"Where is it so exaggerated as you say, I'm busy dating every day, even if I want to go out on a date, I don't necessarily have time to spend with me." When Ren Xiaoou talked about her boyfriend, she was somewhat dissatisfied.

Because he really doesn't have much time to spend with himself, every time he uses work as a reason, saying that he can't finish his work, how can he have time to go on a date with him.

Sometimes I don't know who to talk to, and these things can only be put in the depths of my heart, this is because of the gap between my family and his family, so there is bound to be a difference between myself and him.

I really want to close these gaps, but no matter how hard I try, I always feel that I am a big step behind him. I don't know how depressed my heart is, sometimes I try to cooperate with his time, but it is inevitable that he will be busy with work and ignore himself.

With that kind of love, I even wonder if it's what I want. I don't doubt him as a person, nor do I doubt his love for myself, I just feel that something is missing, he doesn't seem to be the kind he wants, he just wants him to spend more time and spend more time with himself, not that he has to buy himself any expensive gifts.

Many times, even such a simple wish can't be realized, he has endless work every day, and there are endless errands, so the opportunities to meet him are not particularly many, compared with ordinary couples, it is simply pitiful.

What he wants is just simple and simple, he can accompany himself more, and he can stand in his own perspective for his own sake, not that he gives himself what kind of gifts, in fact, for himself, he doesn't want those gifts at all, because what gifts he wants is not so difficult.

It's just that he is such a simple request, but it seems to be very difficult to achieve it, he doesn't seem to understand his own mind, and he doesn't understand his own thoughts.

"You have such a good boyfriend, what else is there to complain about? You see, I'm not alone until now. Shu Yixin didn't think that she had anything to complain about, the other party might be too busy because of work.

Anyway, she is a little better than herself, at least she still has a boyfriend, and she is still alone.

I didn't complain about being alone, not to mention that his boyfriend was so good, and there was nothing to complain about.

At least sometimes, she has someone by her side, but what about herself? I was the only one around me who failed in a relationship, and I didn't know how to get out, so I didn't want to talk about feelings at all at this time.

Sometimes you just shouldn't be too greedy, maybe it's just less than the top, more than the bottom. Although the other party has very little time to spend with her, no matter what, she also has a boyfriend, and she doesn't even have a boyfriend.

It's not that she is eager to fall in love, but isn't her situation much better than herself in comparison? So don't continue to complain in many situations, everyone has their own life, they have their own things to do, if the other person really really loves you, it is worth waiting like this.

"It's not the same nature, if you have a boyfriend and he doesn't have time to spend with you all day, then you will understand my mood." Ren Xiaoou felt that at this time, he didn't know how to explain to her, maybe she was not in a relationship at the moment, so she wouldn't understand her mood.

Because many times, I will have a feeling of gain and loss, as if I will lose him at any time. This love doesn't feel so real to me, it's more like a dream.

I also hope that like ordinary couples, the other party can have time to accompany me, occasionally accompany me to travel, and accompany me to go shopping. It's just such a simple wish, but in my own body, it is not so easy to achieve.

In such a situation, how can I not be depressed. For the time being, she doesn't have a boyfriend, she may not understand her mood, if she has a boyfriend, her boyfriend is also busy with work all day long, and has no time to spend with her, she can feel her own feelings.

It's not that I love to gain and lose, but I really don't have any confidence in this relationship. may be considering the identity of yourself and the other party, it is really quite different, which will make you have this mentality even more.

"He works so hard, isn't it also for your future, you should consider it from his point of view, not to mention what else can she do if she doesn't work hard at her age, if she has nothing to do all day, maybe you will have other complaints." If your boyfriend doesn't do his job all day, don't you also complain at that time, thinking that the other party doesn't do anything serious.

If the other party really doesn't do their job, you may not like it even more. Doesn't it seem a little tangled at this time? When you're busy, you say that people are busy, and when you're free, you dislike people being too idle, what do you want people to do?

"That being said, it's true that he doesn't really have much time for me." Ren Xiaoou didn't deny it at all, what she just said was quite reasonable, but she just wanted to say something, that is, he didn't have much time to accompany him, which made him feel very depressed.

I just want him to spend more time with me, and there is nothing wrong with this, and I don't think there is anything wrong with it.

I also know that he is work-oriented, and I also know that work is important, but it is also very important to accompany myself.

Ren Xiaoou also didn't want to be in this state after she married him, he was only busy with work all day long, and he didn't care about his own situation or mood at all, this kind of love was not what she wanted at all.

At least two people should get along together, have a common reason, and also have time to communicate. Communication is important, and if there is no communication between two people, how can it continue?

This kind of life can't go on at all, because in this way, they will only go further and further away from each other. It's even more impossible to even communicate, let alone discuss something together.

Everyone is busy with their own things, every time they come home, you are busy with yours, I am busy with mine, and I don't even have a word, how can you think this kind of life can go long.

Shu Yixin also felt helpless after listening to it, after all, she didn't know how to answer this kind of thing. Emotional matters are only clear to them, and they can't be understood by outsiders.

Maybe what she said didn't make no sense at all, isn't it the same to have a boyfriend and not have a boyfriend? In his case, there is simply no time.

What he wants is not mountains of gold and silver, nor how rich he is, I just hope that he can put more snacks on himself, after all, he is his girlfriend. Besides, I am not so short of money, if I am really short of money, I can rely on my own efforts. As long as each other's lives are better in the future, the two of them can work together, and they never thought of letting him alone.

Ren Xiaoou always felt that his request was not too much, but he didn't understand himself and didn't understand his own thoughts.

Every time I walk in the streets and alleys, I see those couples holding hands, sweet looks, I don't know how envious I am, and I hope that my boyfriend can accompany me more, and I can smile happily like them.

But many times, I can only be envious, because there is no existence of him around me at all, but I am alone. To be honest, I was asked by my friends a lot of times why I didn't have a boyfriend with me or something, which made me feel a little inferior at that time, and I didn't know how to talk to them.

Some words are explained too much, others will not believe it, every time you use the excuse of being busy with work, if you listen to it too much, people will also feel annoyed, will you feel that people don't love you at all or something, it's just your own wishful thinking.

In short, there will be all kinds of voices, so at that time, I was really a little homeless.

Sometimes I am afraid of being questioned by others, so I rarely go out to socialize, and would rather stay at home than go out. After all, he is alone every time, he rarely stays by his side, and there are few people who have seen his boyfriend, so he is not convincing no matter what he says.

It is more practical to be questioned by others and make yourself feel uncomfortable, it is better not to go anywhere and stay at home. Because as long as you stay at home and don't go out to socialize, there will be no such things happening, and you won't have to worry about it, and you won't feel uncomfortable.

Now I am busy with the things of the coffee book house all day long, where do I have time to go out to socialize or something, there is a special request, I don't want to go out at all.

"These things are not comparable at all, other people's boyfriends are not as good as your boyfriend, nor are they as big as him, so it can only be said that there are gains and losses." Not everyone's work nature is the same, and some people's work nature is that kind of special busyness, so Shu Yixin feels that sometimes you should properly stand in the other party's perspective and think about each other.

Maybe he doesn't want to do this, and he also wants to spend more time with his girlfriend, but he doesn't have time. Sometimes you have to understand that he is also helpless, and he didn't do it on purpose.

"You know what? In fact, I already understand him very well, and I think about him from his point of view, and in front of outsiders, I also learned his face, in short, I have given him everything he wants. "He gave everything he wanted, but what he wanted, when would he be able to satisfy himself.

Shu Yixin sighed, walked over, patted her on the shoulder, she really couldn't refute what she said, after all, everyone has their own difficulties.