Chapter 724 - Caring about each other
Do you really feel compelled to do these things? I'm not going to be so bored, let's do something like this.
He Lao was silent, but he didn't say anything, because at this time, he was not in the mood to talk to his old friend at all, but he was more worried about his grandson's emotions, looking at him a little wrong, although he behaved very calmly, but he was brought up by himself, and he still knew very well that he was very sad in his heart.
Thinking of this, how could I be in the mood to quarrel with others? You can talk to him at any time, and there is no shortage of time.
What do you have to do to divert his attention and prevent him from continuing to dwell on this issue, in fact, he also knows that these things make him a little embarrassed, but only he can deal with emotional matters, and the people around him can't help him at all.
I am also quite optimistic about the two of them being together, and I think the two of them are happy together, but this is my own personal subjective opinion, and the key point depends on how the two of them think and what kind of decision they will make.
"Let me taste whether it's delicious or not, I've always heard you say how it tastes before, but in fact, I rarely eat it, I just listen to you." He Lao appropriately changed the topic, he had eaten it once before, and now it was a rare opportunity to let him taste it again, naturally there was a kind of longing psychology.
"The taste is naturally much better than that bought outside, and this is specially made for me, especially suitable for the elderly to eat light and less sugar, anyway, I think it is quite suitable for my appetite." Ye Lao naturally showed off at this time, because there was usually no chance for him to show off like this, and with such an opportunity at this time, how could he easily miss it?
The previous self was just envious of his life, envious of her grandson's filial piety to him, obviously he also had a lot of grandchildren around him, but when they faced themselves, they were less filial piety, and more flattery.
They really can't get their own favor in doing this, because they are a little disgusted in their hearts, in fact, what they want is really simple, but they really treat themselves with their hearts and spend more time with themselves.
Even their own simple wishes can't be realized, and there is always something more important in their world, that is, they don't have time to spend with their old man.
"It's really good, it seems that he is really good to you, and he personally makes these snacks for you, I envy you a little when I think of this, I envy her for being so good to you." Although Shu Yixin has only seen that girl once, she can also feel that she is a good child, no wonder her grandson is so special to her, this is not unreasonable.
"The next time she makes me another snack, I'll remind her, make more for you, and let you taste it too, so that you have nothing to envy, you see if I'm very righteous." Ye Lao suggested that if he really liked it, then next time he could let her do a little more, and send it to him by the way.
This kind of favor, he is quite willing to do it, as long as he doesn't mind. I've been friendly with him for so many years, and I don't mind sharing good things with him.
"Let's talk about this kind of thing later, you love her so much, aren't you worried that you will tire her? And let her do so many of these things. He Lao looked at his old friend with puzzled eyes, and could see that she cared about the other party a lot, how could she be willing to work so hard for the other party.
According to reason, he should hold the other party in the palm of his hand, how can he be willing to let the other party work so hard and make these snacks.
"You're the wrong person, I'm reluctant to make her work so hard, but she's that kind of person, I said I wanted to help her, but she didn't let me help, making these snacks for me is completely out of her kindness, I can't say no!" It's not that she takes the initiative to bring it up, she usually takes the initiative to do it for herself, like this time today, she takes the initiative to call herself over after she does it.
I don't want her to work so hard, and I don't want her to be so tired, but sometimes I can't refuse her kindness, after all, people have to be really good to themselves, and they will be like this if they regard themselves as relatives, and they are other people, she will not do such a thing at all, and others are also kind, how can she bear to refuse.
In fact, she didn't know that it was because she lacked the love of her family, so she transferred that love to herself, and felt that she was his family, so she treated her like this.
He Yuhe just stood very quietly on the sidelines, listening to their conversation like this, but his heart was quite uncomfortable. He didn't know what was wrong with him at this moment, why he had such thoughts, but one thing he was sure of was that when he heard such words, he didn't feel good in his heart.
I can't tell if I am envious or jealous, I envy her for being so good to Grandpa Ye, because she is not so good to herself, so is she really envious or jealous?
I should think about it from another angle, isn't it a good thing that she is so filial to her elders? After she marries her in the future, she will also be filial to her grandfather with herself.
It's not that she doesn't know that she has always been very eager for the warmth of family affection, so what do you have to envy and jealous? There really is nothing to envy.
She is such a person, and she didn't know it today, just about this, she still knows very well what kind of character she is, so she really has nothing to envy and nothing to be jealous of.
Maybe I'm a little greedy, I want her to be better to herself. It's not that she usually treats herself badly, it's just that she longs for it. Wishing she could be a little nicer to herself, isn't it? Is the so-called human heart not enough to swallow an elephant?
It's because I care too much about her in my heart, so I care about how she treats herself. The other party is her elder, she is good to her elders, and she has nothing to envy and jealous.
Is it her own thoughts, she is not good to herself, so she is a little envious of others, if she puts the good of others on herself, then she will be very happy at that time.
Although she is very good in all aspects, but thinking that she is so good to other people, not so good to herself, her psychology has a sense of balance, or maybe because she doesn't want her to be so good to others, just want her to be nice to herself, although this is a selfish idea, but I have such selfish thoughts.
Whoever makes her the person he cares about the most, even if he is selfish for her, he thinks it's worth it, in short, he doesn't care what people say, as long as he is satisfied in his heart.
In the end, He Yuhe was quite happy to see the two of them talking and chatting, it seemed that there was no point in staying at the scene, so it was better to let the two of them have a good chat and go to the garden by themselves.
It is the time between the two of them, let the two of them have a good chat, after all, it is rare to see each other, everyone is old, especially cherish the time together before, when they are together, they can always recall the time when they were young and vigorous, and they have to sigh that everyone is old in a blink of an eye.
There is no point in bringing it down by yourself, just leave the time and space to them, let them have a good reminiscence, anyway, their own existence is superfluous, not to mention that at this time you need to calm down and think about other things.
He Yuhe glanced at them thinking about these things, they were still chatting happily, and they didn't notice their eyes, and they originally wanted to say hello to them, but now it seems that there should be no need for this.
"He just left, and he didn't give anything to himself." Ye Lao watched him leave, he actually had a lot of words in his heart, but before he could say it, he kept leaving first.
"You just let him be, this matter should be really sad for him." After all, He Lao still felt very sorry for his grandson, and when he saw him like this, he also felt sorry for him.
No matter how you say it, he is the one who brought him up single-handedly, how can he not feel uncomfortable when he sees him like this? So at this time, if he wants to calm down, let him calm down, he has to give him time to think about it, and when he thinks about it, he won't have to worry so much.
After all, in the face of this kind of thing, there is always a process. After this process, he will not be so entangled when he thinks it through.
"It can be seen that he really cares about the other party, that is really true love, you, who are grandfathers, don't you want to object to the two of them being together." Ye Lao said this deliberately, wanting to test what his old friend was thinking.
Although he said that the friendship between himself and him was good, he didn't know what he thought in his heart, what kind of requirements he had for the candidate of this granddaughter-in-law, even if he could guess it, he should ask politely.
He Lao looked at him with puzzled eyes, and said softly, "How many years have you known me, do you think I will be like that?" Do you think I'll beat the mandarin ducks and look down on each other because of their identity? If you really think of me like that, then you are wrong, for me, nothing is as important as my grandson, as long as he is happy, I don't think anything else. He Lao admits that he is a little selfish to think like this, but he just has such his own thoughts, as long as his grandson is good, he doesn't care about the rest.