When thinking about things, he can't be absolutely calm, because his subjective emotions will affect his consideration.

If he can stay out of the way, don't feel like he cares too much, as long as he jumps out of this limitation, he will know what to do next.

In other words, it's not that he doesn't know what to do, it's just that his mind isn't on it at all at this time. Another point is that he cares too much, so he often ignores the essence of things and ignores what he wants to do.

Because I worry too much about what the other person will think, worry about what the other person will do, and ignore what kind of actions I have to make to make up for these things.

Since he can't figure it out at this time, then I'll kindly remind him. I believe that he is a smart man who knows the meaning of his words and knows what to do next.

He Yuhe looked at Ye Lao with infatuated eyes, he didn't expect him to say such a thing, yes, it's not the only way to go, why do you have to toss on this road? You can go from a different angle to a different path.

Why did I have to hang myself from a tree? In fact, there is still a way to live, why do you want to go to a dead end, this is your own problem, I can't blame others, and it's no wonder that I have always felt that I can't think of a way to solve it, it turns out that it is because I forced myself into a corner and didn't let myself get out.

"Have you figured out something now?" Ye Lao looked at He Yuhe with a thoughtful look, and he could see that the words he said still stirred up ripples in his heart.

If he hadn't guessed wrong, he would have listened to what he said, and then he wouldn't have continued to drill the horns, knowing that the road would not work, but he would still go there, and the result would only be a loss for both sides.

There are many roads to the destination, so don't keep thinking about that road, sometimes you still have to change your thinking, think about things from a different angle, and go another way, will you go to the end differently? Maybe the process will be a bit of a toss-up and the journey will be a bit long, but will he care about this?

For him, it is not so important what the process is, the important thing is the result, the other party can accept him, and the two people can live happily together, as long as they achieve this, isn't it good? As for the rest, why think so much, and why bother yourself.

It really doesn't matter what the process is, what matters is what kind of result he wants, if he really wants to be with the other party, then it doesn't matter what kind of means he uses, what kind of way he uses, as long as he can achieve the goal, this is the easiest.

"Yes, Grandpa Ye, I did listen to what you said, and I know that you are reminding me to empathize and not always struggle with the same issue." It's not that I can't understand this, and it's not that I can't understand it, but sometimes I will inevitably go astray.

Sure enough, it is a mystery of the authorities, and the bystanders are clear, in fact, it is really a very simple thing, but as an authority, he loses himself and ignores what he wants to do, but he does not see as clearly as the bystanders.

"I've said it so clearly, it's up to you what to do next, in fact, I talked to her for a while, and it's not as bad as you think, she just feels a little conflicted." Ye Lao was thinking in his heart at this moment, if he told him what she thought, would Yixin hate himself at that time?

Forget it, I can't think about it at this time, I can't worry about it, I still want to help them solve the problems in front of them, not to mention that I have always hoped that the two of them will be together, and I think the two of them will be happy together.

Even if she really misunderstands herself, when the time comes, she will only be coquettish with her, pretend to be pitiful, and even explain to her, she will not be so ruthless and ignore herself.

Ye Lao thought so in his heart at this moment, anyway, when the time comes, she will be pitiful by relying on the old man and selling old clothes, she is such an honest person, and in the end she is still easily moved by herself.

Regarding this point, the current self doesn't need to think too much about it at all, because it is impossible for Yixin to be really angry with himself, and it is impossible to really ignore himself, and he still has this point, because he and He Yuhe have a different position.

can only say that at this time, I don't care so much, if you don't talk about doing it yourself, will she hate herself, for the time being, she still wants to pull the red line for them, and wants them to be together.

If this thing really happens, it can be regarded as a good thing for herself, she hates herself, she can make her happy marriage, and she feels that it is all worth it.

"What is the contradiction in my heart? Grandpa Ye, can you tell me? He Yuhe looked at Ye Lao with a look of curiosity, obviously knowing that he cared very much in his heart and wanted to know the answer, but at this time, he was playing tricks and not saying a word.

It's really not a taste to listen to in your heart, can you just say no to yourself if you know something? And why beat around the bush like this.

even made himself wonder if he did it on purpose, that is, to make himself anxious and deliberately look at his ugly appearance.

"Young people have to be calm, why are you so nervous, haven't you heard such a sentence? I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, I can't be too nervous about doing things, and I still have to take my time step by step. "It's still young people who are more impulsive, just like they were at the beginning.

Seeing the way he looked in front of him, he reminded himself of his former young self, but he was a little similar to his previous self, perhaps it was because of this that he was impressed with him.

It's a pity that now I have reached the twilight of my life, I am old, and now I can only say that it is the world of their young people, and I can only enjoy my old age and do some things that an old man should do.

"How can I not be angry about this kind of thing? I just want to know what he thinks, it's because of this that we quarreled, I don't know how much I regret it afterwards, obviously I promised her before, I would give her time to think about it, but when I met her, I still didn't control my enthusiasm, and finally said something that made her angry. "What's the use of thinking about what you're doing wrong? After all, it's all in the past, and I can't get anything back.

I should have remembered it sooner, and I should have remembered it when I talked to her again. If you stop saying those words in time, you won't be where you are today.

When Ye Lao saw him like this, he also knew that he was really anxious, and the more he cared, the more anxious he became.

"It's not a matter of contradictory identity, there is a big gap between you and her in contradiction, I'm afraid that it will hurt you, she thinks more about you don't want to cause you trouble, don't want to hurt you, and would rather be hurt alone." Ye Lao was originally reluctant to tell him these words, but now that he saw him like this, he was still a little unbearable, and finally said it.

If she didn't say anything, it seemed that it was indeed a little unfair to him, in fact, it was really not a big deal, and it was easy to solve, but she had been struggling with this problem, and she felt that she was a little bit different from his identity.

In fact, love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families, but not everyone's family can be the right person, and many times it is not the right door, but in this case, one of them still has to give a step in order to achieve this happy marriage.

Did she really say that? It's not that you don't want to be with me, but you're worried that being with me will cause me trouble and will hurt me. After He Yuhe heard these words, he was really a little angry with her, how to tell her that she would change? Why is she worried so much about her own affairs? Why not worry about yourself?

"That's because she has you in her heart and doesn't want to cause you trouble, so she would rather refuse alone, reject you at the beginning, then you won't have illusions, and she won't bring you those troubles." In fact, the two of them have one thing in common, they both love each other too much, so they are willing to bear all the pain themselves, let each other be happy, and don't want to cause trouble to each other.

Both of them are the same kind of people, so the idea naturally comes to mind, in fact, as long as one person has a selfish idea, then there will be no stalemate because of this matter.

"She's a stupid girl, no matter what I say, he always thinks about others first, and then thinks about himself, and would rather suffer a loss than get hurt." It's not like this once or twice, she thinks like this every time, she would rather suffer herself and let yourself be hurt than let the people around her get hurt.

"It's good that you know this, you know that she's such a person, so what to do next, you should know better than anyone else." Ye Lao said it bluntly, he obviously knew that the other party was such a personality person, didn't he know how to deal with her next?

Shu Yixin is indeed a very good girl, she would rather be hurt herself, lose her love, and cause trouble to him.

It can be seen from this that she also cares about the other party very much, and she is also protecting him in her own way.

"It's because her personality is too stubborn, and sometimes she can't bend at all, and that's why I feel a headache." It's not that I don't know what kind of personality she is, even if I know what her personality is, but it's not as easy to change her mind as I imagined.