of answer she gave herself.

Concern is chaos, and it's really like this.

At that time, I probably cared too much about her, too much about what she thought in her heart. Coupled with the previous events, I have never been able to make up my mind in my heart, and I always feel that I will lose her.

My heart has always been wavering, and I am really afraid that I will lose her, she will leave her side, and I will never have the chance to see her again.

"You can think this clearly, and what Grandpa said is not in vain." After He Lao heard what he said, he was not so worried in his heart.

Because as long as he wakes him up and lets him know what he should do next, he won't have to worry about the rest, and he will watch the next thing.